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Back to school.. but I dont like it

RynaRyna Registered User regular
edited March 2010 in Help / Advice Forum
Ok, so I hate my retail job, so I enrolled at uni in a post grad course in Business Administration, in the hope of getting a better education, blah blah blah get a better occupation.

I've been doing this subject 'Accounting for Management' while working full time for a few weeks, and.. it aint my cup of tea. I finished a bachelor of comp science degree right out of High school, but because I really didn't want to program, I fucked it off as experience and joined the workforce.

hmmm.. I guess, I'm asking if its OK to quit if what I'm studying is not what I want to do and is boring to all hell. When I think of 'quitting' it just feels so wrong...

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  • Grid SystemGrid System Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    You do yourself no favours by sticking with something you dislike.

    If you decided to try to fix a faucet and discovered partway through the process that it was harder than you thought and you didn't have all of the tools you needed, would you keep trying fix it?

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Ryna wrote: »
    Ok, so I hate my retail job, so I enrolled at uni in a post grad course in Business Administration, in the hope of getting a better education, blah blah blah get a better occupation.
    I've been doing this subject 'Accounting for Management' while working full time for a few weeks, and.. it aint my cup of tea. I finished a bachelor of comp science degree right out of High school, but because I really didn't want to program, I fucked it off as experience and joined the workforce.

    hmmm.. I guess, I'm asking if its OK to quit if what I'm studying is not what I want to do and is boring to all hell. When I think of 'quitting' it just feels so wrong...

    This part stuck out to me.

    From everything I heard, any education after college is something you shouldn't do lightly. I thought about going for a MBA for the same reasons as you, but I know that I wouldn't do great in it because it's not my passion, it's not something I could imagine doing.

    Sounds like you're facing the same problems. I say think long and hard why you actually want to do this, and if you don't come to a good conclusion just quit.

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  • ScooterScooter Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Do you even know what you want to do once you get that degree? You've already got a bachelor's, so it's not like you need it to get out of retail right now. There's not going to be some magical 'awesome job' that drops in your lap once you get that, that you couldn't try getting now.

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  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    edited March 2010
    If you have to go back to school, always do it with a goal in mind. If you don't have one right now and really hate it and can't see where this is going, then don't waste any more money till you do know.

    Did you even like business to begin with? What made you think that was the program for you?

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  • Bionic MonkeyBionic Monkey Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited March 2010
    If you don't enjoy doing this work for school, why do you think you'll enjoy doing this work for the rest of your life?

    Quit, but start thinking about something that you'll actually enjoy. Sometimes you won't always realize what you want to do right away. I'm 30, and just now headed back to school to become an EMT.

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  • SaammielSaammiel Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    If you don't enjoy doing this work for school, why do you think you'll enjoy doing this work for the rest of your life?

    To be fair, the class he is unsure about is Accounting for Managers. No one likes accounting except accountants. But some of the knowledge is necessary for managers to at least understand (in theory at least, when it hits reality everything goes to hell, but alas).
    Quit, but start thinking about something that you'll actually enjoy. Sometimes you won't always realize what you want to do right away. I'm 30, and just now headed back to school to become an EMT.

    On the other hand, if nothing in business at all interests him, getting an MBA seems like a waste of time and money. So it is hard to tell from the OP whether it is just accounting, or business in general. If it is just accounting, welp they are going to have to just power through and learn to do unpleasant things for a long term payoff.

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  • LewishamLewisham Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    So you hate retail, you hate computer science, and you hate your current postgrad degree.

    Exactly what do you like?

    It sounds to me what you don't actually like is working, which is a different problem altogether. I am presuming you took none of your education choices lightly.

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  • RynaRyna Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    I briefly had a job as a Admin/personal assistant, and management looked like a fairly interesting pathway. I read somewhere that all you need is a certificate in BA and you could slide into a government position with nice pay.

    Truth is I have no fucking idea what I want to do with my life, and at the age of 30, its starting to get me worried. I've done plenty of those career assessment courses and the results are generally either

    - something creative/design oriented
    - some type of people oriented position (this is where I got business administration)

    I did one just the other day where after answering a thousand agree/disagree/indifferent questions, it came up with your ideal career. That ideal career? said I should be an Actor or Performer...

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  • RynaRyna Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Lewisham wrote: »
    So you hate retail, you hate computer science, and you hate your current postgrad degree.

    Exactly what do you like?

    It sounds to me what you don't actually like is working, which is a different problem altogether. I am presuming you took none of your education choices lightly.

    Like?.. hmmm

    Well, I'm a gamer, computer and tabletop. that doesn't really help.
    I do have an interest in PC hardware.. I was thinking maybe of exploring the career opportunities in this

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  • MindLibMindLib Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    It's a misnomer is that you have to rush your education. I know three people who got a Bachelors or Masters after they were 40, and all are happy with their respective places in life, make a good or great amount of money, were able to put their kids through college, build a nest egg, etc... If it takes that long to figure it out...it takes that long. Just try not to waste time and money in the mean time.

