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I am stepping down

BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
Unfortunately, the moderator position has become far too stressful for me, and I have to call it quits.

All of this shit we are all dealing with is not at all what I signed up for last spring, and it has spiraled far beyond what mental and emotional effort I can put into it in my spare time on a free volunteer labor basis, to the point I'm having trouble even bringing myself to load up the forums anymore. I regret abandoning the SE community during the effort to migrate to a new forum in this time of stupid crisis but I just can't do it anymore. Big thanks to Geebs and Penny Arcade for putting us in this position.

Unfortunately, my quitting leaves no one active who is exclusively here to moderate and advocate for SE++, as Whippy has mostly withdrawn from forum moderation and Sterica has merely been helping me out the last few weeks, and I don't know that she wants to take over full time. So I guess try to behave yourselves like when there weren't really any mods active, in the couple of years before I was doing it. I have no idea about or say in what the remaining moderation staff intend to do about SE.

Right as I was deciding to quit, we coincidentally (actually for real coincidentally, I had already decided to quit before I heard about it yesterday and they have nothing to do with my decision) started discussing some new community rules some users from different parts of the site came up with together for the remainder of the transition. I don't have the energy left to really read them in detail or think about the consequences as I am so fucking cooked, but I guess try to give them a fair shake. I would prefer to see the community survive intact to see a new site. If Sterica does decide to take on more SE++ responsibility know that she has my full confidence. Please be kind to the newer D&D mods as well because they are trying very earnestly to reach out and not to leave SE behind in the forum migration. Finally, I hope y'all that have beef in D&D with other users or the mods can work it out somehow. It's not worth it.

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  • PerrsunPerrsun Registered User regular
    I appreciate your efforts and applaud your sense to prioritize your own mental health.

    I’m glad you tried.

  • MadicanMadican No face Registered User regular
    Can't blame you for prioritizing your mental health considering this was just a volunteer position without pay and is only going to get worse with the results of the election dovetailing with the forum migration. Not to mention the advent of the holiday season and all the stress that brings.

    Thanks for your hard work and take care.

  • The Zombie PenguinThe Zombie Penguin Eternal Hungry Corpse Registered User regular
    Putting your mental health and physical health first is always the right call. Thanks for the work, and I'm so sorry you got dumped in such a shit show

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  • HoukHouk Nipples The EchidnaRegistered User regular
    I don't love the mention of "new community rules" but I 100% understand the decision either way

    hopefully you still stick around as part of the community, there's a reason you got picked to be a mod and I for one think you did a hell of a job with the leaky, stinky bag you got handed

  • DouglasDouglas PennsylvaniaRegistered User regular
    Thank you for service. I appreciate your advocacy for and oversight of our community.

  • KadithKadith Registered User regular
    I appreciate you taking the extra effort to not ghost

    hope the experience hasn't completely burned you out of being a community member

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  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    Entirely understandable, thanks for giving us the time you did. I hope you can still enjoy hanging out here with us.

  • MagellMagell Detroit Machine Guns Fort MyersRegistered User regular
    Building a whole new forum is understandably way more than you signed up for as a mod. Thanks for your time.

  • minor incidentminor incident expert in a dying field ---Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Sorry to hear this bahamut. We appreciated you in the role, but you gotta do what's best for your mental health, and I don't think anyone can blame you, given everything going on. <3

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  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    Fist bump buddy

  • Styrofoam SammichStyrofoam Sammich WANT. normal (not weird)Registered User regular
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  • GustavGustav Friend of Goats Somewhere in the OzarksRegistered User regular
    Godspeed Bahamut

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  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Thanks for your time and effort

    Getting out with your sanity intact is way more important than anything happening here.

  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    BahamutZERO, more like BahamutZERO Fucks Left To Give B)

  • King RiptorKing Riptor Registered User regular
    Good luck out there. I don't think anyone is gonna fault you for stepping down given the situation isn't at all what you were expecting. I think if PA had like told us last January this was gonna happen like we all expected thing would have gone more smoothly for the staff and I think most of us would have volunteered our time to help but it's November now and we all have jobs and family stuff

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  • PaladinPaladin Registered User regular
    It's not abandonment - knowing when you're getting too burnt out for your responsibilities and pre-emptively closing out in a transparent manner is itself the most responsible, mature, and right thing you could do. I'll try my best not to cause too much trouble and think of your earnest efforts when my thoughts lead me astray. Thank you.

