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Am I being stupid with my money?

KlorgnumKlorgnum Registered User regular
edited July 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
Background: I'm 21, living in Canada with my parents and attending university in town. I make minimum wage ($9.50/hr) working 29 hours a week at a seasonal job (May - Nov, reduced hours in fall). My parents have made it clear in the past that they don't mind having me at home and there is no pressure to move out. I've been paying for school myself, without dipping into my loan money. I haven't had any problems with this since I'm not a very big spender.

I give money to charity when I can ($250 this year, unlikely to be any more). Given that I'm not currently making any effort to save for the future, and since I'm not impinging on my school money, is it ethical for me to do this, provided I can continue paying for school and don't have to rely on my parents (apart from them providing food/shelter)?

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  • jeddy leejeddy lee Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Uhhh... no. Sounds like you are pretty far ahead of the game if you arn't taking out loans and have the dough to donate to charity.

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  • firewaterwordfirewaterword Satchitananda Pais Vasco to San FranciscoRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    I can't comment on the ethical dimension, but I'd say that your use of money is not stupid in the slightest.

    Being stupid with money generally implies you're living beyond your means, getting into debt, et cetera.

    I'm a cheap asshole though, so I'd say you'd be better served putting your money in a savings account or something to help pay off the loan in the future, but that's just me. But I also think the economy is going to go way deeper into the toilet before we see a real recovery.

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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited July 2009
    I would say you're fine. If your parents don't mind you living at home, then live at home.

    Start saving more money. Just put it aside like it's a bill and don't touch it. That will add up quickly.

    (I will admit I don't even understand how there's an issue of ethics here)

    I don't know what your taxes come out to, but $275.50 a week is a pretty low wage to be living on on your own.

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  • OrogogusOrogogus San DiegoRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    I don't see where any ethical problem could exist. It's not a bad idea to start saving for retirement early, but there's nothing wrong with focusing on your degree for now.

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  • MetalbourneMetalbourne Inside a cluster b personalityRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Well, stupid and ethical are two different things.

    I guess it could be argued that its never too early to save for your future, but really, 250 bucks a year at a part time, 9.5 bucks an hour job comes out to like, 2% of your income. If you're really worried about it, put an equal amount into a savings account every year.

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  • PeregrineFalconPeregrineFalcon Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Ethical for you to do what? Live at home while paying for your own schooling and giving money to charity?

    By the financial standards of the average college student you're a fucking saint.

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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited July 2009
    Regardless of your financial situation, if you can save money, do it. Put it in a separate account so you aren't tempted to spend it. Even if its only a couple bucks a month, by starting to save now you will put yourself in a better position down the line to be stable for the future.

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  • DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Ethical for you to do what? Live at home while paying for your own schooling and giving money to charity?

    By the financial standards of the average college student you're a fucking saint.

    It would be a good idea to start socking cash away and open a brokerage account when you hit $1000 in savings. If you pledge direct deposit like $50 a month, you don't hit any fees buying.

    Even in this shitacular economy, you'd be surprised to see how quickly the cash compounds (or disappears).


    Still, you're in pretty damn good shape. I wish I had your sense at 21 lol.

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  • KlorgnumKlorgnum Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Chanus wrote: »
    I don't know what your taxes come out to, but $275.50 a week is a pretty low wage to be living on on your own.

    Oh, absolutely. I've no illusion that I'm making enough to be living on my own. I don't make enough per year to incur taxes, just enough to pay for school & a few things I want.
    Chanus wrote: »
    (I will admit I don't even understand how there's an issue of ethics here)

    I'm making under $10 000* a year since my job is seasonal (reduced hours in the fall because of school, no work once it starts snowing), so my concern is mostly that I shouldn't be giving money away that I could be saving since I make so little.

    *Canadian universities are partially government funded AFAIK, so tuition + textbooks for my program comes out to around 6k per year.

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  • rfaliasrfalias Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Klorgnum wrote: »
    Chanus wrote: »
    I don't know what your taxes come out to, but $275.50 a week is a pretty low wage to be living on on your own.

    Oh, absolutely. I've no illusion that I'm making enough to be living on my own. I don't make enough per year to incur taxes, just enough to pay for school & a few things I want.
    Chanus wrote: »
    (I will admit I don't even understand how there's an issue of ethics here)

    I'm making under $10 000 a year since my job is seasonal (reduced hours in the fall because of school, no work once it starts snowing), so my concern is mostly that I shouldn't be giving money away that I could be saving since I make so little.

    That is not an ethical decision, it's a personal one.
    Do what you need to stay afloat and prepare for your future so you don't become a charity case.

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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited July 2009
    Klorgnum wrote: »
    I'm making under $10 000 a year since my job is seasonal (reduced hours in the fall because of school, no work once it starts snowing), so my concern is mostly that I shouldn't be giving money away that I could be saving since I make so little.

    I can understand your concern, but there's no reason you can't do both if you feel you should.

