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I want to quit smoking.

MeizMeiz Registered User regular
edited November 2007 in Help / Advice Forum
This habit is fucking dumb however, what's worked in the past, like the patch, is having adverse effects. Like causing severe panic attacks even though I'm on medication for that.

What I'd like are some ideas, suggestions and general input from smokers who have managed to quit in the past.

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  • JermJerm Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Prepare yourself mentally by establishing healthy routines before you quit. For instance, make a habit of going to the gym everyday. Gather a base of support (friends, family, etc.). A lot of colleges and universities have resources for quitting smoking too, if it applies.

    Also, why not lend more magnitude to your decision by improving yourself in other areas as well? Drugs, alcohol, unhealthy foods - whatever other bad habits you have, you might try to nix them simultaneously (just a thought).

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  • RendRend Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Make yourself accountable to someone you trust: Make sure they'll call you out on it if you break your resolve. It helps alot when you have someone watching to make sure you don't do it.

    When my parents quit smoking, they did it together, and that was one thing that helped them tremendously.

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  • Dark MoonDark Moon Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Jerm wrote: »
    Also, why not lend more magnitude to your decision by improving yourself in other areas as well? Drugs, alcohol, unhealthy foods - whatever other bad habits you have, you might try to nix them simultaneously (just a thought).

    This is a bad idea. Quitting smoking by itself is a huge change in your way of life, and will be quite the shock to your system. Compounding this by simultaneously quitting all of your bad habits at once is setting yourself up for a very quick failure. Go slowly and take it one change at a time.

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  • Raiden333Raiden333 Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Dark Moon wrote: »
    Jerm wrote: »
    Also, why not lend more magnitude to your decision by improving yourself in other areas as well? Drugs, alcohol, unhealthy foods - whatever other bad habits you have, you might try to nix them simultaneously (just a thought).

    This is a bad idea. Quitting smoking by itself is a huge change in your way of life, and will be quite the shock to your system. Compounding this by simultaneously quitting all of your bad habits at once is setting yourself up for a very quick failure. Go slowly and take it one change at a time.

    At the beginning of summer I quit smoking for over a month. I was so proud of myself for making it that long (with what felt at the time like very little effort) that I decided to eliminate my other bad habits in the same manner. Long story short, the habits are still there plus I'm smoking again.

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  • Lord YodLord Yod Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Engage yourself in activities that don't allow you time to smoke. Don't smoke in your car. It can be tough, but try to limit your time around people that do smoke.

    I quit smoking for six months and, due to my job/friends, couldn't keep it off. I'm about to take the plunge again (any day now, I swear!) and I'm dreading it.

    So my hat's off to you, and I wish you good luck. It's a long road but it'll be well worth it.

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  • the wookthe wook Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Lord Yod wrote: »
    Engage yourself in activities that don't allow you time to smoke. Don't smoke in your car. It can be tough, but try to limit your time around people that do smoke.

    I quit smoking for six months and, due to my job/friends, couldn't keep it off. I'm about to take the plunge again (any day now, I swear!) and I'm dreading it.

    So my hat's off to you, and I wish you good luck. It's a long road but it'll be well worth it.

    absolutely. the number one change i made when i quit smoking was seeing less of my friends that smoked. that sucked for a little bit, but it's so easy for your willpower to give out beneath you when one of your friends pulls out his pack.

    as an addendum, try to avoid drinking (assuming you drink) anywhere you're allowed to smoke, or at least around people who are smoking. in my experience, relapses have been ~95% alcohol related, so try to limit your drinking to situations where you can't easily obtain cigarettes.

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  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Tell your friends you want to quit smoking. If your friends do smoke tell them it's no pressure to them or anything but you really want to quit and if they could not smoke around you and if they could never offer you anymore smokes it would be appriciated.

    Make sure you throw out anything that helps you smoke (lighters, ashtrays obviously ciggarettes) if it's harder for you to grab a ciggarette and smoke it in the first place it will be easier for you not to smoke.

    When you want a ciggarette, have a glass of water.

    Some people find if usefull to get a pickle jar and fill it with water and old ciggarette butts when they really want a smoke they open the lid and have a sniff it apparently puts some people off.

