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  • KrentzKrentz Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I had a real straight-laced friend who went to seminary and the whole bit. "You may kiss the bride" was he and his lady's first kiss. I always thought they were insane for going through with the whole "no kissing before marriage" thing but their wedding was the sweetest and most sincere thing I've ever seen in my life.

    I'm always surprised when I find these threads with people asking if they should have a stripper or not. It's your relationship and marriage; you should probably know where your boundaries as a couple lie at this point. People like Beavs is cool with it, people like Bel ain't. It's not a democracy here. Deflecting the responsibly to make this decision to a bunch of internet people with widely varying backgrounds is the worst way to justify doing something that you already know won't fly with the one person that matters.

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  • lostwordslostwords Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    strippertatorship

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  • BelruelBelruel NARUTO FUCKS Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Stale wrote: »
    Belruel wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    If for some un-Godly reason, I ever feel like making the marriage mistake again, the bachelor/bachelorette parties will be legen... wait for it.....

    DARY


    we're each getting strippers. multiples. alcohol flowing like a fucking river. I will find the hottest most well hung mandingo motherfuckers to cock slap her and her friends all night.

    Why?



    Because if I'm marrying her, then I know. Not hope.

    I know.

    At the end of the night, she's sleeping next to me. So who the fuck cares how we have fun?
    What if she falls in love with one of the 'hung mandingo motherfuckers' and runs away with him instead

    if he's marrying her, he knows that she won't is what he is saying.

    if all parties involved are down with strippers, there is not a thing wrong with having lots of them at all. it's if one of them isn't when there is a problem. like how the OP's wife asked him not to

    also i know guys that would get strippers, but no way in hell are they letting their girls get strippers, and that isn't fair at all

    I will never understand people insecure in their relationships.

    Thats like building block number 1. If thats shaky, your fucking house is caving in.

    maybe not today. but it will.

    true that, but being secure and saying 'oh hell yes strippers please' are two separate things entirely

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  • bongibongi regular
    edited February 2009
    Belruel wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    If for some un-Godly reason, I ever feel like making the marriage mistake again, the bachelor/bachelorette parties will be legen... wait for it.....

    DARY


    we're each getting strippers. multiples. alcohol flowing like a fucking river. I will find the hottest most well hung mandingo motherfuckers to cock slap her and her friends all night.

    Why?



    Because if I'm marrying her, then I know. Not hope.

    I know.

    At the end of the night, she's sleeping next to me. So who the fuck cares how we have fun?
    What if she falls in love with one of the 'hung mandingo motherfuckers' and runs away with him instead

    if he's marrying her, he knows that she won't is what he is saying.

    if all parties involved are down with strippers, there is not a thing wrong with having lots of them at all. it's if one of them isn't when there is a problem. like how the OP's wife asked him not to

    also i know guys that would get strippers, but no way in hell are they letting their girls get strippers, and that isn't fair at all
    Well there are probably girls that would get strippers but wouldn't let their men get strippers. Don't try and pin that on men.

    bongi on
  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    DW always talks about how ugly he is.

    I think I could beat his ass red.

    t Mysst: I saw your closet wardrobe, start working out and get some pearl snaps and start cruising 6th street!
    last time I was on 6th street I was doing a decent job of flirting but my bud's stomach was staging a revolt and so I took him home cause we had gone to ihop at my suggestion

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  • LinksvilleLinksville Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Linksville wrote: »
    frank i am not reading a word of that right now

    that is too many words

    TLDR; Mormons think my sister is a whore. My brother-in-law and I think this is funny and make fun of her.
    i did read this because its not too many words

    that is lovely

    On a scale of 1 to 420, how high are you right now?

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  • JavenJaven Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.

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  • Dead LegendDead Legend Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    DW always talks about how ugly he is.

    I think I could beat his ass red.

    t Mysst: I saw your closet wardrobe, start working out and get some pearl snaps and start cruising 6th street!
    last time I was on 6th street I was doing a decent job of flirting but my bud's stomach was staging a revolt and so I took him home cause we had gone to ihop at my suggestion

    i almost went last night to see a friend's band play.

    but the band decided it would be an excellent time to pass sickness on to each other

    Dead Legend on
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  • bongibongi regular
    edited February 2009
    Javen wrote: »
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.
    Yeah but people without liberal attitudes to sex are objectively wrong, duh.

    bongi on
  • beavotronbeavotron Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    how about we make everyone happy and get a stripper for the actual wedding?
    screw the bachelor/bachelorette.

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  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    DW always talks about how ugly he is.

    I think I could beat his ass red.

    t Mysst: I saw your closet wardrobe, start working out and get some pearl snaps and start cruising 6th street!
    last time I was on 6th street I was doing a decent job of flirting but my bud's stomach was staging a revolt and so I took him home cause we had gone to ihop at my suggestion

    i almost went last night to see a friend's band play.

    but the band decided it would be an excellent time to pass sickness on to each other
    you know, if bandmates would stop fucking each other shit like this wouldn't happen

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  • lostwordslostwords Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    a stripper-preacher would be pretty awesome yeah

    bless me father, for i'm about to sin

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  • BelruelBelruel NARUTO FUCKS Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Krentz wrote: »
    I had a real straight-laced friend who went to seminary and the whole bit. "You may kiss the bride" was he and his lady's first kiss. I always thought they were insane for going through with the whole "no kissing before marriage" thing but their wedding was the sweetest and most sincere thing I've ever seen in my life.

