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I go to this take out place to get some dinner and a guy approaches me and introduces himself. He asks me if I can go to a wachovia with him and cash a check because he just got into town from Philly and doesn't have a bank card. We exchanged numbers and he pulls out this huge wad and offers to pay me for my trouble. Thoughts?
EshTending bar. FFXIV. Motorcycles.Portland, ORRegistered Userregular
edited March 2011
The fact that you're asking gives you your answer. Don't do it.
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ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, ModeratorMod Emeritus
edited March 2011
Yeah, don't do that.
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He can open an account himself, or cash it at one of those payday loan places (quite possibly at a grocery store, too). He might not be trying to scam you, or may not even be up to no good, but it's not worth the risk.
The cheque is fake, and if it goes through under your account, you're responsible for repaying the money when the cheque bounces. It's well worth the guy's time and money to seed you with some cash up front in exchange for your compliance in his scam, but you'll be left holding the bag in five days while he runs off with the money from the fake cheque.
Ok so, not going. Should I stand him up or message him saying I'm not gonna meet him?
The phone number he gave you is for a prepaid, disposable cell phone, and any further contact you have with him at this point is just going to make him more determined to scam you. If you ignore him, he'll probably move on to a new victim. If you call him back with some excuse, he's just going to pressure you to reschedule.
Block his number, ignore him, move on, and in the future, don't give your phone number to people who approach you in public asking for your help to cash a cheque.
The problem with telling the police, though, is that there's nothing they can do. No crime has been committed here, no threat has been made, nothing nefarious has actually occurred. The OP also has no useful information to provide the police beyond a rough description of the guy and the number of a cell phone that has probably already been thrown in the trash.
Under most circumstances, I fully endorse the idea of providing the police with information that could lead to an arrest. But in this case, all you would be doing is wasting their time and yours.
Seems like no one has mentioned this but DO NOT GIVE YOUR NUMBER OUT TO STRANGERS ASKING YOU TO DO STRANGE THINGS.
No kidding. I'm pretty well adjusted and aware but the guy was a smooth operator. Happened so fast I could barely keep up. Ah well...
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Yeah, there's nothing they can put on him so it'd be a waste of time. Taking my ass straight to work.
The problem with telling the police, though, is that there's nothing they can do. No crime has been committed here, no threat has been made, nothing nefarious has actually occurred. The OP also has no useful information to provide the police beyond a rough description of the guy and the number of a cell phone that has probably already been thrown in the trash.
Under most circumstances, I fully endorse the idea of providing the police with information that could lead to an arrest. But in this case, all you would be doing is wasting their time and yours.
It's not wasting their time. This is something that could turn into a huge pain in their ass in their district and they'll appreciate knowing about this. This is what nonemergency lines are for.
The problem with telling the police, though, is that there's nothing they can do. No crime has been committed here, no threat has been made, nothing nefarious has actually occurred. The OP also has no useful information to provide the police beyond a rough description of the guy and the number of a cell phone that has probably already been thrown in the trash.
Under most circumstances, I fully endorse the idea of providing the police with information that could lead to an arrest. But in this case, all you would be doing is wasting their time and yours.
It's not wasting their time. This is something that could turn into a huge pain in their ass in their district and they'll appreciate knowing about this. This is what nonemergency lines are for.
Seriously, "I was just approached by a guy (give description) at (give location) who was trying to pull a check cashing scam" is the kind of tip they love.
Especially if the person has struck before in the same city or in a nearby city. If he's pulling the check scam on you, he's likely to have already hit quite a few other victims, and there's probably an ongoing investigation on him. A woman was just arrested for a similar crime near where I live based on a tip like that.
The problem with telling the police, though, is that there's nothing they can do. No crime has been committed here, no threat has been made, nothing nefarious has actually occurred. The OP also has no useful information to provide the police beyond a rough description of the guy and the number of a cell phone that has probably already been thrown in the trash.
Under most circumstances, I fully endorse the idea of providing the police with information that could lead to an arrest. But in this case, all you would be doing is wasting their time and yours.
It's not wasting their time. This is something that could turn into a huge pain in their ass in their district and they'll appreciate knowing about this. This is what nonemergency lines are for.
Seriously, "I was just approached by a guy (give description) at (give location) who was trying to pull a check cashing scam" is the kind of tip they love.
"And he'll be at Bank X at 9:00 tomorrow morning" could sweeten the deal considerably.
The problem with telling the police, though, is that there's nothing they can do. No crime has been committed here, no threat has been made, nothing nefarious has actually occurred. The OP also has no useful information to provide the police beyond a rough description of the guy and the number of a cell phone that has probably already been thrown in the trash.
Under most circumstances, I fully endorse the idea of providing the police with information that could lead to an arrest. But in this case, all you would be doing is wasting their time and yours.
It's not wasting their time. This is something that could turn into a huge pain in their ass in their district and they'll appreciate knowing about this. This is what nonemergency lines are for.
Seriously, "I was just approached by a guy (give description) at (give location) who was trying to pull a check cashing scam" is the kind of tip they love.
"And he'll be at Bank X at 9:00 tomorrow morning" could sweeten the deal considerably.
I did tell him which Wachovia to meet me at (not that I'm gonna show up)... But I already told the police about it and they said it wasn't anything they could do...
