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Advice required on work shirts.

benjie dixonbenjie dixon Registered User regular
edited October 2011 in Help / Advice Forum
Hello. I am new here so please be gentle!

I am really getting into brightly colored shirts at the moment but my girlfriend says that they are too bright for me to go to the office in. I love a bit of color - so should I listen to her or not?

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  • The Crowing OneThe Crowing One Registered User regular
    What sort of "bright" are we talking about?

    Also, what sort of office are we talking about?

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  • EgoEgo Registered User regular
    What sort of an office is it? And are these dress shirts?

    Erik
  • Dr. FrenchensteinDr. Frenchenstein Registered User regular
    There's nothing wrong with bright colors in the office, to a point. What are we talking here? i mean, a facemelting neon green would probably be a bad idea, but i see pink polos in the office environment all the time. even more so in the shirt and tie set.

    However, there is the old adage, if you have to ask if it's inappropriate, it probably is.

  • EncEnc A Fool with Compassion Pronouns: He, Him, HisRegistered User regular
    What sort of "bright" are we talking about?

    Also, what sort of office are we talking about?

  • benjie dixonbenjie dixon Registered User regular
    There's nothing wrong with bright colors in the office, to a point. What are we talking here? i mean, a facemelting neon green would probably be a bad idea, but i see pink polos in the office environment all the time. even more so in the shirt and tie set.

    However, there is the old adage, if you have to ask if it's inappropriate, it probably is.

    I've got bright red, a very nice turquoise and a purple one.

  • FeralFeral MEMETICHARIZARD interior crocodile alligator ⇔ ǝɹʇɐǝɥʇ ǝᴉʌoɯ ʇǝloɹʌǝɥɔ ɐ ǝʌᴉɹp ᴉRegistered User regular
    edited October 2011
    Really, you should ask this question to your boss or your HR manager. Every office is a little different.

    But generally speaking as long as it's a solid color and not a pattern, and it has buttons and a collar, nobody's going to give a shit if it is brightly colored.

    Feral on
    every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.

    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • Mojo_JojoMojo_Jojo We are only now beginning to understand the full power and ramifications of sexual intercourse Registered User regular
    It's probably fine, but it really depends on your office.

    Homogeneous distribution of your varieties of amuse-gueule
  • The Crowing OneThe Crowing One Registered User regular
    edited October 2011
    There's nothing wrong with bright colors in the office, to a point. What are we talking here? i mean, a facemelting neon green would probably be a bad idea, but i see pink polos in the office environment all the time. even more so in the shirt and tie set.

    However, there is the old adage, if you have to ask if it's inappropriate, it probably is.

    I've got bright red, a very nice turquoise and a purple one.

    *ahem*
    Enc wrote:
    What sort of "bright" are we talking about?

    Also, what sort of office are we talking about?

    The Crowing One on
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  • benjie dixonbenjie dixon Registered User regular
    It's a sales office.

  • The Crowing OneThe Crowing One Registered User regular
    Direct or indirect sales? i.e. do you meet with clients?

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  • benjie dixonbenjie dixon Registered User regular
    Direct or indirect sales? i.e. do you meet with clients?

    Some days just on the phone, other days face to face.

  • ihmmyihmmy Registered User regular
    Avoid lime green polos. Our office still sometimes talks about that shirt that a past employee wore. It was eye-searing.

    If you say within the jewel tones (i.e. the turquoise and purple you had mentioned), being colour rich is a good thing. Draws attention to you and all that. Just stay away from things in the neon range, or anything eye-searing. Typically bright greens (unless quite dark), oranges and yellows are very difficult to pull off.

  • The Crowing OneThe Crowing One Registered User regular
    If you're meeting with clients, unless you're in a "fun" business, you should really endevour to be as conservative as you can.

    You represent your office, and your office has a reputation to uphold. If it isn't an issue at work and the shirts aren't loud and obnoxious, there shouldn't be an issue. But coming from someone who has a similar background, conservative is the party line.

    I doubt it's a huge problem, but you are your earnings in sales. Perhaps your girlfriend means that you could make more money by being more conservatively dressed?

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  • Cider DrinkerCider Drinker Registered User regular
    I wear bright shirts often and it's just not worth worrying what other people think.

    The worker who was mentioned earlier in the lime green - well he's still being talked about now so at least he made an impact.