    I'm always surprised when I find these threads with people asking if they should have a stripper or not. It's your relationship and marriage; you should probably know where your boundaries as a couple lie at this point. People like Beavs is cool with it, people like Bel ain't. It's not a democracy here. Deflecting the responsibly to make this decision to a bunch of internet people with widely varying backgrounds is the worst way to justify doing something that you already know won't fly with the one person that matters.

    but you see, if the wife was cool with it, and if he was ok with his wife getting naked dudes as well there is not a thing wrong with it

    the whole problem here lies with the guy not listening to the woman who should be the love of his life

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  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    there's Hookers for Jesus organisation a few minutes from here

    its uh

    interesting.

    Tell us more.

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  • beavotronbeavotron Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    lostwords wrote: »
    a stripper-preacher would be pretty awesome yeah

    bless me father, for i'm about to sin

    dearly beloved
    we are gathered here today
    to get nasty
    boom boom boom boom

    beavotron on
  • Darth WaiterDarth Waiter Elrond Hubbard Mordor XenuRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    DW always talks about how ugly he is.

    I think I could beat his ass red.

    We could go as bridge trolls for Halloween! We wouldn't even need make-up or fake noses or anything!

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  • Dead LegendDead Legend Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    DW always talks about how ugly he is.

    I think I could beat his ass red.

    t Mysst: I saw your closet wardrobe, start working out and get some pearl snaps and start cruising 6th street!
    last time I was on 6th street I was doing a decent job of flirting but my bud's stomach was staging a revolt and so I took him home cause we had gone to ihop at my suggestion

    i almost went last night to see a friend's band play.

    but the band decided it would be an excellent time to pass sickness on to each other
    you know, if bandmates would stop fucking each other shit like this wouldn't happen

    i don't think they're fucking each other, but apparently they were sick and cancelled.

    i was going to call up my sister's bff and see if she wanted to hang but noooo

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  • MonkeyfeetMonkeyfeet Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I have never heard of strippers blowing or fucking someone at a bachelor party. That just seems unprofessional

    Monkeyfeet on
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  • Dead LegendDead Legend Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    DW always talks about how ugly he is.

    I think I could beat his ass red.

    We could go as bridge trolls for Halloween! We wouldn't even need make-up or fake noses or anything!

    see this is good because i've had like 8 surgeries on my lip and nose.

    <3

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  • MrMonroeMrMonroe passed out on the floor nowRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    beavotron wrote: »
    lostwords wrote: »
    a stripper-preacher would be pretty awesome yeah

    bless me father, for i'm about to sin

    dearly beloved
    we are gathered here today
    to get nasty
    boom boom boom boom

    well I mean

    what kind of a wedding is it if you don't have bridesmaids?

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  • BelruelBelruel NARUTO FUCKS Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    bongi wrote: »
    Belruel wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    If for some un-Godly reason, I ever feel like making the marriage mistake again, the bachelor/bachelorette parties will be legen... wait for it.....

    DARY


    we're each getting strippers. multiples. alcohol flowing like a fucking river. I will find the hottest most well hung mandingo motherfuckers to cock slap her and her friends all night.

    Why?



    Because if I'm marrying her, then I know. Not hope.

    I know.

    At the end of the night, she's sleeping next to me. So who the fuck cares how we have fun?
    What if she falls in love with one of the 'hung mandingo motherfuckers' and runs away with him instead

    if he's marrying her, he knows that she won't is what he is saying.

    if all parties involved are down with strippers, there is not a thing wrong with having lots of them at all. it's if one of them isn't when there is a problem. like how the OP's wife asked him not to

    also i know guys that would get strippers, but no way in hell are they letting their girls get strippers, and that isn't fair at all
    Well there are probably girls that would get strippers but wouldn't let their men get strippers. Don't try and pin that on men.

    eeh, i somehow doubt that a woman who was ok with male strippers would not be fine with her guy getting strippers as well.

    i know guys that throw the whole 'but for guys it is tradition, for girls it isn't so they can't have them' shit out

    of course i am not speaking in absolutes here, but the overwhelming majority of people fall into those lines

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  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Monkeyfeet wrote: »
    I have never heard of strippers blowing or fucking someone at a bachelor party. That just seems unprofessional

    Sounds less like a stripper and more like a prostitute.

    DarkPrimus on
  • Dead LegendDead Legend Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    DarkPrimus wrote: »
    Monkeyfeet wrote: »
    I have never heard of strippers blowing or fucking someone at a bachelor party. That just seems unprofessional

    Sounds less like a stripper and more like a prostitute.

    well you just pay them extra

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  • StaleStale Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    bongi wrote: »
    Javen wrote: »
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.
    Yeah but people without liberal attitudes to sex are objectively wrong, duh.

