Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
11 years.
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
If it's a relatively minor impact, you can just accept it, and keep it in mind when making plans. You trust them to be consistent and that's all.
If it's a moderate impact or if you think the impact might increase in the future, you could take precautions. For example, do they have a will? Do you know if your wife and your sister-in-law are represented equitably in that will? Maybe your sister could have an end-of-life discussion with them without directly accusing them of favoritism.
If it's a major impact, then you should probably bring it up. I'm not married, but I'm reminded of an ex who I was with for quite a while. Her mother blatantly favored my 'sister-in-law' to such a degree that it really was a problem. After noticing the behavior, I spoke with my 'grandmother-in-law' and found out that it had been going on for so long that it had financially fucked my ex. That was a pretty extreme situation, and we addressed it directly, but my ex's mother was stubborn as hell about it and completely in denial.
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
11 years.
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
It's minor. My wife, and me by extension, are perpetually the young kids while sister in law has always been a "respected peer".
It has bugged my wife for much longer. I just don't like stirring the pot so close to home.
(look the point is if you pull out a phone while a movie is on I will end you)
Oh man you would die at my house.
It's pretty typical for me to be playing a vidja on one TV while occasionally checking my phone, netflix going on second TV, girlfriend with her phone out, husband on his laptop and occasionally checking his phone.
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
11 years.
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
It's minor. My wife, and me by extension, are perpetually the young kids while sister in law has always been a "respected peer".
It has bugged my wife for much longer. I just don't like stirring the pot so close to home.
The reasonable thing would be to just wait and complain about it at their funeral.
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ElldrenIs a woman dammitceterum censeoRegistered Userregular
My MarsDuna expedition has arrived and it's off to a rocky start, if you ignore the actual start at launch where I missed the ideal launch window by like, 6 months.
Things were going great aside from a mishap, where somehow during construction my Duna rovers heat shield ended up welded to the internode assembly of the faring (I'll chuck the whole thing into Duna later on and see what happens, hoping for the best!). I sent off my first small comm sat to Duna's moon Ike along with a rover. But then, when I decoupled my large comm sat and wriggled it out between the main ship and the welded Duna rover, things went awry and I lost control over the small sat and the rover. After some troubleshooting it turns out the large comm sat had my only relay antennae, without which I can't relay control from my spare pilot on the main ship to my probes. So aside from the large comm sat that I need to guide into a polar orbit to fulfill a contract, I'm mostly dead in the water until some of my long range satellites and Kerbin come into a more favorable alignment.
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
11 years.
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
It's minor. My wife, and me by extension, are perpetually the young kids while sister in law has always been a "respected peer".
It has bugged my wife for much longer. I just don't like stirring the pot so close to home.
For me, it would be a question of what are the actual concrete real-world effects of the favoritism.
If your wife is emotionally invested in the idea that parents are supposed to love their children equally and just feels insulted... well... I acknowledge that you love and respect your wife but to be blunt, that's just not reality. Parents are going to treat their children differently and you just have to accept that.
It shouldn't be a thing that financially/logistically/physically fucks you over, like in a will, or if they demand that holiday plans totally cater to the other sibling, and so forth.
But that's just, like, my opinion, man.
Feral on
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
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Sir Landsharkresting shark faceRegistered Userregular
edited October 2016
can I get a brief review of this cover letter somebody pls
also ps cover letters are fucking dumb why is this requireddddddddddd
Enclosed please find my resume in application for a Structural Engineer position at the New York, NY office of the McLaren Engineering Group. While the past seven years of my career have been largely spent on the design and delivery of various complex bridge projects, I have still maintained and improved upon my knowledge of building design gained via the University of California Berkeley and through quality building design firms such as Degenkolb and Halvorson and Partners. I have done so via occasional, smaller projects at my current employer, personal study and through attendance of various lectures and symposia.
I look forward to discussing how my experience and accomplishments make me a strongly qualified candidate for this position with you in the near future.
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simonwolfi can feel a differencetoday, a differenceRegistered Userregular
Ammon Bundy tweeted "Free at last, Free at last, Thank God almighty we are we at last."
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
11 years.
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
It's minor. My wife, and me by extension, are perpetually the young kids while sister in law has always been a "respected peer".
It has bugged my wife for much longer. I just don't like stirring the pot so close to home.
The reasonable thing would be to just wait and complain about it at their funeral.
I've got a lifetime of no respect. My poor wife thought if she got married and had kids like her older sister she'd be on the same level...LOL what is hope!