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  • Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Sorry you got thrown in the shitter with no lifeline BZero, take care of yourself.

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  • KelorKelor Registered User regular
    I appreciate the work you’ve put in Bahamut.

    Sorry it has been in the confluence of so much going on but you’ve been a really fantastic representative of this community during that time and your openness and attitude with the community was outstanding.

  • TynnanTynnan seldom correct, never unsure Registered User regular
    edited November 2024
    I appreciate the effort you put into this place and its people, Bahamut. And I definitely don't begrudge you deciding to step down. Your well being is more important than anything here.

    Tynnan on
  • TonkkaTonkka Some one in the club tonight Has stolen my ideas.Registered User regular
    Thanks for stepping up in the first place!

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  • StericaSterica Yes Registered User, Moderator mod
    LONG LIVE THE NEW FLESH

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  • Sir FabulousSir Fabulous Malevolent Squid God Registered User regular
    Bye bye Bahamut. Thanks for the time and effort you put in!

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  • ToxTox I kill threads they/themRegistered User regular
    Just promise us you won't blame yourself for whatever happens next (I have no idea what happens next)

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  • SniperGuySniperGuy SniperGuyGaming Registered User regular
    Alright but you have to return the gold and jewels.

    What do you mean there's no gold and jewels??

    Anyway thank you for your service

  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    Unironically:

    Thank you for your service.

  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Don’t forget to drop off your name tag and uniform

  • FANTOMASFANTOMAS Flan ArgentavisRegistered User regular
    Wait, what? What new rules? Where is that stuff posted ?

    Also, thank you for your service.
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  • Gabriel_PittGabriel_Pitt Stepped in it Registered User regular
    edited November 2024
    You can only be the unholy combo of Atlas and Sisyphus for so long, but pour one out for the volunteers who step up and make the effort. You're the people who keep this place working.

    Gabriel_Pitt on
  • Undead ScottsmanUndead Scottsman Cybertronian Paranormal Eliminator Registered User regular
    Don't blame you in the slightest. You signed up to be a simple janitor, and then the building caught fire.

    Thanks for stepping up when you did.

  • ShadowfireShadowfire Vermont, in the middle of nowhereRegistered User regular
    You weren't the stepmod, you were the mod who stepped up.

  • Quantum TigerQuantum Tiger Registered User regular
    FANTOMAS wrote: »
    Wait, what? What new rules? Where is that stuff posted ?

    Also, thank you for your service.
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    Bahamut only said that there were internal discussions about potential new rules, nothing to worry about yet


    Anyway thanks for stepping up, hope you still continue to stick around!

  • KnightKnight Dead Dead Dead Registered User regular
    don’t blame you one bit, hope you don’t leave permanently

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  • HacksawHacksaw J. Duggan Esq. Wrestler at LawRegistered User regular
    Please don't leave the forums all together BMut; you're a cool person who's fun to talk to. This place is as much your internet home as it is anyone else's. Don't feel like you're letting anyone down and need to duck out.

  • enc0reenc0re Registered User regular
    Thank you for your service! I hope you get a cool retired mod badge out of it until the old forum death.

    Does anyone have the lore of why SE++ tends to have few/no mods? That might be useful to understand for the new forum setup.

  • SkeithSkeith Registered User regular
    Dunno! But this probably isn't the place to figure it out.

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  • StericaSterica Yes Registered User, Moderator mod
    As with most mod spots, the people who want it lack the maturity, and the people who have the maturity don’t want it. I imagine the recent turmoil amplifies that.

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  • SolarSolar Registered User regular
    Good luck BZ

    Is there a process for new mods? Should people put their name forward?

  • ChicoBlueChicoBlue Registered User regular
    I would like to nominate BahamutONE.

  • HacksawHacksaw J. Duggan Esq. Wrestler at LawRegistered User regular
    Being a mod usually sucks. I've done it under multiple banners. It wasn't a good time for me. And unless you're that very specific type of person who likes being First Among Equals, it'll probably wear you down too. If you can't imagine yourself doing HR work, then trust me when I say you don't want to be a mod.

  • Undead ScottsmanUndead Scottsman Cybertronian Paranormal Eliminator Registered User regular
    Hey, quick question.
    Please be kind to the newer D&D mods as well because they are trying very earnestly to reach out and not to leave SE behind in the forum migration.

    Did this already happen (and if so, is there a thread link) or did you mean they will try to reach out at some point in the future?

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