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So I'm officially registered and all my Fall Term classes are set in stone at University of Oregon, down in marijuana-infested Eugene.
Okay, so it's really not that bad. In fact, I loved the experience. I met four new people, all of the same intellectual wavelength. Two of them are English majors like myself, one is majoring in Education, and the last is going to be an Architecture major (UofO provides one of the top-ranked Architecture programs in the nation, too bad he's deciding between it and Cal-Poly). Of course, the Architecture major is also a super-hot Asian guy and we hit it off really well. I spent all of Sunday walking around the campus w/ my new friends, as well as exploring downtown Eugene.
I recommend the Pearl St. Ice Cream Parlour for anyone visiting, just sayin'.
Anyways, wow, I am so excited about college that I feel restricted and bored in Portland. Anyone else ready for college / about to go to orientation?
I was psyched for my freshman year last fall and it was a really awesome experience. The roommate I was paired with liked almost all the same stuff I do and we're rooming again this year.
I know this will sound nerdy but I really don't care, I can't wait to get back to college in September. I'm a Biochemistry major and I love learning about science. Going to classes and doing homework will be a lot better than my summer job.
I will say that I thought orientation was pretty boring/annoying. We had to do a sleep-over orientation for two days in the summer and then the first few days of the semester was more orientation. I only went to the first day of orientation when the semester started. It was pretty much being put randomly into groups and then playing games to learn each other's names.
Just remember that the first people you meet shouldn't be the only people you hang out with. They may seem cool for now, but they may turn out to be total dicks. Make it a point to meet as many new people as possible. Hey, even consider going to rush (it may not be for you, but you never know).
Just remember that the first people you meet shouldn't be the only people you hang out with. They may seem cool for now, but they may turn out to be total dicks. Make it a point to meet as many new people as possible. Hey, even consider going to rush (it may not be for you, but you never know).
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Don't fall into the trap of clinging to the first people you meet. Granted, it's a stressful and quasi-overwhelming environment, but you're really bottlenecking your social life by focusing your time amongst the first friends you meet.
I admit, though, that I still have a connection with the first kid I became 'real' friends with at college... and we don't even talk that much these days.
Have fun; go to class; watch your diet (college food sneaks up on your waistline).
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Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
I hated my orientation when I started college. Miserable experience but then again it was a day before graduation.
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My orientation for UF was a few weeks ago and to be honest I was kind of disappointed. Most of the presentations were pretty boring and didn't really meet anyone I was interested in talking to. Not much of a sports fan so felt a little out of place at times.
The guy I got partnered with for some stupid game at orientation three years ago has been my best friend ever since.
I think I still talk to one other person from my freshmen year, who was the guy that was my roommate. Sure, he didn't bathe, clean, or cut his hair, but he had a heart of gold.
Basically, to all you freshies out there, don't worry about clinging to people like you did in high school. Also, strike up conversations with people you are in class with, even if you would never usually talk to them. Having a few good friends is good, but having a slew of people you can call when you forget homework assignments is necessary.
I was a Fresher last year, and I would definitely second the advice above about meeting as many new people as you can. I don't know how the living arrangements work in American colleges, but at my university different rooms are allocated each year (some are based on academic merit). When I go back in October I'll be living with one girl I know from my corridor last year, who is also in the Tiddlywinks Club with me, a few people I talked to on occasion last year, and a whole bunch of freshers. If I'd have stuck just with the people I was living with last year, that would be really bumming me out, but I've also got my role-playing friends, winkers and all the people I know from my classes.
The only orientation I went to was an informal meet-and-greet in some town a few train stations away, and I don't remember any of them. Fresher's Week was a far better orientation for me, as I got to find my way around Cambridge and chat idly with the other people in my corridor.
I'm not saying I'm gonna be super-clingy to the people I just met, but I definitely want to keep in touch with them (especially the hot, straight Asian guy! =D). Seriously, though, in those two days I became totally social'd out if you get what I mean. I must have talked until I blew my voice out, and we went *everywhere*.
I'm gonna be a senior this year at WPI, and I just want to second (third? 10th, who knows) the going out thing. Especially if your school sponsors fun stuff like concerts or hypnotists for your orientation. I know at WPI the freshmen move in on like the 19th and don't start class until like the 27th or something and the week therein is just ridiculous amounts of stuff going on between the freshmen dorms (they're all next to each other, really).
Get out, have fun, meet people. Alr so, don't kill your roommate. They could be smart/useful! (kidding...)
Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
<- private room, because soooooo special.
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Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
<- private room, because soooooo special.
I would've qualified for a private room if they hadn't fucking taken their sweet damn time with my paperwork. As it stands, they got their shit together right after the housing deadlines passed.
Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
<- private room, because soooooo special.
I would've qualified for a private room if they hadn't fucking taken their sweet damn time with my paperwork. As it stands, they got their shit together right after the housing deadlines passed.
Incompetent shitheels.
Having a roommate sucks big balls. I'm so glad I moved off campus after freshman year.
Its like necessary as a freshman though. I mean if you could get a single in a suite that would be cool . . . but otherwise its a bit weird.
Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
<- private room, because soooooo special.
I would've qualified for a private room if they hadn't fucking taken their sweet damn time with my paperwork. As it stands, they got their shit together right after the housing deadlines passed.
Incompetent shitheels.
Having a roommate sucks big balls. I'm so glad I moved off campus after freshman year.
Its like necessary as a freshman though. I mean if you could get a single in a suite that would be cool . . . but otherwise its a bit weird.
I had one even when I was a freshman, because other people are teh lose.
Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
<- private room, because soooooo special.
I would've qualified for a private room if they hadn't fucking taken their sweet damn time with my paperwork. As it stands, they got their shit together right after the housing deadlines passed.
Incompetent shitheels.
Having a roommate sucks big balls. I'm so glad I moved off campus after freshman year.
Its like necessary as a freshman though. I mean if you could get a single in a suite that would be cool . . . but otherwise its a bit weird.
I had one even when I was a freshman, because other people are teh lose.
They were for handicapped people at my school. And anti-socials who wanted to pay more for housing. Just saying.
Roommates aren't always bad though. I mean, mine sucked, but most of my great friends at school were all roommates together.
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HacksawJ. Duggan Esq.Wrestler at LawRegistered Userregular
Preparing for orientation at Pacific Lutheran University. Should be interesting, seeing as I won't be able to get solo unit housing and will thus be forced to have a roommate for the next 6 months. Here's to hoping I won't need to kill him in his sleep.
<- private room, because soooooo special.
I would've qualified for a private room if they hadn't fucking taken their sweet damn time with my paperwork. As it stands, they got their shit together right after the housing deadlines passed.
Incompetent shitheels.
Having a roommate sucks big balls. I'm so glad I moved off campus after freshman year.
Its like necessary as a freshman though. I mean if you could get a single in a suite that would be cool . . . but otherwise its a bit weird.
I had one even when I was a freshman, because other people are teh lose.
This is why I'm going to be setting down ground rules when I first meet my roomie.
Rule #1: I hate you.
Rule #2: There is a distinct possibility I will kill you in order to seize your living space for my own should the opportunity present itself.
Rule #3: Rule #2 is less a "distinct possibility" and more a "resolute certainty."
EDIT: It's probably worth mentioning that I'm a transfer student, and should not have to put up with this shit.
I don't understand all this shitting on roommates. Sure, if you go in with a bad attitude about the whole thing like Hacksaw it's going to be shitty. Self fulfilling prophecy and all. But if you, y'know, actually go to the (usually) minimal effort to make it work it's fine. Most issues, unless your roommate is a total ass bag, can be resolved by, y'know, talking to your roommate about them. Practice those people skills you're supposed to be developing so you're not a shut in hermit for the rest of your life.
That said, my orientation at Cal Poly almost four years ago was one of the best experiences of my life. Here we do a whole week of orientation where we're split into groups that are led by a pair of sophomores or higher and basically spend the whole week going out and doing fun things around the area. Obviously, we have some presentations about awareness and the like, but it's still great. The leaders are all volunteers who have to do quite a bit of training too, so you rarely get stuck with shitty leaders that don't want to be there.
It was so much fun I volunteered to be a leader last year. Good times, even better than being a freshman.
Oh I totally agree with you. Like I said above, most of my good friends at school were all roommates with each other freshman year. I think Hacksaw is being way negative about it, and dude you should probably wait to meet the guy before you hate him.
At my orientation they showed us a video that was supposed to like be some anti-rape thingy that showed examples of unacceptable scenarios. Basically, parts were hilariously stupid, and other parts taught us that rape means you peaced out in the morning and the chick regreted it, so she figured she might as well fuck up your life. It was pretty bizzare.
I'm like 100% certain that we were the only class to see it.