    I was referring to people, men or women, that will say, "I don't mind strippers.... but no, you can't have one. I can have one, but not you."

    that has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with "I'm a little child and am terrified I'm not good enough to hold your interest."

    Stale on
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  • MonkeyfeetMonkeyfeet Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    DarkPrimus wrote: »
    Monkeyfeet wrote: »
    I have never heard of strippers blowing or fucking someone at a bachelor party. That just seems unprofessional

    Sounds less like a stripper and more like a prostitute.

    If that were the case it would be extremely professional

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  • bongibongi regular
    edited February 2009
    Belruel wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Belruel wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    If for some un-Godly reason, I ever feel like making the marriage mistake again, the bachelor/bachelorette parties will be legen... wait for it.....

    DARY


    we're each getting strippers. multiples. alcohol flowing like a fucking river. I will find the hottest most well hung mandingo motherfuckers to cock slap her and her friends all night.

    Why?



    Because if I'm marrying her, then I know. Not hope.

    I know.

    At the end of the night, she's sleeping next to me. So who the fuck cares how we have fun?
    What if she falls in love with one of the 'hung mandingo motherfuckers' and runs away with him instead

    if he's marrying her, he knows that she won't is what he is saying.

    if all parties involved are down with strippers, there is not a thing wrong with having lots of them at all. it's if one of them isn't when there is a problem. like how the OP's wife asked him not to

    also i know guys that would get strippers, but no way in hell are they letting their girls get strippers, and that isn't fair at all
    Well there are probably girls that would get strippers but wouldn't let their men get strippers. Don't try and pin that on men.

    eeh, i somehow doubt that a woman who was ok with male strippers would not be fine with her guy getting strippers as well.

    i know guys that throw the whole 'but for guys it is tradition, for girls it isn't so they can't have them' shit out

    of course i am not speaking in absolutes here, but the overwhelming majority of people fall into those lines
    I think you're being pretty wildly sexist but okay!

    bongi on
  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    The term is "double standard".

    Or "hypocrisy".

    Yeah, either works.

    DarkPrimus on
  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    guys i'm gonna get buff and become a stripper. I hear asians are the hot thing right now.

    Mysst on
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  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    guys i'm gonna get buff and become a stripper. I hear asians are the hot thing right now.

    Gimme a front shot.

    DarkPrimus on
  • bongibongi regular
    edited February 2009
    Stale wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Javen wrote: »
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.
    Yeah but people without liberal attitudes to sex are objectively wrong, duh.

    I was referring to people, men or women, that will say, "I don't mind strippers.... but no, you can't have one. I can have one, but not you."

    that has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with "I'm a little child and am terrified I'm not good enough to hold your interest."
    So insecurity is the sign of a child?

    bongi on
  • StaleStale Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Javen wrote: »
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.
    Yeah but people without liberal attitudes to sex are objectively wrong, duh.

    I was referring to people, men or women, that will say, "I don't mind strippers.... but no, you can't have one. I can have one, but not you."

    that has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with "I'm a little child and am terrified I'm not good enough to hold your interest."
    So insecurity is the sign of a child?

    In this case, I think it reeks of immaturity, yes

    Stale on
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  • Serenity RoseSerenity Rose Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited February 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    guys i'm gonna get buff and become a stripper. I hear asians are the hot thing right now.

    I heard that elderly Asian porn is the hot thing. Haven't checked it out though....well outside of the covers to the DVDs that is.

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  • BelruelBelruel NARUTO FUCKS Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Javen wrote: »
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.
    Yeah but people without liberal attitudes to sex are objectively wrong, duh.

    I was referring to people, men or women, that will say, "I don't mind strippers.... but no, you can't have one. I can have one, but not you."

    that has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with "I'm a little child and am terrified I'm not good enough to hold your interest."
    So insecurity is the sign of a child?

    well, yes. part of growing up is becoming sure of yourself and confident in your own skin

    Belruel on
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  • MonkeyfeetMonkeyfeet Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Shit you can order strippers online now. Look how far we've come

    Monkeyfeet on
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  • bongibongi regular
    edited February 2009
    Stale wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Stale wrote: »
    bongi wrote: »
    Javen wrote: »
    It's not always about security, sometimes it's about personal morals and values.

    Some don't consider fondling a stripper a big deal. Some do. Everyone treats sex differently.
    Yeah but people without liberal attitudes to sex are objectively wrong, duh.

    I was referring to people, men or women, that will say, "I don't mind strippers.... but no, you can't have one. I can have one, but not you."

    that has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with "I'm a little child and am terrified I'm not good enough to hold your interest."
    So insecurity is the sign of a child?

    In this case, I think it reeks of immaturity, yes
    I can see it in this case, I guess.

    bongi on
  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    guys i'm gonna get buff and become a stripper. I hear asians are the hot thing right now.

    I heard that elderly Asian porn is the hot thing. Haven't checked it out though....well outside of the covers to the DVDs that is.
    but I won't be elderly for like eighty years!

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