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Lent 2011 sharing and support group thread.

Lord JezoLord Jezo Registered User regular
edited March 2011 in Debate and/or Discourse
ITS LENT!

So, for all of you non heathens out there, what are you giving up in order to feel closer to the sacrifices of Christ and how do you plan on keeping it up?

For me I am going to give up boozing and porn. I am pretty wary on the second part but with the first I figure I will replace it with pills or something. I just got a new bottle of rum so it is going to be pretty hard. Pron, eh, I will deal with it.

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  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Are you giving up porn + jerking it or just the porn itself?

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  • DiannaoChongDiannaoChong Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Isn't the point of lent to go without(or replace it positively), not to replace whatever it was with another vice?

    I don't do lent anymore(we did the fish on fridays/no meat on fridays), we used to be hardcore about it and then when I became diabetic, our family kind of used it as an excuse (SPECIAL DIET ITS OK WITH GOD) to ignore it. keep in mind that my diet doesnt have anything to do with eating meat. We were as a comic put it "Catholic on the holidays"

    Now the only reason I know its coming around is mcdonalds and other fast food restaurants bring back the fillet o' fish.

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  • matt has a problemmatt has a problem Points to 'off' Points to 'on'Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Jesus died for our sins. So if it's a sin not to give something up for Lent, well, I'd hate Jesus's sacrifice to go to waste.

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  • override367override367 ALL minions Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    I plan to sacrifice a virgin to Kali the Destroyer

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  • HonkHonk Honk is this poster. Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited March 2011
    I had never heard of Lent until now.

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  • DracilDracil Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Since I'm already no/low-carbing I'm just gonna do 1 meal on the special days (Friday, today, etc.) with no meat.

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  • CommunistCowCommunistCow Abstract Metal ThingyRegistered User regular
    edited March 2011
    So you are going all 40 Days and 40 Nights on this thing?

    Honk I do believe you have earned another heathen gold star for never hearing of Lent before.

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  • Styrofoam SammichStyrofoam Sammich WANT. normal (not weird)Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Oh man I hate it when i get lent on my clothes when I pull them out of the drier.

    I would totally swear off that for a year.

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  • HonkHonk Honk is this poster. Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited March 2011
    I don't think it's celebrated here.

    But I do appreciate the heathen gold stars. :P

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  • KronusKronus Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Oh man I hate it when i get lent on my clothes when I pull them out of the drier.

    I would totally swear off that for a year.

    That and belly button lent. The worst.

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  • HonkHonk Honk is this poster. Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited March 2011
    For Lent I am going to give up starting heroin.

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  • TubularLuggageTubularLuggage Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Ah, Ash Wednesday. AKA 'Surprise, I'm religious!' day.

    Rather than give something up, I'm going to do something positive. Not sure what yet.

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  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Ah, Ash Wednesday. AKA 'Surprise, I'm religious!' day.

    Yeah I'm on break this week so I missed out on the "Find Out Who's Catholic Enough to Walk Around with Dirt On Their Face" ritual I usually go through every year at school.

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  • DracilDracil Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    So you are going all 40 Days and 40 Nights on this thing?

    Honk I do believe you have earned another heathen gold star for never hearing of Lent before.

    Looked at the movie summary and the premise is a farce. He could've had sex on Sundays (actual Lent is like 46 days as Sundays are excluded. Eastern Orthodox have 40 days but they don't start on Ash Wednesday)

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  • MarathonMarathon Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Lord Jezo wrote: »
    ITS LENT!

    So, for all of you non heathens out there, what are you giving up in order to feel closer to the sacrifices of Christ and how do you plan on keeping it up?

    For me I am going to give up boozing and porn. I am pretty wary on the second part but with the first I figure I will replace it with pills or something. I just got a new bottle of rum so it is going to be pretty hard. Pron, eh, I will deal with it.

    While I may be an atheist now, I grew up Catholic. And I'm pretty sure this sort of goes against the whole idea of Lent.

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  • HappylilElfHappylilElf Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    So you are going all 40 Days and 40 Nights on this thing?

    I'm totes going to do that.

    Not so much because I'd be giving something up for Lent but because that's pretty much what I've been doing for seemingly ages

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  • ImprovoloneImprovolone Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Lutheran's don't do silly things like rub dirt on our face. Lutheranism is the best kind of Christianity. On the other hand, Jesus suffered so that I wouldn't have to, I think. I dunno, my cataclysm class was awhile ago.
    I'm also not a fan of any philosophical practice that asks me to suffer.

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  • DracilDracil Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    That's why I tend to use it as New Year Resolution Redux

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  • Captain UltraCaptain Ultra low resolution pictures of birds Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    back when I was Catholic, my priest said you should have THREE things. A) Something you give up. B) Something you take up (a good deed/habit). C) A daily prayer habit.