    I would advise saving money while you're in a position of paying almost no living expenses, and I would commend you for giving to charity.

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  • firewaterwordfirewaterword Satchitananda Pais Vasco to San FranciscoRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Deebaser wrote: »
    It would be a good idea to start socking cash away and open a brokerage account when you hit $1000 in savings. If you pledge direct deposit like $50 a month, you don't hit any fees buying.
    Not to derail too much here, but are you talking about a brokerage that doesn't charge you trade commissions? Because that would be something I'd like to know more about for sure.

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  • The SnertThe Snert Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    It's awesome that you give to charity, but think about yourself too, I'm gonna echo the responces here and say some money should be put into savings for the future.

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  • EggyToastEggyToast Jersey CityRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Yeah, as pointed out above, this isn't really an ethical decision. It's your money, and you're free to do with it as you wish. Giving it to charity is fine, and reasonable.

    From a purely financial perspective, it isn't the best thing to do -- which doesn't make it stupid. You should be saving that $250 for when you do finish your degree, so you can move out without going into debt, or living poorly. After all, if you were to give $250 to charity each year, and then need to use the services yourself, it's a fine ethical decision but it also means that you were probably not putting those funds to the best use (in regards to your personal situation).

    But people rarely are "rich" enough to donate to charity without making some sort of personal sacrifice, such as forgoing a personal purchase. That doesn't make it wrong -- it makes it the point of charity. People do it to feel better about themselves and to help a cause they believe in.

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  • PeregrineFalconPeregrineFalcon Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Specifically to the point of a savings account, open yourself a Tax-Free Savings Account - most if not all major Canadian branches will have them and let you open one for nothing. Then just set up an automated transfer of $X/month (start small, work up as you can) and let it do the rest.

    Suddenly when you're graduating you have a nice fat pile of cash for your effort, and then when you do line up your first full-time Real Job, you don't have to worry about security deposits for apartments, utilities, or getting yourself some cheap garage-sale chairs and a table to eat at.

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  • SarcastroSarcastro Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Lots of people regularly give 10% to charity, whether they can afford it or not. Its your call.

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  • DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Not to derail too much here, but are you talking about a brokerage that doesn't charge you trade commissions? Because that would be something I'd like to know more about for sure.

    Sure thing. My coworker just set one up for his son. It's not a no fee brokerage account, they just don't charge when his high schooler has $50 a month directly transfered from his debit account to his investment account. Im pretty sure he has it go into the same index fund every month.

    I'm pretty sure it's Fidelity that offers that service. They do charge for withdrawals and transfers though so again, it isn't a 'no fee' brokerage account. Hope that helps.

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  • StormCrow420StormCrow420 Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Don't go overboard with your charitable donations, they do you credit, but as a student your focus needs to be on your own interests and studies and their fascilitation so when you finish school you can make your positive contribution to society.

    Make sure you deduct them from your taxes properly. I recommend turbo tax.

    Never too early to get a 401k started. 2-6% of your earnings now will be worth hundreds of thousands of dollars when you hit retirement. I'm 29 with a 3 year old 401k and I'm seeing returns of like $1000 per month (granted I probably make and withhold more than you) but I would probably have $40-50k more is I had started at 23 rather than 26.

    Live with your parents until they physically throw you out, then move in with your aunt. Family is meant to be imposed upon.

    It's never to early to start your own business. My friend Danny does odd jobs for extra cash, carrys around a business card that says 'cleaner, organizer, gardener'. He know nothing about orgainizing or gardening but he gets a little extra cash for not doing very much.

    Be smart where you shop. Make sure you have the membership card at your local supermarket. Even better if you have a local co-op you can volunteer at. As far as clothes and shoes go at your age you need like one or two nice outfits, the rest should come from thrift stores. Perform sex acts on strangers for money. A great way to make quick cash and meet new friends!

    Avoid eating or drinking out. Learn to cook for youself. Basic stuff. You can make spaghetti or zita or something enough to last you a week for like 10 bucks. At your age if your aren't eating top ramen at least twice a day you are being stupid with your money. Sorry.

    A savings account is always a good idea. I have mine set up to put $25 bucks a month into mine, and even making good money, you'd be suprised how many times I was glad to have it.

    Don't carry cash or credit cards around. You can't spend money if you don't have it handy. Good luck!

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  • Gilbert0Gilbert0 North of SeattleRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Welcome to the upper 5%. The problem that the current economy is in is because the SPENT MORE THAN THEY HAD. A student loan (espcially one you are not using) is not a big deal. It's an investment in yourself.

    For additional finacial help and learning, I HIGHLY recommend Co-op programs. It may take an extra year on to whatever degree you are doing but you are getting paid ($15-25/hour depending on who hires you) and when you are done with your degree, you have REAL experiance in your field. Unless you are already doing something like teaching/nursing that already requires a practicum.