    I think you're best off doing things that you like that can be turned into or be a part of a career curriculum. Try to become serious about a passion. This is no easy task and may take time, but hey life's an adventure right?

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Ryna wrote: »
    That ideal career? said I should be an Actor or Performer...
    Well, did you ever act? Maybe you should look into it. At least as a hobby. You're young, you'll have to hang around planet earth for at least a few more decades. You might as well enjoy your time here, you know.

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  • RynaRyna Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Aldo wrote: »
    Ryna wrote: »
    That ideal career? said I should be an Actor or Performer...
    Well, did you ever act? Maybe you should look into it. At least as a hobby. You're young, you'll have to hang around planet earth for at least a few more decades. You might as well enjoy your time here, you know.

    Never acted, but have been involved in a few Neil Simon plays in the role of Assistant stage manager. But I guess I'm looking for a stable career. The actors I've known were great, and even then were on the bottom rung. I can tell you I ain't no Zac Efron in looks, or Alec Guinness in ability, so a successful career in the field of acting seems nonsensical.

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  • ihmmyihmmy Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    If your Business place is anything like mine was, Management Accounting is just one course you have to take. That and Financial Accounting were the two most boring classes I have ever had to take. Everything else has at least had some sort of application in my current office-monkey job

    Creative/design-oriented - what about graphics designer? I don't mean for art-purposes, but for businesses, for a print company or somesuch.

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Ryna wrote: »
    Aldo wrote: »
    Ryna wrote: »
    That ideal career? said I should be an Actor or Performer...
    Well, did you ever act? Maybe you should look into it. At least as a hobby. You're young, you'll have to hang around planet earth for at least a few more decades. You might as well enjoy your time here, you know.

    Never acted, but have been involved in a few Neil Simon plays in the role of Assistant stage manager. But I guess I'm looking for a stable career. The actors I've known were great, and even then were on the bottom rung. I can tell you I ain't no Zac Efron in looks, or Alec Guinness in ability, so a successful career in the field of acting seems nonsensical.

    That's why I said "At least as a hobby", it seems like your main goal in work is to get rich. So you have to have something to spend that money on. If you have an uninteresting 9 to 5 job you should have fun things to do from 5 to 9 to make up for it. Be it acting, fucking ridiculously hot women, going on long vacations all over the world, crashing Lamborginis, starting a fantastic charity or any other hobby that can bring you some fulfilment in life.

    I mean, you seem set on just getting a degree on something that lands you a boring well-paying job. Most other people I advice to go for a degree into something they enjoy, but so far you've been shooting down all suggestions and only talked about careers that get you a lot of money and hardly about your own interests.

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  • illigillig Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Ryna wrote: »
    hmmm.. I guess, I'm asking if its OK to quit if what I'm studying is not what I want to do and is boring to all hell. When I think of 'quitting' it just feels so wrong...

    sure, the world needs ditch diggers, burger flippers, and retail workers too

    you gonna be happy doing that for the rest of your life?

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  • RynaRyna Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Aldo wrote: »
    I mean, you seem set on just getting a degree on something that lands you a boring well-paying job. Most other people I advice to go for a degree into something they enjoy, but so far you've been shooting down all suggestions and only talked about careers that get you a lot of money and hardly about your own interests.

    It's true, I admit thats why I chose a cert in BA. A year or so study, get an easy job that pays well. But I misunderstood the study part. Shitloads of reading, groupwork, analyzing 300 page financial statements, and we're only a few weeks into the course. I probably could have done it back when I was fresh out of uni the first time, but now I just don't care about what I'm trying to learn.

    I'm looking at a few community college courses that kinda piqued my interest:

    Diploma of Computer Systems Engineering - still with the computers, but hardware more than software
    Diploma of Human Resources Management - working with people, making sure they're treated right..

    As a kid I was always messing around with those electronic kits. Maybe I'll look into some electronic trade

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Reading, groupwork and digging through reports is par of the course for most office work, I'm afraid.

    I'm glad you're really thinking about it and what other options you have. Office work is just one thing you can do, sitting behind desks certainly is not for everyone, even though it's made out to be that way some times.

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  • Sir Headless VIISir Headless VII Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Ryna wrote: »
    It's true, I admit thats why I chose a cert in BA. A year or so study, get an easy job that pays well. But I misunderstood the study part. Shitloads of reading, groupwork, analyzing 300 page financial statements, and we're only a few weeks into the course. I probably could have done it back when I was fresh out of uni the first time, but now I just don't care about what I'm trying to learn.

    What I am hearing you say is "I wan't an easy well paying job and I don't want to do any work at all to get it". This is simple, if you really want this easy unfulfilling high paying job that you current study will apparently get you clamp down and do the work. If not find something you do want to do and work towards that.

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  • acidlacedpenguinacidlacedpenguin Institutionalized Safe in jail.Registered User regular
    edited March 2010
    Have you tried doing an Information Technology course in a community college? Generally they're like 1 to 2 years long and get you started into a career working with computers/networks/etc.


    hell with a BCS you might be able to forgo the community college all together.

    edit: and there are plenty of other computer science related jobs that don't require programming.

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