so i just read about another hot-female-teacher-boning-young-teen thing and so as i get through the article i see something i've never seen before in a story like this: his parents knew (24 y/o teacher, 13 y/o boy), approved, and often invited her over for dinner since she was his girlfriend
*wipes sweat off forehead*
What's insulting to me is that what this woman did is terrible, but because of how our society views older woman and under age male its all back slaps and "Yeah man she's hot." No she's a fucking predator who groomed her victim, there is nothing "hot" about what she did and she should get a lengthy prison sentence.
I'm much more ambivalent when it's some story about a teacher getting sentenced when they banged like, a 17 year old. Still wildly unethical and no doubt a shit person and should absolutely not be allowed to be a teacher, but on the other hand I was pretty clear on which teachers I did and did not want to bang when I was 16.
But 13 is a whole other ballpark, far far beyond any sort of wiggle room. Parents should be getting charged too.
A trap is for fish: when you've got the fish, you can forget the trap. A snare is for rabbits: when you've got the rabbit, you can forget the snare. Words are for meaning: when you've got the meaning, you can forget the words.
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ShivahnUnaware of her barrel shifter privilegeWestern coastal temptressRegistered User, Moderatormod
The was that subplot in Transparent that handled that issue really well. there's the one son who slept with the nanny at like 13 and everyone in the family kind of cheered him on about it even well into adulthood.
and as the show goes on its more and more obvious the guy is really fucking damaged because of it and can't have normal relationships at all.
ugh looks like we can't get the apartment because they want every occupant to individually have enough income where the rent is under 1/3 of their gross pay
well the rent is more than 100% of my gross pay even if it's under 1/3 what my nephew makes but since I'm listed as an occupant they're going to turn him down
dios mio
What do they do with kids?
It's only for adults, if someone's child turns 18 they won't renew their lease unless the child moves out or gets a job paying no less than ~$2800/month
I'm not sure that's legal.
When me and my housemates were looking for places a person from a management company told us they wouldn't rent to us since we were a bunch of unmarried dudes.
We were like, you know that's illegal, right? (Martial status being a protected class in WA)
They just shrugged.
I mean it's technically illegal to not rent to my nephew+me because my income doesn't meet requirements because he's disabled
but he's a STRONG INDEPENDENT BLIND MAN so he didn't bother to mention his disability
he's deeply afraid of getting things just on account of his disability, and I'm like, bro life sucks and will fuck you so you use whatever you can
so i just read about another hot-female-teacher-boning-young-teen thing and so as i get through the article i see something i've never seen before in a story like this: his parents knew (24 y/o teacher, 13 y/o boy), approved, and often invited her over for dinner since she was his girlfriend
*wipes sweat off forehead*
What's insulting to me is that what this woman did is terrible, but because of how our society views older woman and under age male its all back slaps and "Yeah man she's hot." No she's a fucking predator who groomed her victim, there is nothing "hot" about what she did and she should get a lengthy prison sentence.
I'm much more ambivalent when it's some story about a teacher getting sentenced when they banged like, a 17 year old. Still wildly unethical and no doubt a shit person and should absolutely not be allowed to be a teacher, but on the other hand I was pretty clear on which teachers I did and did not want to bang when I was 16.
But 13 is a whole other ballpark, far far beyond any sort of wiggle room. Parents should be getting charged too.
Any teacher/student relationship is squicky even if they are over legal age its not an even partnership and manipulation is clearly being applied. Its like a Doctor sleeping with a patient kind of ugly.
Also this story follows that great one from Idaho where a dad forced his 14 year old daughter to marry her literal rapist (as in he forced her to have sex not like statutory). Been a great time for US sexual politics. And looking at how shit its getting in Brazil I worry that will be our future if Trump wins the presidency.
I would like some money because these are artisanal nuggets of wisdom philistine.
I was 13 and I lost my virginity to a 26 year old woman
At the time, I did not consider the relationship exploitative and I did not consider it harmful or with really fucked up power dynamics
But actually in my 20s I came to understand it was enormously damaging to my sexual development, my understanding of relationships, and help set me on a really horrendous path in my life
i watched star trek first contact for the first time last night
haha the guy with the weird forehead said 'Assimilate This'
And then what happened?
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Orphanerivers of redthat run to seaRegistered Userregular
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
ugh looks like we can't get the apartment because they want every occupant to individually have enough income where the rent is under 1/3 of their gross pay
well the rent is more than 100% of my gross pay even if it's under 1/3 what my nephew makes but since I'm listed as an occupant they're going to turn him down
dios mio
What do they do with kids?
