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Things that go bump in the night

JadedJaded Registered User regular
edited October 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
Hopefully I can get this across without sounding crazy.

How the hell does one sleep when they hear voices, sounds and shadows moving through the house at night?

I’m not talking the sounds of neighbours dogs or the stoners next door having an argument… I am talking whispering, nearly decipherable voices… shadows that look like people, or reasonable replications.

Crazy… I know you’re all thinking it… hell I wonder myself sometimes… so much that I actually have an MRI coming up because I was worried about my mental health and went looking for medical help.
Paranoid? Definitely… maybe I need to lay off the scary movies, but damn it I love them…

Thoughts? Am I beating a dead horse? Am I doomed to nights of sleeplessness because I’m a loony?

And if it doesn’t come across, so far I am taking this fairly lightly… I just don’t want it to become mentally and physically debilitating.


Also, as has been stated in the past, alts are for pussies.

I can't think of anything clever.
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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited October 2009
    Fall asleep with the TV on?

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  • JadedJaded Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Never... I'm such a light sleeper that this wouldn't work. I used to sleep with earplugs in but I have quit that after some mischief in our area. Gotta protect the lady :)

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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited October 2009
    Are you unable to fall asleep to the TV or is it more that leaving it on would bother you? If it's the latter, I'm pretty sure any TV made in the last fifteen or twenty years has a sleep timer on it.

    I imagine something like Tylenol PM wouldn't be an option if you're not willing to try earplugs for the reason you stated, but it works exceptionally well and isn't habit-forming (though it would also be only a temporary fix).

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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited October 2009
    Alternatively, what about white noise like a fan in the room or something?

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  • JadedJaded Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Noise bad... even white nose. The light from the T.V. would drive me nuts too :(

    I know... not to helpful on my part. I've tried those solutions though.

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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited October 2009
    I think some sort of sleep aid might be your only choice. Tylenol PM is over-the-counter... but if you're thinking you might actually be nuts, I'd ask your doctor first. Not sure how it would affect an actual brain chemical imbalance-type condition.

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  • joraxjorax Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Where are the shadows coming from? Your window? Get some room darkening shades. Light coming in from under the door? Block it up with a tower. Cover up any laptops/electronics that have power lights. You won't even notice those lights during the day, but at night when your eyes adjust they can really light up a lot of your room.

    White noise will generally be better than intermittent other noises, I'd recommend trying it for a few nights and trying to get acclimated to it.

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  • NotYouNotYou Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    First off, you should totally watch the movie paranormal activity. Stuff just like you imagine. Really good movie. Might scare you :)

    Secondly, I also see things at night. They would be what people traditionally call night terrors, but I don't freak out like a lot of others do. Basically, my mind is still in it's dream state even though my eyes are open and I'm mostly awake. So sometimes I'll see spiders crawling around. Or a giant bug. Or a person. I stay calm, wave my arm through it and it dissapears.

    I guess that's my only advice. One should always remain cool and collected even if it's real and aliens really are abducting you.

    also, enjoy your hallucinations. Most people have to pay for em.

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  • BurnageBurnage Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Jaded wrote: »
    Paranoid? Definitely… maybe I need to lay off the scary movies, but damn it I love them…

    What sort of films are we talking about, here? This was the part of your post that seemed to jump out the most at me; your mind might be expecting to see things at night, if you've got a massive horror fixation. If this is causing you a lack of sleep, then the problem will almost certainly get worse - people get much more suggestible if they're fatigued.

    See what your doctor tells you post-MRI, but try sleeping pills and laying off the horror for the moment.

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  • wakkawawakkawa Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    I am fairly certain that hearing light whispering in dead silence is normal. The mind tends to wander when there is nothing else going on.

    Its why I listen to music when I paint.

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  • JadedJaded Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Burnage wrote: »
    Jaded wrote: »
    Paranoid? Definitely… maybe I need to lay off the scary movies, but damn it I love them…

    What sort of films are we talking about, here? This was the part of your post that seemed to jump out the most at me; your mind might be expecting to see things at night, if you've got a massive horror fixation. If this is causing you a lack of sleep, then the problem will almost certainly get worse - people get much more suggestible if they're fatigued.

