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After Life: Your most cherished memory?

Loren MichaelLoren Michael Registered User regular
edited July 2008 in Debate and/or Discourse
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/After_Life_(film)
The movie is set in a structure resembling a decrepit travel lodge or social services institution. A group of people who have just died check in at the beginning of each week, and the "social workers" resident in the lodge explain to each guest their situation. The newly-dead have until Wednesday to decide what the single happiest or most significant memory from their life is, and then for the rest of the week the workers make short movies to recreate each person's chosen memory.


At the end of the week, the movies are shown in the screening room. As soon as each person sees his or her own memory, he or she vanishes to whatever unknown state of existence lies beyond and takes only that single memory with them into eternity.

Put yourself in the position of one of those recently dead people. What is the memory you take with you? And, if you're feeling charitable, why?

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  • Raiden333Raiden333 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Easy, certain sunset with my first real girlfriend. No doubt. I still hope I'll feel something close to the emotions I felt that night.

    (edit: no, this has nothing to do with sex. Seriously.)

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  • The Man with No NameThe Man with No Name __BANNED USERS regular
    edited June 2008
    How do you know the memory ever really happened? Could be a false memory.

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  • Raiden333Raiden333 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    How do you know the memory ever really happened? Could be a false memory.

    Oh, then fuck. I'm totally making one up.

    "That time a hundred ninjas broke into my house and I fought them off in my boxers using only my dog's leash as a weapon"

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  • gtrmpgtrmp Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    How do you know the memory ever really happened? Could be a false memory.

    Eh. All memories are approximations that change over time; the point of contention would be the accuracy of the approximation.

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  • dgs095dgs095 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I think I would go for the longest cohesive happy memory of time spent together with my girlfriend, maybe starting with a Christmas with my extended family and continuing with the two of going back to our place. With a bit of luck my girlfriend would pick a memory involving me, and we get back together in heaven and share the memories we pick and what they meant to us. Ditto with the family members.

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  • tbloxhamtbloxham Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    The time I watched, in one cohesive sitting, a complete movie about my entire life from beginning to end.

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    edited June 2008
    My most cherished memory hasn't happened yet.

    Loren: your link is broken.

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  • BamaBama Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    tbloxham wrote: »
    The time I watched, in one cohesive sitting, a complete movie about my entire life from beginning to end.
    Were you alive when you watched it? Wouldn't you still be watching it? This is madness!

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    edited June 2008
    Bama wrote: »
    tbloxham wrote: »
    The time I watched, in one cohesive sitting, a complete movie about my entire life from beginning to end.
    Were you alive when you watched it? Wouldn't you still be watching it? This is madness!

    Did you skip your birth?

    Because seriously I don't want to watch myself get surgically removed from my mother's uterus, and I can only imagine how much weirder it would be had I been squeezed out her vagina.

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    every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.

    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • dgs095dgs095 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Feral wrote: »
    My most cherished memory hasn't happened yet.

    Loren: your link is broken.

    I would like to agree with your optimism Feral. I just made the assumption I should answer the question as if I was just instantly killed so I could put down something.

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  • RichyRichy Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Feral wrote: »
    Bama wrote: »
    tbloxham wrote: »
    The time I watched, in one cohesive sitting, a complete movie about my entire life from beginning to end.
    Were you alive when you watched it? Wouldn't you still be watching it? This is madness!

    Did you skip your birth?

    Because seriously I don't want to watch myself get surgically removed from my mother's uterus, and I can only imagine how much weirder it would be had I been squeezed out her vagina.
    Dude, life starts at conception :P

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  • RichyRichy Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    As for me, I've had a lot of good times in life, but I honestly can't say which is my single most cherished memory.

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  • BamaBama Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Richy wrote: »
    Feral wrote: »
    Bama wrote: »
    tbloxham wrote: »
    The time I watched, in one cohesive sitting, a complete movie about my entire life from beginning to end.
    Were you alive when you watched it? Wouldn't you still be watching it? This is madness!

    Did you skip your birth?

    Because seriously I don't want to watch myself get surgically removed from my mother's uterus, and I can only imagine how much weirder it would be had I been squeezed out her vagina.
    Dude, life starts at conception :P
    The film actually opens with a shot of his mother smoking a cigarette.

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    edited June 2008
    I think it would be pretty sad if I've experienced the most amazing thing that my life has to offer and that it's all downhill from here.

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    every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.

    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
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    edited June 2008
    Okay, I'll stop copping out.

    I'd probably pick the weekend I lost my virginity.

    (Yeah, it took all weekend.)

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    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • BamaBama Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Feral wrote: »
    Okay, I'll stop copping out.

    I'd probably pick the weekend I lost my virginity.

