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I know I'm probably being absured but...
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Okay, to get right to the point, earlier today my girlfriend and I were making out and got kind of touchy-feely. So speed up about a half an hour, she's in the process of giving me a handjob when to encourage to go faster I start touching her. The only problem with that is the hand I used to touch her with was the one I used to touch my penis to help her get motion going well for the handjob. I'm pretty sure my hand had some pre-cum on it. I barely entered her vaginal canal with my finger (awkward positioning prevented any more). What I want to know is, is there any real chance of pregnancy for her? I don't think there is, and neither does she, but its been bothering me since it happened. Also, she started getting a little worried and cautious about it, so decided to get some morning after pills just in case. While it has had the bright side-effect of making us think more about what we are doing etc, it has caused some stress for us.
I had urinated before we had done anything, so that was clear of sperm and all that. So tl:dr I'm freaking out over probably nothing, but am wondering what the actual chances are of her getting pregnant from what had happened.
Thanks PA forums for listening to my freaking out rant, and any help is much appreciated!
Edit: and to add to this absurdity and awkwardness, we are both college age freshmen.
I had urinated before we had done anything, so that was clear of sperm and all that. So tl:dr I'm freaking out over probably nothing, but am wondering what the actual chances are of her getting pregnant from what had happened.
Thanks PA forums for listening to my freaking out rant, and any help is much appreciated!
Edit: and to add to this absurdity and awkwardness, we are both college age freshmen.
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But if her period is late you should pick up some lottery tickets while you're out getting pregnancy tests, because god damn.
No, there is no chance. Not even slim.
This is good. To be honest, her chances of getting pregnant after you barely entered her vaginal canal with a finger that may have had a little sf on it are pretty much astronomically low. It is possible to transmit sperm via precum (which is why the withdrawal method is the stupidest thing on the planet), but it's nowhere near as likely.
The Morning After Pill will be great for some peace of mind, and to lessen the already incredibly remote chance she has of getting pregnant though.
It would be a good idea to talk about it with her for a little bit, and from now on always have some kind of protection nearby so you'll be safe when you decide to take it to the next level.
When it comes to sperm and vagina, I make it a policy of never saying never. It's remote as fuck though, which is why I suggested the lottery tickets.
Also, you'd probably want to watch out for multiple lightning strikes.
Yeah, we did talk about how we were going to act last night, which included not fooling around as much, and being more cautious when we did fool around.
I feel kind of bad about her taking the morning after pill even though it was her idea, because of the side affects. Chances of bleeding and a period coming slightly later and maybe more intense.
First off, do what's comfortable for both of you, if that means cooling things down for a while, fine. But don't stop enjoying yourself out of fear, especially when there's steps you can take to be safe AND have fun.
Precum, does not contain sperm. If it does, it's insignificant.
Where the rumour comes from is if you have recently ejaculated and are going for round 2, there might be some sperm in there from the urethra. However, as the above study found, those guys are immobile, and don't pose a pregnancy risk. However, precum can contain HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. This is why you need to be careful.
As for messing around, you can use condoms even if you aren't planning on having sex. Used correctly, your chance of pregnancy/STDs drops from, 'pretty much impossible', to 'Someone alert the medical community, the craziest shit just happened and someones gonna make some money publishing it'. The other great thing about using condoms when just messing around is, little to no clean up. You guys can chill on the couch get all touchy feely, stroke and rub anything you want, and when it's done, no one has to clean their pants, or try to get that awkward stain out of the couch cushion. Lastly, if you already have condoms on hand, and are used to using them, should you decide to have sex, you're ready to play the game safely.
I have never, in all my almost 33 years, EVER heard of anyone outside of prostitutes using condoms for "just messing around".
Now you have. My high school GF and I did so we didn't mess up her dads car. But that was not out of fear of pregnancy, it was out of fear of me getting chased down the street by her dad.
To put it bluntly, having someone's hand on your dick feels great. Having someone's hand on your dick while you're wearing a condom feels good, but nowhere near as good as bare contact.
I mean, to each his own, and it is a great way to avoid cleanup for the guy (you still may be looking at an issue with the lady as well, depending on her particular biology), but messing around is generally about getting closer to one another and making each other feel good.
Having to figure out a method to deal with ejaculate sucks, but it's the price you pay for that fantastic orgasm feeling.
Having a chick rub out you into a condom in the back of her dad's car is one thing, but if these two are in college then they may have dorms or bedrooms or some sort of private area (since they were fooling around on a couch), so they don't have to be so paranoid. Grab a towel.
The dude just said you can, and only in response to the suggestion that only the GF start using birth control. Everyone can stop panicking now.
A method which would significantly reduce the pleasure gained while fooling around.
Maybe someday you'll grow a penis, but until then accept the fact that you're a little out of your league when you're discussing them.
If you're engaging in activities that are unsafe unless your girlfriend is on the pill, suit up. Trust me, the pill is not infallible.
And precum can carry non-trivial amounts of sperm if you've recently ejaculated.
CUZ THERE'S SOMETHING IN THE MIDDLE AND IT'S GIVING ME A RASH
Lol, that was a joke she made about it the other day. I would totally insist to name it that too.
Well, she decided to not get the morning after pill, which I'm kind of glad about, cause after reading this thread and doing research myself, it is most likely unecessary, and would maybe cause un-needed stress for her.
This is also the first time this has ever been a problem, as how we've done it the last few times (since we've started pleasing each other like this), I've done her first, and then she does me, to avoid any contact issues. The only problem we've run into before is actually about how she can't get me off in any decent time, because for some reason, it takes a longer time for me to come. I dunno if its something she's doing or something I'm doing but it normally takes me about twice as long as her.
it's pretty common for a dude to have a hard time getting off when someone else is masturbating him. Many dudes actually hate getting handies because despite all belief to the contrary, guys aren't usually just happy with "grab it and tug"
and to be fair, most women don't have the practice that most men do when it comes to pumping the old water spout
everyone has their preferred tug style
And as much as people are giving you crap for even asking, it's GOOD to be cautious with this sort of thing. Just make sure you research before trying stupid crap or getting freaked out about stuff. Example: apparently women used to use Coca-Cola as a douche for makeshift birth control. Hint: this is not a good idea.