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How would you rate this seller?

Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-FedRegistered User regular
edited May 2012 in Help / Advice Forum
So I bought an old DVD off Amazon. It was listed as "Like New". The thing showed up yesterday with a completely ruined case and a dvd that won't read because of the scratches. I sent an email to the seller who replied the next morning with a full refund but then also said not to rate him unless I gave him a four star or better.

Now, normally I only give a 5 star review if I get what I pay for, as descrivbed, in a reasonable amount of time, period. Any thing else is less; normally this would have immediately been a 1 star and I would have ignored it but this DVD actually cost a bit of cash so I wanted a refund. At best I can't imagine giving him better then a 3 but the insistance via email that I don't rate him at all unless I can give a 4 or better really chaps my ass.

So what would you do?

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  • LuianeLuiane Registered User regular
    That seems like seriously awful behaviour from his side. As long as you get a full refund, including shipping for returning it, I could see maybe rating him a 2 or 3 for complying to do so.

    The fact that he failed to send even a working copy when it is proclaimed to be "like new" would probably have me rate it 1 or if possible 0 stars.

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  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    Well, he was "nice" enough to say I didn't need to return the item. Real big of him since it's ruined and doesn't work anyway.

  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    edited May 2012
    One of the big things that online retailers rely on with certain sales strategies is thus: A significantly lower percentage of online shoppers ask for refunds or returns, compared with meat space shoppers.

    Now, it seems like a jerk move to give a bad review since he sought to fix the problem. However, it's possible that this seller doesn't check their stock as well as they should and sometimes sells bad goods to take advantage of people's reluctance to return/refund.

    Online reviewing works best if everyone provides an accurate review of the seller's ability to provide what they promised. If I were you I might give a 2 star review and clearly state what happened. If this is an incredibly rare event, one 2 star review isn't going to hurt them at all. If this occurs often, hopefully several people will post reviews about it and future buyers will know not to waste their time with an unreliable seller.

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  • EntriechEntriech ? ? ? ? ? Ontario, CanadaRegistered User regular
    I would probably rate him a 2 or 3, while clearly stating that the item you received was far from the condition it was presented as being in and that the seller gave you a full refund on complaint.

    Qualifying the rating with a description of what happened lets someone who is on the fence determine if they want to take the same risk.

  • Lord_SnotLord_Snot Живу за выходные American ValhallaRegistered User regular
    The insistence that you don't rate him unless you give him a good review is a load of bollocks. Tell people what he really sold you.

    Probably like a 2 star? The fact he gave you a refund doesn't detract from the fact that the item you got was not as described, and probably shouldn't have been sold at all.

  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Now, it seems like a jerk move to give a bad review since he sought to fix the problem.

    See, this is where my quandry is. Is it a jerk move? The guy sold me a blatantly falsely described item that doesn't even work then told me not to rate him unless it's glowing. All he's done right so far is refund me and, as far as I'm concerned, that's the bare minimum of what he should have done. But I also admit to being a huge angry, asshole when I feel like I've been ripped off.

  • CasualCasual Wiggle Wiggle Wiggle Flap Flap Flap Registered User regular
    If it was me I'd tell him to blow it out his arse. If he thinks he can dictate what rating you can give him then he's misunderstood the point of the whole system. If he didn't want a crap rating he shouldn't sell broken products, I'd just give him whatever star rating you feel he deserves for a quick refund and leave it at that.

  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Now, it seems like a jerk move to give a bad review since he sought to fix the problem.

    See, this is where my quandry is. Is it a jerk move? The guy sold me a blatantly falsely described item that doesn't even work then told me not to rate him unless it's glowing. All he's done right so far is refund me and, as far as I'm concerned, that's the bare minimum of what he should have done. But I also admit to being a huge angry, asshole when I feel like I've been ripped off.

    Sorry, no. I didn't mean, "It seems to be a jerk move and you should feel that way." I meant, "I think most people might feel a bit bad about it at first glance, but..."

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  • DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    If it were me, I'd give him a 3. The item sucked, but the service was good.
    Defintely qualify whatever rating you give.

  • DjeetDjeet Registered User regular
    I wouldn't give this guy a 4+ star rating contingent upon his refunding me. I'd also feel a bit dirty taking his refund and then giving him a bad review if he's expecting a tit for tat exchange. Which is why I'd investigate involving a 3rd party (dispute resolution).

    Then I'd just need to decide if I'm going to just file a dispute or if I'm going to give the seller another chance to not be an asshat.

    If I got the refund (no strings), I'd probably give a 3. Shit happens, if I'm made whole then it's an average transaction. That said the seller should not be making refunds conditional or forcing you to threaten disputing the transaction just to get the refund you're entitled to (other things like making me send a picture of the damage I can understand, but this is shady).

