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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    Pinfeldorf wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    maybe you'll meet a nice apple farmer back in Somerset

    settle down, raise some pigs

    Down at the old pig and apple orchard do the pigs stuff the apple in their mouth and then climb onto the spit? Because that sounds too adorable to cook.

    But pig is also delicious...
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    I'd still rather not

  • ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

  • ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

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  • ToxTox I kill threads they/themRegistered User regular
    I'm gonna say financial domination is probably just a reinterpretation of the sugar daddy dynamic, for some. I mean, I have to assume that, like all domination, there's plenty of discussion before and during, so there's probably a budget involved, more or less (I hope!) so I can kinda see that.

    It's kinda like "topping from the bottom" meets sugar daddy, in a way. I guess.

    idfktbh

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  • PlatyPlaty Registered User regular
    Vice has a documentary on financial domination on Youtube

    There's nothing else in our societies which is so inherently connected with personal power like money and giving up money means giving up power

  • LiiyaLiiya Registered User regular
    Shen wrote: »
    Liiya wrote: »
    Do your work!

    I submitted all my work since September yesterday and it was Stressful. If you were local we could totes study.

    Liiya I've been meaning to ask actually, what's your field of study? Just in case my architecture mates know of anything that might be interesting/helpful.

    Landscape architecture!

  • PlatyPlaty Registered User regular
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

    You did by why people get sexually excited for it is one of those things I don't understand

  • ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

    You did by why people get sexually excited for it is one of those things I don't understand

    Because some people get excited by being under someone else's control/power

    its the same as pretty much any sort of BDSM thing

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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

    You did by why people get sexually excited for it is one of those things I don't understand

    Because some people get excited by being under someone else's control/power

    its the same as pretty much any sort of BDSM thing

    I understand the BDSM as that is a physical thing
    But getting off handing money or buying things for people you don't know is one of those weird things I just don't get as there is no Physical contact as far as I know it's all a mental thing

  • ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

    You did by why people get sexually excited for it is one of those things I don't understand

    Because some people get excited by being under someone else's control/power

    its the same as pretty much any sort of BDSM thing

    I understand the BDSM as that is a physical thing
    But getting off handing money or buying things for people you don't know is one of those weird things I just don't get as there is no Physical contact as far as I know it's all a mental thing

    I mean yes

    But a huge portion of arousal and attraction does not involve physical contact?

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  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

    You did by why people get sexually excited for it is one of those things I don't understand

    Sexual preferences are often not easy to understand, hence the wide array of phobias some people have for LGBT people, or the misconceptions that often surround kinky lifestyles and polyamory.

    It should always be our imperative to try and understand as much as we can, however, so as to avoid falling into the pitfalls of fear and hatred borne of ignorance which cause those people to suffer.

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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    Corehealer wrote: »

    It should always be our imperative to try and understand as much as we can, however, so as to avoid falling into the pitfalls of fear and hatred borne of ignorance which cause those people to suffer.

    This is one of the lessons my mother really did teach to my brothers and I

  • BillyIdleBillyIdle What does "katana" mean? It means "Japanese sword."Registered User regular
    I had a sugar momma for about 6 months. I still can't believe how spoiled I was at the time.

    PSN: BillyIdle_
  • OmnipotentBagelOmnipotentBagel floof Registered User regular
    edited December 2015
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Brainleech wrote: »
    Sassori wrote: »
    Is financial domination actually a thing? It sounds like something someone made up in a genius move of "If I tell someone this is a fetish surely there would be someone willing to try it and then I get free money without even having to meet someone in person..."

    Yes.
    I really don't understand it
    It's one of those things I just cannot figure out yet everytime I see it I end up trying to find out more about it

    Man this is gonna get weird super fast huh

    Spoiler-ed for people who don't wanna read about fetishes
    For submissives, its a form of worship for a domme.

