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Privacy at work

PearlsBeforeHamPearlsBeforeHam Registered User new member
edited March 2007 in Help / Advice Forum
I've recently moved upstairs at work so I have a new desk and even a new computer. The problem? Directly behind me is the vulture lady from hell who ALWAYS tries to spy over me and check that I'm doing my work, which means she's probably not doing her job.

Anyway at my disposal is Ghostzilla, the phantom browser, but with the new position of the desks she can easily poke her head up and glare at my screen. This isn't good, since it's cutting my slacking time in half (ha ha). But even if I'm doing work, I get that irrational feeling of someone watching over my shoulder, although the difference here is that someone probably is and that bugs me.

Basically what I need is a mirror. Or just something reflective so I can see if the eyes of the beast are upon me. Of course I could just buy an official monitor mirror but there's just one problem. It's so damn obvious. My manager would be like "HMM say Amanda why do you have a HUGE ASS MIRROR on your monitor?!?". So that's out of the question. Any sort of mirror seems to be obvious so I need something which maybe JUST happens to be reflective, yet it's natural that it's there on my desk.

I was thinking maybe one of those "mirrory" picture frames which would allow me to see behind me without looking too obvious. Metal pens etc aren't good enough because they're too small and the reflections aren't clear.

So what I'm asking is for ideas for something reflective I could purchase which could sit on my desk/wall and show me what's behind me. eBay links, pictures etc would be appreciated.

Of course, other suggestions are welcome, but if I could avoid escalating this silly situation that'd be great.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited March 2007
    Mirrored-sunglasses.

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  • Pants ManPants Man Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    uh, is it that lady's job to make sure you're doing what you're supposed to be doing? because if not, just tell her that she's bugging you and distracting you from your work. then she looks like the slacker douche.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Buy a vanity mirror (one of the swivel ones with a stand), and put it on your desk. If anyone asks, it's there so you can check your hair and makeup, to make sure you look professional.

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  • PirateJonPirateJon Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
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  • PearlsBeforeHamPearlsBeforeHam Registered User new member
    edited March 2007
    Pants Man wrote: »
    uh, is it that lady's job to make sure you're doing what you're supposed to be doing? because if not, just tell her that she's bugging you and distracting you from your work. then she looks like the slacker douche.
    I'll probably have to eventually confront this, but making her spying harder might be better in the end because she could still get caught slacking off and I wouldn't have to register a complaint (which might look like I have something to hide).

    But you're right, it'll probably come down to that.
    Mirrored-sunglasses.
    That'd probably be pretty inconspicuous. Good call.
    Buy a vanity mirror (one of the swivel ones with a stand), and put it on your desk. If anyone asks, it's there so you can check your hair and makeup, to make sure you look professional.
    I'm tempted to, but I wonder if she's already seen me using my compact. I guess it doesn't matter though.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Buy a vanity mirror (one of the swivel ones with a stand), and put it on your desk. If anyone asks, it's there so you can check your hair and makeup, to make sure you look professional.
    I'm tempted to, but I wonder if she's already seen me using my compact. I guess it doesn't matter though.
    Is she your supervisor, or is she just some nosy bitch?

    If it's the latter, why do you give a shit if she knows you're looking at her?

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  • PearlsBeforeHamPearlsBeforeHam Registered User new member
    edited March 2007
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Buy a vanity mirror (one of the swivel ones with a stand), and put it on your desk. If anyone asks, it's there so you can check your hair and makeup, to make sure you look professional.
    I'm tempted to, but I wonder if she's already seen me using my compact. I guess it doesn't matter though.
    Is she your supervisor, or is she just some nosy bitch?

    If it's the latter, why do you give a shit if she knows you're looking at her?
    She is just a "nosy bitch", and like I said before my paranoia is pretty irrational considering that.

    But it's an awkward feeling that I'd like to shake.

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  • crakecrake Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    You need to go to your manager. Just tell him that it's creeping you out that she has that direct line view on the back of your head like that, and it's making it really hard for you to work. (that last line is really important) If you do it with the right amount of confidence/firmness, the thought of you hiding something shouldn't even come up. Everyone hates having someone sitting behind them like that, no matter how anti-slacker they are.

