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Football fans invade Manchester - and other problems in British culture today

oddmentoddment Registered User regular
edited May 2008 in Debate and/or Discourse
So, I live in Manchester, and yesterday there was a UEFA Cup Final (Rangers vs some Russian side... I don't follow football) being held at the Man City stadium. For an overview of how the event went, here are a few news links.

Now, I had to take half a day off work yesterday to venture into the city centre in order to get some errands run (moving house, and forms needed to be dropped off and all that jazz). The tram was packed with Rangers fans, chanting and singing... that kind of stuff I can handle, no problems. Most of them reaked of alcohol though. We pulled into Manchester itself, and there was just a sea of blue shirts. Everywhere you looked. Parts of the city had been cordoned off to allow people to congregate there, with big screens to they could watch the game. Piccadilly Gardens was absolutely packed with people... I couldn't see the ground there... people were packed in there like sardines! I got off the tram and had to wade through crowds of people drinking openly in the streets (drinking in the streets is illegal in the UK) to get to the bank where I had to take £300 out in cash (credit reference fees... rip off or what... that is for 3 people though, not just me!). Once I had done that, I gripped my wallet tight, just in case. All you could hear in the streets were people shouting, chanting, singing. Every minute or so someone would let off an air horn, often right near me which would make me jump. People had crates of beer under their arms, giant bottles of cider. This is the middle of the day on a Wednesday. I felt sorry for anyone working in the city centre.

I decided to bypass some of the main street (Market Street) and took a shortcut down a few side streets, which people were using as public toilets. The smell of piss was overwhelming. Even in the main streets at places it was bad. I found the letting agents and got that sorted (the place was right near one of the big cordened off areas, and I had to be directed round barriers that actually made no sense in places... a massive pedestrian area had some kind of entrance patrolled by event organisers, who only let you in and out by going a certain way, even if no-one else was going in or out that way... and this is the centre of town!), and started on my way home. I live 15 minutes outside of the city centre, and as I walked, the streets got a bit quieter, though you could still see groups of Rangers fans. Every pub had them stood outside and probably crowded inside aswell. Even the pub across the road from me had Rangers fans turn up just before the game started, obviously ones who hadn't managed to find a place to watch it and had decided to venture a bit further afield. However, where I was, things weren't too bad, just a bit of chanting, which was to be expected.

I heard plenty of sirens and helicopters during the evening though, and my mum called me later on in the evening saying she had heard reports of violence, and one of the big screens breaking down and then being pelted with bottles by angry fans. This morning I read many news reports on the web and heard on the radio about all of the violence that went on last night, not to mention the mess that has been made (from pictures I've seen, it looks like a bomb has gone off, and any Mancunian can tell you they know what thats like after the IRA bomb 10 years ago). There were even cars overturned and shop windows smashed, and some reports of looting. Someone was stabbed at the main stadium itself. I mean, I just can't believe people can be like this. And then some people have the cheek to say 'Manchester should be ashamed!' and 'they weren't prepared for taking care of drunk people'. I don't believe it is our cities job to control the amount someone drinks (though Tesco certainly should be ashamed of themselves for selling very cheap beer and advertising it quite heavily). Once again, British football fans (probably a minority, but as the saying goes, the minority spoil it for the majority) disgrace themselves and ruin a city who hosted what should have been a nice event. A screen having technical problems should not be an excuse for people to turn violent. People should be able to moderate how much they drink. People should respect the place that they are visiting, especially on a work day when people are trying to go about their business and when children are about! I just think the entire thing is disgraceful. Some people are even claiming the police were heavy handed! From what I have seen and heard, they acted appropriately, and at any rate, police are there to keep things running smoothly and should be respected. They should not be pelted with bottles!

All in all, things like this make me ashamed to be British sometimes. It also makes me very angry. I may not have been born and bred in Manchester, but I really love this city, it is my home now, and I feel a sense of pride in living here. People trashing it and blaming us for the violence and mess just doesn't cut it.