    I started out with bright blue and mustard yellow shirts and have moved on to even more outrageous ones in bright purple and neon pink.

  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    Tone it down, you can still wear colors, but you don't need to look like the Joker having sex with a yellow crayola crayon.

    not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
  • SixSix Caches Tweets in the mainframe cyberhex Registered User regular
    If you're in a customer-facing role, you generally don't have the luxury of not caring what anyone thinks.

    If you're boss is cool with it, do whatever you like. But make sure of that.

    can you feel the struggle within?
  • Cider DrinkerCider Drinker Registered User regular
    bowen wrote:
    Tone it down, you can still wear colors, but you don't need to look like the Joker having sex with a yellow crayola crayon.

    I hear this all the while. So many people are too conservative. Surely it should be about how you feel yourself rather than what other people think. It is not as if you are harming them (apart from their eyesight!)

  • SerpentSerpent Sometimes Vancouver, BC, sometimes Brisbane, QLDRegistered User regular
    bowen wrote:
    Tone it down, you can still wear colors, but you don't need to look like the Joker having sex with a yellow crayola crayon.

    I hear this all the while. So many people are too conservative. Surely it should be about how you feel yourself rather than what other people think. It is not as if you are harming them (apart from their eyesight!)

    This is great until you don't get the sale -- which happens to be what the other person thinks. Because of this, I do feel that work clothing is ALL ABOUT what other people think. It's an image that you project to help the business.

    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

  • EncEnc A Fool with Compassion Pronouns: He, Him, HisRegistered User regular
    Serpent wrote:
    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

    This should sum it up. You want to dress of equivalent, but not better than, your management staff in sales.

  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    bowen wrote:
    Tone it down, you can still wear colors, but you don't need to look like the Joker having sex with a yellow crayola crayon.

    I hear this all the while. So many people are too conservative. Surely it should be about how you feel yourself rather than what other people think. It is not as if you are harming them (apart from their eyesight!)

    You can still wear purple or yellow without looking like, again, joker had sex with a daffodil. Stick with solids.

    not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
  • Cider DrinkerCider Drinker Registered User regular
    Serpent wrote:
    bowen wrote:
    Tone it down, you can still wear colors, but you don't need to look like the Joker having sex with a yellow crayola crayon.

    I hear this all the while. So many people are too conservative. Surely it should be about how you feel yourself rather than what other people think. It is not as if you are harming them (apart from their eyesight!)

    This is great until you don't get the sale -- which happens to be what the other person thinks. Because of this, I do feel that work clothing is ALL ABOUT what other people think. It's an image that you project to help the business.

    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

    Is there any proof though that you would not get the sale because of the shirt. The customer might think 'this is a colorful, positive person and he's really selling the product well.'

  • AphostileAphostile San Francisco, CARegistered User regular
    You seemingly can't be convinced because you believe that everyone is as open minded as you are about bright colored or in your face clothing.

    Protip: they're not. It is ok to push boundaries with colors. It is not ok to speed over the edge flipping it off as you do so.

    Nothing. Matters.
  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    People are judgmental assholes, I would expect you don't need nerds on an internet forum to tell you as such.

    For instance, if you show up in a bright, fluorescent pink shirt in Texas, you might not get a sale.

    not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
  • Cider DrinkerCider Drinker Registered User regular
    I am simply giving my opinion to the original poster that he shouldn't worry about his girlfriend or colleagues. If other people think he should take them into account then they are perfectly entitled to that opinion.

  • MushroomStickMushroomStick Registered User regular
    I am simply giving my opinion to the original poster that he shouldn't worry about his girlfriend or colleagues. If other people think he should take them into account then they are perfectly entitled to that opinion.

    This is his job. The only opinions that matter are those of his boss(es) and clients.

  • FeralFeral MEMETICHARIZARD interior crocodile alligator ⇔ ǝɹʇɐǝɥʇ ǝᴉʌoɯ ʇǝloɹʌǝɥɔ ɐ ǝʌᴉɹp ᴉRegistered User regular
    Serpent wrote:
    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

    Um, in a lot of offices, management can get away with wearing things that lower-level workers can't. That's one of the perks of being management.

    I still think the OP should just ask his boss or HR person what they think.

    every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.