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Sir Landsharkresting shark faceRegistered Userregular
Chat, question: my in-laws are fine, could have done so much worse. There exists a low to mid level of favoritism towards the eldest sister (not my wife). Is this worth bringing up or just roll with it? Keep in mind they are good to us despite being obviously GREAT to my sister in law.
How long have you been married?
11 years.
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
It's minor. My wife, and me by extension, are perpetually the young kids while sister in law has always been a "respected peer".
It has bugged my wife for much longer. I just don't like stirring the pot so close to home.
The reasonable thing would be to just wait and complain about it at their funeral.
I've got a lifetime of no respect. My poor wife thought if she got married and had kids like her older sister she'd be on the same level...LOL what is hope!
maybe if she had married better...
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I am going to eat my feelings, I think that will (not) help!
there lies danger my friend
just let it be
tv next to your other tv two tvs tv city tv every day two times
Give it to me, mine's broken
How long have you been married?
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
you laugh but
we have two TVs in our living room
so one person can movie while another vidjas
and it is civilization
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
who's laughing
11 years.
IT'S RIGGED.
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1OLcAGbXhWIVcl5IziVpG0eKFJS3xi_Sac9kYMkRFvD8/edit?usp=sharing
I am grading papers (just the first one so far, actually)
I have so many useless comments that aren't even going to knock down points on what I suspect is going to be one of the best papers I see
Wow. Alright.
Honestly, I don't know. How much is it impacting your life?
If it's a relatively minor impact, you can just accept it, and keep it in mind when making plans. You trust them to be consistent and that's all.
If it's a moderate impact or if you think the impact might increase in the future, you could take precautions. For example, do they have a will? Do you know if your wife and your sister-in-law are represented equitably in that will? Maybe your sister could have an end-of-life discussion with them without directly accusing them of favoritism.
If it's a major impact, then you should probably bring it up. I'm not married, but I'm reminded of an ex who I was with for quite a while. Her mother blatantly favored my 'sister-in-law' to such a degree that it really was a problem. After noticing the behavior, I spoke with my 'grandmother-in-law' and found out that it had been going on for so long that it had financially fucked my ex. That was a pretty extreme situation, and we addressed it directly, but my ex's mother was stubborn as hell about it and completely in denial.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
It sure gives precedent.
Let it be known carrying firearms to your protest is still considered peaceful and non-violent.
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This thing ain't the law. This thing is jurors, who are people. I don't understand jurors.
Well I usually play video games with the volume off and subtitles on unless I'm really invested in the audio.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Much like, y'know, freedom of speech.
Or democracy.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
(look the point is if you pull out a phone while a movie is on I will end you)
but mooom this movie is boring
It's minor. My wife, and me by extension, are perpetually the young kids while sister in law has always been a "respected peer".
It has bugged my wife for much longer. I just don't like stirring the pot so close to home.
Oh man you would die at my house.
It's pretty typical for me to be playing a vidja on one TV while occasionally checking my phone, netflix going on second TV, girlfriend with her phone out, husband on his laptop and occasionally checking his phone.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Wait what happened?
Things were going great aside from a mishap, where somehow during construction my Duna rovers heat shield ended up welded to the internode assembly of the faring (I'll chuck the whole thing into Duna later on and see what happens, hoping for the best!). I sent off my first small comm sat to Duna's moon Ike along with a rover. But then, when I decoupled my large comm sat and wriggled it out between the main ship and the welded Duna rover, things went awry and I lost control over the small sat and the rover. After some troubleshooting it turns out the large comm sat had my only relay antennae, without which I can't relay control from my spare pilot on the main ship to my probes. So aside from the large comm sat that I need to guide into a polar orbit to fulfill a contract, I'm mostly dead in the water until some of my long range satellites and Kerbin come into a more favorable alignment.
Why is he doing it or why am I disappointed?
For me, it would be a question of what are the actual concrete real-world effects of the favoritism.
If your wife is emotionally invested in the idea that parents are supposed to love their children equally and just feels insulted... well... I acknowledge that you love and respect your wife but to be blunt, that's just not reality. Parents are going to treat their children differently and you just have to accept that.
It shouldn't be a thing that financially/logistically/physically fucks you over, like in a will, or if they demand that holiday plans totally cater to the other sibling, and so forth.
But that's just, like, my opinion, man.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
also ps cover letters are fucking dumb why is this requireddddddddddd
I look forward to discussing how my experience and accomplishments make me a strongly qualified candidate for this position with you in the near future.
神は死んだ...
I've got a lifetime of no respect. My poor wife thought if she got married and had kids like her older sister she'd be on the same level...LOL what is hope!
maybe if she had married better...