    See what your doctor tells you post-MRI, but try sleeping pills and laying off the horror for the moment.

    I love things like Mothman Prophecies, The Strangers, Quarentine... you know, creepy movies.
    I am not a fan of hack and slash flicks... aside from the cheese factor of watching the old Nightmare on Elm Streets.

    I can't use any sleep aids, sadly... I don't feel safe and sadly an alarm isn't in the budget right now.

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  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Not to be too silly, but have you tried a night light? Seems like it might make you feel a little better.

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  • billwillbillwill Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    White noise is better than hearing whispers, am I right?

    As for the shadows, just shut your eyes tight. Or wear a blindfold.

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  • Aurora BorealisAurora Borealis runs and runs and runs away BrooklynRegistered User regular
    edited October 2009
    You might try rearranging your room- I find I sleep a lot better when my bed is facing a certain direction, so that I never turn my back on the window or door. Something about it just feel better, like I am more protected. Also I can't have any mirrors visible from my bed. I wake up and think something is moving in the room and is coming to get me. I never hang clothes in such a way that I might wake up and think it's a person. A mind is totally more susceptible to suggestion when one is half awake, so I do a bunch of little things to prevent my imagination from running away with me when that happens.

    You might also think up some sort of ritual to banish the creepy-crawlies. When I wake up with a nightmare, I decide it is because I was using the 'bad side' of the pillow, and I turn it over to the 'good side' and sleep like a rock for the rest of the night. I have done this since I was like six years old. The logical daylight part of me knows it is superstitious nonsense, but when it is 4 am and I am half asleep and terrified I'll just go back to my nightmare, believing that the pillow has a good side and a bad side makes perfect comforting sense.

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  • DeadfallDeadfall I don't think you realize just how rich he is. In fact, I should put on a monocle.Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    You might also think up some sort of ritual to banish the creepy-crawlies. When I wake up with a nightmare, I decide it is because I was using the 'bad side' of the pillow, and I turn it over to the 'good side' and sleep like a rock for the rest of the night. I have done this since I was like six years old. The logical daylight part of me knows it is superstitious nonsense, but when it is 4 am and I am half asleep and terrified I'll just go back to my nightmare, believing that the pillow has a good side and a bad side makes perfect comforting sense.

    I have nothing interesting to contribute, nor any helpful advice, but I thought this was pretty cool.

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  • billwillbillwill Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    You might try rearranging your room- I find I sleep a lot better when my bed is facing a certain direction, so that I never turn my back on the window or door. Something about it just feel better, like I am more protected. Also I can't have any mirrors visible from my bed. I wake up and think something is moving in the room and is coming to get me. I never hang clothes in such a way that I might wake up and think it's a person. A mind is totally more susceptible to suggestion when one is half awake, so I do a bunch of little things to prevent my imagination from running away with me when that happens.

    You might also think up some sort of ritual to banish the creepy-crawlies. When I wake up with a nightmare, I decide it is because I was using the 'bad side' of the pillow, and I turn it over to the 'good side' and sleep like a rock for the rest of the night. I have done this since I was like six years old. The logical daylight part of me knows it is superstitious nonsense, but when it is 4 am and I am half asleep and terrified I'll just go back to my nightmare, believing that the pillow has a good side and a bad side makes perfect comforting sense.

    Yes I do something similar.

    Its a carry-over from when I was a child, but whenever I have a bad dream or am thinking about little kid vampires wanting to attack, I like to think that my blanket is impenetrable to evil (and my head is just off-limits).

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  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Man, what is it about the universal rule that they can't get you as long as you're under the blankets? As a kid I would wake up terrified if I realized one of my feet had slipped out from under the blanket, and was therefore fair game for the monsters.

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  • GothicLargoGothicLargo Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Serious question... How old is your house, or do you rent? How long have you lived there?

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  • InvisibleInvisible Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Chanus wrote: »
    I think some sort of sleep aid might be your only choice. Tylenol PM is over-the-counter... but if you're thinking you might actually be nuts, I'd ask your doctor first. Not sure how it would affect an actual brain chemical imbalance-type condition.