Anyway, does anyone have any experience with last nights events, or any other incidents caused by football? What are your opinions? Discuss away!

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  • AlexanderAlexander Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Its not whats wrong with british football fans, its whats wrong with our drinking culture thats appeared, everyone whenever they go out at night now goes with the aim of getting wasted/pissed instead of having a drink or two.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    This is true. I just couldn't believe that people were getting drunk so early in the day, and doing it openly on the streets! I assume a lot of people started drinking in the morning, as there were a lot of drunk people in town when I was there just after lunch. And if they weren't drunk, they stunk of alcohol. It really is terrible.

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  • AlexanderAlexander Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    In the past if you were found drunk in public you were arrested and then died of shame the next day, we've become way too relaxed really, drunk people are dangerous and its awful when you're sober having to walk by them.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Totally... it's a horrible thing to do, especially when there are thousands of them. Even more so when you have £300 of cash in your pocket.

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  • AlexanderAlexander Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I would have decided against taking it out really lol

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I heard about this on the Radio today.

    Totally stupid. I fucking hate football, but it's not even the sport I hate.

    It's these cunts that make me hate it.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I had no choice... had to be done that day. However, once I had got there, they told me I could have faxed the forms and transferred the money to their account. Why the hell did they not tell me this in the first place??? Lol. Thats off topic though.

    One of my collegues had to go into town this morning. He rang us up and told us that on Deansgate (which is a fair walk from where most of the violence and stuff happened) the streets were just littered with papers and bottle and all sorts. It's a complete state apparently. Sounds like the entire city centre has been turned into a dump. I don't envy the clean-up crew...

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Well, first of all, I'll be fair to the British football fans. Yes, some of them are absolutely terrible people. However:

    1. It takes two to tango, and often when they've been abroad it's been the foreign fans who have antagonised them.
    2. The Brits are used as a scapegoat to some degree. Other nationalities have fans that are just as bad, but are mistaken for being British or assumed to be British (this has been reported on before).
    3. It's only a very small number of football fans. Still very shameful, though.

    That aside, I'm not sure how much of this country's problems are due to merely rose-tinted spectacles of the older generations and fear-mongering any more. There's a rise of gang warfare, female-perpetrated violence and motiveless street attacks that's a little alarming even to a skeptic like me. A couple of teachers swear that the classes of teenagers they've been teaching have grown more aggressive and more lackadaisical in their approach to work over the past 5-6 years. Ineffectual teaching techniques? Resentment at their treatment in the media? Breakdown of family communications?

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I'm certainly not saying its a majority of fans, and I know they do take the blame abroad a lot for hooliganism. However, the drinking and lack of respect for the place they are in can't just be blamed on a few. Most of the fans I saw yesterday were drunk or getting there, and the mess they have left can't just be down to a few. There is rubbish EVERYWHERE! It's just mad.

    And yeah, our country has a lot of issues, but I'm not sure if we're fear mongering. We may be a little, but it just seems mad to me, all the violence, stabbings, etc that has been going on lately. Not only is there a rise in gang culture in urban areas, but there is a rise of ill-educated people with a lack of respect. Chavs, for want of a better word. I have had bad experiences with chavs in the past, and while I admit not all chavs are bad, I would say a large portion of them are. They have no respect for people or property... I've been spat at, pushed, sworn at, and even mugged by chavs. I've seen young mothers with many children swearing away and smoking, sometimes even drinking. There is just so much wrong with this country, and at the moment the government lack the abillity to properly tackle the issues. I do worry about our country...

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I think in general this country has become far too laid back and cares alot less about the things that matter, and alot more about utterly pointless distractions.

    Children are eager to be adults, and adults are too eager to stay children.

    The result is that we're currently breeding a generation of little bastards and I genuinly worry about the direction this country is going in.

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  • AlexanderAlexander Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Me too, its going down the pan I feel, its lack of family values and education which has contributed to little tony 50cent and his pals mugging grandma's.