    (Yeah, it took all weekend.)
    Your hymen must have been made out of Kevlar or something.

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  • RichyRichy Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Feral wrote: »
    I think it would be pretty sad if I've experienced the most amazing thing that my life has to offer and that it's all downhill from here.
    You know, I think Loren's question implies that it's the most cherished memory so far, not that you've past the best point of your life and that everything else from now on will suck.

    Also, Loren's question implies that we can choose the memory we take. In other words, that we have the free will to make a choice. Interesting...
    J/k about the free will thing.

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    edited June 2008
    Richy wrote: »
    Feral wrote: »
    I think it would be pretty sad if I've experienced the most amazing thing that my life has to offer and that it's all downhill from here.
    You know, I think Loren's question implies that it's the most cherished memory so far, not that you've past the best point of your life and that everything else from now on will suck.

    I understand the question.

    I just hope to live a little while longer yet and that once I die I'll have an experience that I can point to unequivocally and say, "This right here was the peak experience of my life."

    Otherwise, I'm dying before my time, which is a little depressing to think about.

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    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • an_altan_alt Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Richy wrote: »
    Dude, life starts at conception :P

    Yeah, the film starts off a really slow...

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    edited June 2008
    Bama wrote: »
    Feral wrote: »
    Okay, I'll stop copping out.

    I'd probably pick the weekend I lost my virginity.

    (Yeah, it took all weekend.)
    Your hymen must have been made out of Kevlar or something.

    We were both just very much in need of some satisfaction.

    So I guess the virginity-losing part of it didn't take all weekend but there was a lot of preamble and denouement.

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    the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
  • an_altan_alt Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    and at that young age I'm guessing a fair number of repeats?

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    Pony wrote:
    I think that the internet has been for years on the path to creating what is essentially an electronic Necronomicon: A collection of blasphemous unrealities so perverse that to even glimpse at its contents, if but for a moment, is to irrevocably forfeit a portion of your sanity.
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    edited June 2008
    an_alt wrote: »
    and at that young age I'm guessing a fair number of repeats?

    I wasn't all that young but yes.

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  • Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    The day I discovered Apple and Cinnamon Ice-Cream.

    They don't make it anymore though, which is one the ways in which the universe hates me.

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  • ZoelZoel I suppose... I'd put it on Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Well, I can't think of a memory I'd want to take with me given those sorts of stipulations. I mean, if I can only remember having sex with an ex, but not remembering why she was an ex or who she was the whole thing seems to just boil down to what sort of emotion or experience would you like to take kicking and screaming into the afterlife. Your own memories are completely worthless since you can't attach anything to them so the wisest thing would probably be to take something from cinema or film that looked super cool.

    Personally going to go with first successful pass on 4 horsemen in naxx.

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  • Regina FongRegina Fong Allons-y, Alonso Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    This is a really difficult question. There was this one time I went wine tasting with some of my best friends for a weekend. That would be a very good one.

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  • KessaKessa Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    An interesting part of this question is that we don't know what happens in the after life. Each person vanishes into ... somewhere else. What if the place you end up isn't where your loved one(s) end(s) up? Would that make your single memory more of a burden than a blessing? For example, my memory would either be one of my mother or husband, as I'd like to take one of them with me to the eternal ever after. But, if they weren't there with me, that memory would be something I would cling to as an addiction, and would be forever depressed that I couldn't have them there.

    This is especially likely as from my mother's, husband's, and my own lives and choices would cast us to different parts of the afterlife, as presented by the Christianity I was raised on (though have never 100% believed in.)

    As I'm trying to remember a memory that wouldn't make me sad, I couldn't. I thought about ice cream and other foods, places, etc. but memories of any of those things would be bittersweet if I knew that I had once experience them and never could again. Of course, if your memory dictates the la-la-land you go in to, I'm making one up where everything I ever wanted was all together, and would then surround me in eternity.

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    edited June 2008
    To my mind what's been described is oblivion. If I lost all my memories, then I've lost my entire consciousness and cannot be regarded as remotely the same person I once was (except perhaps, in the minds of others who would remember me as I once was). What's the point?

    So you mean that reliving your best memory over and over again isn't all it's cracked up to be?

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  • Regina FongRegina Fong Allons-y, Alonso Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Feral wrote: »
    To my mind what's been described is oblivion. If I lost all my memories, then I've lost my entire consciousness and cannot be regarded as remotely the same person I once was (except perhaps, in the minds of others who would remember me as I once was). What's the point?

    So you mean that reliving your best memory over and over again isn't all it's cracked up to be?

    No, the film is vague on this because the people who work at the way station have not passed on to the afterlife themselves, and we do not know what occurs to people who have passed on. All we know is that they take only that memory with them, and leave the rest behind.

