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So this is a pretty embarassing topic for me, but I'd much rather be anonymous online than talk with someone I know about it. Anyway...
I masturbate pretty much everyday. It started in 7th grade (I'm a Junior now), and I of course did it every night then because it was exciting and new and felt awesome, but I still do it every single day. And when I try not to do it, I find that the next day I have a boner for a long time at random periods, which is very embarassing considering I still attend school. The boner also starts just when I look (correction: glance at a girl), and not even necessarily one that I like or am interested in.
Basically, are there any harms to masturbating as much as I do?
Also, how do I make the boners go away without masturbating the night before? I try thinking about nasty shit (the usual way I get rid of boners) but it does not work.
I masturbate pretty much everyday. It started in 7th grade (I'm a Junior now), and I of course did it every night then because it was exciting and new and felt awesome, but I still do it every single day. And when I try not to do it, I find that the next day I have a boner for a long time at random periods, which is very embarassing considering I still attend school. The boner also starts just when I look (correction: glance at a girl), and not even necessarily one that I like or am interested in.
Basically, are there any harms to masturbating as much as I do?
Also, how do I make the boners go away without masturbating the night before? I try thinking about nasty shit (the usual way I get rid of boners) but it does not work.
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Seriously, aim that thing away from your eyes, it can be irritating.
Other than that, go nuts.
Random erections will decrease in frequency as you grow older.
Most guys and a large percentage of girls masturbate daily. You're not unusual at all, especially for a teenager. Enjoy yourself and don't think anything of it.
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There's no health reason not to masturbate while some clinical studies have shown that regular ejaculation can lead to a stronger prostate and decrease the chances of testicular or associated cancers.
Until masturbation gets to the point of interfering with healthy relationships, work, family, etc. (as with any addiction) you don't really have a problem. And even if you get to that point, it's not the masturbation that's the issue - but rather the addiction.
Enjoy yourself. I usually knock out two or three a day.
Otherwise once a day wanking is fine for you, in fact it probably encourages good prostate health later in life. Just vary the technique and be gentle.
Morning, when you get home from work, before bed. Keep in mind this is my 'singles' rotation. If I have a steady girlfriend replace the latter two with sex - all three if we're living together.
I was raised in a pretty strict Catholic family, and spent most of my childhood feeling ashamed and like I had done something wrong by masturbating.
But when I got older, I realized that it's pretty much fucked up to make someone think they're guilty of doing something wrong when they're just relieving a pressure that would otherwise be relieved anyways. In fact, ironically from the perspective of my religious upbringing, my masterbatory habits were probably the only thing that kept me in control of myself enough to remain a virgin through high school.
In short: it helps you to control your urges around others, keeps you out of things that could ACTUALLY be problematic (like having unprotected sex, thus causing pregnancy), for many people it keeps them from having nocturnal emissions (which are annoying as fuck), and it harms absolutely no one, including yourself. If God wouldn't approve of that, I'm not sure what he'd approve of.
EDIT: Though I do agree to vary it up, for the reasons mentioned above. And if you find that you forsake relationships and friendships to do it, that's probably where it'd go too far. But if it's with the frequency and for the reasons you describe, I can't see anything wrong with it whatsoever.
Untucked shirts are required of course, and you have to be careful to reposition things when no one is looking or whatever, but it will hide things, and then you will lose your erection.
Hopefully you get what I mean by this. Your boner should be pointing towards your bellybutton.
This 9 times out of 10 makes mr boner go away.
It also hurts like a mofo. So judge each situation, would I rather have everyone in the room see with a boner or get hit in the nuts? Its a choice only you can make.
My solution doesn't involve hitting yourself in the nuts.
true its not for the faint of heart But it works... AND FAST!
Also! it helps when wearing jeans and fooling around with girls... they think its the zipper.*
*(that was such wishful thinking)
This'll work... just whatever you do if you decide to use this technique, DON'T let any portion of it be visible (even for a second). At best you'll end up being mocked by someone nearby. At worst, sexual harrassment lawsuit. Wear those shirts, and wear 'em long. Real long. No sense taking chances here.
My technique in this scenario involved either (A) Sitting at long tables whenever possible (i.e. tables that were big enough that someone would have to duck under the table to see crotches down there), combined with (B) wearing pants, like dickies, that naturally have a "bulge" when you sit down. No one's going to call you on a dickies pants bulge (at least no one with any decency), so no one will actually ever know if it's full or empty.
This made me laugh really hard.^
My guy friends have said their ways of getting rid of boners range from imagining unattractive people naked to thinking about the act of catching a football. So maybe just try concentrating on something that turns you off?