    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • CryogenCryogen Registered User regular
    You basically should represent your company. Consider what your colleagues wear, what your managers wear, the product or service your company offers, and your typical clients. Then tailor your choices to suit those things. There is nothing wrong with showing a little personal style, but it's inappropriate to crank it up several notches beyond what anyone else in the office would ever wear. The last thing you want to do is make your clients feel uncomfortable, because that is pretty much the road to failure.

  • Grid SystemGrid System Registered User regular
    I think the colours you've listed are probably okay. It does kind of depend on how bright all the colours are though. If they really pop, you may want to consider layering a more neutral blazer or cardigan over top so you're not overwhelming to look at.

    For what it's worth, I work at a law firm, I meet with clients from time to time, and I have a turquoise shirt in my usual rotation.

  • benjie dixonbenjie dixon Registered User regular
    Feral wrote:
    Serpent wrote:
    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

    Um, in a lot of offices, management can get away with wearing things that lower-level workers can't. That's one of the perks of being management.

    I still think the OP should just ask his boss or HR person what they think.

    Nothing has been said on the days I have worn the shirts so far. It is just my girlfriend who is a little dubious. Can the boss actually do anything if he is unhappy?

  • zucchinizucchini robothero pretty much amazingRegistered User regular
    Sure, he could fire you.

    If you're at the point where you're concerned about the boss "doing anything," it's time to tone down the shirts.

  • MushroomStickMushroomStick Registered User regular
    Feral wrote:
    Serpent wrote:
    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

    Um, in a lot of offices, management can get away with wearing things that lower-level workers can't. That's one of the perks of being management.

    I still think the OP should just ask his boss or HR person what they think.

    Nothing has been said on the days I have worn the shirts so far. It is just my girlfriend who is a little dubious. Can the boss actually do anything if he is unhappy?

    Of course he can, that's the kind of thing bosses do.

  • CryogenCryogen Registered User regular
    Feral wrote:
    Serpent wrote:
    Wear what your bosses boss wears.

    Um, in a lot of offices, management can get away with wearing things that lower-level workers can't. That's one of the perks of being management.

    I still think the OP should just ask his boss or HR person what they think.

    Nothing has been said on the days I have worn the shirts so far. It is just my girlfriend who is a little dubious. Can the boss actually do anything if he is unhappy?

    Well sure. Aside from the obvious firing, which I wouldn't imagine likely unless you're literally dressed as a clown :). It could impact your chances of promotion, or you could be held back from more important clients, just to name a couple of things that immediately spring to mind.

    Not saying that's what will happen. Without knowing your office environment we can't know that answer.

  • NoisymunkNoisymunk Registered User regular
    Sounds like your girlfriend is trying to gently tell you that those colors aren't working for you, and "maybe you should try some earth tones, honey".

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  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    ihmmy wrote:
    Avoid lime green polos. Our office still sometimes talks about that shirt that a past employee wore. It was eye-searing.

    If you stay within the jewel tones (i.e. the turquoise and purple you had mentioned), being colour rich is a good thing. Draws attention to you and all that. Just stay away from things in the neon range, or anything eye-searing. Typically bright greens (unless quite dark), oranges and yellows are very difficult to pull off.

    You can absolutely get away with jewel tones, as ihmmy said, but you need to pair it well with your suit and tie. Also, you don't want to be wearing these colors constantly. A dash of color as part of a well matched set can be eye-catching, but you don't want to be Mimi from the Drew Carrey show.

    Your boss can always do something. He's your fucking boss. If nothing else, he's the guy who decides whether you get promoted, get a raise or what kind of work you should do at any given time. If he doesn't like you, it's extremely bad for your career. I guess if you don't care about your job or advancing with your company his opinion doesn't matter, but otherwise of course it does.

    What is this I don't even.
  • MichaelLCMichaelLC In what furnace was thy brain? ChicagoRegistered User regular
    edited October 2011
    Examples of fine colors for a sales office:

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    Now, some colors look better on others, like red looks good on me. But most non-searing colors will look good or OK on anyone if they're crisp and fit properly.

    If the gf doesn't like what you got, go shopping and have her pick out a few new ones. Then, when you get fired, you can go pick out a nice interview suit. :) Really though, go together and get a few darker tones and see how they look.

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  • Cider DrinkerCider Drinker Registered User regular
    MichaelLC wrote:
    Examples of fine colors for a sales office:

    518037JA_F11_CC.jpg518021JA_S11_CC.jpg533130LENA_S11_CC.jpg512902JA_F10_CC.jpg

    Now, some colors look better on others, like red looks good on me. But most non-searing colors will look good or OK on anyone if they're crisp and fit properly.