It's only for adults, if someone's child turns 18 they won't renew their lease unless the child moves out or gets a job paying no less than ~$2800/month
I'm not sure that's legal.
When me and my housemates were looking for places a person from a management company told us they wouldn't rent to us since we were a bunch of unmarried dudes.
We were like, you know that's illegal, right? (Martial status being a protected class in WA)
They just shrugged.
Just takes one person who's bored enough to challenge them in court and get free money.
not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
ugh looks like we can't get the apartment because they want every occupant to individually have enough income where the rent is under 1/3 of their gross pay
well the rent is more than 100% of my gross pay even if it's under 1/3 what my nephew makes but since I'm listed as an occupant they're going to turn him down
dios mio
What do they do with kids?
It's only for adults, if someone's child turns 18 they won't renew their lease unless the child moves out or gets a job paying no less than ~$2800/month
I'm not sure that's legal.
When me and my housemates were looking for places a person from a management company told us they wouldn't rent to us since we were a bunch of unmarried dudes.
We were like, you know that's illegal, right? (Martial status being a protected class in WA)
They just shrugged.
I mean it's technically illegal to not rent to my nephew+me because my income doesn't meet requirements because he's disabled
but he's a STRONG INDEPENDENT BLIND MAN so he didn't bother to mention his disability
he's deeply afraid of getting things just on account of his disability, and I'm like, bro life sucks and will fuck you so you use whatever you can
yeah, though I can understand why he doesn't want to lean on it
our society is not kind to those who get 'handouts'
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship. And the boy is 13 that's not developed at all as far as mentally. I mean my son smiles at the day care ladies when he sees them, I would not be blaming him should one of them molest him.
Preacher on
I would like some money because these are artisanal nuggets of wisdom philistine.
Element BrianPeanut Butter ShillRegistered Userregular
look an older attractive female teacher finding interest in a student is *closes window blinds* not acceptable in society and even if the student is of age *locks door* and fully consenting, we need to understand that the power dynamic here is *open laptop* totally unacceptable and something we should not applaud or fantasize in anyway *unzips pants*
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship.
also like
you know a teenager could pursue me all day long and like
sorry, you're a teenager, get the fuck away
Allegedly a voice of reason.
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ChanusHarbinger of the Spicy Rooster ApocalypseThe Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered Userregular
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship.
also like
you know a teenager could pursue me all day long and like
sorry, you're a teenager, get the fuck away
this sounds like the beginning to an 80's raunchy comedy
day bow bow
Gooey on
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Element BrianPeanut Butter ShillRegistered Userregular
the newspaper questions should be changed to 'do you get your news information from a shitty source like fox or cnn or do you get it from a shitty source like gawker and buzfeed
Whether or not I am a Gen X'er or a Millennial depends on the arbitrary cutoff points for those generational definitions, which like all generational definitions are completely arbitrary.
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Orphanerivers of redthat run to seaRegistered Userregular
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship. And the boy is 13 that's not developed at all as far as mentally. I mean my son smiles at the day care ladies when he sees them, I would not be blaming him should one of them molest him.
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship.
also like
you know a teenager could pursue me all day long and like
ugh looks like we can't get the apartment because they want every occupant to individually have enough income where the rent is under 1/3 of their gross pay
well the rent is more than 100% of my gross pay even if it's under 1/3 what my nephew makes but since I'm listed as an occupant they're going to turn him down
dios mio
What do they do with kids?
It's only for adults, if someone's child turns 18 they won't renew their lease unless the child moves out or gets a job paying no less than ~$2800/month
I'm not sure that's legal.
When me and my housemates were looking for places a person from a management company told us they wouldn't rent to us since we were a bunch of unmarried dudes.
We were like, you know that's illegal, right? (Martial status being a protected class in WA)
They just shrugged.
Just takes one person who's bored enough to challenge them in court and get free money.
what free money
there aren't any statutory damages
all we could do is sue them to force them to stop doing it, otherwise we'd have to prove harm which is actually pretty hard!
in the mean time, lol we still gotta live somewhere and we ain't got the money or time to engage in lengthy civil suits
So the law is effectively unenforceable. Maybe $bigRightsGroup would sponsor a class-action case against $bigShittyApartmentCorp, but for individual landlords the law may as well not exist.
