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Help me... please?.. Could my Girlfriend get pregnant from pre-cum on my finger or mouth?
jayrocks24
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Hey, Me and my girlfriend were messing around last night and she was giving me a hj. and then i was stroking myself while she was trying to get comfortable. then i started fingering her, and i didn't even think that i had precum on my hand, and i might of had some on my finger. then i started to give her oral sex, and she gave me oral sex, and we started kissing (i know thats probably disgusting) then i gave her oral sex again and i thought there could be precum in my mouth too... Is there a chance that she could be pregnant from this? The last time i ejaculated was the night before, and i've urinated around 3-5 times total in those two days and i was hoping that would've killed off any sperm and my precum could be harmless? Please help, im really worried. i haven't slept in days...
Oh and one of my friends said that his girlfriend was giving him a HJ and he ejaculated on his hand, then he fingered her, and she became pregnant? i also want to know if urine washes out any sperm left in the urethra from previous ejaculation so that would mean that the pre *** could be harmless... right??
Oh and one of my friends said that his girlfriend was giving him a HJ and he ejaculated on his hand, then he fingered her, and she became pregnant? i also want to know if urine washes out any sperm left in the urethra from previous ejaculation so that would mean that the pre *** could be harmless... right??
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And no, there's nothing gross when it comes to sex. Everything is fair game.
Calm down, and if you're *really* worried have your girlfriend take a pregnancy test. Now, if you just straight up came on your hand and then fingered her like your friend, then yes, there's a chance she's pregnant. But you didn't do that. So don't worry about it. Next time just be more aware and careful.
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No, id be calm as fuck. I also got a vasectomy today
Actually, the internet if full of drama queens. I don't trust any of them, though they can offer all sorts of situations, perspectives, and outcomes. Still, it's a lot of hype. Beware, and have no fear until you have professional second opinions.
First, I suggest that you not panic. It seems unlikely that your gf is pregnant; however, I suggest calling her gyno or your doctor on Monday morning and asking your questions. If you'd feel better, call the ON-CALL gyno over the weekend. Your gf should have this option for her gyno's medical group.
Next time, I suggest establishing certain perimeters for your safety and hers before diving into these situations so that you can avoid the uncertainty and negative consequences. Sex is amazing, but to make it comfortable for the both of you you should talk beforehand about things to be wary of to avoid these kinds of worries and dilemas. In the meantime, don't worry, but inquire with the professionals first. And maybe take a pregnancy test. Hope things work out OK.
I mean like...look up contraceptives, and what to do to prevent pregnancy and STDs.
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Yes, a very good place to start.
always
ALWAYS
use them, unless you are prepared to freak out like this again. Having safe sex is way more fun, anyway.
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Shit man, I dunno either...
Really? Wow thats.. Pretty low.. I know I probably shouldn't be worried but I still am.. I see many other posts kind of like this, and they say it's possible and that scares me!:( she's a virgin and so am I..
Okay, that aside, from what I've read, pre-cum does not generally contain any sperm*. The asterisk(*) is there because there can be some if you've ejaculated already and are lining up to go another round, as it were. Barring extenuating circumstances, if you hadn't already ejaculated recently (and the previous posters are correct; urinating will flush out/kill sperm that might be left behind) then it shouldn't be an issue.
The suggestions to do some reading are good though, and I hope you take this experience to heart. If you want to have a fun, safe and relatively panic attack free sex life, be as educated as you can about it. The ins and outs, as it were (I regret nothing), the mechanics of it, what she enjoys, what you enjoy, just take it one step at a time and have fun. Have a sense of humour about it; shit will happen, go wrong, get messy, whatever. Is she on the pill? Do you know how to properly put on a condom? What was your sex education really like in elementary/high school? Note, these are all rhetorical questions; ponder this stuff, talk with her, do that reading. Share your concerns, but try not to freak out, you'll both be okay.
And use this learning experience in every way you can. If the remotest possibility of a pregnancy has you missing sleep for 'days' (literally or figuratively), maybe you're not ready to be having sex? There's no shame in that, especially when you're still young. Many societies kind of push young men to supposedly be all about fucking all the time anytime anywhere with anyone... but that's a bunch of bullshit. You have just as much a right to slow things down a bit if you're not comfortable yet as she or anyone else does.
So, long story short; read, communicated, educate, be safe, have fun.
Thanks a lot do the information. I really appreciate the help and info. Maybe I'm not ready for sex yet.. Thanks.. I just hope she isn't, she isn't on the pill either.
You kids look into B/C and other contraceptives and be more careful.
*Edit: Well, she's not pregnant from what you describe in OP; I've no idea if she's otherwise pregnant.
Also make sure to use a condom and/or get her on birth control if you keep doing this, it will definitely help put your mind at ease. Its better to start sooner then later, my significant other started to go on birth control after we had a condom break without noticing, that freaked me out for about a week
If everyone in an advice thread AND your girlfriend seem to agree that you should relax... you should probably relax. :P Just make sure you're properly prepared for this stuff in the future by reading up on birth control methods and finding out about any sex myths you may have heard about that aren't true (the site linked above is a great start). Whatever you do, don't rush into this stuff unprepared-- and you may indeed want to hold off for a little bit while you find out how this stuff really works so you can calm down. However, either way, rest assured it's pretty easy to have a safe, fun time with all this stuff as long as you know how to protect yourself and your girlfriend (even easier since you're both virgins so STDs aren't likely to be a problem, just birth control methods), so don't let the anxiety you felt after this first time doing stuff scare you off! You can and probably should also talk over what you and your girlfriend WOULD like to do in terms of birth control long before you actually have sex, just so you're both on the same page if/when you do get it on like that (and you can stress that you're not ready for going there just yet anyway). Condoms are a pretty standard option, but (for example) birth control pills/patches/etc. can also sometimes help women who have painful periods as a pleasant side-effect, so look up what options are out there and pick something that seems like a good fit for both of you.
Do both.
Every single person in this thread is telling you that you don't need to be worried. So stop it.
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Many people have already told you that she's almost certainly not pregnant. They're right. But not knowing what contraception is is troubling.
The upshot of it is this: you shouldn't be engaging in any sort of sexual activity that involves any chance of putting semen in her vagina unless you are ready for the financial, emotional, familial and social consequences of having a kid/abortion/adoption. You're 18, so the answer to that is probably no. At the very least get a pack of condoms, and preferably some good lube, and ALWAYS ALWAYS use them. If she's in a situation where birth control is a viable option, she should do that (after consulting with her doctor, of course). Still use condoms. Then fuck like rabbits. Or stick to non-penile-vaginal-penetrative sexual activities. I'm sure there's a more elegant way to say that. Mouths and hands and tongues and, hell, feet and whatever else can do very nice things.
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