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How the Forums have Changed You

Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to.Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
So the forums are on hospice care, and it is time to celebrate how the forums have changed us. Plenty of us discovered who we really are, met lifelong partners, or completely changed their world view because of this little corner of the internet. Lives were materially changed as a result of this little, tiny forum. It might not have been the epicenter for world shattering events, but this community has definitely had an impact.

These forums taught me about leadership, about accepting other world views. It taught me to be a better person, it made me re-examine past prejudices and treat people more equally. It shifted me on the political spectrum to be a leftist, and made me realize that I was on the spectrum. I have made friends for life here, and I am forever grateful to this place for molding me into who I am today.

So how have the forums changed you?

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  • sarukunsarukun RIESLING OCEANRegistered User regular
    Started moving me a lot more socialist, for sure.

    Also probably contributed some amount to the fatness of my butt.

  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    well I worry a lot about politics now ....

    thanks everyone

  • WeaverWeaver Breakfast Witch Hashus BrowniusRegistered User regular
    This forum changed my politics and values, especially seeing as when I joined, I was fresh out of the army & from a religious Texas family. I had plenty of bad ideas about the world, and myself. I made a lot of good friends here and even found a relationship, and ruined it all with my self-medicating my trauma. But thankfully, I never got myself entirely thrown out with my poor behavior when inebriated, and I've turned things around. I've made new friends, been in a relationship for over five years now, been in therapy for three+, and I'm a woman now. Always having this place and it's peoples, to be able to come here in both my darkest and brightest times, to talk with, vent to, share in your lives and experiences, has saved my life shaped me into who I am. I've grown up and lived all over the world and US, and more than any other place this is my home.

  • PiptheFairPiptheFair Frequently not in boats. Registered User regular
    I'm a socialist and my partner is trans

  • PiptheFairPiptheFair Frequently not in boats. Registered User regular
    also I can't think about midcentury american photography anymore

  • WeaverWeaver Breakfast Witch Hashus BrowniusRegistered User regular
    Also I know way too much about what some of you would do to a butt.

  • sarukunsarukun RIESLING OCEANRegistered User regular
    Shit, I just realized this December will be the last big ol’ forum holiday merge.

    Gonna miss listening to people complain, and complain about other people complaining…!

  • SniperGuySniperGuy SniperGuyGaming Registered User regular
    Some of my best friends are because of these forums. And I grew up in the south going to Catholic school so even though my family has always been Dems, I got a lot of information and outside perspectives I might never have seen otherwise.

    Also arguably some of my actual career is due to playing video games and talking about computer troubleshooting on this forum which has eventually turned into IT jobs despite my degree being in social studies education

  • GyralGyral Registered User regular
    I got a filter for all the noise that is social media and news media. I knew if I came here, someone could put into better context what I was seeing. And I and my wife appreciated that.

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  • Macro9Macro9 Registered User regular
    These forums have helped open my eyes to the issues many people have faced that I was never really aware of. Despite having grown up impoverished, I am a straight white man in America, and have a great deal of privilege because of that. Reading about people's lives and talking to forumers in the past, I've gained a perspective I may never have had without this place. It helped me immensely when raising my niece, because she is bi sexual. I think without this place I would have struggled to understand who she is and how I should be. I never been a huge contributer to the forums but I hope all of you understand that you've had an impact on my life and hers.

    I'm sad to see this forum go away as it is but I am excited for the future. Looking back 20 plus years ago and I don't think that person I was could say I'd still be visiting this place everyday. Hell this is the first website I go to when I am browsing the internet. That's a testament to the quality of people here. I hope the new place has all of you there. I'll continue to lurk in the shadows, while nodding my head in agreement.

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  • Local H JayLocal H Jay Registered User regular
    edited November 2
    It's pretty hard to say, because it's probably a myriad of different ways that have all stacked on top of each other over the last...17 years? Like sediment or rings on a tree

    I can say I distinctly remember the day I went into H/A and asked for help getting sober as I was in an extreme mental crisis, probably just about the most important moment of my life and my first thought was to turn the forums so that, I'm glad I did that. It's been a long road to recovery but it definitely started with that thread

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  • MachwingMachwing It looks like a harmless old computer, doesn't it? Left in this cave to rot ... or to flower!Registered User regular
    I'll never hear the name "Larry" without thinking of this place

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  • cj iwakuracj iwakura The Rhythm Regent Bears The Name FreedomRegistered User regular
    edited November 2
    I never would have started running TTRPGs if not for Tube encouraging me to run a V:TM campaign myself.

