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Betreyal

AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
edited September 22 in Social Entropy++
Have you ever been stabbed in the back?

Deceived into an action you abhor?

I was. In 1988.

My first grade class was notified that a news crew from Australia was coming to record some Teenage Mutant Ninjas Turtle fans to see how American kids were into the franchise.

Wow! Cool! We could show people across the world why we loved something and why we thought it was so cool!

There was a date set, at one of the kid's houses that was across the street from the school. The Australian and some local reporters showed up, interviewed some of us and shot a bunch of footage. We ran around doing fake fights, one kid( the action not shown in the video but the kid IS in the video) climbed up an apple tree in the back yard yelling 'IM THE TECHNODROME EYE!!! BZZZT YOURE DEAD BZZT YOURE DEAD!'.

We brought all our favorite toys(I brought Genghis Frog to show I was not just a casual aficionado, honestly it was a tossup between that and Usagi Yojimbo).


A couple years pass.

In third grade we get sent back the video we were a part of! Wow we cant wait!

...


We get served a fucking hit piece.

These fuckers used us for half a minute to show how feral and violent the Americans were from being inundated with TMNT media.

I cannot describe how as a nine year old I felt so dirty and used. I didn't want to make any of the points asserted by this bullshit hit piece. But my words and deeds were used to harm something I loved.
It likely will not imbed but timestamp 3:12 if the thumbnail doesn't automatically voice the line in your head form having played this 30 times.

https://youtu.be/SgOu001ZPQs?t=192

This was a core memory and taught me to never trust anyone as a goddamn nine year old.
It did not help that this third grade teacher also on another day asserted that Mario Bros was too violent and I stood up and said(in child language) I was never in my life compelled to jump on a trutle or collect coins despite playing Mario Bros nearly daily.
She kept me inside with my head down from recess the rest of the week for that.



Have you been betrayed? How have you been shaped by such an event?

Have you betrayed someone? Was it justified or does the guilt rot at your soul like the goofball who equated an ooze trap for Raphael to a sadistic torture device that has contributed to my long and storied career of sadism and nunchaku violence.

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  • milskimilski Poyo! Registered User regular
    I knew a guy named trey once

    I ate an engineer
  • chromdomchromdom Who? Where?Registered User regular
    edited September 22
    Several years ago, I hired an Australian news crew to do a hit piece on a bunch of American kids. Told 'em it was about how great the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles were, but really it was just to make them look feral and violent.

    Heh. What a bunch of suckers.

    chromdom on
  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    my best friend abandoned me in a Bratva prison camp in eastern Siberia and when I escaped I discovered he had married my wife and stolen my family

  • AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
    chromdom wrote: »
    Several years ago, I hired an Australian news crew to do a hit piece on a bunch of American kids. Told 'em it was about how great the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles were, but really it was just to make them feral and violent.

    Heh. What a bunch of suckers.

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txuWGoZF3ew

  • AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
    my best friend abandoned me in a Bratva prison camp in eastern Siberia and when I escaped I discovered he had married my wife and stolen my family

    Did he also eat your birthday cake?

  • BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    I was never allowed to watch ninja turtles because it was """violent""" but I will still stab those fuckers that tricked a bunch of children

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  • chromdomchromdom Who? Where?Registered User regular
    <.<
    >.>

  • PaperLuigi44PaperLuigi44 My amazement is at maximum capacity. Registered User regular
    One of my English teachers was the target of an Australian 60 Minutes hit piece when she was a high school student, specifically portraying her whole class as lazy.

    Personally, a friend I don't keep in touch with anymore never returned my book I loaned them, which is why I don't loan things anymore.

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  • AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
    One of my English teachers was the target of an Australian 60 Minutes hit piece when she was a high school student, specifically portraying her whole class as lazy.

    Personally, a friend I don't keep in touch with anymore never returned my book I loaned them, which is why I don't loan things anymore.

    Australian 60m is a meanace.