    Think up a solution first though, eh. Like where your desk could be moved or turned, without disrupting the office too much, etc.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Buy a vanity mirror (one of the swivel ones with a stand), and put it on your desk. If anyone asks, it's there so you can check your hair and makeup, to make sure you look professional.
    I'm tempted to, but I wonder if she's already seen me using my compact. I guess it doesn't matter though.
    Is she your supervisor, or is she just some nosy bitch?

    If it's the latter, why do you give a shit if she knows you're looking at her?
    She is just a "nosy bitch", and like I said before my paranoia is pretty irrational considering that.

    But it's an awkward feeling that I'd like to shake.
    Make a point of making it awkward for her. When you catch her, ask "not enough work to do, [bitch's name]?"

    What's she going to do, complain that you caught her spying on you?

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  • GrundlterrorGrundlterror Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Remember in True Likes Ah-nold had the pack of cigarettes w/ the camera that displayed on his sunglasses... that would be pretty useful in this situation.

    Maybe you should start writing an email to your boss complaining about how you suspect shes not doing any work because shes always looking over your shoulder at what work you are doing... and be in the middle of it next time she looks over your shoulder (if she can read it).... don't send it just so she gets scared and starts doing her work.

    Or if you wanna be an asshole about it and you guys can help each other out with work, next time you see her peeking over your shoulder tell her "Instead of looking over my shoulder at what I'm doing, why don't you help me on blahblahblah since you obviously have run out of work to do."

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  • crakecrake Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Make a point of making it awkward for her. When you catch her, ask "not enough work to do, [bitch's name]?"

    What's she going to do, complain that you caught her spying on you?

    That kind of stuff is more personally satisfying, then actually constructive though. Confrontational stuff like that tends to start up a lot of nasty office politics. It's usually best not to get involved in something like that within the office, and instead going directly to HR or management for a confidential discussion.

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  • DortmunderDortmunder Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Try to find a reason to have your desk moved - like not enough light, too much light, etc?

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  • StephenB.2006StephenB.2006 Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    A coworker of mine has a nice mirror with a sort of stained glass-ish border in a metal frame for exactly this purpose. The mirror is obviously decorative in nature and hangs on the wall.

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  • drinkinstoutdrinkinstout Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    lots of people in office/cube environments have mirrors in their cubes for seeing when people come up behind them - especially if you are allowed to wear headphones while working (I have no idea what you do) so getting one shouldn't look too out-of-the-ordinary and it might make her stop, knowing that you now have the means of seeing her looking at you.

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  • redpandaredpanda Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    em.... set up a webcam so that you could see over your shoulder.

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  • Filler Inc.Filler Inc. Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    WHy not just stare at her everytime she stares at you? Or make it a point to look in on her everytime you walk past her. See how she likes it.

    Also, is it completely out of the question to move your computer?

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  • GrimmyTOAGrimmyTOA Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Could you shift the angle of the screen and put one of those privacy filter films on it?

    The ones you can get for laptops that are used in public places.

    You probably wouldn't have to shift the screen much, and if you do it before she gets in one morning/while she's at lunch... then there's no problem.

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  • NPNP Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    I don't think it would be too awkward getting a discreet little mirror for your desk. In fact, the company that I work for even gives away mirrors so that you won't get the shit scared out of you if someone approaches you from behind and you don't realize that they're there. It's also used to make sure no one's looking over your shoulder when you're typing in your password. Just buy a mirror and give exactly this reason if you ever find yourself in a position to justify it (though, to be honest, you're better off telling your boss that you're just uncomfortable that this lady keeps looking over your shoulder and it's affecting your work--no one likes that shit, it would make anybody uncomfortable).

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  • SarcastroSarcastro Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    I would get a basic picture frame, and then get one of those really dark, grainy photos of your friends/loved ones hanging out somewhere. The darker the picture, the better the reflection - should be inconspicuous enough to not get called on.

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  • MichaelLCMichaelLC In what furnace was thy brain? ChicagoRegistered User regular
    edited March 2007
    redpanda wrote: »
    em.... set up a webcam so that you could see over your shoulder.

    Just have it running in a small window on your desktop, so when she's looking over at you, she'll see herself. Then you can snap a frame, and email it to her.

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  • necroSYSnecroSYS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited March 2007
    Invest (or have your company invest) in a privacy screen for your monitor. You can pretend it's to keep company information confidential and no one can see what you're doing unless they're physically standing immediately behind you.

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