I have this 'fear' of getting poked with needles/shots. I pass out a lot and even just talking/thinking about it now is making me kind of faint and light headed.
I have a docotor appointment in a couple weeks and doing a lot of blood work. I always have them lay me down so that I can't see and in case I go out then I don't bash my head on a table or nothing.
But .. [seriously, I feel funny now; like all light headed just thinking about it] this is a phobia right? How do I get 'past' it?
Please no graphic details about 'it'. Thanks.
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I recently had to give a needle in a first aid course (into a real human). I like to think that helped. I even set up an appointment to get a shot this wednesday...
So uh, that might be one way to help get over it, haha.
I was fucking terrified of needles. I could go let some monster 250 linebacker try to fracture my skull a dozen times in one night, but I was afraid of a wound so small, it would scarecely even bleed. It made no sense at all.
So, I'm in the doctor's office one day, and I have to get some blood work done. I expected some nurse to be sympathetic and tell me it won't hurt and blah blah blah. Instead, the nurse calls me a sissy, grabs my arm, jams the needle in, and takes the blood sample. I was so astonished that the nurse actually insulted me, that the whole needle-going-into-my-arm thing was almost lost on me. When I realized what had just happened, I thought to myself "hey, that wasn't so bad. I can't really even feel it." The nurse just smiled at me and left with the blood sample.
Ever since then, I've had no problems with needles. I even donate blood on a semi-regular basis.
Obviously they teach this at nurse school, they did the exact same thing to me. It works bloody well too... it's the expectation that's the worst bit, not actually getting the jab.
I hate needles too. Really badly. The trick for me is to just not look. If I don't see it, it isn't a needle, it's just an annoying itch.
Personally I might have been scared of needles when I was really little, I don't know. But when I was around 8 years old I had GI tract surgury done, and in the process they had to stick a tube up my nose all the way down to my stomach. Needles were fun by comparison.
Ever since then, I've never been afraid of needles. Its just a little pinch... I mean the worst thing about getting an injection is that your arm feels sore for a while afterwards, but thats not from the needle going in thats from the fluid being pumped into your arm.
For me, like a lot of other people, its just the sinister looking shape, so seriously, do what everyone tells you to and just don't look at them. Close your eyes, and remember it will never be as bad as you make it out to be in your head.
That made me start being afraid of em.
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Even without doing nothing, if someone just set a needle down and said they will pick it back up in 30 seconds and then throw it away; it would still freak my shit.
I'd honestly rather take a very hard slap in the face rather then have to deal with needles.
It's more common in males than females, and I've been told by nurses that it's usually the big guys who have the most problems. It's really nothing to be ashamed of.
I had a few blood tests when I was young and HATED it. I let this fear of all needles go on until I had to have a few shots to go on holiday...
I was surprised how much of a non-event it was. Getting a shot in the arm just wasn't as bad as I thought... I guess the moral is to focus on the "well, thats not so bad" aspect of it...
The only reason I'm kind-of getting over it is the past two injections I've had have been fine. Straight in and out, minimal pain, so my rational cortex has taken over since.
It's to the degree of a mild phobia.
So, to that end, because I refuse to live my life avoiding things and/or making decisions based on fear response I give blood every 2-3 months religiously. The only way to get over shit like this is to do it and do it and do it.
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I just tell the doctor/nurse ahead of time that it is going to be an issue and that I will need a couple minutes, and they tend to be pretty helpful.
Now I watch when i get flu shots.
Most docs will be happy talking to you and keeping your mind off of it if you tell them beforehand that you're scared of needles. Tell them up front, and ask if they can chat when they get it ready and do it. They'll probably ask you about your job or pet or whatever.
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I guess thats how I solved it, but that probably isn't for everyone.
I talked to the docotor about this, he ran some EKG test and then re-did my blood pressure (because first time I had to stop cause I was getting all pale and sweaty). And he basically said "Yea, basically your having a panic attack - when you get this nervous [about getting popped with needle] your heart rate drops and you go out"
Then he write me a script for a bunch of pills that are suppose to relax me. I took one and I feel good, I feel like ice cream and sunshine.
um. Anyways, I didn't get blood work done. He said I should eat before I come in next time, drink lots of fluids, take a pill 30 minuets before my appointment and have a friend come with me (to drive me to and from).
But besides taking drugs, is there anything else I can do? I tried relaxation and breathing exercises (they ussually help if I'm nervous before a big performance) - but at the docotor office they just made me more dizzy.
Actually I don't think it's nervousness or fear... I think it's more the expectation of passing out that makes me dizzy. The docotor said that blood letting lowers blood pressure which is why some people faint, especially if they have low blood pressure to begin with (I do have low blood pressure).
I think it is like a plavoic response. The dogs drool when they hear the bell because they are expecting food... same with me, I think I get light headed when I go to the doctors because I'm expecting to get stuck with needles and pass out. Kind of like a combination of expectation, conditioning and self-fulling prophecy - if that makes sense.
It's like a nice hard pinch, nothing to worry about. Just face up to it.
The fact is that it will not kill you or harm you in any way past the intitial sting.
By about year 6 I had learnt how to get high off your vaccination.
90% of it would have been placebo and having other people there, but if you lie down and start giggling, you won't stop.
10% was adrenaline.
In year 8 there was an entire gym of students giggling and cackling wildly.
I'm exactly the opposite. Many years ago I spent some foolish time as an IV drug user. There are some real easy spots on my forearm and the middle and inside of my elbow but needles can bruise so if you don't want your drug use obvious there are more discrete locations. I couldn't do it in those discrete locations. My desire to wear short sleeve shirts and the inability to stick needles anywhere in my body except my arms probably saved me a lifetime of addiction.
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