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Should I tell her that I'm her secret admirer?

LovesMudkipsLovesMudkips Registered User new member
edited September 2012 in Help / Advice Forum
I originally posted this in the wrong thread, my apologies.

I met this girl last year, but we only really started talking about 6 months ago when we started working together. As I got to know her, I really started to like her, and for a while I thought she liked me too, we went out for lunch and got milkshakes together and stuff like that a few times, but nothing I wouldn't really do with any of my other friends, not that I really have that many other friends.

I can't stop thinking about her lately, not like 24/7 or anything like that, but I mean a lot. Well I never got around to telling her how I felt, because I wasn't really sure if she felt the same way, so basically your average "need girl advice" thread, but today I went and did something off a whim.

I've been to her house a few different times before, so I know where she lives. Today I did something insane, something so unlike me, something unpredictable! At risk of seeming a little creepy, I wrote a letter and put it in an envelope. I signed the letter with "Your secret admirer," and placed it at her door step along with a red rose I had just bought. Then I knocked on her door and ran faster than I have ever run before.

Well when I got home, I got on Facebook and saw that she just updated her status, it's addressed to her secret admirer (me), she wants to know who wrote the letter. Well here is my predicament, do I tell her it was me or not?

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  • SentrySentry Registered User regular
    Yes, if only to stop this from getting completely out of hand.

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    When I was a little kid, I always pretended I was the hero,' Skip said.
    'Fuck yeah, me too. What little kid ever pretended to be part of the lynch-mob?'
  • BradicusMaximusBradicusMaximus Pssssssssyyyyyyyy duckRegistered User regular
    I don't know why, but I found the knocking and running faster than ever before hilarious. But yes, I would definitely tell her. Whats not telling her going to accomplish! I would wait to talk to her about it in person if possible. But thats because I think talking to someone about your feelings is a bit silly on a social platform.

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  • ArbitraryDescriptorArbitraryDescriptor Registered User regular
    He could split the difference and just call her to explain. The less time she has to worry about some creep skulking around her bushes the better.

  • Pure DinPure Din Boston-areaRegistered User regular
    ArbitraryDescriptor wrote: »
    He could split the difference and just call her to explain. The less time she has to worry about some creep skulking around her bushes the better.

    Call her right away to apologize for being creepy, but dont put her on the spot by asking her on a date or pressing on her feelings until you see her in person.

  • EshEsh Tending bar. FFXIV. Motorcycles. Portland, ORRegistered User regular
    Pure Din wrote: »
    ArbitraryDescriptor wrote: »
    He could split the difference and just call her to explain. The less time she has to worry about some creep skulking around her bushes the better.

    Call her right away to apologize for being creepy, but dont put her on the spot by asking her on a date or pressing on her feelings until you see her in person.

    This. Also, red roses are really overdoing it. Just call her up and ask her out if you need to.

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