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Going Into Surgery Solo

TalkaTalka Registered User regular
edited February 2013 in Help / Advice Forum
I'm 24 years old and getting my wisdom teeth removed in a week. I'll be under general anesthesia. My oral surgeon was adamant I bring someone with me on the day of the surgery to 1) listen to any post-surgery instructions and 2) drive me home. I agreed on the spot without considering I don't have anyone who can do that:
  • I don't really have friends in my city
  • My roommate is abroad for the next three months and I'm living alone
  • My parents are 800 miles away
  • I'm reluctant to ask my coworkers for a variety of reasons. Mostly embarrassment ("why can't you ask a friend?"). Also, I've kept secret from my coworkers that I have lingual (behind-the-teeth) braces, and that secret would come out if one of them accompanied me for oral surgery.
To anyone who's undergone elective surgery with general anesthesia when living alone in a new city... how did you do it?

Local anesthesia is apparently not an option, and I'd rather not delay the procedure.

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  • SkeithSkeith Registered User regular
    If it's an issue of instructions, bring a tape recorder, or ask them to type something up for you instead. Arrange for a cab home.

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  • November FifthNovember Fifth Registered User regular
    I would recommend calling the surgeon's office and explaining your situation.

    Ideally, one of his/her assistants might want to make some money on their day off, and you could pay them to sit/drive for you during the surgery.

    Or fly your mom/dad in for a couple days and do some bonding.

    Also, none of your co-workers care about your braces.

  • FantasmaFantasma Registered User regular
    It is not a good idea to just let some stranger take you home or just let someone throw you into a cab, many things could go wrong, I have been in this situation several times.

    It is possible to endure the procedure with local anesthesia, BUT you would need someone with you anyway, you would be defenseless, in great pain, and there is the possibility you could panic in the middle of the surgery with very nasty results.

    Perhaps you could just postpone the surgery.

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  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    Also, none of your co-workers care about your braces.

    This. I guarantee you no one cares; hidden braces just aren't high on the list of things an adult is likely to give a shit about or even a second thought to. So this concern is a little on the silly side.

    It also happens that asking a coworker is probably your best option right now, so you may want to try that first. They don't have to tuck you into bed or hold your hand while your teeth are getting ripped out, all they have to do is get you safely from point A to point B and back. If they are going to have you under general probably no one is going to be allowed in the room anyway.

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  • Bliss 101Bliss 101 Registered User regular
    Incidentally there's an entire 30 Rock episode about this very topic.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s32LBvkO6co

    Definitely get someone to come with you. Not only is going alone potentially dangerous, there is also a possibility that they refuse to perform the surgery if there's nobody accompanying you. Ask a coworker. There's nothing to be embarrassed about (certainly not the braces). Just tell them that your friends and family don't happen to be available at that time, and ask if they could help you out. I have never been under general anesthesia, but I've accompanied my mom, and she was barely functional for the rest of the day. I'm not sure she could even have managed a cab drive home.

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  • Dr. FrenchensteinDr. Frenchenstein Registered User regular
    my dentist must have been a monster, he did local anesthesia for me...(the horror... those noises...)

  • GnomeTankGnomeTank What the what? Portland, OregonRegistered User regular
    None of your coworkers will care about your bracers, seriously. You have to have a halfway decent "work buddy", most people do...just explain the situation. Parents 800 miles away, roommate out of town, haven't made a lot of friends yet, getting my wisdom teeth yanked. Most adults will understand and sympathize with that situation and someone will give you a hand.

    Your other option is to fly mom or dad in for a couple of days. That's what I'm doing when I have surgery later this year, flying my mom in for a couple of days.

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  • GnomeTankGnomeTank What the what? Portland, OregonRegistered User regular
    my dentist must have been a monster, he did local anesthesia for me...(the horror... those noises...)

    It depends entirely on how bad the teeth are. If they are severely impacted, requiring serious amounts of cutting, they will use general. If they are just going to break them and pull them out, sometimes they won't.

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  • minirhyderminirhyder BerlinRegistered User regular
    You'll be pretty messed up from the anesthesia.
    Think a long night of drinking with an empty stomach.

    You'll be dizzy, disoriented, possibly a bit nauseous. You definitely don't want to make the trek home alone.
    Either bite the bullet and ask a coworker, or let the office know of the pickle you are in.

