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Frequency of sex for a single guy..

EliteLamerEliteLamer __BANNED USERS regular
edited December 2007 in Help / Advice Forum
I can't really find any numbers besides one that said 112 times per year but that has to be for a couple. Anyone have any numbers on this? Either way I am sure I am fairly far behind.

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  • OrganichuOrganichu poops peesRegistered User regular
    edited December 2007
    EliteLamer wrote: »
    Anyone have any numbers on this?

    No. D:

    Are you looking for our personal experience or actual, reviewed statistics?

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  • EliteLamerEliteLamer __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    Organichu wrote: »
    EliteLamer wrote: »
    Anyone have any numbers on this?

    No. D:

    Are you looking for our personal experience or actual, reviewed statistics?

    Any...

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    I've known single guys who consistently had sex 3+ times a week. Never the same girl twice. I'm not sure how great an idea that is though, nor how common.

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  • EliteLamerEliteLamer __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    I've known single guys who consistently had sex 3+ times a week. Never the same girl twice. I'm not sure how great an idea that is though, nor how common.

    Thats what I am wondering too...Everything makes me think that it is common to bang a different chick every week but everyone I KNOW is lucky to bang more then a few chicks a year. I guess it really depends on the social circle.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    EliteLamer wrote: »
    I've known single guys who consistently had sex 3+ times a week. Never the same girl twice. I'm not sure how great an idea that is though, nor how common.

    Thats what I am wondering too...Everything makes me think that it is common to bang a different chick every week but everyone I KNOW is lucky to bang more then a few chicks a year. I guess it really depends on the social circle.

    I really don't think it's anywhere near as common as it's made out to be.

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  • OrganichuOrganichu poops peesRegistered User regular
    edited December 2007
    EliteLamer wrote: »
    I've known single guys who consistently had sex 3+ times a week. Never the same girl twice. I'm not sure how great an idea that is though, nor how common.

    Thats what I am wondering too...Everything makes me think that it is common to bang a different chick every week but everyone I KNOW is lucky to bang more then a few chicks a year. I guess it really depends on the social circle.

    It's about lifestyle. How do you live? How do you wish to live? Without doubt there are men who sleep with several women per week- many guys I know get at least one girl each weekend night each week and some are even more vigilant during the week.

    Is that how you want to live? I'd rather not pass judgment on any man's sexual activities, but to each his own, really. I went through periods of both- before college I had three years split across two committed relationships and only had sex with one partner (the second girlfriend) during that entire three year period. In college I went through one month with six girls.

    If you're a confident guy and you know how to present yourself and you live in a metropolitan area and you want sex, regardless of emotional accoutrement, I'd say it's rather easy to get it. Do you want it, though? Most guys, as they grow older, realize that they don't.

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  • EliteLamerEliteLamer __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    It is a huge lifestyle change that involves changing more then how you act on the weekend.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    Why are you wanting to know this, exactly?

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  • EliteLamerEliteLamer __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    Why are you wanting to know this, exactly?

    I am just looking for an avrg to see how far I am off by.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    Why?

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  • LewishamLewisham Registered User regular
    edited December 2007
    Because society uses "normal" sexual activity as a yardstick for your desirability, and thus romantic and social success.

    It is complete bullshit.

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  • OrganichuOrganichu poops peesRegistered User regular
    edited December 2007
    EliteLamer wrote: »
    It is a huge lifestyle change that involves changing more then how you act on the weekend.

    That was exactly my point. Guys who set themselves up to have sex very often will probably have sex very often. The inverse seems pretty accurate as well.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    Lewisham wrote: »
    Because society uses "normal" sexual activity as a yardstick for your desirability, and thus romantic and social success.

    It is complete bullshit.

    Yeah I'm trying hard to convince myself there's some answer he can give that won't be stupid.

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  • LewishamLewisham Registered User regular
    edited December 2007
    Lewisham wrote: »
    Because society uses "normal" sexual activity as a yardstick for your desirability, and thus romantic and social success.

    It is complete bullshit.

    Yeah I'm trying hard to convince myself there's some answer he can give that won't be stupid.

    I don't think it's his fault that he thinks this way. No-one really tells you otherwise unless you ask specifically.

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  • The CatThe Cat Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited December 2007
    EliteLamer wrote: »
    I can't really find any numbers besides one that said 112 times per year but that has to be for a couple. Anyone have any numbers on this? Either way I am sure I am fairly far behind.

    There is no 'normal' in human sexuality, just what's right for you. Quit stressing. If you want to get laid more, go out and try. If not, don't.

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  • The CatThe Cat Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited December 2007
    Lewisham wrote: »
    Because society uses "normal" sexual activity as a yardstick for your desirability, and thus romantic and social success.

    It is complete bullshit.

    No, assholes do. Stop hanging around assholes, they're giving you funny ideas. And yes, I include most mass media aimed at the 18-25 set in that category.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    I'm not sure there's really a need to fight about the distinction between ignorance and assholery right now though.

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  • The CatThe Cat Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited December 2007
    I think anyone who tries to force a one-size-fits-all ideal of sexuality on to the people around them is beyond ignorant :|

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    The Cat wrote: »
    I think anyone who tries to force a one-size-fits-all ideal of sexuality on to the people around them is beyond ignorant :|

    I stand by my previous statement.

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  • FrankoFranko Sometimes I really wish I had four feet so I could dance with myself to the drumbeat Registered User regular
    edited December 2007
    Back in Canada I have only ever picked up once from a bar and slayed one girl at a party.
    In CHina however I could if I put my mind to it have atleast one new girl every month, and if I was a real go getter I could get laid with a new girl atleast once every week, however these things take a lot of effort/time and lying

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    We could stand to avoid using the term "slayed" though, that analogy is a bit fucked up. Not to mention the fact that it's not a real word.

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  • FrankoFranko Sometimes I really wish I had four feet so I could dance with myself to the drumbeat Registered User regular
    edited December 2007
    Franko wrote: »
    Back in Canada I have only ever picked up once from a bar and consensually engaged in unmarital sexual intercourse with one girl at a party.
    In CHina however I could if I put my mind to it have atleast one new girl every month, and if I was a real go getter I could get laid with a new girl atleast once every week, however these things take a lot of effort/time and lying

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited December 2007
    This thread isn't going anywhere good.

    Suffice to say that even if there were a way to get an accurate measure (there isn't), an average would be an extremely poor indicator, and there would probably be an exceedingly large standard deviation.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2007
    I'm sure that's very clever and your mother is very proud of you. If you'd like to continue to show this level of maturity I can give you some infractions, it wouldn't be any real trouble for me.

    Edit: This is not directed at Than.

    Edit 2: Come to think of it yeah this is kind of a junk thread. Don't re-start it.

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