    Other people find it usefull to hold a pen in their hands as well to replace holding a ciggarette.

    Obviously there are patches and whatnot.

    Also set a date, and don't have a binge before the date, having a target date to quit then gets rid of the I'll do it next week mentality.

    Also remember a relapse is a sign of weakness not failure, if you smoke one by accident toughen up and try harder don't give in just because you have had one.

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  • UncleChetUncleChet N00b Lancaster, PARegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I quit almost 5 years ago, but the process itself took about 6 months. First, I stopped smoking in my house. Going outside when it's cold, just to smoke is a total pain in the ass. Second, I stopped smoking in the car or in friends cars. The goal is to make smoking such an inconvenience, that you don't want to do it. Finally, I weened myself off. For 2 weeks I stopped at half a pack a day. Then slowly reduced the number of allowed cigarettes a day down to 0. This took about 2 months total for me. I can now be around other smokers and it only nags me a little bit. It's been great being smoke free but the time while i was quitting was tough.

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  • MykonosMykonos Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    you wanna know the best way to quit? Get a girlfriend whom your infatuated with who threatens to leave you if you don't. Actually, now that I think about it...i ended up leaving her :|

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  • Lord YodLord Yod Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Mykonos wrote: »
    you wanna know the best way to quit? Get a girlfriend whom your infatuated with who threatens to leave you if you don't. Actually, now that I think about it...i ended up leaving her :|

    This is a bad idea. Basing a relationship decision on a physical addiction is just asking for failure, as seen above.

    Now, having a girlfriend who wants you to quit, and is supportive of that, can be incredibly helpful.

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  • MykonosMykonos Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    what he said

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  • rock217rock217 Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    thats just, terrible

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  • FalxFalx Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    It can vary from person to person though, both my parents smoked for 30+ years and they both stopped together. Two weeks of compulsively patting pockets and drinking lots and lots of water even though they weren't thirsty and they were fine. My dad especially was up to two and a half packs a day and said if he knew it would be that easy he would have stopped ages ago.

    Friend of mine smoked about five a day. And has tried and failed multiple times to quit. People often forget there is a psychological aspect to addiction, even with hard drugs. In short, if you really want it bad enough, and tell yourself you don't need to smoke, and believe it. You'll be fine.

    Best of luck!

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  • MeizMeiz Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Good advice. Thanks.

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  • brandotheninjamasterbrandotheninjamaster Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I had smoked for almost 6 years, I took a prescription drug called chantix and quit in a week. If you decide to go that route you still need to prepare yourself mentally, both are equally important imo.

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  • precisionkprecisionk Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Since I have never smoked, I can't relate, though I have been around smoking for most of my life when I was younger.

    Perhaps everytime you want to have a cigarette, instead have a piece of fruit (banana, apple, orange), this way you are not going the candy route like some smokers do and you are eating a healthy intake of fruits which most people lack.

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  • ArikadoArikado Southern CaliforniaRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I only smoked for half a year but I was able to quit by picking up eating pumpkin seeds and sunflower seeds as a hobby. I guess I wasn't totally addicted like others but some of the older guys I used to work around with told me they always carried something to chew on, like seeds or sugar cane.

    It's weird, I know.

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  • LondonBridgeLondonBridge __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    I found quitting was easy but I think it's because I have a low tolerance with addiction. Anyways, here are some steps that helps.

    1. Make rules for yourself like no smoking in your home.

    2. Avoid the peanut gallery that smokes, peers are such enablers.

    3. Learn to hate the cigarette companies. Think about, do they really care if you die from lung cancer?

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  • X5X5 Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    You have to make some rules about when and where you allow yourself to smoke at all if you decide to cutback in an attempt to wean yourself off before totally quitting.

    Changing my routine helped tremendously towards my quitting.

    I wouldn't allow myself to smoke in the car on the way to work, or in the car on the way home, or in the car AT ALL. At first i would only smoke on my breaks and after meals. Then I removed the after meals and after coffee cigarettes. If you do it one routine step at a time, its much more manageable.

    I however did have to cut back on the social drinking to a reasonable amount because even after i quit, I found it really really really hard to not smoke when partying.

