ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderatormod
That and my general positive (believe it or not) attitude about people that they're doing the best they can and mean well all the time have led me to be far too accepting, and landed me in considerable amounts of trouble.
hi yes, this is me
Because you know, people don't do bad things on purpose, they probably have their reasons and that makes it totally valid, from their perspective. They'd do better if they could.
And if it's valid in their perspective, what's the point in holding a grudge?
(On the other hand, if I'm not directly involved and i can see that someone's perspective is harming someone else, I'm gonna give 'em a chewing out till that perspective changes!)
Hold a grudge? Why get upset at all?
But oh yeah, it's only when it's me that I have the problem.
let's make a pact to bitchslap each other when we catch ourselves doing that
I would like that to be a thing that doesn't happen to me anymore
Sounds like a plan. I'm surprised I haven't given a Nigerian prince all my money yet.
And it seems like all is dying, and would leave the world to mourn
That and my general positive (believe it or not) attitude about people that they're doing the best they can and mean well all the time have led me to be far too accepting, and landed me in considerable amounts of trouble.
hi yes, this is me
Because you know, people don't do bad things on purpose, they probably have their reasons and that makes it totally valid, from their perspective. They'd do better if they could.
And if it's valid in their perspective, what's the point in holding a grudge?
(On the other hand, if I'm not directly involved and i can see that someone's perspective is harming someone else, I'm gonna give 'em a chewing out till that perspective changes!)
Hold a grudge? Why get upset at all?
But oh yeah, it's only when it's me that I have the problem.
let's make a pact to bitchslap each other when we catch ourselves doing that
I would like that to be a thing that doesn't happen to me anymore
Sounds like a plan. I'm surprised I haven't given a Nigerian prince all my money yet.
ceres i need your credit card info NOW
for to help fix my broken balls
0
Options
AntimatterDevo Was RightGates of SteelRegistered Userregular
ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderatormod
The really terrible thing is that part of me is like "well, he seems like a nice person..."
And it seems like all is dying, and would leave the world to mourn
0
Options
AntimatterDevo Was RightGates of SteelRegistered Userregular
sounds like a plan
you could also consider waiting for tiger to go take a bath and then take his balls
I have to earn shit for once, I had so much shit hand-fed to me growing up that I was unprepared to try and fail at something I desperately wanted
0
Options
ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderatormod
Well, that's probably feeding into the whole "type" thing, if I had to guess.
Anyway, that's enough struggling not to give people money I don't have for one night. It's draining.
Time for bed. Goodnight, thread.
And it seems like all is dying, and would leave the world to mourn
I feel like I'm being too narrow in what I want in a relationship partner and it's crippling my development as a person
augh i need to stop thinking someone gimme some rhino tranqs
Man I can relate to both of these things. I was seeing this great girl earlier this year, then we broke after 8 weeks because I have a stupid unrequited crush on somebody else. She knew about this before we started dating, and I guess we both figured that being in a real relationship with somebody who actually returned my affections would help me get past those feelings. But it didn't. First time we tried to have sex, I couldn't perform and my girlfriend was all "You're not over her, are you?" I don't know if that's what the problem was, but that was pretty much it for us. We had a big heartfelt talk about what had happened and resolved to remain friends, but that did not pan out.
DRAMA ENSUES:
After a while I realised fuck, I really wasn't over this other girl. My now ex-girlfriend had told me "You need to talk to her about this" so I went to send her a message and arrange to meet up, only to discover that she'd unfriended me on facebook. I saw her again for the first time last week and she said that she's still so angry at me that she can't talk about what happened, though she did say that she only got one side of the story and she realises we will need to talk about shit, just not now. I still feel like such an asshole about all this because really, it's hard not to see this as being all my fault.
Oh, and I'm going to party on new years day and I know that both my ex-girlfriend and the girl I have the stupid unrequited crush on will be there. This will also be the first time I've seen my ex-girlfriend since we broke up. I'm sure nobody wants to make a big dramatic scene and will just want to have a good time, but sweet Jesus I am anxious about this weekend. I tried talking to my best friend about it but he was all "Nobody wants to cause more drama, so just stop worrying about it and stop bringing it up."
And yeah, I really want to be in a relationship because I felt so positive about myself and life in general when I was seeing someone. And I really liked her. But now I'm worried that this shit will just keep getting in the way of my efforts to form a meaningful relationship with someone, so I'll need to get this sorted before I try (which will take god knows how long), or else find someone's who is okay with my neuroses and supremely daft unrequited crush (which seems unlikely). Oh, and I still have my regular band of problems like chronic depression and OCD.
Phew, that took longer than I thought to get out, but was extremely cathartic. And at least I now have notes for when I got to talk to a therapist about things.
Well things don't turn over for the better in a day, or even a month. Just keep hanging int here with it. There's a lot of people on this forum who are really cool about being able to talk to anyone who needs it.
Thanks duder. The depression thread really helped me when I was dealing with all this crap earlier this year, especially when I can't always talk to my friends about things.
Nechriah on
0
Options
HenroidMexican kicked from Immigration ThreadCentrism is Racism :3Registered Userregular
All the stuff I was carrying on about some days ago, I've spent the last couple hours working it out with the necessary individual. I'll be okay, it turns out.
"Destination scan" is the most worthless tracking update
"It's gonna come to your house! But not yet. Fuck you."
I have begun hating UPS and FedEx more and more since I started at FedEx I realized
I once ordered a package that was supposed to be shipped from New Jersey to me in New York City. According to the tracking, the package went halfway down the East Coast, back up and nearly crossed into Canada, back to New Jersey, and then to me.