  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    Wait for your refund first, then rate him 2-3. Item was not as described, but refund issued.

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  • EshEsh Tending bar. FFXIV. Motorcycles. Portland, ORRegistered User regular
    You got your money back. I just simply wouldn't rate him.

  • darqnessdarqness KCMORegistered User regular
    Esh wrote: »
    You got your money back. I just simply wouldn't rate him.

    Agreed. I would just leave it if he refunded you in full. It could have been an honest mistake.

  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    darqness wrote: »
    Esh wrote: »
    You got your money back. I just simply wouldn't rate him.

    Agreed. I would just leave it if he refunded you in full. It could have been an honest mistake.

    Clearly you and I have very different definitions of "like new."

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  • skeldareskeldare Gresham, ORRegistered User regular
    Just curious if you looked over the other reviews that this person received. Does he have a fairly high percentage of postive reviews? If it looks like most or all of the other reviews are postive, I'd leave a 3 noting the mistake and the refund. If it looks like he has a bit of a history of this type of thing, I'd leave a 1 or 2.

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  • darqnessdarqness KCMORegistered User regular
    bowen wrote: »
    darqness wrote: »
    Esh wrote: »
    You got your money back. I just simply wouldn't rate him.

    Agreed. I would just leave it if he refunded you in full. It could have been an honest mistake.

    Clearly you and I have very different definitions of "like new."

    No. If the seller had said "tough luck" or said that the customer could return it on his own dime, THEN I would pursue a full refund/negative rating.
    But if the seller gave a full refund on an item that was not as described, then I wouldn't bother rating him at all. Just be done with it. The seller has already lost money on the transaction in both selling fees and shipping costs.

  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    edited May 2012
    darqness wrote: »
    bowen wrote: »
    darqness wrote: »
    Esh wrote: »
    You got your money back. I just simply wouldn't rate him.

    Agreed. I would just leave it if he refunded you in full. It could have been an honest mistake.

    Clearly you and I have very different definitions of "like new."

    No. If the seller had said "tough luck" or said that the customer could return it on his own dime, THEN I would pursue a full refund/negative rating.
    But if the seller gave a full refund on an item that was not as described, then I wouldn't bother rating him at all. Just be done with it. The seller has already lost money on the transaction in both selling fees and shipping costs.

    EXCEPT he clearly told me to rate him a 4 or nothing AFTER he already processed the refund. I consider that pretty scummy.
    And the difference in condition from Like New and this is miles and miles.

    In any case, I gave him a 3.

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  • StraygatsbyStraygatsby Registered User regular
    While the specific request to frame your feedback is a no no on the seller's part, I think some of the advice here is unduly harsh. Could it have been damaged en route? It's difficult enough for legit sellers to maintain a clean feedback set in the hyperbolic world of internet shopping as it is; I've seen textbooks we've sold obliterated by the USPS, and the only viable course of action is to offer an immediate, full refund and just let the customer keep the item in the rare case they can still use it (because the margin is already so low that it'd be a loss to pay for return shipping). Media mail is a truly crappy mailing system, but it is cost effective.

    In a perfect world, they'd overnight you a pristine copy with a big phat mea culpa, but if you're ordering from a small seller with limited inventory, they most likely did the only thing they could.

    If I was in your position, I just wouldn't rate them at all (if that's viable on your marketplace).

    That said, they could have been a shit seller who just sent you junk and didn't bother to check, so, ya know, YMMV.

  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    No, it couldn't have been damaged en route. The missing parts on the case were from some extra security tape being ripped off and if the disk hub had been damaged in route the teeth would still have been in the envelope. The disc was still on the hub so the scratches couldn't have happened while shipping most likely.

  • wonderpugwonderpug Registered User regular
    edited May 2012
    3 stars, with a comment like "item was not as described, but full refund was offered"

    That way you're not being overly condemning of a seller who didn't give you a fuss about a refund, you're getting the word out that it was wrong of him to falsely advertise the item's state, and you're being honest.

    Caveat: Be absolutely sure he packaged a damaged product, and that the damage couldn't have happened due to a shipping mishap.

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  • StraygatsbyStraygatsby Registered User regular
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    No, it couldn't have been damaged en route. The missing parts on the case were from some extra security tape being ripped off and if the disk hub had been damaged in route the teeth would still have been in the envelope. The disc was still on the hub so the scratches couldn't have happened while shipping most likely.

    Yeah, in that case, I wouldn't begrudge you begrudging him. That's just poor shipping practices. He really should have offered an immediate replacement if able if he expected any kind of 4-5 star review.

  • FiggyFiggy Fighter of the night man Champion of the sunRegistered User regular
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Now, it seems like a jerk move to give a bad review since he sought to fix the problem.

