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So tonight the gf and I went to a Serenity screening featuring Tim Minear. There was a QA before the movie, where they had all the attendees write down a question for Tim to answer. I ended up asking a question, and then put a P.S asking Tim propose to my gf for me. The cool thing was that the night before we had gone to a bar and we ended up talking to the guy for a while, so he remembered me, and more especifically, he remembered my gf. He ended up asking my gf, she said yes, and the whole place clapped for us.
It was pretty cool. Except I was just joking(my gf knew this btw). But it did got me thinking that I probably wasted the best proposal I'm going to get to do. And also wondering how others have proposed to their significant others.
Dude, moments like that are the best kind of proposals to make. And it was a joke? Grah!
Heh, I know. She's meh about firefly(big big fan of Whedon and Buffy though) but I fucking love Firefly and Minear, so to hear him say how that he was happy we were getting together because we were awesome people that would probably have awesome kids was really cool.
Nonetheless, I thought it was funny. Also, I learned that just because you propose in public doesn't mean you'll get your meal comp.
Kidding aside I love that video where the guy proposes at the basketball game, you know the one.
Where she says no and runs out crying because of the public humiliation?
Of course.
Every time people ask how I proposed I tell them we were naked and soaking wet. And it's true.
Awesome.
My cousin is a wedding planner and she has told me some really crazy proposals. Some real sitcom stuff like the girl choking on the ring in the wine glass, proposing at a concert in the front row during the act with the guy having to say his little speech like fifty times and other wacky stuff.
One cilent of hers was even proposed to twice in the same week.
I probably wasted the best proposal I'm going to get to do.
That ones going to be rather hard to top if she is a Firefly fan, and was not just coming along to spend time with you. If she is a Firefly fan perhaps you might want to consider hinting to her that you might not have been completely joking. If shes the one, go for it, otherwise do not sweat it.
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Apothe0sisHave you ever questioned the nature of your reality?Registered Userregular
Heh, I like how the proposal is either the worse thing people have heard or pretty cool. But nah, neither of us want to get married(at least not to each other anyways), so no worries on that end.
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
Which is why you hide the ring behind the waste basket and do it naked.
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
Atop the Eiffel Tower or equivalent.
And naked, apparently.
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edited June 2008
Well I mean, given how society works these days, the more traditional proposal has a strong punch once more. Just takes good planning and speaking skill to deliver it as a surprise.
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
Which is why you hide the ring behind the waste basket and do it naked.
Naked, people. It's the way to go.
Should I ask where the ring was when you actually proposed?
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Apothe0sisHave you ever questioned the nature of your reality?Registered Userregular
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
Which is why you hide the ring behind the waste basket and do it naked.
Naked, people. It's the way to go.
Should I ask where the ring was when you actually proposed?
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
Which is why you hide the ring behind the waste basket and do it naked.
Naked, people. It's the way to go.
I actually read that as "Naked people; it's the way to go."
A friend of mine went to Niagara Falls with his then girlfriend for dinner and that special light show they have. The dinner was nice and cool and then afterwards the two of them grabbed good spots to take in the light show. My friend waited right until the show started and he went down on one knee... to tie his shoes. His girlfriend started scolding him for having such bad timing cuz it's just starting and we drove all the way here and now I'm missing the show because I'm too busy talking to you and OMG YES I'LL MARRY YOU!
He said he specifically waited until she started getting on his case about his timing and then pulled out the ring. Happy tears for all, yay!
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
creative != not-awful.
Different strokes for different folks. What matters is if she enjoys the method of proposal.
Write your proposal on her chest in mirror writing in blood while she's sleeping.
While that is sick and not really that funny it does remind me of one I've heard of.
A guy snuck into the girl's apartment while she was out of town and wrote "Will you Marry Me?" on the ceiling in some sort of glow in the dark ink or paint or some such, knowing that the next time she'd be using that bed would be during post work trip sex.
I knew someone who proposed to his gf (and later wife, since she accepted) in a restaurant. Apparently, it was a pretty traditional proposal. But afterward, she he was sitting there, relieved now that he had gotten the nerve up and finally gave the proposal, but his gf, now fiance, was still crying. Apparently, some people walked by their table and they noticed him sitting there relaxed and she was crying, so she pointed at him and said, "He just called me fat."
Kidding aside I love that video where the guy proposes at the basketball game, you know the one.
I like the collegehumor one where the one guy sets up a fake proposal at a baseball game for the guy he's pranking and his gf. The woman gets all excited and says yes but the dude's like 'wtf um that's not me' she gets pissed slaps him and runs off.
Man, I had to work so hard to throw her off... W'd been doing weekends away to Europe for a bit, and she's always wanted to do Paris, but I've been a few times. So when she asked again I had to be all like "OK, sounds good - can you book it?" I then called my mother who was flying over for a trip about a month prior and asked her to bring my grandmother's ring. I spent then next month pretending I wasn't that interested and even faked a whole "oh shit, it was THAT weekend? Man, I have to cancel that trip to see a mate out of town". I then had to endure the whole "why cant you remember whenever we make plans" argument.
