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Racist Dad Chat: Tell Me About Ya Fam
Faynor
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Hello I am making a thread oh isn't this exciting!!
Well, recently, I came out to my parents as ~bisexual~. It was kind of a bad moment because we were already arguing and it just sort of came out because of the hateful things my dad was saying (like, "I drink so much because you are my son", that was kind of a bummer I guess. I also said mean things probably I don't know this isn't really about that). For example, the preceding line to me telling my father was "It sickens me that you are tolerant of the n-wurds, muslims, and queers and believe that they can do whatever they want." (I kind of just stopped listening and heard "It sickens me that you are tolerant . . . " but wev)
Anyway, since then, I've heard lots of enlightening things that I had no idea about. For example!
1) Gay people cannot be monogamous as a whole. They are few and far between if it is possible.
2) All gay people are sexually deviant.
3) All gay people are healthier because gay people care about their health more (so that's kind of cool I guess!!!)
4) I think a quote with this one would be better. "I truly believe that there are no good muslims. They are all radical and they will blow you up." In the same vein, "I've had more interaction with middle eastern men than you'll ever have, and I can tell you that they are completely rude as a whole."
5) this image about covers it.
In between all this stuff they've told me that still love me and it's just kind of disappointing or whatever, so I'm pretty fine I guess.
Anywho, my great forum populace, how is your relationship w/ your parents? Have you called your mother lately? What has your dad said recently? Dish, girl!
Well, recently, I came out to my parents as ~bisexual~. It was kind of a bad moment because we were already arguing and it just sort of came out because of the hateful things my dad was saying (like, "I drink so much because you are my son", that was kind of a bummer I guess. I also said mean things probably I don't know this isn't really about that). For example, the preceding line to me telling my father was "It sickens me that you are tolerant of the n-wurds, muslims, and queers and believe that they can do whatever they want." (I kind of just stopped listening and heard "It sickens me that you are tolerant . . . " but wev)
Anyway, since then, I've heard lots of enlightening things that I had no idea about. For example!
1) Gay people cannot be monogamous as a whole. They are few and far between if it is possible.
2) All gay people are sexually deviant.
3) All gay people are healthier because gay people care about their health more (so that's kind of cool I guess!!!)
4) I think a quote with this one would be better. "I truly believe that there are no good muslims. They are all radical and they will blow you up." In the same vein, "I've had more interaction with middle eastern men than you'll ever have, and I can tell you that they are completely rude as a whole."
5) this image about covers it.
In between all this stuff they've told me that still love me and it's just kind of disappointing or whatever, so I'm pretty fine I guess.
Anywho, my great forum populace, how is your relationship w/ your parents? Have you called your mother lately? What has your dad said recently? Dish, girl!
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Me and my dad both thoroughly enjoy a good shit-talking. Usually over cards/bourbon.
i'm not a girl that is not how sexuality works liiya!!
Boy.
why thank you
but yeah as much as I love when people talk about me I'm doing pretty okay so this thread doesn't really need to be 15 pages of sympathy + everyone saying oh me too let's do it (though it sure can be!)
tell me about your dad liiya
tell me
I thought this article was pretty neat.
sorry I'm as racist as my dad
I'm "coming out" as "a racist" too
yr people stole my job
My dad was a bit down this last week because his friend was ran over by a drunk driver, and they buried him at the funeral. He's okay now.
I get on fine with my parents.
Like she told us that regularly
I think it's because she always wanted a daughter but instead got 3 sons so she was just hoping
yesss
oh to answer your question, i get along swimmingly with my mom
and for the most part my dad too but he gets on my nerves heck of quickly
but i still love the guy
Does he hate kites or something?
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You guys really gotta step it up and get some cool parents like me.
My dad was one of my best friends and biggest supporters and all around awesome guy.
not a fan of juice either
He does have a bit of a rough past though.
Prison sorted that out.
He puts antisemitic on cuts and scrapes
That being said, we get along great. He recently took care of some stuff I needed done on my truck. We...have an understanding. I've accepted the fact that he's mentally ill, that my mother will never do anything about it, and any day now I'll be getting a call from my mother revealing that my father has hung himself in the garage.
...I'm pretty much just waiting for the call. We're pretty okay, though, and he seems to want me to succeed in life, but it's whatev.
don't forget ugly
It works well given they don't really give a shit about me and I have more pressing matters to attend to
But I do call mom 'n dad from time to time, letting them know I still breathe and fuck things up on a regular basis and that seems to be alright
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Well, here, I can give you the run down
My dad and I were arguing and at the point of the fight in which you say stuff just to piss the other person off
My dad told me I was lazy + worthless
I told him God doesn't exist and organized religion is often detrimental to society as a whole
he told me that I was probably going to burn in hell or I'd find religion one day and then I'd get it and that he found my opinion sickening
I told him that I found his rampant racism, homophobia, misogyny, and other backwards opinions sickening
he said the line I put in the OP
I told him
he left!
and then they spent most of yesterday drinking/crying/telling me they love me or wev
It's needed to be said for a while I guess, but the context in which I did it (using it as a weapon, I suppose) was wrong
there's a story to this.
Came downstairs one day, saw him eatting chips, what kind of chips you eatting?" I asked.
"Ray's"
"Oh, okay" having never heard of the brand i was a little curious, seeing the odd look i was giving him my dad turns the bag to me
"See Ray's. I wasn't being antisemitic or anything"
"Wait? what?"
"well cause the Chinese replace "L"s and "R"s"
"Gord, That is not what antisemitic means."
ever since then every time he says something off colour about race i tell him to stop being antisemitic.
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your condmoms
your momdoms
oh dang, I'm sorry Liiya
I sure hope your father is alright and everyone goes well, that is a rough situation for anybody
I am glad you get along with your family
my parents are pretty ok. Some of my extended family are kind of total jerks.
eg. my aunt lives in a bus in far north queensland and bitches about 'towel-heads' and 'abos'.
edit: that cute line was at melding but it basically works most everywhere.
but all faynors are terrorists and deserve to be beaten
"WHAT, YOU THINK YOU'RE BETTER THAN THEM?" he said
oh, dad
he apologized 5 years later
My dad surived a Cyst in his brain the size of a grapefruit. He the man.
the other part of me is too lazy