    Tylenol PM won't work every night as you sort of build up a resistance to it. For me it'll work two nights in a row, but third night nothing. Also rapid release is better than other types unless you take them like two hours before you plan on falling asleep.

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  • TerrendosTerrendos Decorative Monocle Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    How old are you? If I remember my Psych 101 class schizophrenia tends to kick in in late teens/early twenties. It's not very likely, but if you start hearing voices all the time it might be something to get checked out just in case.

    I also recall a medical condition (unfortunately the name eludes me) that my grandmother had and my father gets occasionally. The short version is that in really complete silence, the brain gets bored, and sometimes it sort of "makes up" noises for you to hear. In my grandmother's case, it sounded like old music of the kind she used to listen to, and my Dad said it sounds kind of like a really quiet radio talk show you can't quite hear. This is more likely the case, especially if you live somewhere really quiet (i.e. the country).

    Really though, there's no reason not to go see a doctor if these persist when you stop watching scary movies. At the very least he might be able to prescribe you some better sleep aides.

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  • SliderSlider Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Tell the voices to be quiet, you're trying to sleep.

    In all seriousness, I've fallen asleep with the television on. It works. I prefer movies, like, Tron or The Goonies, though...but I can fall asleep to any movie.

    To solve the "light" issue, just pull your covers high enough so they block the direct contact to your eyes.

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  • FiggyFiggy Fighter of the night man Champion of the sunRegistered User regular
    edited October 2009
    The noises could be related to tinnitus, and I believe the only thing you can do for that is use white noise to sleep.

    For the shadows, look into getting black-out curtains, which would make your room literally pitch black.

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  • admanbadmanb unionize your workplace Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Jaded wrote: »
    I love things like Mothman Prophecies, The Strangers, Quarentine... you know, creepy movies.
    I am not a fan of hack and slash flicks... aside from the cheese factor of watching the old Nightmare on Elm Streets.

    I can't use any sleep aids, sadly... I don't feel safe and sadly an alarm isn't in the budget right now.

    I can't help but feel that the fact that you don't feel safe when locked up, at night, in your own house, may have something to do with the stuff that's keeping you awake.

    Just an observation.

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  • oncelingonceling Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    I would get a sleep study done, this is what it sounds like to me:

    http://neurology.health-cares.net/hypnagogic-hallucination.php

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  • Caveman PawsCaveman Paws Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Low budget suggestion: Turn the lights off in your house [yes at night] and start walking around. Walk into every room, hallway, etc and keep doing it until your bored. Go to bed. When the dark stops being spooky and becomes mundane it makes it that much harder for your imagination to put "things" out there to scare you.

    Or if there are actual sounds to be heard, hearing them from different rooms might reveal their [hopefully not demonic] source.

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  • JadedJaded Registered User regular
    edited October 2009
    Sorry, just got to work, will update with answers to your questions from last night:

    Aurora:
    Not a lot of oppertunity to rearrange the bedroom due to the size of it in relation to the bed my girlfriend and I share. If we were to face the bed away from windows the headboard would block out our view. I supose it's possible, I'd just have to draw it out. :)

    Darkewolfe:
    That's exactly the way I feel at times. That something is going to grab me or tug me out of bed if everything aside from my head isn't under the blankets.

    GothicLargo:
    House is ~100 years old I believe, I own the home (well, rather the bank owns it til I pay them back) and we've lived there for a year.

    Terrendos:
    30 years old.

    Slider:
    Tried to fall asleep to Dog The Bounty Hunter last night, as boring as that show is, still no dice.

    Admanb:
    It's not so much what's outside the house, as much as what could be inside the house. ;)

    Caveman Paws:
    This is a damn good idea, it'll be tough doing the basement and upstairs as they scare the hell out of me normally... it's just a bad vibe going down (or up) there.

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  • a5ehrena5ehren AtlantaRegistered User regular
    edited October 2009
    If you don't feel safe in your home, your body may not be letting you sleep. Do what you need to do to feel safe, and it should help.

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