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A Girl Problem Thread [solved]

noobertnoobert Registered User regular
edited November 2006 in Help / Advice Forum
Edit: Solved.

:D!!!!!!

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  • AndorienAndorien Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    First thing you need to do is ask yourself if you want to be with a girl who's willing to cheat on her current boyfriend with you. There's little reason to think you wont end up in his position down the road if you manage to be with her at all.

    Breaking up with your boyfriend/girlfriend to be with someone else is one thing. Getting started beforehand is quite another.

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  • Teh ErickaTeh Ericka Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    You really shouldn't concern yourself with their relationship at all. Making the statement "I want to break the two of them up" is pretty dangerous territory. She needs to take responsibility for her relationship, and you need to take responsibility for clearly defining your boundaries. If she does reconcile with her boyfriend during this week away, I think it's safe to say that she's not nearly as certain as you are about the perfect-relationship-potential between you two. I would let her know up front that because your feelings for her are so strong, you need to know exactly what her intentions are. Have a SOBER conversation with her where you outline exactly what your needs are (i.e. - break up with your boyfriend and be mine) and see how she responds. At that point, the ball is really in her court, and if she doesn't decide to end it with her current boyfriend, she's not nearly as head-over-heels for you as you thought.

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  • FeralFeral ＭＥＭＥＴＩＣＨＡＲＩＺＡＲＤ interior crocodile alligator ⇔ ǝɹʇɐǝɥʇ ǝᴉʌoɯ ʇǝloɹʌǝɥɔ ɐ ǝʌᴉɹp ᴉRegistered User regular
    edited November 2006
    She either chooses you or she does not. You can't make her do anything. Just be the best man you can be and hope she makes the right choice.

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    every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.

    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • noobertnoobert Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Thank you Ericka.

    She is well aware of my intentions, and knew them befor that night. My exact words to her where "I want you NAME, and i'm going to do everything i can to make you mine." She said she needed more time to be clear about things.

    I think i really need to do something that will blow her away. I have no idea what, but i will have a week to think about it...

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