Okay first of all, if this thread is inapropriate for SE++ please excuse me and feel free to close or move it. I just thought people here are actually a bit more down to earth than the people in H/A. At any rate, that place is somewhat scary.
I broke up with my girlfriend of two and half years the day before yesterday, or rather she broke up with me. All the emotional trouble this brings aside, there are other, more immediate problems I now have to deal with. Mainly this involves getting a new apartment, either for me alone or in a sharing-community.
After thinking this through, my options are as follows:
a) Have my parents pay half of the rent for [strike]our[/strike] my current apartment
b) Find a single-room one closer to the city
c) Find a room in an apartment-sharing-community (I hope this is the right word)
Old apartment
Pros:
- Awesome kitchen
- Awesome broadband
- Lots of room for a single person
- Nice landlady
- Privacy
Cons:
- Somewhat expensive
- In the middle of fucking nowhere, so about an hour every day just to get to Uni and very little in the way of supermarkets and such
- Due to this I have very little contact with other people and just going to a bar or something is very problematic due to the long-ass way home
- Next to no furniture once my ex is gone. All in all I currently own a table and a couple of shelves
- Maybe TOO MUCH room for a single person (2 1/2 rooms)
New apartment for me alone
Pros:
- Hopefully IN the goddamn city
- Would be awesome for me as a bachelor
- Better possibilities of going out or having people visit me ( :winky: )
- Less furniture needed
Cons:
- Hard to find
- Expensive
- Questionable internet access (Depends on which part of the city, either it's shit or it's fine, no in between)
- Probably no great kitchen, but at least it'd be my own
Flat share apartment
Pros:
- New people, whoo!
- Relatively easy to find
- IN the city
- Single room of decent size might be perfect for me
- A bit cheaper than the old apartment
- Less furniture needed for a single room
Cons:
- New people, boo! (You know how it is...)
- Terrible, shitty kitchens
- Internet probably sucks because there is always one douche who leeches porn all day
- Little privacy, especially for... intimate stuff
So yea, tell me what you think SE++.
Maybe some of you were in a similar situation, how did you deal with it?
I would like to pause for a moment, to talk about my penis.
My penis is like a toddler. A toddler—who is a perfectly normal size for his age—on a long road trip to what he thinks is Disney World. My penis is excited because he hasn’t been to Disney World in a long, long time, but remembers a time when he used to go every day. So now the penis toddler is constantly fidgeting, whining “Are we there yet? Are we there yet? How about now? Now? How about... now?”
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
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convenience and proximity to lots of shit to do, better transit, and stuff like that will always win out for me
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
then mail the tape to your ex with a smileyface on the envelope
Steam
This will be here until I receive an apology or Weedlordvegeta get any consequences for being a bully
But I don't know what makes me happy! Capitalist culture industry has made me a weak-willed sheep!
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
this.
also hi favs
Drink, hang with friends, do something stupid. Recover. Repeat. It gets easier over time.
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hey midoinitrite?
Bascially you are mooching off them for no real gain.
If you can afford it off your own dime stay in the apartment.
If you can't go room with some people. Despite you being bummed forcing yourself to socialise will be a good thing.
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Steam
hi
Stuff like Craiglist doesn't apply, I'm in Germany.
Rushed... Well since my parents are willing to help me out with the rent (~450€/Month, they pay half of it) I'm probably not that rushed. However, finding a place to stay is pretty goddamn hard around here. 98% of all apartments in use, all the time and it'll only get worse once the new semester starts. So IF I decide to move out I should do it until about the middle of august.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
At the end of the day. You can still cook food in a small kitchen. It's just a bit more cramped. My first kitchen was the size of my mattress and I still was ok in there.
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It's not as serious as it seems. At least I think it is. So I thought SE++ might be a better place. One half of H/A would probably tell me to murder my GF or something.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
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Oh you should do that actually.
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Yea, I feel bad for mooching off but then again that's what parents are for, right?
I drove 300km today so I could talk this over with them. My mother bought me a bottle of fine single malt whisky to cheer me up, heh. :P
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
He'll need two buddies to help him out. One dumbass slacker who means well but fucks up until the very end where he saves the day in some random way and the bad ass cool guy who has no business being friends with them but has a heart of gold so he's solid.
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This might actually work. I know exactly the people for this.
However, none of them would drive across half of Germany (Which is not a long drive from west to east, actually) because, well, the Slacker has no money and The Cool Guy is afraid of the autobahn or something.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
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and a hair cut and a real job
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Not when you can just move some place you can actually afford.
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Anyway, the problem is for single-rooms you pretty much have to pay an agent to find you shit and honestly I don't want to pay some douche just to open the fucking door for me. I could, of course, but it feels like a ripoff.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
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Fuck this gay ass city.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
Tell her too bad, you are broken up now.
Think of it this way.
You are willing to let your parents pay several thousand eruos to let you live in a place that is too big for you, too far away and will end up with you being overly lonely.
Wasting money is all relative here.
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I'll give you my kid for free. He's 5, so no baby nonsense, sleepless nights, and birth. Also, feel free to smack him around when he's mouthy, I'm all for it.
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That is of course true enough.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
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I know you are probably exaggerating but this is not true
This will be here until I receive an apology or Weedlordvegeta get any consequences for being a bully
I still remember that one thread where H/A told some girl to break up with ther boyfriend because he shoved her. People over there can be a bit... drastic.
And Disney World is nowhere in sight.
Yeah... There's no crime if it leaves no sign.
8-)
As long as they're people you know and/or trust of course.