    0 tolerance needs to be enforced really, everythings too PC.

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  • subediisubedii Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    The drinking culture certainly doesn't help. France have a culture of enjoying their drink but sure as heck don't have the kind of binge drinking culture that the UK does.

    These days I'm wondering whether the famous "British Reserve" hasn't fled overseas. But like others have said, it's very easy to look at the past with rose tinted glasses. Perhaps people were always this way, it's just that they've got more opportunities and more publicity.

    I always hate when I start to think that society might be getting worse, because a part of me knows that irrespective of what the actual reality may be, at least part of that impression is because of media scaremongering, and being unable to objectively compare with the past.

    But it only takes so many events like this before a pattern becomes a trend. I really do think that the UK is starting to have a real binge drinking problem here. I just feel that things would have been far more in control this time around if the crowd hadn't been drinking since morning.

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    This is an interesting article

    First part:
    The number of crimes committed by girls has jumped by a quarter over three years, figures show - so is there something to be worried about?

    Ten years ago there was a spate of headlines warning that so-called "girl crime" was on the march - that girls were becoming violent and guilty of anti-social behaviour.

    That was before "anti-social behaviour" was a phrase as commonplace as cheap lager in the hands of street corner yobs.

    Now, in May 2008, fresh figures on offending show another stark increase - in percentage terms at least - in the number of crimes committed by young girls.

    Putting the statistics on girl crime to one side for a moment, the overall impression given by the Youth Justice Board's (YJB) latest figures is of little major change.

    As a whole, offences committed by young people fell, although the total still hovers around 300,000.

    The number of offences committed by young men also fell slightly.


    The YJB figures show the most common juvenile crime is theft, followed by violence - typically minor assaults.

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  • AlexanderAlexander Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    subedii wrote: »
    The drinking culture certainly doesn't help. France have a culture of enjoying their drink but sure as heck don't have the kind of binge drinking culture that the UK does.

    These days I'm wondering whether the famous "British Reserve" hasn't fled overseas. But like others have said, it's very easy to look at the past with rose tinted glasses. Perhaps people were always this way, it's just that they've got more opportunities and more publicity.

    I always hate when I start to think that society might be getting worse, because a part of me knows that irrespective of what the actual reality may be, at least part of that impression is because of media scaremongering, and being unable to objectively compare with the past.

    But it only takes so many events like this before a pattern becomes a trend. I really do think that the UK is starting to have a real binge drinking problem here. I just feel that things would have been far more in control this time around if the crowd hadn't been drinking since morning.

    I do agree with the rose tinted specs, when people say, "where did chavs come from?" they were always around, you just didn't see them that much, world war 2 culled a lot and also the law was a lot stricter and family values were still in place, at the moment you see chavs pushing prams and you think to yourself that baby is going to grow up as a bad egg.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I completely agree. I mean, people have been blaming the screen going off and such for the violence, but people have only themselves to blame. There were actually buses on standby to take them to a velodrome a bit further away where screens were set up as a back-up. If people were calm and more sober, they would have been able to go there and see the rest of the match. However, because a lot were drunk, and a few became violent because of this, the police had to focus on dealing with that instead of shepharding people into the coaches.

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  • subediisubedii Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Janson wrote: »
    This is an interesting article

    First part:
    The number of crimes committed by girls has jumped by a quarter over three years, figures show - so is there something to be worried about?

    Ten years ago there was a spate of headlines warning that so-called "girl crime" was on the march - that girls were becoming violent and guilty of anti-social behaviour.

    That was before "anti-social behaviour" was a phrase as commonplace as cheap lager in the hands of street corner yobs.

    Now, in May 2008, fresh figures on offending show another stark increase - in percentage terms at least - in the number of crimes committed by young girls.

    Putting the statistics on girl crime to one side for a moment, the overall impression given by the Youth Justice Board's (YJB) latest figures is of little major change.

    As a whole, offences committed by young people fell, although the total still hovers around 300,000.