    I agree with the poster that said to NOT change your other unhealthy habits at the same time. If you've smoked enough to become addicted its going to be kinda shitty during the first few days/weeks while you quit. Once you are over the headaches and the antsy-ness, feel free to improve other areas, but your main focus should be on changing the habitual part of your daily life that you've fit smoking into.

    Once your need for a cigarette is purely nicotine addiction and not as a matter of habit, you'll have a much easier time with the withdrawl symptoms and the whole bit.

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  • brandotheninjamasterbrandotheninjamaster Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Arikado wrote: »
    It's weird, I know.

    Not really, I use toothpicks from time to time.

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  • thebovrilmonkeythebovrilmonkey Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I've never smoked cigarettes myself, but I know a fair few people who sing nothing but praise about Allen Carr's book, the easy way to stop smoking.
    It's probably worth seeing if your local library has a copy and giving it a read.

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  • Gnome-InterruptusGnome-Interruptus Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    As said above, give yourself less places you can smoke.

    The easiest way to quit smoking is to actually kick the habit of places and times your accustomed to smoking. Once smoking becomes a abnormal event that you only go out of your way to do when the nicotine need is causing symptoms, its much easier for the nicotine replacement drugs / the patch to bring you down from that addiction.

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  • PojacoPojaco Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    3. Learn to hate the cigarette companies. Think about, do they really care if you die from lung cancer?
    This is what keeps me from smoking. I am around cigarettes all day every day, and have occasionally partaken, but I couldn't bring myself to buy a pack on moral grounds, and thus I've never had more than like 2 cigs in a week. You can come up with a million reasons why you shouldn't be smoking, but moral reasons might be the strongest thing you can hold onto.

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  • life3life3 Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Been relatively smoke-free for 2 years now(sparsely smoking when heavily intoxicated; which I also try to avoid these days). Was a smoker through 5 years of college and a little bit of high school. Had tried quitting many times before.

    What worked best for me was physical activity; heavy cardio. I found that once you cough up some mucus and wheeze for a couple hours the desire for a cigarette doesn't exist anymore. The increased endurance you develop adds a nice incentive that I wanted to keep.

    Also, toothpicks and bubblegum. They work best together(oral fixation and flavor combo).

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  • EdgieEdgie TampaRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I used Welbutrin (probably sp) to quit, and it worked just fine for me. Ask your doctor about it, but what I basically did was set a quit date two weeks in advance and took Welbutrin, as prescribed, for those two weeks. Smoke as normal, and then on that 14th day, cold turkey.

    I've tried before then to quit without help from drugs and failed miserably, and I've tried without drugs again, now that I stupidly picked it up again (turning 21 and drinking a lot more will do that apparently). I personally plan on hitting up my doctor for a prescription of it again next time I go in.

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  • NerdtendoNerdtendo Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Has anyone mentioned Chantix yet? It's a new drug on the U.S.A. market that helps people quit smoking. I think it's supposed to be a three month thing.

    It's pricey, but it works. It basically gets rid of the physical cravings altogether. Sure, you'll still want a cigarette, but you won't need a cigarette. A few of the people I've talked to that have been on it said that it will make you feel sick too if you smoke while on it.

    I'm pretty sure a month's supply is about 80-100 bucks. Plus you'll need to talk to a doctor and shell out to them to get the prescription written. It is covered by insurance though. And it's cheaper than the patch if I'm correct about the price (Nicoderm patches are about $45 for a week's supply, generic brands are cheaper, but I'm not sure of the exact price), and it's not feeding your nicotine addiction.

    Of course, I've also heard of people quitting with buproprion (Wellbutrin) as well.

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  • brandotheninjamasterbrandotheninjamaster Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Yes but the thing with Chantix is that it affects the nicotine receptors in you brain. Other medicines go into your nervous system and handle business from there also having worse side effects from what I understand. Thats why Chantix was looked at like a Godsend as opposed to these other medicines.

    OP I think that if you are serious about quitting reviewing all your options with your doctor is the best way to go. Any doctor worth his salt will be able to point you in the right direction and help get you connected with smoking cessation groups.

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