Just because they tell you, "nothing we can do but thanks" doesn't mean there is nothing that they are doing. Police lie a lot. Though it does seem odd they couldn't meet the guy at the bank and pick him up... I mean, he would have a forged check on him at the given time.
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The cheque is fake, and if it goes through under your account, you're responsible for repaying the money when the cheque bounces. It's well worth the guy's time and money to seed you with some cash up front in exchange for your compliance in his scam, but you'll be left holding the bag in five days while he runs off with the money from the fake cheque.
I used to work for a collection agency that collected these kinds of debts. Usually after 1-2 weeks, your bank figures out that the cheque was fake, and then unless you resolve it quickly you start getting phonecalls and your credit gets fucked.
He messaged me, but I just replied saying 'ah gee sorry I can't make it dude.' Bullet: dodged.
I know this means this is pretty much over, but this kind of thing is taken very seriously. I had a friend do EXACTLY what you said happened to you here. He was approached and convinced to cash a check for for a stranger under dubious circumstances. He went in, cashed it, then proceeded to be picked up by the cops, booked and taken to jail where he stayed for a week till he could post bail. Luckily he was able to plead down to community service and a fine. The guy who gave him the check to cash was long gone and as far as I know never found.
Point being, this IS something the cops would like to hear about, and it IS something that will get you in a ton of trouble
He messaged me, but I just replied saying 'ah gee sorry I can't make it dude.' Bullet: dodged.
I know this means this is pretty much over, but this kind of thing is taken very seriously. I had a friend do EXACTLY what you said happened to you here. He was approached and convinced to cash a check for for a stranger under dubious circumstances. He went in, cashed it, then proceeded to be picked up by the cops, booked and taken to jail where he stayed for a week till he could post bail. Luckily he was able to plead down to community service and a fine. The guy who gave him the check to cash was long gone and as far as I know never found.
Point being, this IS something the cops would like to hear about, and it IS something that will get you in a ton of trouble
If his version of this story is actually true, even the worst public defender could prove that there was no intent on your friends part to commit any crime and he would easily be Not Guilty, and most likely would never go to trial. Unless he knew the check was fake, he didn't do anything illegal there.
He messaged me, but I just replied saying 'ah gee sorry I can't make it dude.' Bullet: dodged.
I know this means this is pretty much over, but this kind of thing is taken very seriously. I had a friend do EXACTLY what you said happened to you here. He was approached and convinced to cash a check for for a stranger under dubious circumstances. He went in, cashed it, then proceeded to be picked up by the cops, booked and taken to jail where he stayed for a week till he could post bail. Luckily he was able to plead down to community service and a fine. The guy who gave him the check to cash was long gone and as far as I know never found.
Point being, this IS something the cops would like to hear about, and it IS something that will get you in a ton of trouble
If his version of this story is actually true, even the worst public defender could prove that there was no intent on your friends part to commit any crime and he would easily be Not Guilty, and most likely would never go to trial. Unless he knew the check was fake, he didn't do anything illegal there.
...which still doesn't get him off the hook for paying back the bank.
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The phone number he gave you is for a prepaid, disposable cell phone, and any further contact you have with him at this point is just going to make him more determined to scam you. If you ignore him, he'll probably move on to a new victim. If you call him back with some excuse, he's just going to pressure you to reschedule.
Block his number, ignore him, move on, and in the future, don't give your phone number to people who approach you in public asking for your help to cash a cheque.
You should take Improvolone's advice.
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Or you should save yourself A LOT of headache and just ignore the whole thing. Unless you really feel like trying to be a hero.
Run.....to the cops.
Under most circumstances, I fully endorse the idea of providing the police with information that could lead to an arrest. But in this case, all you would be doing is wasting their time and yours.
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Yeah, there's nothing they can put on him so it'd be a waste of time. Taking my ass straight to work.
It's not wasting their time. This is something that could turn into a huge pain in their ass in their district and they'll appreciate knowing about this. This is what nonemergency lines are for.
"And he'll be at Bank X at 9:00 tomorrow morning" could sweeten the deal considerably.
I did tell him which Wachovia to meet me at (not that I'm gonna show up)... But I already told the police about it and they said it wasn't anything they could do...
But, seriously, I'm glad you're not going, and have told the police.
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Anyway, yeah, don't go anywhere with that dude. You'll probably get sexually assaulted.
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I used to work for a collection agency that collected these kinds of debts. Usually after 1-2 weeks, your bank figures out that the cheque was fake, and then unless you resolve it quickly you start getting phonecalls and your credit gets fucked.
I know this means this is pretty much over, but this kind of thing is taken very seriously. I had a friend do EXACTLY what you said happened to you here. He was approached and convinced to cash a check for for a stranger under dubious circumstances. He went in, cashed it, then proceeded to be picked up by the cops, booked and taken to jail where he stayed for a week till he could post bail. Luckily he was able to plead down to community service and a fine. The guy who gave him the check to cash was long gone and as far as I know never found.
Point being, this IS something the cops would like to hear about, and it IS something that will get you in a ton of trouble
If his version of this story is actually true, even the worst public defender could prove that there was no intent on your friends part to commit any crime and he would easily be Not Guilty, and most likely would never go to trial. Unless he knew the check was fake, he didn't do anything illegal there.
...which still doesn't get him off the hook for paying back the bank.