    The number of offences committed by young men also fell slightly.


    The YJB figures show the most common juvenile crime is theft, followed by violence - typically minor assaults.

    The problem lies in the fact that the headline in every popular tabloid is going to read how girl crime is going up, and completely ignore the fact that overall crime is down. Increasing crime involving girls is still a problem to be tackled, but we also need to be able to acknowledge when problems are in fact getting better. In this respect the tabloid press only ever seems to aggravate the situation.

    Yeah I know, obvious statement, but what the hey.

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    My misanthropy remains unabated

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I think while maybe crime itself is going down, there are still a lot of problems. As I say, I have had all sorts happen to me that isn't enough in itself to report as a crime (except the mugging... I'm a part of youth crime statistics! wooo) but it all just goes to show that there is a fundemental lack of respect with a lot of people today. I would never dream of randomly shouting abuse at people, or pushing them, or spitting at them... for ANY reason, but some people don't care, and will do it for any reason. I happen to have long hair, and apparently some people (chavs) see that as stupid and 'gay' (okay, I AM gay, but long hair is certainly not an indicator of that) and so occassionally I'll get stick from random people in the streets for it! Kids, young kids as well as teenagers, think its fine to drink, smoke, hurl abuse at people, swear and generall act intimidatingly towards people they don't even know. I've seen kids as young as 8 or 9 brandishing large pieces of wood, swearing at people, and threatening them! When I was a child, and the majority of people I knew when I was young, were well behaved and respectful. Sure, there may have been some mischeif, but nothing on the level of what I see these days. And I don't think thats rose tinted specs at all.

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    subedii wrote: »
    Janson wrote: »
    This is an interesting article

    First part:
    The number of crimes committed by girls has jumped by a quarter over three years, figures show - so is there something to be worried about?

    Ten years ago there was a spate of headlines warning that so-called "girl crime" was on the march - that girls were becoming violent and guilty of anti-social behaviour.

    That was before "anti-social behaviour" was a phrase as commonplace as cheap lager in the hands of street corner yobs.

    Now, in May 2008, fresh figures on offending show another stark increase - in percentage terms at least - in the number of crimes committed by young girls.

    Putting the statistics on girl crime to one side for a moment, the overall impression given by the Youth Justice Board's (YJB) latest figures is of little major change.

    As a whole, offences committed by young people fell, although the total still hovers around 300,000.

    The number of offences committed by young men also fell slightly.


    The YJB figures show the most common juvenile crime is theft, followed by violence - typically minor assaults.

    The problem lies in the fact that the headline in every popular tabloid is going to read how girl crime is going up, and completely ignore the fact that overall crime is down. Increasing crime involving girls is still a problem to be tackled, but we also need to be able to acknowledge when problems are in fact getting better. In this respect the tabloid press only ever seems to aggravate the situation.

    Yeah I know, obvious statement, but what the hey.

    Speaking of headlines and newspapers, I read an article online about Josef Fritzl (The Austrian guy who kept his daughter prisoner for 24 years and had six children with her ) And he explaned how he grew up under the Nazi government and learned that total control was the way to go, and when his daughter started going off the rails a little he got very obsessed and took way too much control over her. Doesn't excuse him, but I thought it was an intelligent self observation on his part.

    The headline the next day of The Sun?

    HITLER MADE ME DO IT

    Dungeon monster says Hitler is to blame

    off topic but ... god I hate the media.

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  • AlexanderAlexander Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    civil war!

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I just saw the photos. That is pretty horrendous and outrageous.

