Zonugal(He/Him) The Holiday ArmadilloI'm Santa's representative for all the southern states. And Mexico!Registered Userregular
edited December 2007
So I've got a little lady friend and everything is great and all except for the fact that she doesn't initiate any contact between us. We've been official for about a month now and when I was "courting" her I planned on the dates and such but now they are an item I still have to do all the planning even if we want to just go out to eat at the cafe (we are both at college by the way). The other thing is she has no problem initiating hugs, hand holding or kisses, which makes me think she is emotionally attached to me in a way (when she hugs me, I can tell), so there is that.
So I have contemplated sitting down and talking to her about it and I'd hate to have to break it off because she is really great but I feel I need and deserve more.
Thoughts?
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Here I will detail the relationship I have with this one woman.
I fell in love with this girl 3 years ago, and she did the same to me. We dated, we were together - it was the happiest I had ever been.
A year ago she left me. But we are still friends.
The thing is, those feelings are there, right under the surface. I have dated, she has dated. Neither have found what we are looking for. When we see each other there are looks, longings, hugs that last too long.
She has admitted that there is something there between us. She writes it off as physical attraction, nothing more. I feel differently, I'm cute, but not that cute. Physical attraction wains, these feelings haven't.
I have found the feelings elsewhere, so it is not like I sit up alone at night listening to the Cure WAILING for her to come back to me. But those few relations have been fleeting. I know what I want, and when I get right down to it - I want her.
I'm not going to wait for her to come around, but there isn't much I wouldn't do for one more shot at happiness with this woman.
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So I have contemplated sitting down and talking to her about it and I'd hate to have to break it off because she is really great but I feel I need and deserve more.
Thoughts?
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