I'm getting ready to go to Auburn University, well, I'm going to a community school near AU first, to save a little cash on my core stuff. But then I'm transferring to Auburn's Nursing program.
I start classes August 20th, and move in on the 11th, and the wait is starting to kill me. I'm so fucking bored here at home.
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I don't understand all this shitting on roommates. Sure, if you go in with a bad attitude about the whole thing like Hacksaw it's going to be shitty. Self fulfilling prophecy and all. But if you, y'know, actually go to the (usually) minimal effort to make it work it's fine. Most issues, unless your roommate is a total ass bag, can be resolved by, y'know, talking to your roommate about them. Practice those people skills you're supposed to be developing so you're not a shut in hermit for the rest of your life.
That said, my orientation at Cal Poly almost four years ago was one of the best experiences of my life. Here we do a whole week of orientation where we're split into groups that are led by a pair of sophomores or higher and basically spend the whole week going out and doing fun things around the area. Obviously, we have some presentations about awareness and the like, but it's still great. The leaders are all volunteers who have to do quite a bit of training too, so you rarely get stuck with shitty leaders that don't want to be there.
It was so much fun I volunteered to be a leader last year. Good times, even better than being a freshman.
I have tremendously bad luck when it comes to co-habitation partners. I have no reason to believe my experience at this college will be a break from the norm, given my history.
I'm baffled as to the anti-masturbation thing you two have been spouting. I mean, all guys do it.. and to be a good roommate you have to meet halfway. Set up like, times where one of you is at classes and the other isn't for that sort of stuff...
To flat-out ban masturbation from your roommate is just evil, IMO. I'm not sure who my roommate is yet, but if that Asian guy switches to UofO I'll definitely recommend him.
I'm baffled as to the anti-masturbation thing you two have been spouting. I mean, all guys do it.. and to be a good roommate you have to meet halfway. Set up like, times where one of you is at classes and the other isn't for that sort of stuff...
To flat-out ban masturbation from your roommate is just evil, IMO. I'm not sure who my roommate is yet, but if that Asian guy switches to UofO I'll definitely recommend him.
It's not banning masturbation, just setting a ground rule not to do it while the other roomie is present.
I don't understand all this shitting on roommates. Sure, if you go in with a bad attitude about the whole thing like Hacksaw it's going to be shitty. Self fulfilling prophecy and all. But if you, y'know, actually go to the (usually) minimal effort to make it work it's fine. Most issues, unless your roommate is a total ass bag, can be resolved by, y'know, talking to your roommate about them. Practice those people skills you're supposed to be developing so you're not a shut in hermit for the rest of your life.
I'm only in my room when I'm doing homework or sleeping, and I'm going to practice my people skills during neither of those. :P I could probably tolerate a roomy if I had one, but the chips are stacked against any would be roommate, because I'll see him when I'm most prone to being annoyed by other people.
I'm baffled as to the anti-masturbation thing you two have been spouting. I mean, all guys do it.. and to be a good roommate you have to meet halfway. Set up like, times where one of you is at classes and the other isn't for that sort of stuff...
To flat-out ban masturbation from your roommate is just evil, IMO. I'm not sure who my roommate is yet, but if that Asian guy switches to UofO I'll definitely recommend him.
It's not banning masturbation, just setting a ground rule not to do it while the other roomie is present.
I was wondering if you never masturbated in college...
Yea, I just went to my freshman orientation and it pretty much rocked my life. My classes are going to kick my ass, but I cant wait for the freedom. It's going to be dangerous...8-)
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I'm baffled as to the anti-masturbation thing you two have been spouting. I mean, all guys do it.. and to be a good roommate you have to meet halfway. Set up like, times where one of you is at classes and the other isn't for that sort of stuff...
To flat-out ban masturbation from your roommate is just evil, IMO. I'm not sure who my roommate is yet, but if that Asian guy switches to UofO I'll definitely recommend him.
I have no problem with the guy whacking it, so long as he cleans up after himself and leaves no trace of the incident.
Whacking it while I'm in the fucking room, on the other hand is not cool by me.
Well I managed to get into the dorm I requested, which is the unofficial Engineers dorm of the school. So I'll be able to live with a bunch of nerdy people like myself.
Although I ended up with two roommates. The only thing is that I'm not sure if my room is a double or triple so it could be a moot point.
Anyway my actual orientation is at the end of august so we see how that goes.
Anyone else going to University of Portland with me?