    For me the "give money to someone you've never met" thing is weird, but I get it because I have engaged in financial play with a domme before. Its just another way of the domme asserting dominance and the submissive showing he/she is under the domme's power. The fact that this worship costs you financially can make it more intense.

    That's why I cannot figure it out

    But... I just explained it?

    You did by why people get sexually excited for it is one of those things I don't understand

    Because some people get excited by being under someone else's control/power

    its the same as pretty much any sort of BDSM thing

    I understand the BDSM as that is a physical thing
    But getting off handing money or buying things for people you don't know is one of those weird things I just don't get as there is no Physical contact as far as I know it's all a mental thing

    Mental things are a huge part of sexual attraction, and, well, sex in general. The degree to which mental vs. physical stimulation is important varies from person to person, but most people need some combination of the two, and some people need way more on the mental side than physical even. Figuring out that balance for both yourself and your partner(s) is an important aspect of a healthy sexual relationship.

    OmnipotentBagel on
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  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

    Do you guys try and pull out this sort of thing with other dialects of english or is it exclusively UK and Australian?
    Cause it would be pretty offensive for say, India.

  • ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

    Do you guys try and pull out this sort of thing with other dialects of english or is it exclusively UK and Australian?
    Cause it would be pretty offensive for say, India.

    If you'd like to hear a french canadian perform the most hilarious attempt at a US Southern Baptist Preacher ever I can hook you up

    I have a podcast about Power Rangers:Teenagers With Attitude | TWA Facebook Group
  • PinfeldorfPinfeldorf Yeah ZestRegistered User regular
    I find UK and Australians doing bad American accents to be extremely funny, I can only imagine a French Canadian doing the same is also funny!

  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

    Do you guys try and pull out this sort of thing with other dialects of english or is it exclusively UK and Australian?
    Cause it would be pretty offensive for say, India.

    If you'd like to hear a french canadian perform the most hilarious attempt at a US Southern Baptist Preacher ever I can hook you up

    I actually really, really would.

  • KarlKarl Registered User regular
    BillyIdle wrote: »
    I had a sugar momma for about 6 months. I still can't believe how spoiled I was at the time.

    How did that start?

    I'm honestly curious about the whole thing but if you don't want to get into it, I completely understand.

  • The BetgirlThe Betgirl I'm Molly! Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

    Do you guys try and pull out this sort of thing with other dialects of english or is it exclusively UK and Australian?
    Cause it would be pretty offensive for say, India.

    If you'd like to hear a french canadian perform the most hilarious attempt at a US Southern Baptist Preacher ever I can hook you up

    teenagers with attitude: a force for good

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  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

    Do you guys try and pull out this sort of thing with other dialects of english or is it exclusively UK and Australian?
    Cause it would be pretty offensive for say, India.

    I do this sort of thing with American dialects all the time, for fun. Indian English, never, because it would be more offensive and other people I know are better at simulating Indian accented English (and I don't mean the stereotypical version of that either) as well as the fact that my sister is dating an Indian man.

    I guess the difference, especially with the UK versions of English like Scottish accented English, is because I feel more agency and affinity surrounding those versions of English because of my Scottish Canadian heritage, even though I don't know nearly as much about the idiosyncrasies of that speech as I'd like. It's playful ribbing on something that I only know of through grandparents and observation from far away.

    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

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  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    Pinfeldorf wrote: »
    I find UK and Australians doing bad American accents to be extremely funny, I can only imagine a French Canadian doing the same is also funny!

    Having met many French Canadians, I can say for certainty that them attempting to do any English accent from anywhere would be worth paying money to hear, especially if they are from up north or along the St. Lawrence river.

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  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited December 2015
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    edit: if you want to feel exotic just go to australia for a while. We love canadians.

    tynic on
  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    Look, if anyone wants to buy me a lot of stuff and never really meet me, I'm fine with it.