  • supabeastsupabeast Registered User regular
    Get help. The effects of general anesthesia can be pretty intense and you may not even be able to get out of a cab and into your home without help.

  • BlazeFireBlazeFire Registered User regular
    My vote is for "Fly mom here" because the first little while after your surgery isn't going to be all that pleasant. I was 20 when I had mine done (all four, impacted) and having my mom around for four or five days was awesome.

  • TheKoolEagleTheKoolEagle Registered User regular
    yeah, having someone nearby after the surgery for a few days is a very good thing, because you will feel like crap, and probably won't be able to do much. I know when my wife had her wisdom teeth pulled she was out of it most of the day and felt terrible. Having someone there to take care of you is something you will want afterwards.

    I'd agree to the fly mom in for a few days if she can

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  • CherryCherry Registered User regular
    When they had put me under general anaesthesia for my wisdom teeth I was so out of it. I managed to get out of the dentist office, and almost fall down a set of escalators. And that was while my brother was watching me/paying the bill. When it was my brother's turn to have his wisdom teeth out, he thought he was Spiderman. Seriously, have someone there. Fly out a parent, or ask a co-worker. You are not fit to be taking care of yourself for at least the first few hours afterwards.

    And for hilarity's sake: David after the dentist

  • NightDragonNightDragon 6th Grade Username Registered User regular
    Definitely ask a coworker. I remember thinking that I'd be mostly coherent after going under for my wisdom teeth...but I still had my mother come with me to drive me back home.

    When I woke up, not only was I crying for absolutely no reason (I remember the doctor said that's common after general anesthesia), I was completely disoriented and goofy. When I tried to stand up ten minutes after waking up, I was wobbly and remember falling-leaning on the doorframe and giggling that I couldn't walk properly.

    Absolutely get one of your coworkers to help you out. They will not care about your braces. :)

  • firewaterwordfirewaterword Satchitananda Pais Vasco to San FranciscoRegistered User regular
    Like everyone else has said, get a co-worker to help you out. It is absolutely necessary, and chances are higher than you might think that one of them may have been in a similar situation at one point.

    I promise you you'll want someone there to help you out. I had mine out years ago, but I looked and felt like I'd gone 10 rounds with Tyson for a week or so afterwards. And the blood... ugh.

    Anyway, general will funk your stuff up. Probably for a good few hours. After that, if you're anything like me, you'll be popping percocets like tic-tacs anyway. But here's hoping you have a better experience than I did!

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  • CycloneRangerCycloneRanger Registered User regular
    You can ask if he'll do the extractions with local anaesthesia only. I had 8 extractions on the same day (four wisdom teeth and four others removed so I could have braces--my two lower wisdom teeth needed surgical extractions) and my dentist used only local anaesthetic.

    While this was... not pleasant, I survived and was able to walk to the drugstore afterward to pick up my medication, and then walk home.

    Some dentists might not be comfortable attempting something like that, but if you really can't get a ride it's worth a shot.

  • TalkaTalka Registered User regular
    Thanks, everyone. I feel more at ease that asking a coworker would not be embarrassing. However, your descriptions of post-anesthesia wackiness makes me a little uncomfortable... I don't want to do anything inappropriate or embarrassing in front of my coworkers, even if I'm relatively sure they'd understand.

  • firewaterwordfirewaterword Satchitananda Pais Vasco to San FranciscoRegistered User regular
    edited February 2013
    Talka wrote: »
    Thanks, everyone. I feel more at ease that asking a coworker would not be embarrassing. However, your descriptions of post-anesthesia wackiness makes me a little uncomfortable... I don't want to do anything inappropriate or embarrassing in front of my coworkers, even if I'm relatively sure they'd understand.

    Don't worry too much about it man. It's just one of those things. You shouldn't let the potential for minor embarrassment get in the way of your health and safety and all that.

    Besides, assuming you don't work with complete jackasses, I'd say you really don't have anything to worry about. While it effects everyone differently, anyone who has been under general knows how weird it is to come out. Worry more about having enough apple sauce, mashed potatoes, and painkillers on hand!

