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Gammarah

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Sheep

Just be cool dude.

L|ama

Make sure she knows you're a virgin beforehand.

Gammarah

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Trillian

Yeah, basically.
It's not that big a deal, really.

Nappuccino

Even if you fuck it up because you're too nervous she's bound to understand. And if she does there'll be a next time and another next time. Pretty much the best way to not be nervious is to be used to doing it.

If you tell her that and maybe she'll help you out, if you know what I mean :winky:

cooljammer00

She knows you're a virgin? And she's into it?

Shit dude, the hardest part is over.

Taranis

Don't beat yourself up if your performance is less than stellar.

admanb

cooljammer00 wrote: »

She knows you're a virgin? And she's into it?

Shit dude, the hardest part is over.

Just have fun. The only thing you can do wrong is get really worried about it.

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Susan Delgado

Definitely go with the flow...but at the same time, be prepared...make sure you use protection and if you haven't already, practice putting the condom on so that you're not nervous about that part when it comes down to sexy times.

Ryadic

I was always told to masturbate a bit before hand. It'll help you last a bit longer. But then again, it's your first time and she knows it. I'm sure she won't care if you last 30 seconds, because it'll be expected.

But yeah, just relax. Make sure you use a condom. And above all else, have fun.

Nocren

For the most part, you'll probably think you did bad the first time.

My advice: Take a breather, maybe a glass of water/gatorade, grab a second condom and go for round two.

Sir Carcass

Be prepared to either not finish or finish in about 30 seconds.

SkyCaptain

Ryadic wrote: »

I was always told to masturbate a bit before hand. It'll help you last a bit longer. But then again, it's your first time and she knows it. I'm sure she won't care if you last 30 seconds, because it'll be expected.

But yeah, just relax. Make sure you use a condom. And above all else, have fun.

I've heard that advice as well, but it was before going on a date with the girl.

rfalias

Nocren wrote: »

For the most part, you'll probably think you did bad the first time.

My advice: Take a breather, maybe a glass of water/gatorade, grab a second condom and go for round two.

No doubt. Hit it up for round 3 even. :winky:

Dalboz

Yeah, don't be nervous. I know that this is kind of like saying "Don't think about elephants," but let me continue. Nerves can be a real boner killer. A little foreplay can do wonders for relaxing a bit. Maybe start by asking her to give you massage. It can be relaxing, help loosen you up, and you can start feeling used to the heavier physical contact (I don't know how far you two have gone so far).

Also, remember that sex isn't like the movies. Sometimes, weird stuff happens. You wind up with your arm in the wrong place and accidentally pulling her hair. While kissing an ex while we were getting in the mood once, I didn't feel it coming up and wound up burping into her mouth. Shit happens. Don't let the little stuff throw you off, and go with the flow. Laugh it off. Let it be fun.

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Rubix42

Don't be worried if you gush in like 15 seconds. Chances are you will, but because it's your first time your adrenaline and excitement will keep you "at attention"

Demerdar

I'd rather gush in 30 seconds than not cum at all.

Good luck, and hopefully the former happens rather than the latter. :^:

Chanus

You'll do fine.

The first time is always awkward and sloppy and over really quickly... so you give it about 20 minutes (you're seventeen) and go at it again. The more you do it, the better it gets.

And wear a fucking rubber.

Awk

Finger her before intercourse, it will help a lot. Also, get her to suck your dick just a bit with the condom on to lubricate the condom as well, if she's willing, of course.

Sir Carcass

Chanus wrote: »

The first time is always awkward and sloppy and over really quickly...

Not always. My first time we went for about 2 hours before I finally had to just finish myself off. It happens that way for some people.

DasBoot

Chanus wrote: »

You'll do fine.

The first time is always awkward and sloppy and over really quickly... so you give it about 20 minutes (you're seventeen) and go at it again. The more you do it, the better it gets.

And wear a fucking rubber.

Limed for the don't be stupid. If you have to wait an extra day to be safe, wait an extra day.

Relax, weird stuff happens. My first time around the trojan came off inside. I don't know how it happened, but it was totally awkward. Chances are you'll have more than one run at it so don't worry about performance- just be professional about it, and if you last 30 seconds make sure you finish her by other means.

clearsimpleplain

Sex takes practice. I've heard people talk candidly about their first time being stellar (my wife, for example, who has no reason to lie since it wasn't me), but for me, it was terrible; I eventually didn't cum and we called it an evening to try again some other time. Even once I had sort of learned how to intercourse, I discovered with some horror that I preferred the feeling of masturbation. This went away with time; not sure when, but it's now years (and lots of sex) later, and sex is fantastic/everything it's cracked up to be and it's been literally years since a disappointing sexual experience.

Like I (everyone) said, it takes practice. You learn as you go; that's why losing your V-Card is important, you're giving that cautious learning time to someone where you're just discovering yourself.

Space Pickle

just be professional about it

ROFL

I get what you're saying, but that's a funny choice of words.

underdonk

Have fun!

Honestly, at least in my experience, sex usually isn't the most awesome at the beginning of a relationship anyway. It's not stellar until each party gets to know what the other likes/dislikes, becomes comfortable with the other person, knows what turns them on/off, etc. That doesn't come without a lot of practice.

BoGs

Don't worry it'll be fine just relax you don't want stress . Remember use protection and you are bound to f it up someway but if she cares she'll just be no worries. And like some people have said it takes practice and well it cannot be worse then my first time ... lol

Gammarah wrote: »

Thanks for all the advice guys, between the forum and talking to her I'm not nervous at all anymore (maybe a little). I think we'll have fun even if I only last for like half a minute :P. I should probably practice putting on a condom seeing as I've never done that before so I won't be all inept and embarassing during. I'll keep all of your advice in mind.

Dalboz

underdonk wrote: »

Have fun!

Honestly, at least in my experience, sex usually isn't the most awesome at the beginning of a relationship anyway. It's not stellar until each party gets to know what the other likes/dislikes, becomes comfortable with the other person, knows what turns them on/off, etc. That doesn't come without a lot of practice.

Yeah, you've probably heard this before, but communication is a really big part of the experience and enhances is tenfold. I know it can seem awkward at first talking with her about what she likes, what you like, etc., especially in the heat of the moment and you don't have experience in things like that, but if you get over that, it truly makes the experience a whole lot better.

Cristo

Just thank the Gods above your first time is with someone who isn't a virgin.

I've heard from some people that when both parties are virgins, it's quite awkward.

That reminds me. I know I'm a virgin, but I don't know whether the girl I'm seeing is as well and they way things are going I could imagine us having sex relatively soon. Cripes!

retrovm

cooljammer00 wrote: »

She knows you're a virgin? And she's into it?

Shit dude, the hardest part is over.

lol this.