In Paris, we visited the Eiffel tower and then crossed the Siene. I spotted a secluded spot down by the river and told her we should go take some photos. It was perfect, we could see the tower, the siene was beautiful - and there was literally nobody down there. I figured I wasn't going to get a better opportunity. We took a few pics, then I said "sit there, I want to take one of you".
The look on her face was classic when I dropped to one knee. I had a few things I wanted to say... She said yes, then burst into tears. Then continued to burst into tears for about the next 5 hours at random times. We did a river cruise after that - apparently she she still cant remember any of it.
It was a very good day.
She still gets a lot of jokes made, because she had no idea it was coming - despite the location.
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Wait, what?
Who'd want to marry a Serenity fan anyways? :P
Kidding aside I love that video where the guy proposes at the basketball game, you know the one.
Where she says no and runs out crying because of the public humiliation?
:winky:
https://medium.com/@alascii
Heh, I know. She's meh about firefly(big big fan of Whedon and Buffy though) but I fucking love Firefly and Minear, so to hear him say how that he was happy we were getting together because we were awesome people that would probably have awesome kids was really cool.
Nonetheless, I thought it was funny. Also, I learned that just because you propose in public doesn't mean you'll get your meal comp.
Of course.
Awesome.
My cousin is a wedding planner and she has told me some really crazy proposals. Some real sitcom stuff like the girl choking on the ring in the wine glass, proposing at a concert in the front row during the act with the guy having to say his little speech like fifty times and other wacky stuff.
One cilent of hers was even proposed to twice in the same week.
That ones going to be rather hard to top if she is a Firefly fan, and was not just coming along to spend time with you. If she is a Firefly fan perhaps you might want to consider hinting to her that you might not have been completely joking. If shes the one, go for it, otherwise do not sweat it.
Because that proposal is pretty awesome.
More creative than, "Hey we're going to dinner tonight at a real special restaurant for no reason and I have this ominous habit of checking my pocket as if to make sure something is still there and why are you getting flustered when I'm going down to one knee?"
Naked, people. It's the way to go.
https://medium.com/@alascii
Atop the Eiffel Tower or equivalent.
And naked, apparently.
I like that idea, the symbolism is just too good.
Especially if you forgot your chute.
Should I ask where the ring was when you actually proposed?
creative != not-awful.
I actually read that as "Naked people; it's the way to go."
A friend of mine went to Niagara Falls with his then girlfriend for dinner and that special light show they have. The dinner was nice and cool and then afterwards the two of them grabbed good spots to take in the light show. My friend waited right until the show started and he went down on one knee... to tie his shoes. His girlfriend started scolding him for having such bad timing cuz it's just starting and we drove all the way here and now I'm missing the show because I'm too busy talking to you and OMG YES I'LL MARRY YOU!
He said he specifically waited until she started getting on his case about his timing and then pulled out the ring. Happy tears for all, yay!
Awful.
Different strokes for different folks. What matters is if she enjoys the method of proposal.
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Oh Jesus you're in Tyler? You poor poor man.
While that is sick and not really that funny it does remind me of one I've heard of.
A guy snuck into the girl's apartment while she was out of town and wrote "Will you Marry Me?" on the ceiling in some sort of glow in the dark ink or paint or some such, knowing that the next time she'd be using that bed would be during post work trip sex.
Worked beautifully.
I like the collegehumor one where the one guy sets up a fake proposal at a baseball game for the guy he's pranking and his gf. The woman gets all excited and says yes but the dude's like 'wtf um that's not me' she gets pissed slaps him and runs off.
Yes it's cruel but I still laughed at it.
Terrible. I could never associate myself in any manner with someone who did that.
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Man, I had to work so hard to throw her off... W'd been doing weekends away to Europe for a bit, and she's always wanted to do Paris, but I've been a few times. So when she asked again I had to be all like "OK, sounds good - can you book it?" I then called my mother who was flying over for a trip about a month prior and asked her to bring my grandmother's ring. I spent then next month pretending I wasn't that interested and even faked a whole "oh shit, it was THAT weekend? Man, I have to cancel that trip to see a mate out of town". I then had to endure the whole "why cant you remember whenever we make plans" argument.
In Paris, we visited the Eiffel tower and then crossed the Siene. I spotted a secluded spot down by the river and told her we should go take some photos. It was perfect, we could see the tower, the siene was beautiful - and there was literally nobody down there. I figured I wasn't going to get a better opportunity. We took a few pics, then I said "sit there, I want to take one of you".
The look on her face was classic when I dropped to one knee. I had a few things I wanted to say... She said yes, then burst into tears. Then continued to burst into tears for about the next 5 hours at random times. We did a river cruise after that - apparently she she still cant remember any of it.
It was a very good day.
She still gets a lot of jokes made, because she had no idea it was coming - despite the location.