    Also a friend of mine borrowed my FFVII copy and never returned it and I am now left with a greatest hits copy with a black and white instruction manual which is clearly ground for a blood feud.

  • Al_watAl_wat Registered User regular
    my girlfriend and I sometimes do this thing where when we go in for a regular kiss, not like a hot and heavy one or anything but just a regular peck, sometimes one of us will blep our tongue out in an act of complete betrayal

    sometimes we blep at the same time and are both disgusted by what just occurred, and also at the audacity of the other one to dare to try to betray during this, the moment of my perfect betrayal

  • PinfeldorfPinfeldorf Yeah ZestRegistered User regular
    I stuck my neck out to get a friend's brother a job at the shitty tile place I worked out. Three days later, I got fired for no reason, only to find out he'd been lying to the higher-ups about how I came to work stoned every day and talked shit about the bosses outside of work. When I told Brian what his little brother had done, he got his parents involved and they drove down there the next day and ratted out their own son as being a fucking goblin. Unfortunately (or maybe not?), they'd done this after I filled his Jordans with quick expand foam. Oh well.

  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    I lent a friend in college all my first edition death comics and Arkam Asylum HC

    she absconded with them

    will never forgive or forget

  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
  • mrpakumrpaku Registered User regular
    The family I grew up in was basically an ongoing trash can fire of betrayal and bullshit. Just, some truly awful breaches of trust and violations of person, not a healthy family system at all

    Of course, they think the only real betrayal was the part where I left and never spoke to any of them again. So it goes

  • Raijin QuickfootRaijin Quickfoot I'm your Huckleberry YOU'RE NO DAISYRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    edited September 22
    I gave a guy some blintzes to paint my fence but he never did.

    Raijin Quickfoot on
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  • AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
    No apologies needed, it would be a betrayal of the betrayal thread to not post such a betrayal.

    Also :brofist: that situation sounds like a real bad time.

  • BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    I have been betrayed by this thread title being spelled wrong

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  • XaquinXaquin Right behind you!Registered User regular
    I just clicked a link that wasn't for me

  • AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
    I have been betrayed by this thread title being spelled wrong

    It seems my latest betrayal was being betrayed by box wine.

  • chromdomchromdom Who? Where?Registered User regular
    I feel like the warning is kind of built into box wine. It's not really a betrayal, just kind of par for the course.

  • AlexandierAlexandier Registered User regular
    Sometimes you are ready to be hurt again, sometimes you need an excuse to quote Wash.

  • valhalla130valhalla130 13 Dark Shield Perceives the GodsRegistered User regular
    One of my English teachers was the target of an Australian 60 Minutes hit piece when she was a high school student, specifically portraying her whole class as lazy.

    Personally, a friend I don't keep in touch with anymore never returned my book I loaned them, which is why I don't loan things anymore.

    I loaned a very precious Fritz Lieber paperback to a friend in the Army. He took it to the field and trashed it before returning it. I usually try to keep my books as pristine as possible. It did lead to me rebuying the hardback versions for all 4 of that collection. Its one of my prized possessions. But I never loan books any more. Especially because I loaned the Fellowship of the Ring to my girlfriend's sister in college and she did the same. Funny how they both thought I was an idiot for caring about my books coming back to me falling apart.

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  • ArchangleArchangle Registered User regular
    Alexandier as "I like turtles" kid confirmed.
    https://youtu.be/CMNry4PE93Y

  • SLyMSLyM Registered User regular
    God I love that video

    My friend is working on a roguelike game you can play if you want to. (It has free demo)
  • HeadCreepsHeadCreeps NOW IS THE TIME FOR DRINKING! Registered User regular
    Turtles are cool

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  • DouglasDangerDouglasDanger PennsylvaniaRegistered User regular
    I endured several painful betrayals, but I like to think I recovered. Therapy helped!