    * Oh and for what it's worth, I couldn't even begin to imagine having it done with local. Euuugggh... Even if the oral surgeon was paying me. God how awful!

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    Talka wrote: »
    Thanks, everyone. I feel more at ease that asking a coworker would not be embarrassing. However, your descriptions of post-anesthesia wackiness makes me a little uncomfortable... I don't want to do anything inappropriate or embarrassing in front of my coworkers, even if I'm relatively sure they'd understand.
    If anything, this is likely to be more of a bonding experience with a coworker. No one who's not a jackass is going to take that seriously.

  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    Hey, holy shit - an anesthesia question! I do anesthesia! How convenient!

    First, wisdom teeth are not a big deal and I am betting (99% sure) you're not actually having general anesthesia. General anesthesia means you will be rendered unconscious and an artificial breathing tube placed in your trachea for the duration of the surgery. This also requires a ton of monitoring and a nurse anesthetist or an anesthesiologist. If this is being done in their office more likely it's sedation.

    Anyway.

    Second, you need a ride home because the anesthesia provider is liable for that trip home. Oddly enough, so are maternity nurses for the initial ride home from the baby (that's why hospital security is tasked for putting in the child's care seat), weird, huh?

    Third, just ask a co-worker or call a cab, really not a big deal.

    If you'd like more information on your anesthetic please PM me!

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  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    MegaMan001 wrote: »
    Hey, holy shit - an anesthesia question! I do anesthesia! How convenient!

    First, wisdom teeth are not a big deal and I am betting (99% sure) you're not actually having general anesthesia. General anesthesia means you will be rendered unconscious and an artificial breathing tube placed in your trachea for the duration of the surgery. This also requires a ton of monitoring and a nurse anesthetist or an anesthesiologist. If this is being done in their office more likely it's sedation.

    Anyway.

    Second, you need a ride home because the anesthesia provider is liable for that trip home. Oddly enough, so are maternity nurses for the initial ride home from the baby (that's why hospital security is tasked for putting in the child's care seat), weird, huh?

    Third, just ask a co-worker or call a cab, really not a big deal.

    If you'd like more information on your anesthetic please PM me!

    Technically correct. For the use of this thread, though, people have been meaning laughing gas for general anesthesia, even though that isn't what it means.

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  • benholiobenholio Registered User regular
    I went to an oral surgeon to have my wisdom teeth out. My normal dentist referred me. He really pushed general anesthesia over twilight sedation. He said some people still feel discomfort with sedation. They had their own anesthesiologist on staff. It was great.

  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    @DARKEWOLFE There is no goddamn technically correct. It's general anesthesia or it's not. Stop pretending to know what you're talking about. Asshole.

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  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    MegaMan001 wrote: »
    Hey, holy shit - an anesthesia question! I do anesthesia! How convenient!

    First, wisdom teeth are not a big deal and I am betting (99% sure) you're not actually having general anesthesia. General anesthesia means you will be rendered unconscious and an artificial breathing tube placed in your trachea for the duration of the surgery. This also requires a ton of monitoring and a nurse anesthetist or an anesthesiologist. If this is being done in their office more likely it's sedation.

    Anyway.

    Second, you need a ride home because the anesthesia provider is liable for that trip home. Oddly enough, so are maternity nurses for the initial ride home from the baby (that's why hospital security is tasked for putting in the child's care seat), weird, huh?

    Third, just ask a co-worker or call a cab, really not a big deal.

    If you'd like more information on your anesthetic please PM me!

    Technically correct. For the use of this thread, though, people have been meaning laughing gas for general anesthesia, even though that isn't what it means.

    No he said "general anesthesia," and I know what those words mean and it's not laughing gas, so I've been assuming he's going to a hospital for a few hours and having it done outpatient because that's what general anesthesia is. I tend to assume people mean the words they use, though. I've known a lot of people to have their wisdom teeth out this way due to impacting or having them fail to come in enough to pull without it, so it doesn't seem like a strange thing to me.

