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tzeentchlingtzeentchling Doctor of RocksOaklandRegistered User regular
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This thread is back because, honestly, it needs to exist here. There's too much going on out there, and the members of this community need a place to discuss/vent.

If you make up some part of the QUILTBAG (even if you don’t fit in that cute little acronym) then I hope this thread can be a place for you to feel comfortable talking about it!

Of course heterosexual cisgender folks are welcome as well just try and be considerate of the space, that’s all. Feel free to ask if you have any questions (though maybe try google first) or talk about stuff that falls under the purview of the thread, the important thing is don’t be jerk.

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Things worth keeping in mind:

If you ask a question then take some time to absorb the answer, even if it doesn’t make sense right away maybe let it percolate a little bit before arguing about it.
Don't misgender or deadname people (both your fellow forumers and people who don’t post here), if you aren’t sure what pronoun or name you should use then you can always say so!
Be respectful of whatever labels people self-apply. It is never ever up to you to decide that someone is not actually bi or not really a woman or anything like that. I don’t care what your reasoning is, you are wrong to do so and this is not the venue to argue semantics.


So let's talk about some gay shit! (and trans shit and bi shit and ace shit and every other kind.)

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(Intro text from @Kwoaru, pictures from Buzzfeed coverage of the Women's Marches on 1/21/17)

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    ToxTox I kill threads he/himRegistered User regular
    Good thread is good

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    GoatmonGoatmon Companion of Kess Registered User regular
    edited January 2017
    Only a Cis Lord deals in absolutes.

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    KochikensKochikens Registered User regular
    I missed dis thread

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    NarbusNarbus Registered User regular
    Aw, man, now I'm bummed its not Tuesday.

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    tzeentchlingtzeentchling Doctor of Rocks OaklandRegistered User regular
    Narbus wrote: »
    Aw, man, now I'm bummed its not Tuesday.

    At least it's Brunch Gay today though!

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    Desert LeviathanDesert Leviathan Registered User regular
    There were so many LGBT youth at the Salt Lake protests yesterday and Friday, and I just wanted to tell them all how proud I was of them, since it took me until my 30s to be even a little bit out. But then I imagined them going "this big goofy lumberjack lookin mofo is hugging me and sobbing out of nowhere, where's my pepper spray?!", and just shut up except for joining the chanting.

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    Curly_BraceCurly_Brace Robot Girl Mimiga VillageRegistered User regular
    Is it okay if I am Brunch Gay on Sundays, usually?

    Also I am so very proud of all my QUILTBAGs who are protesting. You're all amazing and so very inspiring.

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    BlackjackBlackjack Registered User regular
    Narbus wrote: »
    Aw, man, now I'm bummed its not Tuesday.

    Every day can be Taco Tuesday if you just believe hard enough.

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    FencingsaxFencingsax It is difficult to get a man to understand, when his salary depends upon his not understanding GNU Terry PratchettRegistered User regular
    These alternative facts are destroying the sacred institution of Taco Tuesday

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    Blackjack wrote: »
    Narbus wrote: »
    Aw, man, now I'm bummed its not Tuesday.

    Every day can be Taco Tuesday if you just believe hard enough.

    Or soft enough. I embrace taco diversity.

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    DouglasDangerDouglasDanger PennsylvaniaRegistered User regular
    Is this a cunnilingus joke

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    Is this a cunnilingus joke

    If you want it to be, but I'm referring to actual tacos.

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    MetalbourneMetalbourne Inside a cluster b personalityRegistered User regular
    But it's also inclusive of penilingus too. It's humor that punches up, not down!

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    MetalbourneMetalbourne Inside a cluster b personalityRegistered User regular
    ...sorry I just learned a bunch of social justice buzz words and wanted to use them somewhere

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    StericaSterica Yes Registered User, Moderator mod
    Note: the tacos are also gay

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    Brovid HasselsmofBrovid Hasselsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    edited January 2017
    I will preface this by saying I am fairly cut off from current events where I am. I didn't know anything about any marches until all these pictures and tweets started popping up everywhere. I get that they are protests against what Trump stands for, but I've seen tons of pictures of men marching and people seem to be supporting all sorts of issues like LGBT stuff and BLM stuff. So I am just wondering why they are specifically being called Women's Marches?