    Also, having spent my entire elementary/high school in Catholic Schools, I always rubbed that smear mark out if I had the chance.

    Edit: Also, as a good Catholic, I would point out that giving up something "sinful" like porn with the expectation of using it again when Lent is over, probably not what Lent is about. You're not supposed to give up a sin with the expectation of taking it back up. You're supposed to give up something that you enjoy in solidarity with Christ. Its why all my classmates gave up candy or something. Which sucked because my birthday was often in Lent, which meant if I brought treats, like me and three other people would be able to eat, and the rest of the kids would stare at me for tempting them.

    Edited2: Not saying that I think pornography is necessarily sinful. I don't. I'm just saying, Catholics think porn makes Jesus sad.

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  • tinwhiskerstinwhiskers Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    KalTorak wrote: »
    Ah, Ash Wednesday. AKA 'Surprise, I'm religious!' day.

    Yeah I'm on break this week so I missed out on the "Find Out Who's Catholic Enough to Walk Around with Dirt On Their Face" ritual I usually go through every year at school.

    Followed by "Find Out Who Can't Be Bothered to Shower" Thursday.

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  • Premier kakosPremier kakos Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited March 2011
    So you are going all 40 Days and 40 Nights on this thing?

    Honk I do believe you have earned another heathen gold star for never hearing of Lent before.

    Oooo! Me! I'm going to give up something for 40 days and get raped at the end! WOOO!

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  • SniperGuySniperGuy SniperGuyGaming Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Fun fact! The Pope made Catholics participate in Lent as a way to bolster the economy of the Italian fishermen. Giving up meat (which was usually done for the entirety of lent, not just Fridays) was so that you would purchase fish instead.

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  • MentalExerciseMentalExercise Indefenestrable Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    SniperGuy wrote: »
    Fun fact! The Pope made Catholics participate in Lent as a way to bolster the economy of the Italian fishermen. Giving up meat (which was usually done for the entirety of lent, not just Fridays) was so that you would purchase fish instead.

    Only if by "fun fact" you really mean "fun myth".

    I haven't figured out what I'm going to give up for lent yet. Give me suggestions internet!!!

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  • SpeakerSpeaker Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Lord Jezo wrote: »
    ITS LENT!

    So, for all of you non heathens out there, what are you giving up in order to feel closer to the sacrifices of Christ and how do you plan on keeping it up?

    For me I am going to give up boozing and porn. I am pretty wary on the second part but with the first I figure I will replace it with pills or something. I just got a new bottle of rum so it is going to be pretty hard. Pron, eh, I will deal with it.

    I . . .

    I do not understand Catholicism.

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  • SniperGuySniperGuy SniperGuyGaming Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    SniperGuy wrote: »
    Fun fact! The Pope made Catholics participate in Lent as a way to bolster the economy of the Italian fishermen. Giving up meat (which was usually done for the entirety of lent, not just Fridays) was so that you would purchase fish instead.

    Only if by "fun fact" you really mean "fun myth".

    I haven't figured out what I'm going to give up for lent yet. Give me suggestions internet!!!

    Well, I'd like some sources on that. Some sources that aren't a Catholic website. I was taught this by my high school history teacher, and my googling doesn't disprove it!

    http://www.thecowshow.com/2010/02/real-reason-catholics-dont-eat-meat-on.html

    Plus, it makes complete sense.

    edit: If this is misinformation though, I'd love to know.

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  • DiannaoChongDiannaoChong Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    That would be pretty funny to throw out next time I am discussing it, but do you have a source for that?


    Edit: that source... uh... I like how it continuously says "the pope" over and over, instead of naming the pope, or saying what year this happened in. It also contradicts itself, did he own the fish place, or the "family member"

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  • SniperGuySniperGuy SniperGuyGaming Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    That would be pretty funny to throw out next time I am discussing it, but do you have a source for that?


    Edit: that source... uh... I like how it continuously says "the pope" over and over, instead of naming the pope, or saying what year this happened in. It also contradicts itself, did he own the fish place, or the "family member"

    Yeah, the problem I'm having seems to be that there really ISN'T a single definitive origin for it. I'm seeing something about someone called Edward Vith during the Protestant Reformation doing it, and quite a bit about a Pope in Italy. So given I can't find anything suggesting it's untrue, and Italy has water on three sides, and the Popes have a history of being just all kinds of corrupt, I'm guessing that's probably true.

    If someone finds a source that says otherwise though, I'd love to see it.

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  • Kate of LokysKate of Lokys Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Jesus died for our sins. So if it's a sin not to give something up for Lent, well, I'd hate Jesus's sacrifice to go to waste.

    When I was an insufferable teenager, this was my standard response to any criticism of my behaviour:
    Christ died for our sins. Dare we make his martyrdom meaningless by not committing them?

