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Mother's Day Ideas?

Drake ChambersDrake Chambers Lay out my formal shorts.Registered User regular
This is pretty broad but we're all a pretty creative bunch here so I thought I'd toss it out.

I'm sure I'm not alone in being regularly stumped for ideas for things to do for Mother's Day. I haven't been local to my mom for a few decades now and my default has been to send flowers. I'd like to do something different this year for two reasons: I feel kind of lame just sending the same old thing time and time again and, I'll come out and say it, sending flowers is stupid expensive and money is really tight for my family this year.

So, what awesome, cheap, but thoughtful stuff have you come up with recently for mom? I'm thinking of maybe doing something with photos of my kids? Something like that?

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  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    What's your budget?

    not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
  • see317see317 Registered User regular
    My mom likes gardening, so generally I get her some flower bulbs or seeds or something. It's like sending flowers, but tends to be cheaper (and easier to wrap), plus they have a chance to come back.
    Downside is that now her yard is starting to look more like a botanical garden than an actual yard...

    If your mom's not into gardening, then probably wouldn't be ideal.
    I don't think I would want to meet a mother who would be disappointed with a nice framed photo of the grandkids, but you might run into cost issues there too: printing the photo (if you don't have a high quality printer), getting a frame and shipping might add up to a chunk of change.

  • Hahnsoo1Hahnsoo1 Make Ready. We Hunt.Registered User, Moderator, Administrator admin
    I got my mom some beautiful wind chimes for her birthday this past year. It had a place to put a portrait, so my brother and I put pictures in it.

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  • WassermeloneWassermelone Registered User regular
    You could do that whole 'recreate pictures of you from your childhood' thing

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  • Lindsay LohanLindsay Lohan Registered User regular
    I'm in a similar boat. One year I sent my mom coloring books and colored pencils. This year, I ordered her a giant fortune cookie with a custom fortune (which in my case contained a fart joke).

    If you can pull it together in time, those memory books from Snapfish generally are cheap because there are always coupons floating around (and you can always make a second copy for yourselves). We used to do one a year and send a copy to each parent - as kids of divorce that meant 4 copies, and 1 for us. It was super easy, pretty cheap, and they did the shipping for us.

    Then we got lazy and stopped doing them.

  • Drake ChambersDrake Chambers Lay out my formal shorts. Registered User regular
    I'm in a similar boat. One year I sent my mom coloring books and colored pencils. This year, I ordered her a giant fortune cookie with a custom fortune (which in my case contained a fart joke).

    If you can pull it together in time, those memory books from Snapfish generally are cheap because there are always coupons floating around (and you can always make a second copy for yourselves). We used to do one a year and send a copy to each parent - as kids of divorce that meant 4 copies, and 1 for us. It was super easy, pretty cheap, and they did the shipping for us.

    Then we got lazy and stopped doing them.
    Snapfish! That's the exactly the kind of thing I was looking for.

    We did Shutterfly a few times and were often frustrated with how horrendous their turnaround time and customer service were but somehow had the idea that they were the only show in town for what they did. We'll give Snapfish a try.

  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    Consider sending a hand written card recounting some of your fondest memories with her, or talking about things you learned from her growing up. A good excuse to get a little sentimental.

  • HenroidHenroid Mexican kicked from Immigration Thread Centrism is Racism :3Registered User regular
    edited May 2017
    There's a thing called Shari's Berries, which does gourmet dipped (big) strawberries. Look into them, they ship and are pretty snazzy.

    Edit - They specifically do a big advertising campaign for Mother's Day by the way, it's how I first heard of them waaaay back.

    Henroid on
  • MichaelLCMichaelLC In what furnace was thy brain? ChicagoRegistered User regular
    Fracture Me does photos on glass.

    Looks unique, but not cheap.

  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    What's the thing she likes most, or is most meaningful to her?

    Take that thing and find jewelry of it.

    I 100% guarantee you that no matter what that thing is, there's jewelry of it out there.

    For example, one of my passions is molecular biology. A quick search of Etsy yields this shop. It's not even the most awesome molecular bio stuff I've seen, but that oxytocin ring (again for example) is a pretty good mother's day gift for someone who can appreciate it, considering what oxytocin does and its role in early parenthood.

    Is your mom a mathematician?

    Here are some random words I put in front of "jewelry" and then searched for:

    Envelope
    Car
    Granola
    Dinosaur

    The main reason I suggest this is because it requires some knowledge of what makes her happy to do, presented in an easy medium that, if she likes wearing a necklace or whatever here and there, she can put it on and think of you. It may not work for her at all if she hates jewelry, but otherwise it's probably worth some consideration.

    And it seems like all is dying, and would leave the world to mourn
  • Rhesus PositiveRhesus Positive GNU Terry Pratchett Registered User regular
    Is there an equivalent to the National Trust or English Heritage in your region: an organisation that you join as a member and get free entry to a load of cool places?

    This works best if your mother is fond of going to those places, and especially if there's one that you could meet up at somewhere down the line.

    [Muffled sounds of gorilla violence]
  • Drake ChambersDrake Chambers Lay out my formal shorts. Registered User regular
    Thanks for all the suggestions! I ended up getting her a coffee mug with an adorable picture of her two grandkids on it.

    I'm making note of the other ideas for future gifting times. In particular I'm glad to be reminded that the world of custom-made things is vast and not always super expensive.

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