    I also see it was a few Scottish fans. Heh, and they always blame the English. :P

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  • subediisubedii Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    oddment wrote: »
    I think while maybe crime itself is going down, there are still a lot of problems. As I say, I have had all sorts happen to me that isn't enough in itself to report as a crime (except the mugging... I'm a part of youth crime statistics! wooo) but it all just goes to show that there is a fundemental lack of respect with a lot of people today. I would never dream of randomly shouting abuse at people, or pushing them, or spitting at them... for ANY reason, but some people don't care, and will do it for any reason. I happen to have long hair, and apparently some people (chavs) see that as stupid and 'gay' (okay, I AM gay, but long hair is certainly not an indicator of that) and so occassionally I'll get stick from random people in the streets for it! Kids, young kids as well as teenagers, think its fine to drink, smoke, hurl abuse at people, swear and generall act intimidatingly towards people they don't even know. I've seen kids as young as 8 or 9 brandishing large pieces of wood, swearing at people, and threatening them! When I was a child, and the majority of people I knew when I was young, were well behaved and respectful. Sure, there may have been some mischeif, but nothing on the level of what I see these days. And I don't think thats rose tinted specs at all.

    Not rose tinted specs at all. What I have to ask though is whether or not you consider yourself come from the same social background as them?

    When I was a kid, yeah, I certainly didn't behave like that either. Neither did any of my friends, it was just standard. The thing is, I did know bratish kids and punks back when I was a kid as well. It's just that my social circles never really intersected with theirs.

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  • subediisubedii Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    subedii wrote: »
    Janson wrote: »
    This is an interesting article

    First part:
    The number of crimes committed by girls has jumped by a quarter over three years, figures show - so is there something to be worried about?

    Ten years ago there was a spate of headlines warning that so-called "girl crime" was on the march - that girls were becoming violent and guilty of anti-social behaviour.

    That was before "anti-social behaviour" was a phrase as commonplace as cheap lager in the hands of street corner yobs.

    Now, in May 2008, fresh figures on offending show another stark increase - in percentage terms at least - in the number of crimes committed by young girls.

    Putting the statistics on girl crime to one side for a moment, the overall impression given by the Youth Justice Board's (YJB) latest figures is of little major change.

    As a whole, offences committed by young people fell, although the total still hovers around 300,000.

    The number of offences committed by young men also fell slightly.


    The YJB figures show the most common juvenile crime is theft, followed by violence - typically minor assaults.

    The problem lies in the fact that the headline in every popular tabloid is going to read how girl crime is going up, and completely ignore the fact that overall crime is down. Increasing crime involving girls is still a problem to be tackled, but we also need to be able to acknowledge when problems are in fact getting better. In this respect the tabloid press only ever seems to aggravate the situation.

    Yeah I know, obvious statement, but what the hey.

    Speaking of headlines and newspapers, I read an article online about Josef Fritzl (The Austrian guy who kept his daughter prisoner for 24 years and had six children with her ) And he explaned how he grew up under the Nazi government and learned that total control was the way to go, and when his daughter started going off the rails a little he got very obsessed and took way too much control over her. Doesn't excuse him, but I thought it was an intelligent self observation on his part.

    The headline the next day of The Sun?

    HITLER MADE ME DO IT

    Dungeon monster says Hitler is to blame

    off topic but ... god I hate the media.

    It has always made me sad that this is the information source of choice for the majority of the public.

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  • WMain00WMain00 Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Football: Supported by thugs, played by neds.


    It's a sweeping unfair generalisation, but it's because of situations like these that it gets this reputation.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    subedii wrote: »
    oddment wrote: »
    I think while maybe crime itself is going down, there are still a lot of problems. As I say, I have had all sorts happen to me that isn't enough in itself to report as a crime (except the mugging... I'm a part of youth crime statistics! wooo) but it all just goes to show that there is a fundemental lack of respect with a lot of people today. I would never dream of randomly shouting abuse at people, or pushing them, or spitting at them... for ANY reason, but some people don't care, and will do it for any reason. I happen to have long hair, and apparently some people (chavs) see that as stupid and 'gay' (okay, I AM gay, but long hair is certainly not an indicator of that) and so occassionally I'll get stick from random people in the streets for it! Kids, young kids as well as teenagers, think its fine to drink, smoke, hurl abuse at people, swear and generall act intimidatingly towards people they don't even know. I've seen kids as young as 8 or 9 brandishing large pieces of wood, swearing at people, and threatening them! When I was a child, and the majority of people I knew when I was young, were well behaved and respectful. Sure, there may have been some mischeif, but nothing on the level of what I see these days. And I don't think thats rose tinted specs at all.

