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Condom Breakage
alt256
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Hey so this is an alt account, just a bit of an embarrassing problem. So my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time last night (first time with eachother that is) and it went well for the most part, she orgasmed multiple times, I finished, an all around enjoyable experience blah blah blah. The thing is, I was using Trojan extra-sensitive (re: thin I believe) lubricated condoms and I had the first one break on me about 50 minutes in (we went about an hour). Luckily I hadn't ejaculated and she's on birth control so nothing to panic about, but it really scares me since I've never had this happen before. I'm unsure of the reasons, we'd been having some pretty vigorous sex but it was reasonably lubricated (she was wet, condoms are lubed), so I can't see breakage occuring just over that. I had had the condom in my wallet for about a week beforehand but I've heard that that is an acceptable period of time. So HA, despite the fact no damage has been done and she seemed pretty unconcerned, what might be to blame here/what are my options? Are ultra-sensitive a bad idea, was wallet heat to blame, etc?
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Next time dont leave your condom in your wallet and use some KY
Yeah I was about to say just this. Keep it anywhere but your wallet buddy.
EDIT: I use normal trojans and me and my girl can go for silly amounts of time and never had one break. Give those a go next time for the extra long sessions.
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did it fit well? had you left a lil space at the tip and squeezed out the air bubble?
Ya I'm pretty anal when it comes to that, I had definitely put it on right. I'm thinking that going for normal thickness and KY for extended periods might be a good idea as the others said, I just can't believe one week in a wallet can have that effect.
Yeah the body heat over a period fucks the latex up good. Crazy huh?
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you were doing everything else right but that
I don't know about most, but condoms make me go for way longer than I think I can. It's kind of tiring sometimes.
My record is 2 - 2 1/2 hours, but I was drunk as a skunk on all occasions.
It's worth remembering that your girlfriend will say it was great, but when she's your wife she'll complain about the chafing. Women are fickle, they'll say anything is great until they get that ring.
Make it good for her but don't think you have to go all night. You can get off regardless but she can have a good time just with the action - but that isn't to say that your ultimate goat shouldn't be her pleasure first.
Inside both your and her nightstands?
Yeah dude I was like oh, damn.
Hopefully condoms have that effect or else I am a pretty underwhelming human being
Yes, and you're usually nervous the first few times...I guess. I never use condoms.
that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
Nightstand, overnight bag (with my toothbrush and contact lens stuff), that small pocket on a backpack that holds nothing else worthwhile, glove compartment in both cars.
These are the places the wife and I keep ours.
No man should have that kind of power.(Twitter)
that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
That was going to be my first suggestion to avoid future concerns.