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What to do about nightmares
Nightmares
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Does anyone have experience dealing with regular nightmares as an adult?
I don't really like horror content, because while actually reading, playing or watching them I'm fine, it doesn't bug me. But I know that if I do, my prick of a subconscious will remember it and will wake me up several times a night in a cold sweat for about two weeks.
It's pretty easy to avoid that trigger though, so I do.
The problem is that a couple times a month my brain will decide to fuck with me anyway, like last night.
As an example, my normal heart rate while sleeping is 45-50 bpm. Last night during the nightmare I was ranging from 120-160 bpm for three hours, and as I reached the climax of the nightmare, for a couple minutes before I woke up I had breached 210 bpm, then it was another two hours before I could get calm enough to sleep again. Not a particularly restful night.
I'm mostly just checking to see if anyone has any techniques or mental exercises which could help with this while I search for a psych/get an appointment with my doctor to finally address this.
I don't really like horror content, because while actually reading, playing or watching them I'm fine, it doesn't bug me. But I know that if I do, my prick of a subconscious will remember it and will wake me up several times a night in a cold sweat for about two weeks.
It's pretty easy to avoid that trigger though, so I do.
The problem is that a couple times a month my brain will decide to fuck with me anyway, like last night.
As an example, my normal heart rate while sleeping is 45-50 bpm. Last night during the nightmare I was ranging from 120-160 bpm for three hours, and as I reached the climax of the nightmare, for a couple minutes before I woke up I had breached 210 bpm, then it was another two hours before I could get calm enough to sleep again. Not a particularly restful night.
I'm mostly just checking to see if anyone has any techniques or mental exercises which could help with this while I search for a psych/get an appointment with my doctor to finally address this.
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Can you think of any changes in diet/medication/stress/routine that precipitated your overall problem if not the events themselves?
How frustrated, troubled, or stressed out are you currently compared to before you started having nightmares?
Stress is probably on an uptick lately, it is something else I've been trying to deal with in waking hours, but it's frustrating that that it'd be bleeding over to nightmares
Do you drink alcohol or use other recreational drugs?
Sleep is it's own entire branch of medicine because it can be really complicated.
I'd say clean up your sleep hygiene and get a pattern going is your best start. Probably including laying off recreational drugs including alcohol if that's a thing you do.
People have success with a very dim nightlight or some white noise like a box fan to ease them down from a state of anxiety before they fall asleep, maybe try that.
I use an app called Sleep Melodies to help get to sleep. I don't have much trouble with nightmares but do know they have a meditation track for nightmare relief. No clue as to its actual effectiveness but doubt it would hurt to try.
While googling for an 'anti-melatonin' to reduce the window for REM sleep (Apnea: an unlikely hero?), I came across a 2004 study that observed right-side sleepers experienced fewer nightmares than left-side sleepers:
So maybe try to sleep on your right side while you're at it? It is, arguably, science.
(Though perhaps easier said than done)
The first step is to recognize that you are dreaming. These are just movies your brain is showing you. Nothing can hurt you. From there you can consciously control what is happening without having to wake up.
Pretty much everything Ive read on the subject starts with making a dream journal. Write down everything you can remember and with time you can recognize that you are dreaming and control what you see.
You're ultimately in control of your own brain, so you can definitely overcome when its being mean. You got this.
The night of the most recent nightmare, which precipiated this post, I had taken some tylenol a couple hours before sleep because of a headache.
What do you know, I went to put it away a couple days later and noticed that the tylenol in question had caffeine in it. That couldn't have helped.
I've also noticed that caffeine in general past noon, maybe 2pm has pretty consistently been leading to trouble falling asleep and nightmares. Since I've cut out caffeine after noon I haven't had any more, but will have to wait and see how long that will last.
It's definitely something I will be bringing up at my next GP appointment
that sample size seems pretty small to me
Not any music as it must be something I know really well and also not to intense, but it can be all sorts of music really so no need for like meditational stuff, sounds of waves at the beach and that stuff. Also the music must not be to loud, but also not so low it is hard to make out lyrics and such.
Mostly I will put on the music while getting ready for the night, then maybe lower the volume some and get in bed. Then it is just a question of listening and enjoying the music and let it distract my mind from what ever I might otherwise have been twisting and turning about. Mostly an ½ hour of music is more than enough for me, but not always and for those cases it is helpful to have an way to put on more music without getting out of bed.
its not terrible. definitely on the smaller side but reasonable
And whoever said lucid dreaming will help...
I have the abilty to dream lucid and a true nightmare is almost impossible to loop out of.