    Not rose tinted specs at all. What I have to ask though is whether or not you consider yourself come from the same social background as them?

    When I was a kid, yeah, I certainly didn't behave like that either. Neither did any of my friends, it was just standard. The thing is, I did know bratish kids and punks back when I was a kid as well. It's just that my social circles never really intersected with theirs.

    This is true, I wasn't from that social background really. But even so, I grew up in a town that is now a rather chavvy place. Back then, I was never ever aware of people like that there. Sure, there were mischevious kids who were dicks, but certainly not to the extent kids these days are.

    It is a vicious circle for these children though. They are surrounded by people who are like that. Their parents, family, friends. They live in poor areas, etc. But not only do their parents not try and get themselves out of that situation (possibly a generalisation) and live on benefits, they also just perpetuate the same values and morals they have. The kids don't stand a chance really.

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    oddment wrote: »
    It is a vicious circle for these children though. They are surrounded by people who are like that. Their parents, family, friends.
    Yes.

    Especially the parents!

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Holy shit I've just watched those videos and seen the pictures.

    Wow.

    Maybe I shouldn't move there.

    EDIT - Speaking of crappy parents, I knew a girl once wanted to get pregnant at 16, her reason?

    "My mate has one"

    D:

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Holy shit I've just watched those videos and seen the pictures.

    Wow.

    Maybe I shouldn't move there.

    Don't you dare say that! Manchester is a great place! Its just been trampled all over by 200,000 football fans... it doesn't happen too often. Plus, we're moving to a lovely area completely away from all that. I will come over there and drag you here if I have to! :x

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  • WMain00WMain00 Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Holy shit I've just watched those videos and seen the pictures.

    Wow.

    Maybe I shouldn't move there.

    EDIT - Speaking of crappy parents, I knew a girl once wanted to get pregnant at 16, her reason?

    "My mate has one"

    D:

    Yes, er. Welcome to Britain.

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  • ItalaxItalax Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    oddment wrote: »
    subedii wrote: »
    oddment wrote: »
    I think while maybe crime itself is going down, there are still a lot of problems. As I say, I have had all sorts happen to me that isn't enough in itself to report as a crime (except the mugging... I'm a part of youth crime statistics! wooo) but it all just goes to show that there is a fundemental lack of respect with a lot of people today. I would never dream of randomly shouting abuse at people, or pushing them, or spitting at them... for ANY reason, but some people don't care, and will do it for any reason. I happen to have long hair, and apparently some people (chavs) see that as stupid and 'gay' (okay, I AM gay, but long hair is certainly not an indicator of that) and so occassionally I'll get stick from random people in the streets for it! Kids, young kids as well as teenagers, think its fine to drink, smoke, hurl abuse at people, swear and generall act intimidatingly towards people they don't even know. I've seen kids as young as 8 or 9 brandishing large pieces of wood, swearing at people, and threatening them! When I was a child, and the majority of people I knew when I was young, were well behaved and respectful. Sure, there may have been some mischeif, but nothing on the level of what I see these days. And I don't think thats rose tinted specs at all.

    Not rose tinted specs at all. What I have to ask though is whether or not you consider yourself come from the same social background as them?

    When I was a kid, yeah, I certainly didn't behave like that either. Neither did any of my friends, it was just standard. The thing is, I did know bratish kids and punks back when I was a kid as well. It's just that my social circles never really intersected with theirs.

    This is true, I wasn't from that social background really. But even so, I grew up in a town that is now a rather chavvy place. Back then, I was never ever aware of people like that there. Sure, there were mischevious kids who were dicks, but certainly not to the extent kids these days are.