    If the gf doesn't like what you got, go shopping and have her pick out a few new ones. Then, when you get fired, you can go pick out a nice interview suit. :) Really though, go together and get a few darker tones and see how they look.


    I have never seen more boring colors than these. I despair if these sort of drab colors are the only ones acceptable for a sales office.

    :cry:

  • EshEsh Tending bar. FFXIV. Motorcycles. Portland, ORRegistered User regular
    MichaelLC wrote:
    Examples of fine colors for a sales office:

    518037JA_F11_CC.jpg518021JA_S11_CC.jpg533130LENA_S11_CC.jpg512902JA_F10_CC.jpg

    Now, some colors look better on others, like red looks good on me. But most non-searing colors will look good or OK on anyone if they're crisp and fit properly.

    If the gf doesn't like what you got, go shopping and have her pick out a few new ones. Then, when you get fired, you can go pick out a nice interview suit. :) Really though, go together and get a few darker tones and see how they look.


    I have never seen more boring colors than these. I despair if these sort of drab colors are the only ones acceptable for a sales office.

    :cry:

    If you're going brighter than this with dress shirts, you're veering into straight up tacky territory.

  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    Esh wrote:
    MichaelLC wrote:
    Examples of fine colors for a sales office:

    518037JA_F11_CC.jpg518021JA_S11_CC.jpg533130LENA_S11_CC.jpg512902JA_F10_CC.jpg

    Now, some colors look better on others, like red looks good on me. But most non-searing colors will look good or OK on anyone if they're crisp and fit properly.

    If the gf doesn't like what you got, go shopping and have her pick out a few new ones. Then, when you get fired, you can go pick out a nice interview suit. :) Really though, go together and get a few darker tones and see how they look.


    I have never seen more boring colors than these. I despair if these sort of drab colors are the only ones acceptable for a sales office.

    :cry:

    If you're going brighter than this with dress shirts, you're veering into straight up tacky territory.

    Yeah pretty much.

    You can wear bright colours on shirts but you can't wear them as single tone. I mean I have a lime green shirt, which if it was a solid colour it would be horrid, but it's a white shirt with a green pinstripe for the colour.

    As someone said earlier it is probably your girlfriend trying to be polite and say wearing nicer clothes.

  • EncEnc A Fool with Compassion Pronouns: He, Him, HisRegistered User regular
    http://www.dillards.com/shop/Polo-Ralph-Lauren/Men-Dress-Shirts-Neckwear/_/N-173m7Zm0i8/Ns-p_product_seq%7C0?catalogId=301&langId=-1&splashlink=dd_m_tb1_polo_ralph_lauren_060111&storeId=301

    That goes to the Ralph Lauren page at Dillards. Now, I don't think you should buy this brand because it's pretty expensive as far as dress shirts and officewear goes, but you should take a look anyhow to get an idea. This is pretty, much the standard for sales and office wear colors. Note that most are blues (studies have shown that blue makes people seem more trustworthy) and all are muted colors. The reason for this is because you don't want to draw attention to yourself, only your merchandise. If you stand out more, then your customers will focus upon you, not the product. All you want your customers to see via your clothes is that you are clean, professional, and trustworthy. The first two really build towards the third, and the third equates out to more sales.

    Unless you are selling counterculture merchandise, like skate boards or goth apparel or something else with a very specific niche, you should probably steer towards the colors listed above as they are proven. If you are selling something counterculture, you should dress for that specific audience. Whatever it takes to come off as trustworthy and knowledgeable for your product.

  • MichaelLCMichaelLC In what furnace was thy brain? ChicagoRegistered User regular
    Blake T wrote:
    You can wear bright colours on shirts but you can't wear them as single tone. I mean I have a lime green shirt, which if it was a solid colour it would be horrid, but it's a white shirt with a green pinstripe for the colour.

    As someone said earlier it is probably your girlfriend trying to be polite and say wearing nicer clothes.

    Correct - those are all from Men's Warehouse as solid prints with the light purple having a herringbone pattern to it. The yellow/mustard is even a little too much, depending on how it looks IRL. Anything brighter than those are too bright for majority of offices. Enc's fancy shirts are good too, with a few more stripped patterns.

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