I can tell you that as a girl in high school the ONLY time I noticed a guy having a boner was when I was making out with him. I'm sure many a guy had a boner that I never noticed. Just as a comforting thought.
Also, a friend of mine recently told me a story where he did the waistband flip-up at church...and then realized his penis was visibly sticking out. Funny after the fact, but maybe keep this in mind so it doesn't happen to you. 'Cause I guarantee you someone would probably notice that.
You know, I've always wondered... never thought to ask a woman if she noticed how many men in high school walked around with unintentional boners. Given what you said, I wonder if all of the thought that we men went through in high school about how to hide it wasn't even worth the effort.
I think I've had nightmares about something like that.
Don't get me wrong though, every time I sat next to a guy in church and he put a hymnal on his lap, I thought, "Hmmm...". I'm not oblivious, it's just not something I put a lot of thought into.
But as a general rule, I think they go largely unnoticed by the female population.
Ah, so our worries were justified to some extent. I definitely remember having nightmares about that as a teenager... as unlikely of a scenario as it would be.
We'll keep brainstorming advanced boner-hiding techniques for the benefit of the youngins on the forum given this new information. It's like having a spy on the other team!
Edit: And I still laugh at my boyfriend's a little. I can't help it. There is no comparison in females, ya know?
There's erect nipples, they can be equally as humourous in the wrong situations.
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As far as how many times per day, once a day is pretty normal. In the past I used to do it 3 times. It all depends on your age. 16-23 I found my sex drive rather high, it's been slowly decreasing over the last couple of years, I get by on a few times a week now. It really depends on your environment though.
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n being number of times
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Trust me, at the start of this year I challenged myself and I went for about 2 weeks without masturbation or orgasms. My way of thinking was completely different after about 5 days, and by the end of the second week I was thinking about fucking girls so hard that I knew I had to end it. But I'm glad I had the self control to go on for as long as I did. In March I plan to go for a about a month.
True, if you did it a LOT you might lose motivation potentially... but I don't think once a day'll do it. Three times (as you said) might... (in honesty, I've never been able to have an orgasm three times in a day even when I tried... but perhaps I've said too much) But the appetite of a teen in puberty is pretty voracious. I wouldn't worry too much, especially if he's only doing it once a day.
But indeed, it is something to be a little careful of... if you notice that you have absolutely no desire/attraction to women anymore, that might be a sign that you need to tone down. But I can't imagine that happening unless you were doing it extremely frequently... (but of course, YMMV.)
1. Yes, Mr. Happy saying hello at random, inappropriate times (say, Math class) does happen less frequently as you get older - operative words less frequently. Not "never".
It still occationally happens, and the only thing funny about it is all the lame attempts the spammers try when they try selling me Viagra. "Having trouble with your Soldier?" "Get a harder d!ck today!"
Um. No. Go away. I dont need it harder or longer, I need it to mind its own business when I'm at work.
2. Hard nipples on women can be fucking hillarious, at least to that sole neuron that isnt wholy involved in thinking 'breast'. Thus: One of my coworkers, a woman, just at random, decided to poke another of my coworker (also a woman) in the nipple. Poke.
And second coworker's nipples popped like they were about to punch through her shirt, and she blushed somethin' fierce. I, who was next to the two of them when this occured, though to myself "Well, isnt that an interesting reaction."
Hm. Maybe 'funny' isnt the right word.
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Different "intervals" for different people essentially.
I bet you thought you invented it.
On topic... by God, I sure hope once a day is normal. And why has nobody mentioned cold showers as an erection-reducing measure?
And as for the "death grip"... I think I do that pretty much all the time, which isn't that good, I guess. And I wasn't aware there were other "techniques" of masturbation; I mean, I pretty much just do it slow and sometimes fast.
Also, I can only seem to masturbate with lotion. All my friends think this is weird because they say they don't use any lubricant at all. I've tried without lubrication, and I simply can't get anywhere.
It's not that you lose an admiration for woman, it's that you stop pursuing them.
Really from the sounds of your posts I think you should not masturbate for the next 5 days. So you can feel the difference.
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I did it 4 times in one day once. That...was a struggle. Never again. 3 is the maximum.
But seriously, once a day is perfectly fine.
Was cartilage coming out by the end?
Anyways...
Aye, vary it up. Basically any position you can possibly think to get either hand in will work to do the job, especially when you're young. You could bring objects into the mix, but beware of things that may be pointy or generally non-smooth... and lubricate them before using anything "pocket-like" in shape, lest it chafe ye willy.
But perhaps I've said too much.