    See, this is where my quandry is. Is it a jerk move? The guy sold me a blatantly falsely described item that doesn't even work then told me not to rate him unless it's glowing. All he's done right so far is refund me and, as far as I'm concerned, that's the bare minimum of what he should have done. But I also admit to being a huge angry, asshole when I feel like I've been ripped off.

    Just curious as to what else you think he should have done in this case? Offer you a free spinach dip on your next visit?

    I agree that a low rating is fair since he sent a bad product (intentional or not, pay the fuck attention, seller), but a full refund without asking for a return is the maximum he could have done in exchange.

    I guess he could have also not tried to circumvent the eBay TOS regarding feedback, but eh.

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  • HotandnerdyHotandnerdy Hot and Nerdy Kansas CityRegistered User regular
    bowen wrote: »
    darqness wrote: »
    Esh wrote: »
    You got your money back. I just simply wouldn't rate him.

    Agreed. I would just leave it if he refunded you in full. It could have been an honest mistake.

    Clearly you and I have very different definitions of "like new."

    I would just let it go. Getting your money back should count for something.

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  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    Figgy wrote: »
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Now, it seems like a jerk move to give a bad review since he sought to fix the problem.

    See, this is where my quandry is. Is it a jerk move? The guy sold me a blatantly falsely described item that doesn't even work then told me not to rate him unless it's glowing. All he's done right so far is refund me and, as far as I'm concerned, that's the bare minimum of what he should have done. But I also admit to being a huge angry, asshole when I feel like I've been ripped off.

    Just curious as to what else you think he should have done in this case? Offer you a free spinach dip on your next visit?

    I agree that a low rating is fair since he sent a bad product (intentional or not, pay the fuck attention, seller), but a full refund without asking for a return is the maximum he could have done in exchange.

    I guess he could have also not tried to circumvent the eBay TOS regarding feedback, but eh.

    Well, the maximum a seller can do in goodness is to sell the product advertised and provide it in described condition and good faith. By completely failing in his entire reason for existing as a business, he is scraping the barrel no matter what.

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  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    I still don't see how that's good faith, OP clearly states there's no way it could've been damaged in shipping. Seller trying to pass on damaged goods hoping the person will eat the loss. Shitty seller, buyer beware, seems like what the rating system was designed exactly for.

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  • The EnderThe Ender Registered User regular
    I'd have given him a 1, so you were pretty charitable to give him a 3, in my opinion.

    It's nice that he provided a fast refund, but that's more or less a default expectation for when you've sold someone a broken fucking product.


    It's interesting that the guy sent the e-mail begging to only be rated at 4+. I wonder how well it works for him (for example: do you think his e-mail factored-in to you giving him a 3 instead of, say, a 1 or 2?)

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  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    Figgy wrote: »
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Now, it seems like a jerk move to give a bad review since he sought to fix the problem.

    See, this is where my quandry is. Is it a jerk move? The guy sold me a blatantly falsely described item that doesn't even work then told me not to rate him unless it's glowing. All he's done right so far is refund me and, as far as I'm concerned, that's the bare minimum of what he should have done. But I also admit to being a huge angry, asshole when I feel like I've been ripped off.

    Just curious as to what else you think he should have done in this case? Offer you a free spinach dip on your next visit?

    I agree that a low rating is fair since he sent a bad product (intentional or not, pay the fuck attention, seller), but a full refund without asking for a return is the maximum he could have done in exchange.

    I guess he could have also not tried to circumvent the eBay TOS regarding feedback, but eh.

    He should have described the item as it was or sent me an item that was actually Like New initially.

  • The EnderThe Ender Registered User regular
    He should have described the item as it was or sent me an item that was actually Like New initially.

    Yes, exactly. Unless he has a lot of inventory / staff and someone grabbed a used copy instead of a new one, it's a bit much to su'misggest that this could've been a 'mhistake'.

    It sounds like he or she is one of the many eBay sellers who tries to offload busted inventory at full price while crossing their fingers and playing the odds that the buyer won't be bothered to request a refund.

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  • darqnessdarqness KCMORegistered User regular
    For reference, the OP says this was done on Amazon, not eBay.

    OP while I personally would have dropped it, you were in your boundaries to leave him any score that you wished. The seller should not have requested that you blatantly give him a 4+ score. I manage a large eBay business, and when we make a mistake I ask the customer what I can do to make them happy. A happy customer leaves a happy review, right? Unfortunately this seller didn't do that.

  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    Dropping it is not in my nature. If you screw up and are an online seller, you can be damned well sure I'll let people know in some way especially if you ten tell me what to rate you. Quite frankly, dropping it is just a ridiculous idea.