    If you are happy with your finacial state and your parents are comforatble with you at home, stick with it. Money is not the end goal of everything. Your happiness is. Though typically the more $$ the more toys and more experiances you can have.

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  • GiraGira Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Honestly, if I was in your position I'd spend the $250 doing something nice for my wonderful, loving and supporting parents rather than random people...but that's just me. Like they've said above, there's nothing inherently "stupid" about what you're doing.

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  • ResidentSleepwalkerResidentSleepwalker Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    My room mate has no job, $100,000 in student loans, plays Call of Duty, and spends $200 at the bars a week.

    I'd say you're in tip top shape, and like the suggestions everyone's given.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Are you talking government loans that you're not taking, or private loans that you're not taking?

    Because not taking government loans is pretty fantastically fucking stupid, yes. Especially when your savings are nil. What are the terms of the loans?

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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited July 2009
    I think you could suffer to donate less to charity and put that money towards a 401k. The sooner you start the better, and right now is prime time for young investors.

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  • Dr. FrenchensteinDr. Frenchenstein Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    robothero wrote: »
    I think you could suffer to donate less to charity and put that money towards a 401k. The sooner you start the better, and right now is prime time for young investors.

    Go Roth IRA or something if you go that route. (i don't even know if you can contribute to a 401k without doing it through an employer) Since you aren't paying taxes, it wouldn't make sense to get a tax deferred retirement plan.

    I agree with the cutting back on charity, not to sound cold, but that money will much better serve you as savings now. Once you have a legit income, then think about donating some of it.

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  • Shazkar ShadowstormShazkar Shadowstorm Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    I got a roth IRA
    thats what young people should do
    do that

    maybe cut charity down a bit, i mean, maybe to 50-100 bucks a year

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  • KlorgnumKlorgnum Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Are you talking government loans that you're not taking, or private loans that you're not taking?

    Because not taking government loans is pretty fantastically fucking stupid, yes. Especially when your savings are nil.

    Oh, I'm taking the (government -- OSAP) loans, I'm just not spending them. I've been careful to have enough money to pay them back at any time.




    And I appreciate the advice of the last few guys who posted, but 401Ks and Roth IRAs don't exist in Canada :P

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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited July 2009
    You have RRSPs, though.

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  • rfaliasrfalias Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    I'd honestly save the 200 some a year. Donating to a charity is noble, but not if you are struggling or hurting your future because of it.

    I'm sure Canada has CD's, that is about as secure as you can get. Slow ROI, but very stable. I had one for some years and I don't regret it.

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  • Dr. FrenchensteinDr. Frenchenstein Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Klorgnum wrote: »
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Are you talking government loans that you're not taking, or private loans that you're not taking?

    Because not taking government loans is pretty fantastically fucking stupid, yes. Especially when your savings are nil.

    Oh, I'm taking the (government -- OSAP) loans, I'm just not spending them. I've been careful to have enough money to pay them back at any time.




    And I appreciate the advice of the last few guys who posted, but 401Ks and Roth IRAs don't exist in Canada :P

    WTF, seriously? Guess you'll have to keep all those Raccoon pelts under the bed then!

    CD's are a good plan, try laddering them though if you have a big enough nest egg. That way you can take advantage of changing interest rates instead of gambling everything on one rate.

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  • QuidQuid Definitely not a banana Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Save the money in longterm savings for now and, decades down the line when you're independently wealthy, donate gigantic sums instead of just a couple hundred dollars every year.

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  • LaOsLaOs SaskatoonRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    Also, what exactly are you doing with the money from the government loans? Have they paid that money to you and you're just not spending it, or do you just have access to that money if you need it, but haven't received anything? (I don't know how those loans work exactly, obviously.) If you have the money, you should have it in some secure, interest-bearing account so that you could actually come out on top when that whole deal is all said and done.

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  • KlorgnumKlorgnum Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    LaOs wrote: »
    Have they paid that money to you and you're just not spending it, or do you just have access to that money if you need it, but haven't received anything? (I don't know how those loans work exactly, obviously.) If you have the money, you should have it in some secure, interest-bearing account so that you could actually come out on top when that whole deal is all said and done.

    The first one. I'm going to start looking into savings accounts soon.

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  • Gilbert0Gilbert0 North of SeattleRegistered User regular
    edited July 2009
    At the very least, it should be in an account like ING where you can get 1-3% interest while keeping it liquid (not locking it into a long term GIC or something). You can make a $100-200 by just doing that.

    Also, look into Tax-Free Savings accounts either with ING or with your bank as well. You can put up to $5000 grand a year in them and any interest you earn is not tax'd by the feds, unlike regular savings accounts.

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  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    I would almost advocate spending that money on yourself, rather than investing or donating it to charity.

    This is probably impossible to justify economically or morally, but doing something flagrantly dumb every so often is one of the more educational and therapeutic things you can do, and undergrad is one of the last time you won't be (severely) penalized for it.

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