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TERRIFIED THAT I'M PREGNANT!
Ally1234
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Is it possible that i'm pregnant? My boyfriend of 7 months and I finally had sex for the first time. Anyway, I refuse to have intercourse with out condoms because i'm not taking any other BC temporarily. This is the first time we had sex, and it was with a condom. I felt I was safe because I keep track of my ovulation days and according to my symptoms and the calendar I ovulated 3-5 days before intercourse. I recently read if you want to aid or avoid conception, cervical mucus observations are said to be around 98.5% accurate as to the fertile and infertile times in your monthly cycle. I had very little CM the morning before intercourse (Yellow in color , Sticky , Very Dense) Mittlleshmertz 3-5 days prior. However, iv'e never taken an official test therefore, I know my observations aren't perfect. Before we had vaginal sex he came 2 times in two different condoms, again this was with no vaginal penetration whatsoever and away from that area aswel (if that did anything) within 30 - 45 minutes. During the time we had intercourse he cleaned himself and got a new condom. It fit perfectly and we began intercourse. It lasted a few minutes then he came into the condom, he pulled out, still mostly erect, and everything seemed fine. This was at 11:37pm. I took the condom off him, away from my vagina, so we could examine it. It did not appear abnormally wet, out of place, or damaged. As I held it up over my stomach, I felt something drip on me! He looked at it and again it didn't appear broken. He believes the reason it dripped was because I was holding it/ removed it wrong. After my boyfriend checked the condoms and didn't see any holes. But he thought one was damp. He believes I'm okay and that I simply held it wrong causing semen to spill/drip around the rim.
In the morning I woke up early to re-check all the condoms closely. I know this is gross but, I picked each used one up, used two fingers in a downward motion and squeezed the remaining liquid, stretching condom from the rim to the tip as well. They were absolutely dry on the outside everything stayed inside! Only the third one was damp around rim. I still didn't see any holes. My main concern was the tip, when filled wit liquid, did not have the slightest drip. We took a Plan B around 2:00pm or 2:30pm (about 15hrs later) that day. I know they say condoms are 98% effective and Plan B One Step is 95% effective if taken within 24 hrs., but I'm still freaking out! By the way, I'm 19 years old and I weigh 145-150lbs at 5'7 and healthy. (I only mention that because I learned Plan B doesn't work after 165lbs+. I almost broke down today crying because I'm so scared my parents look down on girls who get pregnant young. I can't find anyone to talk to all my friends are christian as well as most of my relatives and very judgmental!! I haven't skipped a period, but I'm due in a few days! PLEASE HELP ME!
In the morning I woke up early to re-check all the condoms closely. I know this is gross but, I picked each used one up, used two fingers in a downward motion and squeezed the remaining liquid, stretching condom from the rim to the tip as well. They were absolutely dry on the outside everything stayed inside! Only the third one was damp around rim. I still didn't see any holes. My main concern was the tip, when filled wit liquid, did not have the slightest drip. We took a Plan B around 2:00pm or 2:30pm (about 15hrs later) that day. I know they say condoms are 98% effective and Plan B One Step is 95% effective if taken within 24 hrs., but I'm still freaking out! By the way, I'm 19 years old and I weigh 145-150lbs at 5'7 and healthy. (I only mention that because I learned Plan B doesn't work after 165lbs+. I almost broke down today crying because I'm so scared my parents look down on girls who get pregnant young. I can't find anyone to talk to all my friends are christian as well as most of my relatives and very judgmental!! I haven't skipped a period, but I'm due in a few days! PLEASE HELP ME!
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I imagine the anxiety can't make it very fun.
Edit: Removed my second paragraph since I missed the "temporarily" part, so you seem to know the score on that.
Yeah, by the post it doesn't sound like you're having much fun, Ally. If the threat of pregnancy is making PIV sex so stressful do other things, like oral or anal. Hell, do anal on him. This is intimate stuff you should be enjoying with another human being, not stuff you should be doing and then worrying about the fallout afterward.
You urgently need long-term birth control because you sound very neurotic about it. I suggest an IUD because they are implant-and-forget. Either that or Depo-Provera (a shot in the arm that lasts 3 months). Also use condoms to protect against STDs, as well as provide an extra layer of certainty.
See below for all possible methods.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-info/birth-control
In general, you might want to hold off on worrying about it until you're around 1 week late on your period, and this is very dependent on the regularity of your cycle too.
The time to discuss what you need to do in case of an accident is before you start having sex, not after. Hell, my ex and I had it down to a science- if there was a sign that something had broke, or something had gotten where it shouldn't, we headed out to the Planned Parenthood near campus and we either split the cost of a Plan B or I paid for it. It pretty much stopped the freakouts entirely on that subject- we knew what we had to do if it happened, and that was that.
If you took one, then I'm pretty sure you're safe- but the only real way to confirm is to wait for your next period. It might be wise to sit down with your boyfriend and discuss what you'll both do if this happens again so you're not freaking out the next time.
I can has cheezburger, yes?
Start with this stuff (the one's you're okay with) then work your way out from there. Penis in vagina sex is nowhere close to the only way to have intercourse nor is it necessarily the best way for every couple. Find something you both like that doesn't result in massive anxiety.
There is so much sex that isn't penis in vagina sex it makes penis in vagina sex look boring by comparison.