I ordered stuff that was shipped from NH. It went from there, through New York (where I live!(!)) to Massachusetts, then to Buffalo, then to East Syracuse, then to me in Liverpool. Still figuring that out.
0
Options
ButtlordFornicusLord of Bondage and PainRegistered Userregular
So drunk you black out, forget what happened, and due to whacky circumstances be confused as to whether you slept with this friend, another girl or no one.
So drunk you black out, forget what happened, and due to whacky circumstances be confused as to whether you slept with this friend, another girl or no one.
Coming this Summer
All Quetz Are Off
Oh my God
0
Options
BroloBroseidonLord of the BroceanRegistered Userregular
livejournal thread
I feel like such a slut for posting in the census thread
Munkus BeaverYou don't have to attend every argument you are invited to.Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPAregular
So drunk you black out, forget what happened, and due to whacky circumstances be confused as to whether you slept with this friend, another girl or no one.
Coming this Summer
All Quetz Are Off
This might be the best pun done with my name since Pony's "I'm bringing Quetzi back"
0
Options
BroloBroseidonLord of the BroceanRegistered Userregular
I also had an idea involving a Cupid tattoo being your only clue and calling it On The Straightzi and Arrow, but thaat pun called out to me like some harmonious wind.
0
Options
StraightziHere we may reign secure, and in my choice,To reign is worth ambition though in HellRegistered Userregular
I am trying to remember if this lady drinks yet. I think she started drinking this past year, so I'm really hoping for some drunken midnight makeouts.
0
Options
Garlic Breadi'm a bitch i'm a bitch i'm a bitch i'm aRegistered User, Disagreeableregular
she saves all her hot makeouts for j-christ in the hizzy of the g-o-d
0
Options
Munkus BeaverYou don't have to attend every argument you are invited to.Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPAregular
Posts
Sounds like a plan. I'm surprised I haven't given a Nigerian prince all my money yet.
ceres i need your credit card info NOW
for to help fix my broken balls
yes
get rid of yours and give them to me!
you could also consider waiting for tiger to go take a bath and then take his balls
I have to earn shit for once, I had so much shit hand-fed to me growing up that I was unprepared to try and fail at something I desperately wanted
Anyway, that's enough struggling not to give people money I don't have for one night. It's draining.
Time for bed. Goodnight, thread.
tomorrow will be a day of adventure! And possibly Bad Choices! I am excited
Man I can relate to both of these things. I was seeing this great girl earlier this year, then we broke after 8 weeks because I have a stupid unrequited crush on somebody else. She knew about this before we started dating, and I guess we both figured that being in a real relationship with somebody who actually returned my affections would help me get past those feelings. But it didn't. First time we tried to have sex, I couldn't perform and my girlfriend was all "You're not over her, are you?" I don't know if that's what the problem was, but that was pretty much it for us. We had a big heartfelt talk about what had happened and resolved to remain friends, but that did not pan out.
DRAMA ENSUES:
Oh, and I'm going to party on new years day and I know that both my ex-girlfriend and the girl I have the stupid unrequited crush on will be there. This will also be the first time I've seen my ex-girlfriend since we broke up. I'm sure nobody wants to make a big dramatic scene and will just want to have a good time, but sweet Jesus I am anxious about this weekend. I tried talking to my best friend about it but he was all "Nobody wants to cause more drama, so just stop worrying about it and stop bringing it up."
And yeah, I really want to be in a relationship because I felt so positive about myself and life in general when I was seeing someone. And I really liked her. But now I'm worried that this shit will just keep getting in the way of my efforts to form a meaningful relationship with someone, so I'll need to get this sorted before I try (which will take god knows how long), or else find someone's who is okay with my neuroses and supremely daft unrequited crush (which seems unlikely). Oh, and I still have my regular band of problems like chronic depression and OCD.
Phew, that took longer than I thought to get out, but was extremely cathartic. And at least I now have notes for when I got to talk to a therapist about things.
Thanks duder. The depression thread really helped me when I was dealing with all this crap earlier this year, especially when I can't always talk to my friends about things.
That's what I get for not having a winter jacket.
This guy.
naknaknaknaknak
whoa
come to butt-head
naknaknaknaknak
I think it might be on youtube now too.
I think I saw it on there at least.
I ordered stuff that was shipped from NH. It went from there, through New York (where I live!(!)) to Massachusetts, then to Buffalo, then to East Syracuse, then to me in Liverpool. Still figuring that out.
This is good therapy
naknaknaknaknak
Today I learned that a friend I have had a crush on for years is going to be at the same New Year's Eve party as me. And is, as far as I know, single.
On a totally unrelated note, betting on how drunk Quetzi is going to get for New Year's Eve has now opened.
Coming this Summer
All Quetz Are Off
the only options I have are work 11p - 7a or still be sick
Each one has plusses and minuses
but mostly minuses
been fevering/not being able to breathe for a week though, so I am leaning towards work being the thing I wanna do most
Fifty bucks on "so drunk"
Oh my God
I feel like such a slut for posting in the census thread
Good.
All people should tell me I am great at all times
Gonna tell everyone JUST WHAT I THINK OF THIS PLACE
This might be the best pun done with my name since Pony's "I'm bringing Quetzi back"
I will not let that happen again this time
I'm contemplating doing my opinions in a text document as people sign up in the census thread
she saves all her hot makeouts for j-christ in the hizzy of the g-o-d
Giving an opinion is free! Receiving one takes effort!