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    NoisymunkNoisymunk Registered User regular
    I will preface this by saying I am fairly cut off from current events where I am. I didn't know anything about any marches until all these pictures and tweets started popping up everywhere. I get that they are protests against what Trump stands for, but I've seen tons of pictures of men marching and people seem to be supporting all sorts of issues like LGBT stuff and BLM stuff. So I am just wondering why they are specifically being called Women's Marches?

    Because my feminism will be intersectional, and all issues are feminist issues.
    I'm so proud of DC on Saturday. Half a million people were on the streets peacefully and went home peacefully.

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    Gay is here to stay, you say? Hurray, o fabulous day!

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    Desert LeviathanDesert Leviathan Registered User regular
    I will preface this by saying I am fairly cut off from current events where I am. I didn't know anything about any marches until all these pictures and tweets started popping up everywhere. I get that they are protests against what Trump stands for, but I've seen tons of pictures of men marching and people seem to be supporting all sorts of issues like LGBT stuff and BLM stuff. So I am just wondering why they are specifically being called Women's Marches?

    I suspect this is becoming a primary rallying point for anti-Trump sentiment because, of all the shitty things about him, his treatment of women offends the broadest span of people. The breaking point for a lot of moderates and even many conservatives seems to have been when he was caught on tape bragging about molesting women. If you want the biggest possible turnout for the protest, phrasing it in terms of "OUR PRESIDENT IS A CONFESSED RAPIST" is a pretty effective plan.

    But then under that primary rallying cause, everybody who's pissed about other things about him shows up too.

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    I say that LGBT and BLM stuff isn't at all tangential to Women's Rights
    and instead should be at the front and center of it

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    Brovid HasselsmofBrovid Hasselsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    I didn't mean to suggest that women's rights, black rights, and lgbt rights aren't related. Only asking why all of those things were being put under the heading of Woman's March. Like I said I knew literally nothing about the build-up to any of it.

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    NoisymunkNoisymunk Registered User regular
    edited January 2017
    I didn't mean to suggest that women's rights, black rights, and lgbt rights aren't related. Only asking why all of those things were being put under the heading of Woman's March. Like I said I knew literally nothing about the build-up to any of it.

    Because it was a protest march begun and organized by women to protest the anti-women's rights policies of this conservative administration.

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    WotanAnubisWotanAnubis Registered User regular
    I didn't mean to suggest that women's rights, black rights, and lgbt rights aren't related. Only asking why all of those things were being put under the heading of Woman's March. Like I said I knew literally nothing about the build-up to any of it.

    I'm not exactly up on the details either, but I believe the whole thing started with either a couple of women or a women's organization deciding to put together a protest march. Hence Women's March.

    It, uhm... kind of grew a bit bigger than originally envisioned. But the name stayed the same.

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    ah okay, sorry

    I've been sorta turnt up the past few days

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    NoisymunkNoisymunk Registered User regular
    Ditto, I walked around the white house yesterday to see the signs. The vibe up there is so tense.

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    I'm honestly proud of a lot of the protesting done on inaugeration day

    the demonstrations (yes, even the ones where they smashed windows, trash cans, and lit a limo on fire) was a good reminder that some folk will throw their bodies in the way of people like me and oppression

    after a year of election coverage obfuscating this, with two parties who I knew didn't have my best interests at heart, it's REALLY important to me

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    StraightziStraightzi Here we may reign secure, and in my choice, To reign is worth ambition though in HellRegistered User regular
    Dubh wrote: »
    I'm honestly proud of a lot of the protesting done on inaugeration day

    the demonstrations (yes, even the ones where they smashed windows, trash cans, and lit a limo on fire) was a good reminder that some folk will throw their bodies in the way of people like me and oppression

    after a year of election coverage obfuscating this, with two parties who I knew didn't have my best interests at heart, it's REALLY important to me

    The inauguration day protesting takes a bit of a sour tone for me, as a friend of mine was one of the people arrested (and charged with a felony, on top of that).