    Perhaps they experience an afterlife built around that memory, or perhaps a soul accumulates these memories from many lives, or perhaps some Elder God awaits just beyond the edge of infinity to consume these pleasing memories along with the hapless souls that carry them.

    We just don't know.

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  • Penguin_OtakuPenguin_Otaku Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    When I surprised my ex girlfriend with roses and candy at the airport when she got back from Italy. She thought I couldn't make it that night and the fact I manned up and went with her bat-shit insane mother meant a lot to her.

    I never saw her smile so much or show so much PDA. It made me feel special and honestly its kinda making me choke up a little just thinking about how awesome that feeling was. Then she kept wanting to make out with me (she'd been go 2 1/2 weeks) on the car ride home with her mom and aunt in the front seat. Awkward, yes.. but it was an awesome feeling to know she missed me that much.

    We got back to her house and she was all wired and wanted to unpack. I was just like, "Hey. Chill, come lay down." So she was just "Just for a second." We cuddled for about 5 minutes and she was out. I lied there with her for a while and then excused myself. She was adorable.

    That or the time we were in my room snuggling listening to music on my iPod. I had a playlist of "our" songs. A Coldplay song, Swallowed in the Sea, came on and I started to singing it to her softly while just brushing her hair out of her face. When the song ended I gave her a really deep and passionate kiss. She started crying afterwards and held onto me really tight.

    Man. I miss that girl.

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  • namelessnameless Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    A really good memory from a few weeks ago--

    I was out riding bikes at night with this girl I'd been seeing. We're both kind of poor, and there's a bakery nearby that throws out all its bread at the end of the day; if you don't get freaked out about eating perfectly good food out of a dumpster (which only holds bread), you can get really awesome bread for free.

    So we park our bikes, rummage around, and pull out a bunch of stuff and pack it in our bags. We were both hungry, so we dug into one baguette. Just then it started raining--not hard, but like that misty Pacific Northwest rain. So I'm sitting next to this awesome girl, eating free delicious bread, having a good conversation in a light rain at night, in the middle of a parking lot. And all of our safety bike flashers are still on so there's like rave lighting going off all around us.

    I don't know, maybe it doesn't seem particularly awesome when I describe it, but it was like something out of a movie, and at that moment I was totally content.

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  • FagadabaFagadaba Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    nameless what you just described is very beautiful.

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  • FendallFendall Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Well, it's a tough choice really since it depends on so many unknowns. I can think of a few times I was genuinely happy but had that memory sour later (ex-gf). Would I have to know about that or not? I dislike the idea of spending eternity doing anything, what if I get bored. What if reliving the same memory for so long causes me to end up hating it. Sorry buddy, you got this memory FOREVER (evil laugh).

    Just to get into the spirit of things though, I'll choose the time I spent like 10 hours just talking with an ex-girlfriend. Or the first Kael'thas kill after 3 weeks of wipes.

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  • tallgeezetallgeeze Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I tell you one thing the quest for searching for the "best" memory is bringing up all kinds past memories.

    For example, I just remembered one time my friends and I were in front of my apartment playing with my basketball. One of my friends is high as a kite and proceeds to continously drop the ball. He gives up and starts playing soccer with it while yelling "Telemundo!!!!!"(the spanish channel that shows soccer). Every time he tried some sort of soccer move he kept yelling it. My other friend and I were laughing our asses off and it became our inside joke for serveral weeks.

    Is that the best memory? I don't think so, but it was great one.

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  • armageddonboundarmageddonbound Registered User regular
    edited July 2008
    I'm 30. Reviewing memories right now is kinda odd. You would think my pick would be something with my ex wife or my current gf... Yet I'm pretty damned sure there was a kind of joy I felt as a kid, after just having played army men in the woods with plastic guns, playing ninja with pillows tied to us so we could punch each other, then riding my bike home during the most beautiful sunset, knowing that sloppy joes and mug root beer awaited me at home, that actually overpowered any thing else I can think of.

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  • GungHoGungHo Registered User regular
    edited July 2008
    My parents had a pug that basically, I raised through my teenage years. I wasn't able to take him with me to the service, so I got older and so did he. I would come back and visit, and while he was old and sick, he was always ready to play with me.

    Anyway, at my parents' new house and I was standing on their unfinished deck speaking with my mom and stepped backwards off the deck (which had no railing). I had enough of my wits about me to roll with the fall, so I didn't hurt myself at all. The dog, who was just a few weeks from dying, ran up to where I sat, covered in grass, and dropped into a roll beside me, obviously believing that I had fallen down in order to play with him.

    I never saw him alive again after that.

    I want that moment back.

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