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[career advice] staying stagnant or taking the leap?

work_sick0work_sick0 Registered User new member
Alt account here, as my co-workers are PAers

I have been at my current job for about eight years, the company is quite small, six full time employees including the president. For reference, we work on the creative side of the advertising market. The pay is decent, though closer to average for the job title, but that's part of the problem: since the company is so small, there is no more room for me to move vertically in the hierarchy, i get a 2% raise every year and while I expected the company to grow by now by getting new clients, the management is quite lazy and we're pretty stagnant, though making good money with our big clients. My boss has asked me to accompany him to London for a business trip this fall, and I find that pretty cool, so he booked a non refundable trip for us.

Now I've been casually looking for a new job for about a year, and was approached by an old colleague about an interesting job this week. It is likely higher pay, more responsibility and a larger more innovative company. I want to apply and interview, but a part of me feels terrible about the upcoming business trip. As well, my boss relies on me likely 200% more than the other employees due to my skill set and hard work ethic, so my leaving, especially in this busy period would cause a huge hole in the workload and training a new employee to take over would likely take a while. The other employees are not client facing so can't really take over most of my workload either.

I think the main issue is because we are such a small casual company, I would think they would take me leaving very personal, as well as worrisome to complete their current projects for 2016. I don't want to miss this opportunity though either, but am afraid to make the leap to a more buttoned up shirt and tie establishment.

If I go through with the application and get called into an interview and get an offer, are there ways to negotiate start dates up to 30 days after the interview? This would at least help start the transition to a replacement. And then, what do I do about the trip? That's about a $2000 expense they lose on. Maybe I just need a sounding board, I'm so stressed about making a decision, I don't like causing problems. I just don't know what to do.

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  • WassermeloneWassermelone Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    You can absolutely negotiate a start date

    I was able to negotiate a start date two months after my offer. You don't need to bring it up immediately - I would try an avoid mentioning it until they really want you, but if they directly ask you when you could start, I would say something like "I am unavailable until X date, please tell me if that is workable."

    Also don't forget to not mention interviewing with another company to anyone at your current company. Only notify the company when you have your job offer and are able to give notice. The best part about not telling anyone is if this new opportunity falls through, you get the benefits of having reached out for a new opportunity and still having a job.

    Also, don't feel bad about wanting to leave. With a 6 person company or a 1000 person company, there will never really be a good time. You need to do whats good for you. It might feel bad for them at first, but if they are your friends they will understand. If they are not your friends, then you don't need too feel to bad either.

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  • ThroThro pgroome@penny-arcade.com Registered User regular
    You can absolutely negotiate a start date

    I was able to negotiate a start date two months after my offer. You don't need to bring it up immediately - I would try an avoid mentioning it until they really want you, but if they directly ask you when you could start, I would say something like "I am unavailable until X date, please tell me if that is workable."

    Also don't forget to not mention interviewing with another company to anyone at your current company. Only notify the company when you have your WRITTEN, SIGNED job offer and are able to give notice. The best part about not telling anyone is if this new opportunity falls through, you get the benefits of having reached out for a new opportunity and still having a job.

    Also, don't feel bad about wanting to leave. With a 6 person company or a 1000 person company, there will never really be a good time. You need to do whats good for you. It might feel bad for them at first, but if they are your friends they will understand. If they are not your friends, then you don't need too feel to bad either.
    Agree with Wassermelone, slightly edited.

    work_sick0 wrote: »
    As well, my boss relies on me likely 200% more than the other employees due to my skill set and hard work ethic, so my leaving, especially in this busy period would cause a huge hole in the workload and training a new employee to take over would likely take a while. The other employees are not client facing so can't really take over most of my workload either.
    Sounds like a good excuse to ask for a raise. Which you should do, after you have your WRITTEN, SIGNED job offer. I understand that not everyone in your situation would be comfortable to demand a raise or walk out, especially in a small close knit company. Plus you seem to know the place well enough to know the financial viability of giving you a raise.

  • PowerpuppiesPowerpuppies drinking coffee in the mountain cabinRegistered User regular
    Go ahead and apply, you're not deciding anything until they offer you something. Lots of people do that for practice even if they're not looking. It's possible you'll get the offer and they'll make you choose between the business trip and the new job, but not very likely. If it does, take the job and apologize to your boss. The company's not treating you well and he may understand that. Plus it's not like you sought this out, it fell in your lap. It happens, and if he's realistic he knew that when he booked your ticket.

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  • zepherinzepherin Russian warship, go fuck yourself Registered User regular
    I've been doing this a long time, and at most companies there is never a time that is good for them to lose a good employee. So it is about things being a good time for the OP.

    Small companies don't really have that advancement potential that larger ones can have, but large companies try to blunt the ability of an employee to negotiate. Small companies you can just walk to the vp or president and ask for more money.

  • schussschuss Registered User regular
    Yeah, leaving sucks for the company, but really that's management's job - planning capacity so no one is irreplaceable. One other option if you really want to stay - push for more opportunity to learn and expand, as often you can get training funding/time at small companies that stretches beyond your current expertise, as in large companies it's generally more restricted around your current role.

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