    Like, I'm hella proud of everyone, absolutely, but every time I think of it I am also inevitably thinking of that.

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    I really like "Respect your sisters, not just your cis-ters.

    And yes the crimes most of the two hundred or so protesters arrested in DC are pretty bullshit.

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    tzeentchlingtzeentchling Doctor of Rocks OaklandRegistered User regular
    Straightzi wrote: »
    Dubh wrote: »
    I'm honestly proud of a lot of the protesting done on inaugeration day

    the demonstrations (yes, even the ones where they smashed windows, trash cans, and lit a limo on fire) was a good reminder that some folk will throw their bodies in the way of people like me and oppression

    after a year of election coverage obfuscating this, with two parties who I knew didn't have my best interests at heart, it's REALLY important to me

    The inauguration day protesting takes a bit of a sour tone for me, as a friend of mine was one of the people arrested (and charged with a felony, on top of that).

    Like, I'm hella proud of everyone, absolutely, but every time I think of it I am also inevitably thinking of that.

    Is there any chance the charge gets dismissed?

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    I'm thinking "no" and I know a bunch of folks are potentially facing up to a decade in prison.

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    StraightziStraightzi Here we may reign secure, and in my choice, To reign is worth ambition though in HellRegistered User regular
    Yeah, it doesn't seem terribly likely that it would get dismissed. It's a nasty bit of business, and I'm hoping she can fight it, but at this point I don't have a great idea of what's going on.

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    fightinfilipinofightinfilipino Angry as Hell #BLMRegistered User regular
    old contact of mine, Jamahl Kersey, was willing to help protesters pro bono if arrested during the inauguration. caveat: it's only if the person was engaged in "peaceful protest"; still worth a shot at contacting him. he's based in San Diego: http://www.kerseylawoffice.com/

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    Honestly, I'm pretty glad that for the past few months my rage has mostly been blocking out my fear.

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    Straightzi wrote: »
    Dubh wrote: »
    I'm honestly proud of a lot of the protesting done on inaugeration day

    the demonstrations (yes, even the ones where they smashed windows, trash cans, and lit a limo on fire) was a good reminder that some folk will throw their bodies in the way of people like me and oppression

    after a year of election coverage obfuscating this, with two parties who I knew didn't have my best interests at heart, it's REALLY important to me

    The inauguration day protesting takes a bit of a sour tone for me, as a friend of mine was one of the people arrested (and charged with a felony, on top of that).

    Like, I'm hella proud of everyone, absolutely, but every time I think of it I am also inevitably thinking of that.

    shit, and they went fucking hard on the charges they're swinging around

    my <3s to you and your friend

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    WokeBaby is a pretty strong username

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    NarbusNarbus Registered User regular
    edited January 2017
    I didn't mean to suggest that women's rights, black rights, and lgbt rights aren't related. Only asking why all of those things were being put under the heading of Woman's March. Like I said I knew literally nothing about the build-up to any of it.

    I'm not exactly up on the details either, but I believe the whole thing started with either a couple of women or a women's organization deciding to put together a protest march. Hence Women's March.

    It, uhm... kind of grew a bit bigger than originally envisioned. But the name stayed the same.

    The march started as two independent facebook events started by white women. It quickly became clear that this was bigger than a facebook meetup, and the two women, counter to a lot of how these sorts of things go, realized that hosting a march around a social issue was likely to be hosting a march around the way that social issue affected white people.

    They immediately and actively courted the voices of minority women to fight this tendency, including involving those voices at the top of the organization. This meant that intersectionality ended up much more front and center than it would have, traditionally.

    However, since the original idea was called the Women's March, and the bulk of the intersectional issues raised did intersect on women, the name stayed.

    EDIT: For clarification on how everything got started

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    GvzbgulGvzbgul Registered User regular
    edited January 2017
    I heard that the march was started by lgbt woc?

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