    And it seems like all is dying, and would leave the world to mourn
  • TabooPhantasyTabooPhantasy Registered User regular
    My husband and I have both had our wisdom teeth out and both of us were put under for the procedure. Our post-op experiences could not have been more different. He was very ill the first night and completely miserable for about a week after the procedure. He was hardly able to function and went through a lot of heave duty pain meds (lucky for me he was still living with his mom!)
    After my procedure, I woke up (no strange "episodes" or behaviour) and had him drive me home. I slept in the car on the way home, about a 30 - 40 minute drive and when I got home I took two Vicoden, and slept on the couch for most of the rest of the day. The next day I was up and moving and totally self-sufficient. I didn't need anything beyond a couple of 200mg ibuprofen a couple times a day for the next few days. I was back at work after two days and by day 4 I didn't need any painkillers. The worst part for me was a week after the operation when I had to go back in for them to remove the packing. I was miserable and in more pain after that than I was from the actual act of having my teeth out.

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  • firewaterwordfirewaterword Satchitananda Pais Vasco to San FranciscoRegistered User regular
    I think it really depends on the surgeon and if/how badly they're impacted. I don't really remember it (go figure...), but I went through vicodin, vicodin ES, then finally percocet before things were manageable. I was also dosed up to the gills on valium because the constant bleeding was freaking me right the fuck out.

    But I'm sure you'll have a better experience, OP! :D

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  • TalkaTalka Registered User regular
    edited February 2013
    I don't know if I'm getting general anesthesia or sedation. I was told the anesthetics will be administered through a needle in my hand, that I would be "knocked out," that I would "have no recollection of the events," and that I would not have a breathing tube placed in my trachea. That might be "general anesthesia" or that might be "sedation." I don't really know the difference.

    It's 50/50 that my dad is going to drive up to spend the weekend with me. That's my preference, at this point. Hearing everyone's stories has made me worry I've been underestimating the seriousness of the procedure (not in terms of risk or anything like that... just in terms of how non-functional I might be for a few days).

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  • Sir Headless VIISir Headless VII Registered User regular
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oS3Olh9DnaE

    That is a person after their wisdom teeth were removed. I don't remember most of the day after I had mine removed. That said, I have had anesthesia several times and I always am always more out of it than would be expected so I may be overstating it.

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  • KarrmerKarrmer Registered User regular
    As a counter-point, I had my wisdom teeth removed when I was 26, under general anesthesia, and I was pretty much just fine about 10 minutes after and in basically 0 pain from that moment on.

    So it might be awful, or it might not. Who knows.

  • zepherinzepherin Russian warship, go fuck yourself Registered User regular
    I walked home, but my dentist was less than a half mile, I was pretty looped up though. It might be advantageous to join one of the PA meetups in your area. The biger problem isn't getting home from the dentist, as it is that you don't have friends in the area.

  • FightTestFightTest Registered User regular
    edited February 2013
    I've had wisdom teeth out both ways.

    When I was 19 I had two non-erupted teeth removed surgically and had general anesthesia (aka knocked out via IV). I was way fucking out of it when I woke up, but by the time I got home (~30 minutes later, mother drove me) I was mostly okay. I don't think it would be a big deal to have a cab drive you home. By the time you get there (especially if you sit at the office for a few minutes) you should be coherent enough to handle yourself. (Protip: have some jello premade and ready to go, I got nauseous when I got home and jello fixed me up.)

    A few weeks ago I had my third and final (erupted) wisdom tooth removed as a simple extraction. Novocaine and tug tug out. No big deal. Drove home and went about my day.

    I'd feel awkward as shit asking co-workers to take time off to babysit for me so I'd definitely try to go the cab route. Just explain to your dental office you'd like a few minutes to regain your senses before they summon a cab. You'll probably be chatty as fuck if you're anything like me/every youtube video of post-anesthesia people.

    edit.. ps, just read the braces part, nobody will give half a shit. It's crazy that you even consider that.

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  • SiskaSiska Shorty Registered User regular
    edited February 2013
    When my husband had his wisdom teeth carved out it took him at least an hour before he was anything resembling competent after waking up. Barely conscious and badly slurring his words. Definitely not in any condition to even ride in a cab home by himself. I guess it really depends how long they let you stay there after you wake up and what they use to sedate you. With my hubby it was very much we need you to leave 10 minutes ago.

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  • kaliyamakaliyama Left to find less-moderated fora Registered User regular
    People are posting their own experiences where they were fine like its a "counter argument." The point is that nobody knows how OP will react until he goes in there.

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