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What should be my next move? [Girl thread]
Kyougu
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So here's the gist of things:
I meet a girl about a month ago, but quickly learn that not only are three friends interested in her, but she's probably intersted in a friend (who ends up with a gf not long after) . None the less we proceed to hang out in a group setting and by the third hangout we are exchanging playful hugs through out the night and even friends start commenting that we would make a cute couple.
So I decide to ask her out but she says he may be busy with previous plans. She says she will let le know and the day afterwards she calls me after she has gotten off work. Seems she has had a late day. She suggest trying to meet up later in the week, but since I'm going out of town we end up tentatively planning for something the week of my return.
Well during my trip I decide to keep communication open and just send her a text asking how her work is going. No response after a few days.
So what should be my next move? Do I call her next week after I return? Or I do I wait it out, as we are suppose to hang out with friends next week anyways? Do I take her non response as a blow off?
I meet a girl about a month ago, but quickly learn that not only are three friends interested in her, but she's probably intersted in a friend (who ends up with a gf not long after) . None the less we proceed to hang out in a group setting and by the third hangout we are exchanging playful hugs through out the night and even friends start commenting that we would make a cute couple.
So I decide to ask her out but she says he may be busy with previous plans. She says she will let le know and the day afterwards she calls me after she has gotten off work. Seems she has had a late day. She suggest trying to meet up later in the week, but since I'm going out of town we end up tentatively planning for something the week of my return.
Well during my trip I decide to keep communication open and just send her a text asking how her work is going. No response after a few days.
So what should be my next move? Do I call her next week after I return? Or I do I wait it out, as we are suppose to hang out with friends next week anyways? Do I take her non response as a blow off?
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Also, did you "ask her out" or did you ask her to do something? She may not realize you're planning this out as a date.
You're probably just over thinking things. You'll find out when you get back. Someone not texting you back isn't a sign of being blown off (unless it was when you were supposed to be actually making plans). Text her once the day you get back and leave it at that.
Ah yeah, what Skoal said. CALL HER when you get back. Don't text. If she doesn't answer, leave a message. Don't keep calling back.
That is the most important thing.
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Christ, this is the truth. Texts are great at conveying little bits of time-insensitive information, information to groups, or, in a pinch, information when one (or both) parties are in a situation where talking on the phone isn't an option. Casual conversation is possibly the worst purpose to use them for, despite how popular it seems to be among the younger crowd.