  • PeenPeen Registered User regular
    I played my first character in Skyrim for over 100 hours, really wringing the juice out of the game, and decided I should probably go ahead and beat it and so I started the last mission but got interrupted and decided to wait until I could really savor finishing it. My brother came in from out of town to visit and asked if he could try Skyrim and I said sure and he accidentally overwrote my save and I lost it all. I've still never beaten Skyrim and I don't know if I ever will.

  • VeeveeVeevee WisconsinRegistered User regular
    In 3rd grade I was invited to my first sleep over birthday party. Turned out I was invited specifically to be made fun of and get emotionally tortured by everyone else.

    In high school my parents made me get a job so that I could have some spending money. They then confiscated every paycheck because bills needed to be paid and they spent all of the money they made on booze.

    There's more, so many more betrayals, but I think that's good for now.

  • MuzzmuzzMuzzmuzz Registered User regular
    Dragon Age Origin Dwarf Noble gave me one of the few betrayals I never saw coming.

    Had a longtime coworker who would befriend everyone, get that promotion they wanted, and then report to the higher ups anything her manager had done wrong.

    My kid once got into the mother's day chocolate she 'bought' for me.

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  • HeadCreepsHeadCreeps NOW IS THE TIME FOR DRINKING! Registered User regular
    Somewhat related to betrayal, but my mom and I were almost scammed out of $55,000 this week by door-to-door contractors

    Lately here in MA, there have been masonry/contractor scams where guys with deep Irish accents (this is near Boston after all) would solicit people for work on their property and keep finding more and more problems that need to be fixed in order to pressure people, mostly elderly like my mom, into forking over thousands of dollars which they would take and split town

    Looking back, there were some alarm bells going off, but my house is in dire need of fixing, but more importantly, I'm a fucking idiot who doesn't know shit about construction or buildings or whatever - all I know is I've let the place fall to shit and I'm deeply ashamed of the state of the house so I guess I'm just in a very vulnerable position now

    Luckily, I have very intelligent and supportive brothers who are much more keen to this type of bullshit than I am. It's just that the guys were very, very pushy about how all of this needs to be addressed right away and we need a deposit right away and he doesn't want to have to send a report to the town because they may actually have the place condemned so they were just trying to look out for me and so on

    All I could think about was how much of a fuck up I am and how could I let this happen to my mother's house, and now I'm just really angry and discouraged by how easily I'm pushed around and what a sucker I am

    The big issue now is that they pulled a bunch of shit off the house and left a big mess in my front yard

    I really, really DO NOT NEED THIS BULLSHIT RIGHT NOW!!

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  • BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    That's a truly awful scam
    Scammers deserve one of the least pleasant circles of hell

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  • PerrsunPerrsun Registered User regular
    Scams based off of shame are unfortunately huge. It’s how they get a lot of aging parents… oh you really screwed up. Better pay now before the kids find out.

    Oh, you need to keep paying. If you don’t pay $X more every month, you’ll have to tell your kids how you got scammed out of $Y already. They’ll be so disappointed. Just keep paying us and they’ll never know how much trouble you’ve been.

  • PerrsunPerrsun Registered User regular
    edited September 28
    On a lighter note of betrayal, this post from the podcast thread…
    Uriel wrote: »
    My mom made me listen to classic rock and now I have an aversion to music that doesn't feature electric guitars

    reminded me of a time, as a kid, riding in the car with my parents. We were about 15 minutes from home, and I asked if we could change the music to something I wanted. My mom said “ok, we’ll listen to this song and then change it.”

    I didn’t know at the time, but that song was Peter Frampton’s Do You Feel Like We Do.

    Which has a playtime of about 14 minutes. We pulled in to the driveway at home as the song ended.

    Perrsun on
  • furlionfurlion Riskbreaker Lea MondeRegistered User regular
    I loaned a friend a working original Xbox about 8 years ago and he moved to an entirely different state. I don't think he took it on purpose but it still sucks. Haven't seen him in years now that i think about it.

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    PSN:Furlion
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