why do some stick in the "outbox" for long periods of time?
is there somethign I should be doing?
I have ones from days upon days ago that never went out. Sometimes I'm trying to contact a mod about something time-important, and i have to just watch it sit there...
Can someone just explain to me how it all works, and why I still have pm's stuck in my outbox?
Posts
as in, they ARE getting them... but they'll stay there until they're read?
Correct
Anything in the outbox with a pink icon has not been read by the person you sent it to
Are they lost somewhere on the web?
Well, if he deleted them from his outbox before you read them(which is why they'd be in the outbox), they don't get sent to the person.