    Not to mention all the absurd writing efforts I've put into Phallas over the years... but as much as I love those, I found I love running RPGs far more.

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  • CoinageCoinage Heaviside LayerRegistered User regular
    I probably would be much better off if I didn't love to post so much. Oh well!

    Happiness is within reach!
  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Used to have black hair
    Mostly grey now

  • A Dabble Of TheloniusA Dabble Of Thelonius It has been a doozy of a dayRegistered User regular
    :brofist:

    Also I'm a reasonably less shitty person now thanks to you knuckleheads.

  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    Not enough apparently

  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    I played so much Rock Band and Mass Effect 3 multiplayer.

  • SCREECH OF THE FARGSCREECH OF THE FARG #1 PARROTHEAD margaritavilleRegistered User regular
    blade arms

  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    blade arms

    Moon’s haunted

  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    Without this forum I fear I would be much less liberal, socialist, pro-trans, pro-Palestine, pro-BIPOC, pro-native...

    I shudder to think what could have happened if I'd fallen into the wrong internet hole back when my brain was still developing.

  • PaladinPaladin Registered User regular
    This forum helped provide me with the training I needed to survive 10 brutal years followed by 10 more brutal years. When your parents tell you that you'll thank them when you get older, that's how I feel about this forum. Thank you.

    Marty: The future, it's where you're going?
    Doc: That's right, twenty five years into the future. I've always dreamed on seeing the future, looking beyond my years, seeing the progress of mankind. I'll also be able to see who wins the next twenty-five world series.
  • JuggernutJuggernut Registered User regular
  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    Juggernut wrote: »
    I got a rash

    That's what you get for not washing the applicator when you borrow the ointment

  • Local H JayLocal H Jay Registered User regular
    edited November 3
    A brief selection of videos on my YouTube made while playing games with the homies here on the forums, with the various clans across the years, mostly in Bungie games for me. Oh and then some just sentimental ones thrown in too

    https://youtu.be/ybjf6Pg68oc?si=Xv3N4rIKsoAkk9CM

    https://youtu.be/sAfzV-PMrXw?si=mbYh7cjtqYZhrDIB
    @DarkPrimus cameo in this one^

    https://youtu.be/qs0_mSkvKLE?si=Ff3bEanBkFf6tHJl
    @T4CT shows up here^

    https://youtu.be/L2fZsN2XXuc?si=sjqKj4_Ngn4ppsmb
    ^the entire team on the endgame score board is a throwback if you played with TBK in the day

    https://youtu.be/XP2mTGpQA20?si=1lXkw17UQjzaKQkV
    Another one with the homies, my buddy @Willeth in there
    Here's will playing Typing of the Dead at Pinballz in Austin TX
    https://youtu.be/AdkLutWFvkY?si=Sd6SNxcTLsiWmKF-

    https://youtu.be/7HjRbs2kjIQ?si=mt2pWkmtKmc8AGEF
    I see @Johnny Chopsocky and @EvilBadman in this one^

    https://youtu.be/7gmU_quZp70?si=mLIZu5nNCnv1SM3k
    @Wraith260 who is also a friend from destiny is in this one

    I have frankly, too many destiny clips to even begin to choose but here's my original raid clan for Destiny 1
    https://youtu.be/iSu9xEVcKoo?si=RsQCOTPW3Qn9iIRI



    ^i made over 90 montages across 9 years of destiny, and managed 200 flawless tickets. Played with too many people to count but @Peen @Zombie Gandhi @Booker @Arteen @Sirialis @Elki @Mustachio Jones and many more played with me every weekend, extremely good memories

    Here's to 9 years of trolling people in jumping puzzles @Bogey
    https://youtu.be/zqdQD5cadXI?si=mc7AQ9Frzm2ZYTUP
    https://youtu.be/esd8raWldSE?si=2wvOTIZ5zwcRGipb
    https://youtu.be/46gtSXVtJDQ?si=7b7-Lh6Ch9vyyOgc

    Got @Shadrak too lol
    https://youtu.be/CyQlRcs4qj4?si=uu8JFFs9xfFtVgVx

    https://youtu.be/LRR3qx8SYWc?si=0fsPnRriz1z6fV0q
    A MKX match with the late great @Tommatt may he rest in peace


    Here's my friend and roommate Dark Kaze smashing a glass drunkenly during karaoke in Tokyo
    https://youtu.be/gEdGZRxH6B0?si=-z4J1106SXmLf7Ce
    I met him playing Marvel Ultimate Alliance on Xbox Live in 2006

    Here's me streaming with my younger brother
    https://youtu.be/lAGWcxLXuG0?si=ZOMULhdnvCYlrMRQ

    A COD warzone game with both my brothers I'll never forget
    https://youtu.be/RZXqwIby5Ow?si=CA5_YmXnZY7mnqja

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  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Uriel wrote: »
    Juggernut wrote: »
    I got a rash

    That's what you get for not washing the applicator when you borrow the ointment

    I told you we would need more than one bottle of ointment for the entire forum! But you had to be cheap.