    Just let me know

  • ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Geomancy at Hogwarts

    Otherwise known as dat posh sort o' magicked bricklayin' wot makes the stairs move around all clicky like on dey own, gov'.

    Do you guys try and pull out this sort of thing with other dialects of english or is it exclusively UK and Australian?
    Cause it would be pretty offensive for say, India.

    If you'd like to hear a french canadian perform the most hilarious attempt at a US Southern Baptist Preacher ever I can hook you up

    I actually really, really would.

    https://youtu.be/jO1ZQVlMuOk?t=444

    @Simben can oblige you, the bit starts at 7:24

    I have a podcast about Power Rangers:Teenagers With Attitude | TWA Facebook Group
  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    Perhaps in other parts of Canada, but around here in almost rural southern Ontario, it's pretty boring.

    I might just be used to it.

    488W936.png
  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Corehealer wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    Perhaps in other parts of Canada, but around here in almost rural southern Ontario, it's pretty boring.

    I might just be used to it.

    As someone who's managed to accidentally remove like 90% of their native phoneme markings, it's worth hanging onto just so when someone says "Say something super canadian" you don't find yourself faking your own accent.

  • PsykomaPsykoma Registered User regular
    Corehealer wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    Perhaps in other parts of Canada, but around here in almost rural southern Ontario, it's pretty boring.

    I might just be used to it.

    You're probably just used to it.

    But remember, this is Canadian also.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqLuIXwsLDw

  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    edit: if you want to feel exotic just go to australia for a while. We love canadians.

    I'd love to visit Aus someday, especially during this time of the year what with it being basically summer for Christmas as I understand it.

    And the fact that your toilets flush the other direction. Madness.

    Shame about the government though.

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  • PinfeldorfPinfeldorf Yeah ZestRegistered User regular
    Xaquin wrote: »
    Look, if anyone wants to buy me a lot of stuff and never really meet me, I'm fine with it.

    Just let me know

    I'm going to send you one stink lizard per day for the next thousand days.

  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    edited December 2015
    But is Midwestern American the weirdest accent?

    Uriel on
  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    Pinfeldorf wrote: »
    Xaquin wrote: »
    Look, if anyone wants to buy me a lot of stuff and never really meet me, I'm fine with it.

    Just let me know

    I'm going to send you one stink lizard per day for the next thousand days.

    Is that slang for a 100 dollar bill?

  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Corehealer wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    edit: if you want to feel exotic just go to australia for a while. We love canadians.

    I'd love to visit Aus someday, especially during this time of the year what with it being basically summer for Christmas as I understand it.

    And the fact that your toilets flush the other direction. Madness.

    Shame about the government though.

    this is a myth, sadly.

    But yes, summer Christmas is the greatest invention ever.

  • CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    Psykoma wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    Perhaps in other parts of Canada, but around here in almost rural southern Ontario, it's pretty boring.

    I might just be used to it.

    You're probably just used to it.

    But remember, this is Canadian also.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqLuIXwsLDw

    Oh I know, Newfies are a hoot. French, Scottish, Irish, English and Native languages all smushed together into a rainbow of puttin' da ol' slut on, an puttin' da wood in da 'ole afore we 'ave a good yarn.

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  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    tynic wrote: »
    Corehealer wrote: »
    Basically, Canadian English is boring and unaccented near as any version of English can be, and I wish it had more flavour if that makes sense.

    hahahahahaha oh god no it ain't.

    edit: if you want to feel exotic just go to australia for a while. We love canadians.

    I'd love to visit Aus someday, especially during this time of the year what with it being basically summer for Christmas as I understand it.

    And the fact that your toilets flush the other direction. Madness.

    Shame about the government though.

    this is a myth, sadly.

    But yes, summer Christmas is the greatest invention ever.

    WHAT?!

  • KarlKarl Registered User regular
    I spent a summer christmas in Goa once.

    It was great.

    Karl was sitting on beach drinking mojitos. Drunk as a lord.

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