  • The EnderThe Ender Registered User regular
    Oops; I thought I'd read eBay.

    My own score tends to be:

    5: The transaction went more or less smoothly. Item arrived on time, in more or less exactly the condition I expect.
    4: Smooth transaction, but there was some minor issue: maybe the item was late, or maybe there's some slight damage.
    3: Not a smooth transaction, but I did get the item and it works or the seller sent a replacement via priority mail.
    2: Not a smooth transaction; I either received a broken item or no item arrived. Upon contacting the seller, they offered to ship a replacement but not via priority mail.
    1: Not a smooth transaction; I either received a broken item or no item arrived. Upon contacting the seller, they offered a refund.
    0: Outright theft of my money. No item / broken item, no response from seller upon contacting them.

    I guess that's considered kind of harsh?


    On the bright side, I've never had to give anyone a 0 or 1, and probably 95% of the time I've given 5 star ratings. The Internet is still my favorite shopping mall. :D

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  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    Nope, that's how I'd rate them too Ender. Caveat being that if I have to charge back, it's immediate worst possible rating. If they refund me no questions ask it's 3-4.

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  • VanityPantsVanityPants Gokai Red! Registered User regular
    I agree with Ender and everyone else saying the 2 to 3 star rating would be appropriate.

    He refunded you, but he shouldn't be rewarded (either with no review or with 4+ stars). The fact of the matter is that he shouldn't have listed it as like new. He shouldn't have even SOLD it. Even in the best case scenario he lied about the condition and most likely he was hoping you just wouldn't want to bother dealing with the refund process.

    If you don't rate people like this or if you give them false reviews, you're paving the way for more people who will trust this guy and get burned for it.

    Definitely make sure the refund clears first, but then rate him accurately.

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  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    If it were me I'd probably just not rate him. Could've been an honest mistake and he apparently responded in a prompt and satisfactory way.

    Twist my arm, I'd probably give him a three. You're rating your interaction with the seller, and in this case it seems like it's been decent aside from the damaged goods.

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  • Marty81Marty81 Registered User regular
    If it were me I'd probably just not rate him. Could've been an honest mistake and he apparently responded in a prompt and satisfactory way.

    Twist my arm, I'd probably give him a three. You're rating your interaction with the seller, and in this case it seems like it's been decent aside from the damaged goods.

    And the lost time, of course. That shit ain't free.

  • DhalphirDhalphir don't you open that trapdoor you're a fool if you dareRegistered User regular
    I reduce ratings by one star for any seller who asks me to give a false rating, or to refrain from making a bad rating entirely.

    To me, it defeats the entire purpose of the ratings system, and I won't be a part of their dodgy bullshit.

  • Foolish ChaosFoolish Chaos Registered User regular
    People view seller ratings far more critically than they view just about anything else. A 3 star movie is considered okay, but you are to stay the fuck away from someone with a 60% approval rating on amazon/eBay.

    If you feel like he should be punished then rate a 3 or lower. Personally I would just not leave anything, but I tend to value service over what was probably a mistake (he ate the shipping cost I assume. This isn't the type of thing he wants to do consistantly).

  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    Well you have a 40% chance to get fucked. A 3 star movie can be enjoyable on some level. Hell I've enjoyed some 1 star movies. Fuck me if I'd give my money to someone with a 10% approval rating though.

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  • The EnderThe Ender Registered User regular
    (he ate the shipping cost I assume. This isn't the type of thing he wants to do consistantly).

    ...Except that you can get away with it for quite a while as an electronic retailer, because most consumers for whatever reason will not bother asking for a refund. Even if the product never arrives and the 'seller' is outright stealing money, buyers often won't even contact the crook (much less report them).

    The 'good' thing is that buyers also don't often give any rating after receiving their purchase unless the seller does a follow-up, so ratings do eventually end-up being a decent indicator of how reliable the seller is (because some people will eventually 1-star the scumbags, while absolutely nobody will 5-star them).

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  • darqnessdarqness KCMORegistered User regular
    The Ender wrote: »
    (he ate the shipping cost I assume. This isn't the type of thing he wants to do consistantly).

    ...Except that you can get away with it for quite a while as an electronic retailer, because most consumers for whatever reason will not bother asking for a refund. Even if the product never arrives and the 'seller' is outright stealing money, buyers often won't even contact the crook (much less report them).

    I'd like to know where you pulled this information from. In my experience if everything isn't perfect, the customer won't hesitate to let you know before leaving their review. Which I appreciate, because if there IS a problem, I need to know before they leave a feedback/score. I hardly think this guy could get away with sending DVDs that don't even work. Let alone that a customer would just say "oh, well", and not bother pursuing a refund or resolution on a defective that doesn't even work.

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