  • Local H JayLocal H Jay Registered User regular
    I'm not sure if anyone ever streamed them but the Among Us games during the pandemic were pretty awesome, even if it quickly died off I remember those times fondly

  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Speaking of the pandemic

    I can say I 100% suffered from much less loneliness during the pandemic because of this place.

  • BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    Used to have black hair
    Mostly grey now

    this was the forum that makes you old all along

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  • Local H JayLocal H Jay Registered User regular
    Used to have black hair
    Mostly grey now

    this was the forum that makes you old all along

    Actually the forums was the only thing keeping me young

    https://youtu.be/sdAiN-wgDCs?si=rTZidZcD8xk4-9_v
    ^me being shown a cringe post I made in 2007

  • VeldrinVeldrin Sham bam bamina Registered User regular
    caught the gay

  • TomantaTomanta Registered User regular
    I'm a vastly different, wiser person than I was 20 years ago when I joined just as I was starting grad school.

    These forums aren't the only reason but they have helped me understand a lot of perspectives on politics, immigration, culture, etc. More than my formal education (although I'm sure that gave me the tools to absorb information).

    It helped keep me sane through 10 years of shitty jobs, through the last 10 *gestures wildly*. I can't say I've made any lasting friendships - maybe I'm just not built to interact that way - but there are a lot of posters I've come to respect, even if we disagree.

    I lurk a lot on Reddit but it's not the same. Occasionally I'll hop onto a discord but either there is no activity or there is too much to keep track of. I'm hopeful whatever we become on the other side of this is a worthy successor.

  • BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    I'm basically an introverted hikkineet, so the forums gave me a durable social life after high school where I otherwise would have ended up completely isolating myself. I can't even imagine what my life would be like now without that. Maybe I would have found friends some other way but I can't imagine how. I imagine I'd be miserable.


    That said, recently the forums have also been giving me STRESS so it's not all sunshine and roses.

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  • minor incidentminor incident expert in a dying field ---Registered User, Transition Team regular
    aged me 24 years.

    Ah, it stinks, it sucks, it's anthropologically unjust
  • Speed RacerSpeed Racer Scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratchRegistered User regular
    I produce an award winning podcast with a cast of people that are, at most, one degree of separation away from former members of this board

  • WearingglassesWearingglasses Of the friendly neighborhood variety Registered User regular
    This forum has exposed me to a very wide variety of viewpoints that I would never have experienced, and the influence it has over how I look at things is a net positive.

    I really feel that this forum changed me for the better.

  • sarukunsarukun RIESLING OCEANRegistered User regular
    introverted hikkineet,
    Gesundheit.

  • Satanic JesusSatanic Jesus Hi, I'm Liam! with broken glassesRegistered User regular
    I might go to other places to find out info about games and stuff, but I cane here and stayed because I feel I got to know and care about the people here. I've mostly been a lurker for 17 years, and the only reason I'd leave is if there's no more forum.

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  • Undead ScottsmanUndead Scottsman Cybertronian Paranormal Eliminator Registered User regular
    Machwing wrote: »
    I'll never hear the name "Larry" without thinking of this place

    Oh shit! New forum name: Larrytown!

  • Undead ScottsmanUndead Scottsman Cybertronian Paranormal Eliminator Registered User regular
    edited November 3
    Anywho, I grew being bullied and having an aversion to bullying, so I was probably predisposed to certain opinions, but this place certainly helped lead me to think about some things for the first time, allowing me to form those opinions.

    One fucked up thing is that while I didn't have anything against transgender folk, I still found them a little weird and eventually I got called out for this by another forumer who mentioned how some of things I was posting made her feel uncomfortable. My natural inclination was to get annoyed and defensive, but having recently watched the whole Gamer Gate fiasco take place, I decided to listen for a change and alter my behavior, and I will be forever grateful to this forum and that person for giving me the opportunity to grow.

    Also for giving me an environment where I don't feel like everyone thinks I'm crazy or naive for believing in stuff like universal healthcare or UBI or any of those other pie-in-the-sky lefty ideas I hold dear to my heart.



    Undead Scottsman on
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