Hey guys! My brother is getting married on Jan 2nd so a bachelor party is in order! :winky:
I'm having a real problem trying to figure what to do though. See the thing is that one of my brother's other groomsmen is my younger brother who is only 16. Obviously that eliminates a lot of your standard ideas, especially along the beer and boobs avenue, so I am trying to come up with something more creative and unique.
It had occured to me to try and get a stripper that comes to your house, but I'm fairly certain they come with a bouncer and I dont think he would take kindly to my other brother only being 16.
Do you guys have any ideas?
Thanks in advance!
Oh, and just fyi, I am 23, my brother that's getting married is 22, as i mentioned above my younger brother is 16 and the other groomsman is 21. None of us are opposed to having a lot of fun, though I would say I'm probably the only one who would want to keep everything (mostly) legal, if that says anything.
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I don't believe it - I'm on my THIRD PS3, and my FIRST XBOX360. What the heck?
somehow, this seems oddly do-able...
Don't keep it too legal though. Its supposed to be a celebration of extremes
As for ideas, the last party I went to did go-karts at night, which was quite fun. We also got a deal in these giant rock'em sock'em robots that we could ride inside... the groom got a free game against each groomsman in turn.
What I did for my bro's wedding was to take a small group out to a nice dinner, and then hang out at my house with a bunch of booze and games and what not all night. But my brother doesnt really like doing crazy things...
Paintball would be what I'd want to do probably, but I loooove paintball. Paintball where it was guys vs. strippers would be awesome too.
Ask the groom.
He tells you whatever he wants to do since the night (or weekend) is about him. Then you organise it.
He may want a stripper he may not. If he does call the place ask them what their policy is, see if you can get your little brother to leave the room if need be. If not ask your brother whether or not he wants him to come, I mean he may want to do a pub crawl so that means your little brother is right out, it sucks but those are the breaks.
Satans..... hints.....
This is the correct answer.
Plus I have to think some of the guys may still be reeling from December 31st fun.
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is it bad I laughed?
...with strippers
Double-limed.
This is the part I forgot to mention. It's his night. If strippers make him uncomfortable, don't go down that road. Yes, you'll probably get shit from someone else (e.g. where are the strippers, ya idiot), but just brush it off. Bottom line - the party should be enjoyable and memorable for the groom.
I don't believe it - I'm on my THIRD PS3, and my FIRST XBOX360. What the heck?
Everyone had a good time and wasn't forced to do something that they can't/won't do.
Both of us were seeing the marriage thing as less of a "loss of freedom" and more a "legal show of love." For me, personally, if I was going to have a lot of fun... I wanted my future wife to have it with me.
Which is why you should totally ask the groom. Maybe he really wants a stripper and will personally tell the 16yr old "hey man, we're gonna be partying & stuff and I'd love you to be there but it's all 'over 21' stuff, which makes it illegal for you to be there. hey, I'll make it up to you when you get married, man!" But maybe he just wants to hang out with friends or do something fun for everyone.
But show some compassion- I'd try to plan some part of it where he COULD come along and enjoy himself- you know, paintball, fishing, maybe just go out, get a load of steaks and other guy foods, gather around a grill and just shoot shit about guy things over steak and baked potatos and other "unhealthy" foods that guys like. (ribs, chicken, burgers, etc.)
I can has cheezburger, yes?
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thanks again!