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A thread about unexpected well wishes
The Black Hunter
The key is a minimum of compromise, and a simple,unimpeachable reason to existRegistered User regular
The key is a minimum of compromise, and a simple,unimpeachable reason to existRegistered User regular
I am not a very popular person, in any community or social circle I frequent.
woops
Anyway, there is basically about 7 groups of people at my college, and I can hang out with 5 of them, but none of them like me or know me well enough to give half a shit about me.
I was hanging around one particular group at lunch, almost totally girls, a good 50% of which I would in fact root, and one of them says "Oh hey conway one last thing!"
I turn to her, half expecting some sort of cruel joke at my expense, I replied "Ah yeah? what's up?" as she foraged through her bag.
She then produced a Card and a Candy Cane. She then handed it too me, I was very surprised, and said many thanks.
The Card was actually addressed to me, I found this amazingly surprising. I had no Idea people gave one fifth of a shit about me, and was quite flustered.
This exact same thing happened about 3 hours later, with another girl, with another name addressed card.
I was even more surprised, because I talked to this girl less than the first girl. She was also quite good looking.
So guys, what unexpected well wishes have you received? Not just for christmas either.
woops
Anyway, there is basically about 7 groups of people at my college, and I can hang out with 5 of them, but none of them like me or know me well enough to give half a shit about me.
I was hanging around one particular group at lunch, almost totally girls, a good 50% of which I would in fact root, and one of them says "Oh hey conway one last thing!"
I turn to her, half expecting some sort of cruel joke at my expense, I replied "Ah yeah? what's up?" as she foraged through her bag.
She then produced a Card and a Candy Cane. She then handed it too me, I was very surprised, and said many thanks.
The Card was actually addressed to me, I found this amazingly surprising. I had no Idea people gave one fifth of a shit about me, and was quite flustered.
This exact same thing happened about 3 hours later, with another girl, with another name addressed card.
I was even more surprised, because I talked to this girl less than the first girl. She was also quite good looking.
So guys, what unexpected well wishes have you received? Not just for christmas either.
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I don't in the slightest.
"give a candy cane to the ugliest dude"
Trust me on this.
I wouldn't be surprised.
I haven't exactly been rampaging around ravishing the ladies with charm and penis.
It was delicious.
You won't get anywhere with them, but it beats going places alone.
fuuuck yyeeaaahh
You would not beleive the depths I can go with deppression, or how few people actually care half a fuck for me.
But now I have drunkeness that stops me from crying from the next 6 hours.
Anyway, on a lighter note I have a cool dog.
well hopefully you'll be visited by the ghost of christmas yet to come tonight and realise you could die sad and lonely and then you'd give me some money and i'd be your friend
Which isn't to say all of them are that shallow - but it's usually the case.
edit: I'm talking about those chicks who hand out cards and candy canes at school. Ah I remember those days...
dogs are fun. do you give half a fuck about others? relationships go two ways, maybe invest some friendship time with a few selected people and see where it goes
Note: Alcohol is a depressant.
The selected persons do not give me the time of day.
When I was finally getting somewhere with two of them, school ended and I lost contact with one, and the other got back with her Boyfriend who has banned her from talking to me.
EDIT: The depressant part stps my brain from fully realising how little where to change if I disappeared tommorrow.
wait there's something else going on here
Then you can insult people and they laugh.
It's worked wonders for me for about 3 years now.
Alternatively - stop trying to "befriend" chicks specifically, and just go make friends. It's more likely to result in something worthwhile.
and therefor it will make you sad
haha oh wait that's not how it works
if i didn't have my two best friends i would not have many friends at all
No, it slows down your body rather then exciting it up.
It has nothing to do wth your mood.
Merry christmas thinevestments.
exactly. guys are so much easier to make friends with, whether you are a guy or a girl, because chicks often assume you are trying to hit on them, but guys won't.
Dude I hate to break it to ya, but this is the case with practically anyone - unless you're Hitler or Ghandi or someone.
i have one friend
also my cat
Man, the only thing I do to 90% of the people I know is make fun of them and little things that happen to them.
I keep it lighthearted so I don't push them away, but that's all I can do.
I do it pretty badly too.
What is the haps?
merry christmas, doggie
H/A forum ITT
Perhaps this is part of the problem.
Yet still I don't care for this time of year.
not to much, have you checked out my bitching holiday doodle thread? its the tops. also has a female naked chico blue in it
hey that might not make sense but i'm trying to cheer you up
I have no doubts that I am one of the most annoying people you could ever hope not to meet.
I have been trying though
@Jezz: Dont worry bout me duder.
I like talking about my problems, it gets them into the open air and I feel better.
Me talking bout this is a good thing for me, dont mean I'mma go crazy on yall.
EDIT: I'm far too lazy to quote, this is at Bel.
facebook doesn't even count
Then stop doing that. If you're no good at it, knock the shit off. Find something else to occupy yourself with.
I hope you aren't all ABLOO BLOO BLOO WHERNA WHERNA WHERNA around them, too. That would be the other half of your problem.
Well how about instead of making "light-hearted" fun of your friends, you like, I dunno - compliment them once in a while? Turn "hey, nice shirt, jackass" into "hey, nice shirt."
HEY YOU
DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL YOU YOUR PROBLEMS
MR. STRANGER
DRUNK STRANGER
C'MERE
Yeah, I don't mean to make assumptions, but part of that whole dry sarcastic wit is laughing at yourself.
You have to laugh at yourself and throw the occasional joke towards you, not to mention make the jokes hurled at them incredibly funny, for them to not be pissed all the time.
Swear to god, random stranger + a disregard for common courtesy = laughter.
At least that's how it's worked out for me.