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jungleroomx
It's never too many graves, it's always not enough shovelsRegistered User regular
It's never too many graves, it's always not enough shovelsRegistered User regular
No, I didn't reveal my entire life story in an interview. However, I am at a crossroads here and can't find any advice for this particular situation, so I'm hoping someone can help.
1. I have an interview with the state agency that does disability qualification for school-age kids. I'd just be the IT infrastructure guy, so not directly related to the diability part
2. One of my ex's kids has apraxia, which can cause huge developmental delays. He was helped out by this department in another state, and his progress has been remarkable. So I've been on the other side of the equation when it comes to IEP conferences, and it's a really awesome thing and I love the work they do.
3. I'm getting a full background investigation anyway
So, when it comes down to the question "Why do you want to work here", that situation right there is a HUGE motivating factor. Yes, I get to use my skillset in a professional and stable environment and get paid pretty decently, which is nice, but it's also a bit shallow. Knowing I'd be working for the people who this stuff, which also helps out my autistic nephew, is a huge bonus and feels like actual, dutiful work as opposed to selling something or making something to help other people sell something.
Should I mention these things? Should I just keep it to my nephew so the ugly "d" word doesn't pop up in the interview?
1. I have an interview with the state agency that does disability qualification for school-age kids. I'd just be the IT infrastructure guy, so not directly related to the diability part
2. One of my ex's kids has apraxia, which can cause huge developmental delays. He was helped out by this department in another state, and his progress has been remarkable. So I've been on the other side of the equation when it comes to IEP conferences, and it's a really awesome thing and I love the work they do.
3. I'm getting a full background investigation anyway
So, when it comes down to the question "Why do you want to work here", that situation right there is a HUGE motivating factor. Yes, I get to use my skillset in a professional and stable environment and get paid pretty decently, which is nice, but it's also a bit shallow. Knowing I'd be working for the people who this stuff, which also helps out my autistic nephew, is a huge bonus and feels like actual, dutiful work as opposed to selling something or making something to help other people sell something.
Should I mention these things? Should I just keep it to my nephew so the ugly "d" word doesn't pop up in the interview?
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During an interview, I'd consider the person interviewing me. Like are they cold and uninterested or do they seem like a people person so would like that story?
Maybe say you have have a relative who currently benefits from a program like this and you are very impressed.
Well, no, I left all personal stuff like that out of all my forms. Cover letter, application, resume, etc.
And I do, my sister is getting help with her middle child through the program.
I don't know if it will help, but I don't see how it would be detrimental to your interview.
Well, I'm in a different state than my ex-step-kids, but doing a bit of research on the OK DOE site and NE DOE site reveals very little difference in their disability approaches/mission statements/values.
Edit: There's nothing wrong with being divorced, or saying your ex-wife unless you make it sound like there's something wrong with it by using odd wording.
No, I'm still married to the woman who has the kid with apraxia. I've sat through the IEP meetings and seen the results. Hence they were my step kids, but ex-step-kids since separation/divorce proceedings. I'm still technically their legal guardian, I just don't live with them right now.
My sister ALSO has a child who is in the program for autism.
That makes way more sense.
I'd refer to both then expand on them individually with an interesting anecdote about each and how they made you feel like working at this (service provider) seemed like something you felt genuinely good about doing.
Also, never refer to your job as, "Just <something>". Not to your co-workers, not to your bosses, not to yourself. Effort has an inherent value, don't dismiss that.
Edit: Reference them as two distinct members of your family, without bothering mentioning the divorce and stuff. You care about the children, you're allowed.
Well, that was for the thread.
I do actively enjoy technology and doing the work I'm applying for. Not even just because I'm good at it, but because everything about it is fascinating to me.
Doing this work for a department that does this kind of community service is actually exciting.
I've decided to tell her about the kiddos. Now, time to prep for the interview...
To a cold and uncaring bureaucracy they'll see it as you will to take a beating before you'll leave the position, so you would, for example, be more likely to still work there for 5, 10, or even 15 years without a pay raise.
To the warm and gentle person doing the hiring you'll be that person that cares and is willing to put up with bullshit and go that extra mile to make the client happier, and their job easier.
And really, if showing a desire to be a part of something great and wonderful because of your personal experience is what keeps you from getting the job, would you really want to work there anyway? Part of the interview is also you making sure you're comfortable there, but I do admit that aspect matters a lot more when currently employed and interviewing verse when you're not employed and need a job right away.