The two times I went to Cal Poly this summer weren't particularly special. Just a day where you show up and see some of the stuff your major (ARCE) will be doing, and a day where you show up and get "counselling" when planning for class registration. That day wasn't particularly useful, though.
I am looking forward to the Week of Welcome mentioned a few posts back, though. It seems like a good time to get to know the people you'll be living around and with.
Well for living arrangements I decided to go for a relatively cheap 1 bedroom apartment that was about five minutes away from camps. Although, I am kind of second guessing myself now as people keep telling me I will be missing out on the "college experience" by not living in the dorms my freshman year.
I got paired with a guy who I became pretty good friends with freshman year, but who ended up being into different scenes than I was.
In fact, almost all my super close friends freshman year just sort of drifted apart, because the only thing holding us together was our floor, not common interests. However, I found a whole new group of friends sophomore year, and in addition to remaining close with all of them even after college, I didn't stop meeting people the entire time I was at school.
I met my girlfriend of a year and a half at some random orientation ice breaker, and I met my future roomate and now-close friend on the bus back from some random orientation party.
The two times I went to Cal Poly this summer weren't particularly special. Just a day where you show up and see some of the stuff your major (ARCE) will be doing, and a day where you show up and get "counselling" when planning for class registration. That day wasn't particularly useful, though.
I am looking forward to the Week of Welcome mentioned a few posts back, though. It seems like a good time to get to know the people you'll be living around and with.
Yeah, the summer orientation stuff is basically worthless. WOW is the best thing ever though, as I said above. I would have been a leader again this year, but classes interfered with the training. I know a crapload of leaders though, so maybe you'll get one of them.
I've had terrible luck with roomies. My freshman year, I had this gay guy, but I've got no issue with that. I did have issue with the fact that he would only watch bad sitcoms on Nick at Nite from midnight until 2AM. By bad sitcoms, I mean The Nanny. Fran Drescher's laugh is a thing amde from the total combined hatred of all sentient beings, and he listened to it in surround sound.
Sophomore year was decent, my first roomie that year was just a pig and I can deal with that. My second one was a comic dork and we knew each other from being in the anime club together, so that was pretty enjoyable.
Junior year, after I got back from Japan, I had my worst roomie yet. He'd masturbate loudly every night he wasn't with his girlfriend. No joke, he was such a fiend he and his girlfriend were making it on Easter Sunday while my mom was in the room visiting me. He was also the worst slob I've ever known, as in he'd leave his dirty underwear everywhere. Not few was the number of times I had to kick his semen-encrusted drawers off my PS2 controllers...
Bringing back one tip that seems to have been overlooked: Take advantage of the activities during Rush Week! Free food galore, and you could meet a lot of people. Just keep in mind that that isn't how greek life actually is.
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I know this will sound nerdy but I really don't care, I can't wait to get back to college in September. I'm a Biochemistry major and I love learning about science. Going to classes and doing homework will be a lot better than my summer job.
I will say that I thought orientation was pretty boring/annoying. We had to do a sleep-over orientation for two days in the summer and then the first few days of the semester was more orientation. I only went to the first day of orientation when the semester started. It was pretty much being put randomly into groups and then playing games to learn each other's names.
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Don't fall into the trap of clinging to the first people you meet. Granted, it's a stressful and quasi-overwhelming environment, but you're really bottlenecking your social life by focusing your time amongst the first friends you meet.
I admit, though, that I still have a connection with the first kid I became 'real' friends with at college... and we don't even talk that much these days.
Have fun; go to class; watch your diet (college food sneaks up on your waistline).
At times it sucks, but it is really manageable.
― Dr. Seuss, Oh, the Places You'll Go!
I think I still talk to one other person from my freshmen year, who was the guy that was my roommate. Sure, he didn't bathe, clean, or cut his hair, but he had a heart of gold.
Basically, to all you freshies out there, don't worry about clinging to people like you did in high school. Also, strike up conversations with people you are in class with, even if you would never usually talk to them. Having a few good friends is good, but having a slew of people you can call when you forget homework assignments is necessary.
The only orientation I went to was an informal meet-and-greet in some town a few train stations away, and I don't remember any of them. Fresher's Week was a far better orientation for me, as I got to find my way around Cambridge and chat idly with the other people in my corridor.
Get out, have fun, meet people. Alr so, don't kill your roommate. They could be smart/useful! (kidding...)
Prince Puckler's is better than Pearl St.