    As a godless heathen, I've never actually understood Lent. How did the practice of giving up a luxury for a month start, and what does it have to do with Jesus? A link-only response is fine; I'm not trying to bait anyone into an argument, just genuinely curious.

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  • Apothe0sisApothe0sis Have you ever questioned the nature of your reality? Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    A friend of the female is an erratically devout member of the Greek Orthodox church. She's always fasting for some reason or another despite being as much of a salad bar Christian as is possible.

    The most fun is when she call her mother to settle her theological uncertainty regarding whether 'prawns count as meat'.

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  • Apothe0sisApothe0sis Have you ever questioned the nature of your reality? Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    back when I was Catholic, my priest said you should have THREE things. A) Something you give up. B) Something you take up (a good deed/habit). C) A daily prayer habit.

    Also, having spent my entire elementary/high school in Catholic Schools, I always rubbed that smear mark out if I had the chance.

    Edit: Also, as a good Catholic, I would point out that giving up something "sinful" like porn with the expectation of using it again when Lent is over, probably not what Lent is about. You're not supposed to give up a sin with the expectation of taking it back up. You're supposed to give up something that you enjoy in solidarity with Christ. Its why all my classmates gave up candy or something. Which sucked because my birthday was often in Lent, which meant if I brought treats, like me and three other people would be able to eat, and the rest of the kids would stare at me for tempting them.

    Edited2: Not saying that I think pornography is necessarily sinful. I don't. I'm just saying, Catholics think porn makes Jesus sad.

    So giving up a bad habit and taking up a good one. Looks like "being a Catholic" and "Not being a Catholic" are perfect for those two.

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  • RMS OceanicRMS Oceanic Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    As a godless heathen, I've never actually understood Lent. How did the practice of giving up a luxury for a month start, and what does it have to do with Jesus? A link-only response is fine; I'm not trying to bait anyone into an argument, just genuinely curious.

    It reminds us of the time he fasted for 40 days in the desert and was tempted by the Devil.

    Anyone can give stuff up. Taking on a beneficial habit is more challenging! On that note, I'm taking the lengthly route to and from work, meaning I walk roughly 4 miles a day. I also have a Trócaire Box* and will be donating £1 a day over Lent, at least.

    *Trócaire (Trock-ruh, Irish for "Mercy") is an Irish Charity, and they have an annual tradition of giving little boxes out at the start of Lent, and we put money in them and hand them back at Easter.

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  • Edith_Bagot-DixEdith_Bagot-Dix Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    When I was a kid, our parish had an old, crotchety priest as well as a cantankerous old nun who had survived the Hungarian Uprising of 1956 and was always on about how the Communists were going to come to our school and shoot anyone who said they were Catholic. Needless to say, it was a pretty fun place to hang out. The priest went away for awhile and the priest from the next parish over pulled double duty and started doing the early Mass at our church. He was a much more jovial fellow, but the tone had long been set that church was a place of Serious Business and attempting to lighten the mood was a sin on the order of building a time machine, going back to the Crucifixion, and sticking your dick in the wound in Christ's side. Obviously, it was never expressed in quite those words.

    One thing that this priest tried to emphasize was that Mass was supposed to be a joyful celebration and the most awesome event ever. This provoked the youthful question that, if said premise were true, would it be okay to give up going to Church for Lent.

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  • NoughtNought Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    One thing that this priest tried to emphasize was that Mass was supposed to be a joyful celebration and the most awesome event ever. This provoked the youthful question that, if said premise were true, would it be okay to give up going to Church for Lent.

    It's always wonderful to see the way kids out think adults that talk down to them. Not saying that's what happened with the Priest, just that you should never underestimate people that haven't had their social conditioning finished.

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  • ChillyWillyChillyWilly Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    SniperGuy wrote: »
    Fun fact! The Pope made Catholics participate in Lent as a way to bolster the economy of the Italian fishermen. Giving up meat (which was usually done for the entirety of lent, not just Fridays) was so that you would purchase fish instead.

    But...fish is meat.

    This doesn't make sense.


    I'm a Christian, but I've never been big into Lent. I figure if there's something you do that moves you away from God, you should probably be giving it up for longer than just 40 days. Instead of giving up for just a month+, how about you just, you know...do your best to never do it. That always made a little more sense to me.

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  • Lord JezoLord Jezo Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Speaker wrote: »
    Lord Jezo wrote: »
    ITS LENT!

    So, for all of you non heathens out there, what are you giving up in order to feel closer to the sacrifices of Christ and how do you plan on keeping it up?

    For me I am going to give up boozing and porn. I am pretty wary on the second part but with the first I figure I will replace it with pills or something. I just got a new bottle of rum so it is going to be pretty hard. Pron, eh, I will deal with it.

    I . . .

    I do not understand Catholicism.

    You need to be born into it, it's a pretty exclusive club that doesn't take kindly to outsiders.