    It is a vicious circle for these children though. They are surrounded by people who are like that. Their parents, family, friends. They live in poor areas, etc. But not only do their parents not try and get themselves out of that situation (possibly a generalisation) and live on benefits, they also just perpetuate the same values and morals they have. The kids don't stand a chance really.

    Now, I am from that social background and I thought I never remembered anything like this either. But every time I see one of these little kids I remember thinking "Wait...was I ever that bad?". Then you remember little things, like being 10 years old and hearing one of my classmates friends had stolen a car and set it on fire outside of a primary school. Or the time I got beaten up by a couple of kids four years older than me.

    I don't think the difference in how people acted is really that massive, I think we're just better informed about it than we were back then.

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  • LewieP's MummyLewieP's Mummy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I think we have got more accepting as a society of behaviours that would never have been tolerated when I was growing up. I'm probably 20+ years older than most people here, but do remember the skinhead violence around football matches in the early 70s - particularly Man U and Millwall. But I also remember the way it was dealt with, both by the police and the clubs, and by the late 70s there was little violence around football matches.

    I hate the binge drinking culture that's developing in the UK, so much violence has its roots in excessive alcohol consumption.

    I also can't stand how disrespectful we have become. I was coming home on the tram in Manchester a while ago, and there was a young man listening to very loud D&B on earphones. A young woman demanded he turned it off, but really rudely and agressively. He ignored her, but a couple of minutes later, after she got off, turned it down. I thanked him for doing so, and chatted to him about what he was listening to (asking which bands, he thought I meant genreD: - obviously D&B). He was fine. If she'd been more polite, he'd have cooperated straight away. But then, a woman was attacked by chavs on the same tram line, just a few weeks later. I don't just blame parents, I blame all of us - we should not tolerate crap, and should be more respectful to each other.

    My daughter went into Manchester yesterday - she'd forgotten about the match - and came home early because town was so crowded and stank.

    I've seen the news coverage today - my city is a mess, it will take ages to clear it up, who will pay for that, and who will pay for the policing of the match and its aftermath? There's another match next week, I hope the same doesn't happen again.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I think we have got more accepting as a society of behaviours that would never have been tolerated when I was growing up. I'm probably 20+ years older than most people here, but do remember the skinhead violence around football matches in the early 70s - particularly Man U and Millwall. But I also remember the way it was dealt with, both by the police and the clubs, and by the late 70s there was little violence around football matches.

    I hate the binge drinking culture that's developing in the UK, so much violence has its roots in excessive alcohol consumption.

    I also can't stand how disrespectful we have become. I was coming home on the tram in Manchester a while ago, and there was a young man listening to very loud D&B on earphones. A young woman demanded he turned it off, but really rudely and agressively. He ignored her, but a couple of minutes later, after she got off, turned it down. I thanked him for doing so, and chatted to him about what he was listening to (asking which bands, he thought I meant genreD: - obviously D&B). He was fine. If she'd been more polite, he'd have cooperated straight away. But then, a woman was attacked by chavs on the same tram line, just a few weeks later. I don't just blame parents, I blame all of us - we should not tolerate crap, and should be more respectful to each other.

    My daughter went into Manchester yesterday - she'd forgotten about the match - and came home early because town was so crowded and stank.

    I've seen the news coverage today - my city is a mess, it will take ages to clear it up, who will pay for that, and who will pay for the policing of the match and its aftermath? There's another match next week, I hope the same doesn't happen again.

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    Theres another match? A big one? Oh dear....

    Yeah, I really wish I hadn't gone into town yesterday. It was just mad. I was very pleased once my £300 had been safely given to the letting agents though.

    At one point, I was forced to walk in the road that cuts across Market Street (where the Pizza hut and Primark is) because there were lots of drunk people stood outside a pub, blocking the pavement. I had to weave my way through cars and hope I wouldn't get run over or pushed about by people who didn't seem to notice I was there, trying to get past them.