Also, when you get out of the dorms, avoid Bell Real Estate. Those people are pigfuckers.
that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
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Incompetent shitheels.
Having a roommate sucks big balls. I'm so glad I moved off campus after freshman year.
Its like necessary as a freshman though. I mean if you could get a single in a suite that would be cool . . . but otherwise its a bit weird.
I had one even when I was a freshman, because other people are teh lose.
They were for handicapped people at my school. And anti-socials who wanted to pay more for housing. Just saying.
Roommates aren't always bad though. I mean, mine sucked, but most of my great friends at school were all roommates together.
Rule #1: I hate you.
Rule #2: There is a distinct possibility I will kill you in order to seize your living space for my own should the opportunity present itself.
Rule #3: Rule #2 is less a "distinct possibility" and more a "resolute certainty."
EDIT: It's probably worth mentioning that I'm a transfer student, and should not have to put up with this shit.
God I was such a horrible roommate.
He'll get one warning shot before I go for the kill.
The warning shot may or may not be in the vicinity of his penis.
yeah, I never did that one. You'd totally be justified in kicking his ass if you wake up and he's jacking it tho . . .
yeah.
That said, my orientation at Cal Poly almost four years ago was one of the best experiences of my life. Here we do a whole week of orientation where we're split into groups that are led by a pair of sophomores or higher and basically spend the whole week going out and doing fun things around the area. Obviously, we have some presentations about awareness and the like, but it's still great. The leaders are all volunteers who have to do quite a bit of training too, so you rarely get stuck with shitty leaders that don't want to be there.
It was so much fun I volunteered to be a leader last year. Good times, even better than being a freshman.
At my orientation they showed us a video that was supposed to like be some anti-rape thingy that showed examples of unacceptable scenarios. Basically, parts were hilariously stupid, and other parts taught us that rape means you peaced out in the morning and the chick regreted it, so she figured she might as well fuck up your life. It was pretty bizzare.
I'm like 100% certain that we were the only class to see it.
I start classes August 20th, and move in on the 11th, and the wait is starting to kill me. I'm so fucking bored here at home.
To flat-out ban masturbation from your roommate is just evil, IMO. I'm not sure who my roommate is yet, but if that Asian guy switches to UofO I'll definitely recommend him.
It's not banning masturbation, just setting a ground rule not to do it while the other roomie is present.
I'm only in my room when I'm doing homework or sleeping, and I'm going to practice my people skills during neither of those. :P I could probably tolerate a roomy if I had one, but the chips are stacked against any would be roommate, because I'll see him when I'm most prone to being annoyed by other people.
I was wondering if you never masturbated in college...
Whacking it while I'm in the fucking room, on the other hand is not cool by me.
Although I ended up with two roommates. The only thing is that I'm not sure if my room is a double or triple so it could be a moot point.
Anyway my actual orientation is at the end of august so we see how that goes.
Anyone else going to University of Portland with me?
I am looking forward to the Week of Welcome mentioned a few posts back, though. It seems like a good time to get to know the people you'll be living around and with.
I got paired with a guy who I became pretty good friends with freshman year, but who ended up being into different scenes than I was.
In fact, almost all my super close friends freshman year just sort of drifted apart, because the only thing holding us together was our floor, not common interests. However, I found a whole new group of friends sophomore year, and in addition to remaining close with all of them even after college, I didn't stop meeting people the entire time I was at school.
I met my girlfriend of a year and a half at some random orientation ice breaker, and I met my future roomate and now-close friend on the bus back from some random orientation party.
College, man. College.
*sniff*
I miss those times.
Yeah, the summer orientation stuff is basically worthless. WOW is the best thing ever though, as I said above. I would have been a leader again this year, but classes interfered with the training. I know a crapload of leaders though, so maybe you'll get one of them.
Do you know what dorm you're living in yet?
Sophomore year was decent, my first roomie that year was just a pig and I can deal with that. My second one was a comic dork and we knew each other from being in the anime club together, so that was pretty enjoyable.
Junior year, after I got back from Japan, I had my worst roomie yet. He'd masturbate loudly every night he wasn't with his girlfriend. No joke, he was such a fiend he and his girlfriend were making it on Easter Sunday while my mom was in the room visiting me. He was also the worst slob I've ever known, as in he'd leave his dirty underwear everywhere. Not few was the number of times I had to kick his semen-encrusted drawers off my PS2 controllers...
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