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
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VariableMouth CongressStroke Me Lady FameRegistered Userregular
Re: the teacher student thing i don't want to imply the teacher wasn't at fault because she absolutely was and she should have known better, but from what i read it seemed like the teenager was aggressive in pursuing her
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship.
also like
you know a teenager could pursue me all day long and like
sorry, you're a teenager, get the fuck away
Ephebophiles and pedophiles in general probably need mental health care. They do not have healthy desires.
Good luck getting anyone to ever agree to that.
not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
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I'm much more ambivalent when it's some story about a teacher getting sentenced when they banged like, a 17 year old. Still wildly unethical and no doubt a shit person and should absolutely not be allowed to be a teacher, but on the other hand I was pretty clear on which teachers I did and did not want to bang when I was 16.
But 13 is a whole other ballpark, far far beyond any sort of wiggle room. Parents should be getting charged too.
It is a percentage, right?
and as the show goes on its more and more obvious the guy is really fucking damaged because of it and can't have normal relationships at all.
thanks guys i'll be all right
I mean it's technically illegal to not rent to my nephew+me because my income doesn't meet requirements because he's disabled
but he's a STRONG INDEPENDENT BLIND MAN so he didn't bother to mention his disability
he's deeply afraid of getting things just on account of his disability, and I'm like, bro life sucks and will fuck you so you use whatever you can
Any teacher/student relationship is squicky even if they are over legal age its not an even partnership and manipulation is clearly being applied. Its like a Doctor sleeping with a patient kind of ugly.
Also this story follows that great one from Idaho where a dad forced his 14 year old daughter to marry her literal rapist (as in he forced her to have sex not like statutory). Been a great time for US sexual politics. And looking at how shit its getting in Brazil I worry that will be our future if Trump wins the presidency.
pleasepaypreacher.net
the test is basically 'are you a liberal or conservative with liberal/conservative identitifers'
Arch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
Nobody is attracted to 13 year old boys, not even 13 year old girls
Clearly something fucked up going on there
At the time, I did not consider the relationship exploitative and I did not consider it harmful or with really fucked up power dynamics
But actually in my 20s I came to understand it was enormously damaging to my sexual development, my understanding of relationships, and help set me on a really horrendous path in my life
But y'know she was hot so
a pedophile
And then what happened?
Obviously teenage impulses/crushes should not be indulged by targets of said impulses and it's not like the teenager did anything illegal but i feel like his behavior and his family's behavior should also be condemned
Just takes one person who's bored enough to challenge them in court and get free money.
yeah, though I can understand why he doesn't want to lean on it
our society is not kind to those who get 'handouts'
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
also an anime watcher i suppose but i guess pedophile covers all the bases on that one
sometimes you get occasionally outlier early developers
mutants
sure that sounds about right
i guess
considering it doesn't really mean anything
I'm fully abled and I'd milk the fuck out of the system, what are you all doing, jesus.
can you even buy newspapers anymore?
Sex Offenders often claim their victims were the ones who pursued them. I would not trust literally anything about that relationship. And the boy is 13 that's not developed at all as far as mentally. I mean my son smiles at the day care ladies when he sees them, I would not be blaming him should one of them molest him.
pleasepaypreacher.net
Arch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
yeah totes, i get one delivered to the office
i didnt read it today though so i had to answer no
I scored 88
Are you even a millenial u fraud
also like
you know a teenager could pursue me all day long and like
sorry, you're a teenager, get the fuck away
hoisted by your own petard
Pedophiles
I am 30
this sounds like the beginning to an 80's raunchy comedy
day bow bow
Arch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
I'm not taking your silly quiz!
Get off my lawn!
Whether or not I am a Gen X'er or a Millennial depends on the arbitrary cutoff points for those generational definitions, which like all generational definitions are completely arbitrary.
That's true
I too would stiff arm a 19 year old
what free money
there aren't any statutory damages
all we could do is sue them to force them to stop doing it, otherwise we'd have to prove harm which is actually pretty hard!
in the mean time, lol we still gotta live somewhere and we ain't got the money or time to engage in lengthy civil suits
So the law is effectively unenforceable. Maybe $bigRightsGroup would sponsor a class-action case against $bigShittyApartmentCorp, but for individual landlords the law may as well not exist.
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
I read through one sometimes on Sunday morning at work but more often I am on my phone
Ephebophiles and pedophiles in general probably need mental health care. They do not have healthy desires.
Good luck getting anyone to ever agree to that.