    LewieP's Mummy, have you lived in Mancs all your life? I've only been here 2 years (though I used to come here back in my teens a lot too), but I feel such a bond with this city. It really has angered me, what went on last night.

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I also can't stand how disrespectful we have become. I was coming home on the tram in Manchester a while ago, and there was a young man listening to very loud D&B on earphones. A young woman demanded he turned it off, but really rudely and agressively. He ignored her, but a couple of minutes later, after she got off, turned it down. I thanked him for doing so, and chatted to him about what he was listening to (asking which bands, he thought I meant genreD: - obviously D&B). He was fine. If she'd been more polite, he'd have cooperated straight away. But then, a woman was attacked by chavs on the same tram line, just a few weeks later. I don't just blame parents, I blame all of us - we should not tolerate crap, and should be more respectful to each other.
    I like this story as an example. The young man was originally the one at fault but the way the woman reacted to him just put him on the defensive. What hope do youngsters have when everything - good grades at school, the music they listen to, the way they behave (be it good or bad) - is vilified in the press? Perhaps if more people would actually talk and listen to them instead of yelling at them or bribing them they wouldn't behave so badly.

    Teachers' hands are tied, too. Writing anything slightly negative on the school reports is frowned upon. Praise is lavished, but rarely meant, and the kids can usually see through it.

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    oddment wrote: »
    Holy shit I've just watched those videos and seen the pictures.

    Wow.

    Maybe I shouldn't move there.

    Don't you dare say that! Manchester is a great place! Its just been trampled all over by 200,000 football fans... it doesn't happen too often. Plus, we're moving to a lovely area completely away from all that. I will come over there and drag you here if I have to! :x

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    oddment wrote: »
    Holy shit I've just watched those videos and seen the pictures.

    Wow.

    Maybe I shouldn't move there.

    Don't you dare say that! Manchester is a great place! Its just been trampled all over by 200,000 football fans... it doesn't happen too often. Plus, we're moving to a lovely area completely away from all that. I will come over there and drag you here if I have to! :x

    I kid I kid.

    Just don't tell your parents! They'd freak out and lock you in your (non-existant) basement! Have they said anything to you about it yet?

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  • Bacon-BuTTyBacon-BuTTy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    No but I suspect as soon as mother gets wind of it she will give birth to a rather large litter of kittens.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    No but I suspect as soon as mother gets wind of it she will give birth a rather large litter of kittens.

    Haha. Sounds about right! She'll know my number now too... I hope she doesn't start calling me about it.

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  • oddmentoddment Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    Here is some CCTV footage of what went on last night. Absolutely appauling. And people say that the police were heavy handed? Dear me...

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  • GungHoGungHo Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    I think in general this country has become far too laid back and cares alot less about the things that matter, and alot more about utterly pointless distractions.

    Children are eager to be adults, and adults are too eager to stay children.

    The result is that we're currently breeding a generation of little bastards and I genuinly worry about the direction this country is going in.
    Wow. You're now officially your old man.

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  • LewieP's MummyLewieP's Mummy Registered User regular
    edited May 2008
    hey, and I was worried about sounding old, too!

    So, I was wrong about the match - in that its in Moscow, and MCC have said today they aren't putting up big screens anywhere.

    Oddment - I've lived here since I was 10, apart from 3 years in Birmingham at Uni. I love this city, but still think of West Cumbria as my home.

    Also, this has got me thinking, I worked at the Commonwealth Games in Manchester, for 2 weeks, as a Guide Supervisor - you know, one of those people in the hideous purple outfits - there were hundreds of thousands of people from literally all over the world (Tongan men, be still my beating heart!), and no trouble at all. The closest I got to trouble when a cross old man didn't understand that his ticket was just for that afternoon's event at GMEX, not the whole day. After explaining lots, I just bought him another ticket, he was fine.

    I think the difference was alcohol, pure and simple. What possesses people to start drinking first thing in the morning, and drink all day long? I know Russians and Glaswegians have a reputation for drinking, but without wanting to stereotype ...

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