    So I will be working from home today, usually that means lots of porn and multiple views during the day every few hours to make up for a week of nothing. I need to stay away from that today. One day Lent sober so far so the drinking isn't much of a problem yet.

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  • DiannaoChongDiannaoChong Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Lent as a personal thing, like a new years resolution is fine. see if you can give up your vice and make the world a better place is a pretty decent thing to try. In the end its a lot like how I feel about religion, very basic tenants for trying to do good, taken to an extreme in a bad way.

    Edit: if your friend is always fasting, is it a fashion thing, or a religion thing? "Fasts" are the hot new holistic bullshit pseudoscience where you are basically starving yourself to get rid of toxins. I liked what someone said on these forums about it: "the dietary equivalent of cutting yourself" and is a pretty unsafe practice when not run by your doctor.

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  • MechMantisMechMantis Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Nought wrote: »
    One thing that this priest tried to emphasize was that Mass was supposed to be a joyful celebration and the most awesome event ever. This provoked the youthful question that, if said premise were true, would it be okay to give up going to Church for Lent.

    It's always wonderful to see the way kids out think adults that talk down to them. Not saying that's what happened with the Priest, just that you should never underestimate people that haven't had their social conditioning finished.

    Yes of course, that is the answer, that someone speaking honestly about the ideal of the religion was out-thought by kids who weren't completely brainwashed. Clearly.

    You are familiar with what the Mass is supposed to be, right? That priest wasn't too far off. What it ends up being is something different entirely, for better or worse.

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  • Edith_Bagot-DixEdith_Bagot-Dix Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    MechMantis wrote: »
    Nought wrote: »
    One thing that this priest tried to emphasize was that Mass was supposed to be a joyful celebration and the most awesome event ever. This provoked the youthful question that, if said premise were true, would it be okay to give up going to Church for Lent.

    It's always wonderful to see the way kids out think adults that talk down to them. Not saying that's what happened with the Priest, just that you should never underestimate people that haven't had their social conditioning finished.

    Yes of course, that is the answer, that someone speaking honestly about the ideal of the religion was out-thought by kids who weren't completely brainwashed. Clearly.

    You are familiar with what the Mass is supposed to be, right? That priest wasn't too far off. What it ends up being is something different entirely, for better or worse.

    Sorry, I didn't intend the anecdote to be taken this seriously. I do understand what the Mass is supposed to be, even if I don't personally believe it. If you're nine, though, and the kind of nine year old that isn't exactly "on fire" with the idea of how great church is, it just seems like the sort of thing you'd jump at, like if you found out it was possible to give up brussel sprouts instead of candy. Regardless, when I was a kid, my dad always got to decide what my sister and I were giving up, and then we'd do it anyway behind his back, and the great circle of guilt would continue.

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  • devCharlesdevCharles Gainesville, FLRegistered User regular
    edited March 2011
    Though I was never really a big believer in Catholicism, I was baptized, got first communion, was confirmed, and did confession to appease my grandmother. My mother also thought the best and cheapest schools in the area were Catholic and thought it'd be way easier to get in as a Catholic, which turned out to be accurate. I was pretty much an atheist since 7th grade though, as the whole hell thing never sat right with me, but I've used Lent since High School as an excuse to take a vacation from some vice. This time I'm going to make a goal to replace two meals of mine a day with salads, vegetables, and fruit.

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  • taoist drunktaoist drunk Registered User regular
    edited March 2011
    SniperGuy wrote: »
    Fun fact! The Pope made Catholics participate in Lent as a way to bolster the economy of the Italian fishermen. Giving up meat (which was usually done for the entirety of lent, not just Fridays) was so that you would purchase fish instead.

    But...fish is meat.

    This doesn't make sense.


    I'm a Christian, but I've never been big into Lent. I figure if there's something you do that moves you away from God, you should probably be giving it up for longer than just 40 days. Instead of giving up for just a month+, how about you just, you know...do your best to never do it. That always made a little more sense to me.

    I mean, by all logical thought, fish is meat because it's flesh. But as far as the Church is concerned, meat is the flesh of mammals and fowl. Cold-blooded meats don't count? A lot of the food prohibitions in the Bible are pretty puzzling IMO. Meat was also more expensive and therefore more of a luxury and a sacrifice than fish. NB: "carne"/meat in the Romance languages is etymologically related to "caro"/expensive in the Romance languages, which is neat but tangential to the conversation. Anyway, fish has always had special significance for Christians ("fishers of men," the Ichthus, the loaves and fishes parable, etc).

    All of this is just spitballing though, I really have no idea and I'm a godless heathen anyway. I think the legend about the medieval pope propping up the fishing industry is a particularly cynical way to look at it, and regardless of whether or not you believe that theology is in general nothing but sophistry, I think it's reasonable to consider it to be sincere rather than entirely self-serving for the most part.

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