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andys4587andys4587 Registered User new member
Hey everyone may seem stupid to post this but im really worried ok so i had sex with my ex on 24th april she had been off her period between 3-8 days not sure exactly and we used a condom and i pulled out ejaculated with condom on outside it wont let me post it in advice or help forum

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  • FoomyFoomy Registered User regular
    So your worried you got a girl pregnant?

    If you used a condom and did not ejaculate in her then the chances that she is pregnant are pretty much 0.

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  • DirtmuncherDirtmuncher Registered User regular
    edited May 2016
    You did put the condom on your penis?
    If you used the condom as it should be used there is a 99.9% change she isnt/won't get pregnant.

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  • WheatBun01WheatBun01 Face It, Tiger Registered User regular
    Go buy a pregnancy test and take it. They're relatively cheap and will ease your mind although if you used the condom correctly and didn't ejaculate inside her it's almost impossible she could be pregnant.

  • BroloBrolo Broseidon Lord of the BroceanRegistered User regular
    Oh boy! I can hear the anxiety in your post. I really sympathize with the situation you're in, and hope and pray that things work out for you. I do want to tell you out of love for you that the anxiety that you're feeling is there because you're not living up to God's plan for you! All of us fall short, but God's instructions for us (including keeping things that are for marriage inside marriage!) are there to help us! God bless you, Rebecca

    This might not be the best advice to listen to at this juncture.

  • bwaniebwanie Posting into the void Registered User regular
    well it's not really advice to begin with.

  • TubeTube Registered User admin
    Oh boy! I can hear the anxiety in your post. I really sympathize with the situation you're in, and hope and pray that things work out for you. I do want to tell you out of love for you that the anxiety that you're feeling is there because you're not living up to God's plan for you! All of us fall short, but God's instructions for us (including keeping things that are for marriage inside marriage!) are there to help us! God bless you, Rebecca

    This advice is not appropriate for this forum.

  • TubeTube Registered User admin
    This is not an appropriate venue for religious proselytizing.

  • PaladinPaladin Registered User regular
    In the rules thread at the top of the forum, there is a section on guidelines for posting in the Help/Advice forum, which among other things warns against being judgmental. That section should probably be transplanted to the H/A sticky.

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    Doc: That's right, twenty five years into the future. I've always dreamed on seeing the future, looking beyond my years, seeing the progress of mankind. I'll also be able to see who wins the next twenty-five world series.
  • PaladinPaladin Registered User regular
    Oh Paladin - I'm certainly not judging - we all fall short, and it's not my place to judge. I'm simply pointing out that God has a loving plan for Andy, and that his anxiety is being caused by straying from his heavenly Father's plan.

    This is a discussion piece that would be a hot topic for one of the other forums that is definitely not germane to H / A, a help and advice forum. I cannot engage you here, nor am I qualified to do so in any case. If you wish to follow up with my statement (knowing that I have no say over forum rules, their interpretation, or decision making), please use the private messaging system. If you wish to contest the moderator's statement, please do so in the same fashion (private messaging), but not in this forum.

    For the rest of you, I apologize for the meta-modding.

    Marty: The future, it's where you're going?
    Doc: That's right, twenty five years into the future. I've always dreamed on seeing the future, looking beyond my years, seeing the progress of mankind. I'll also be able to see who wins the next twenty-five world series.
  • EncEnc A Fool with Compassion Pronouns: He, Him, HisRegistered User regular
    edited May 2016
    The only plan that matters here is Tube's and his unholy child Geth the destroyer (because life is perilously unfair). Glory to the rules! Huzzah for conformity!

    @andys4587 , not sure if this is a 1 and done but the odds are next to impossible with your situation assuming everything functions as expected. It would be worth doing some research into forms of birth control if you plan on being sexually active so that you know how each operates. A combination on both you and your partner are usually a good idea if conceiving is not your plan at this stage in your life (condom + hormonal).

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  • IrukaIruka Registered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    @Paladin just use the report button.

  • MaguanoMaguano Registered User regular
    mental note.. I don't "agree" nor is it "awesome" its not "shiny" not a "witness me" type of situation, and its definitely not a "lovely day"... there is no "da fuq??" button, so "flag" is your friend.

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  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    andys4587 wrote: »
    Hey everyone may seem stupid to post this but im really worried ok so i had sex with my ex on 24th april she had been off her period between 3-8 days not sure exactly and we used a condom and i pulled out ejaculated with condom on outside it wont let me post it in advice or help forum

    Registered Nurse here.

    If you managed to get a girl pregnant in the situation you just described it would be so outside the realm of possibility you should consider it as an unavoidable act of God (not to work off of sweet Rebecca up there).

    That said, you're fine. Periods can vary widely from month to month for a dozen reasons. The timeline you've described isn't abnormal at all.

    Take a deep breath. Don't do anything stupid.

    I am in the business of saving lives.
  • dispatch.odispatch.o Registered User regular
    It's important to remember stress is one of the big things that can mess with a cycle. If your ex is busy stressing out over this it would be no surprise if it delayed or even skipped. You can get some pregnancy tests at a Walgreens for some peace of mind.

    As an aside, if protected sex is going to make you lose your shit and freak out... Maybe you should wait a bit before you give it another go. Or do a little reading on how effective various types of birth control are.

  • WiseManTobesWiseManTobes Registered User regular
    Maguano wrote: »
    mental note.. I don't "agree" nor is it "awesome" its not "shiny" not a "witness me" type of situation, and its definitely not a "lovely day"... there is no "da fuq??" button, so "flag" is your friend.

    I really want a Da Fuq?? button now

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    Maguano wrote: »
    mental note.. I don't "agree" nor is it "awesome" its not "shiny" not a "witness me" type of situation, and its definitely not a "lovely day"... there is no "da fuq??" button, so "flag" is your friend.

    I really want a Da Fuq?? button now

    Won't happen - Tube and Co. have said they will never implement reactions that could be construed as negative, to keep the forums healthy.

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  • LostNinjaLostNinja Registered User regular
    Maguano wrote: »
    mental note.. I don't "agree" nor is it "awesome" its not "shiny" not a "witness me" type of situation, and its definitely not a "lovely day"... there is no "da fuq??" button, so "flag" is your friend.

    I really want a Da Fuq?? button now

    Won't happen - Tube and Co. have said they will never implement reactions that could be construed as negative, to keep the forums healthy.

    Yeah, "Bro?" Is probably the worst we'll ever get, and I don't think they planned on it being use the way it was.

  • EncEnc A Fool with Compassion Pronouns: He, Him, HisRegistered User regular
    Yeah, Bro? was so raven.

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