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larry king (gay kid) shooting

SamSam Registered User regular
edited August 2008 in Debate and/or Discourse
I can't find another thread on this here, but the search function does kinda suck balls. uh, metaphorically. :|

http://www.newsweek.com/id/147790

anyway, I was wondering what the consensus was on the psycho shooter kid. On the one hand it is technically a hate crime. On the other hand, something technically definable as a hate crime could also be a provoked response.

I mean the kid was 14 (which from my memory isn't much fun, you're not a kid but everyone treats you like you're stupid because, well, you are) and witnessed gun violence in his home between his parents. His dad stole his ritalin to trip on. Add to this the fact that the gay kid had singled him out, and although it wasn't intended as such, ultimately socially assassinated him. It's fucking middle school. I actually find it pretty sick that people are basically calling for a lynching, as though he perpetrated the kind of hate crime where the victim did not provoke the aggressor at all.

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  • DrezDrez Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    I have no idea what this is. Where does Larry King fit into all this?

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    The kid's name was larry king. He wanted to change it to Leticia though.
    No joke. I'll go edit my op

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  • DaedalusDaedalus Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    I got "socially assassinated" in middle school.

    I didn't go in and shoot anyone.

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  • MedopineMedopine __BANNED USERS regular
    edited August 2008
    Do you have a news story or something ?

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  • TrevorTrevor Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Look, I found a link to a news story. I'm going to read some more before I decide how I feel about this.

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  • RaggaholicRaggaholic Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Admittedly I only read the first page of the Newsweek article, but I didn't see anywhere that it said the boy shot him because he was gay. Is that covered later?

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  • SentrySentry Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    This sums up my feelings nicely...
    Newsweek wrote:
    "If a girl who was extra flirtatious, incredibly forward and very aware of her sexuality, was shot to death by a guy who didn't want her attention, would we be considering [her] a victim, or blaming her for [the] murder[?]" wrote Seabasstin. "A better analogy would be a black kid who was perceived as 'too uppity' and got shot by a white kid," adds KevinVT. "And then Newsweek writes a story about it being, OK, really, because he was acting too black, because one of his principals was a black woman, and because the African American community found the situation to be evidence of racism."

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  • DaedalusDaedalus Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Ah, the predictable blame the victim horseshit.

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  • DrezDrez Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Okay, thanks...my googlability is sorta limited from work. At first I thought the talk show host Larry King shot a gay boy.

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  • TrevorTrevor Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    I have decided that this is very sad but is just going to be an excuse for people to use this as some sort of metaphor for being gay or being a misfit or bullying and I don't think those kind of conclusions can be drawn or used in other situations.

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Daedalus wrote: »
    I got "socially assassinated" in middle school.

    I didn't go in and shoot anyone.

    You also didn't see your dad shot your mom in the arm to resolve a family dispute when you were a child, or grow up around substance abusers either.

    Some people are disturbed. There isn't a logical justification for any murder anywhere. But this guy was being constantly courted by a cross dressing kid who spread rumors about them being together. And when I was 14 and people talked about being together, they got pretty specific.

    That's a pretty rare form of emotional bullying, and I could see how someone from a very troubled background could react violently. Murder may be beyond the line, but this is not the same thing as a hate crime.

    I don't know for sure, but I think that kids resorting to attempted murder or murder as retaliation for being bullied don't get tried as adults. But no one wants to call it what it was- and again I doubt the gay kid or anyone intended it as such, they just acted without thinking and it became what it was.

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  • BobCescaBobCesca Is a girl Birmingham, UKRegistered User regular
    edited August 2008
    wait, so kid A shot kid B 'cos kid B had been hitting on him (kid A), and we're arguing as to who is in the wrong?

    This seems a little odd if my above assessment is correct.

    Surely kid A goes to jail for murder and people get the hell over their own and social homophobia.

    Am I missing something here?

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Raggaholic wrote: »
    Admittedly I only read the first page of the Newsweek article, but I didn't see anywhere that it said the boy shot him because he was gay. Is that covered later?

    the boy shot him because the victim very publicly courted him, always followed him around and talked about them having a relationship. This culminated in him choosing the shooter for the school valentine day ritual, apparently giving him the card in front of a bunch of people including the shooter's friends, who proceeded to start with the olol fagz.

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  • DaedalusDaedalus Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    Daedalus wrote: »
    I got "socially assassinated" in middle school.

    I didn't go in and shoot anyone.

    You also didn't see your dad shot your mom in the arm to resolve a family dispute when you were a child, or grow up around substance abusers either.

    Some people are disturbed. There isn't a logical justification for any murder anywhere. But this guy was being constantly courted by a cross dressing kid who spread rumors about them being together. And when I was 14 and people talked about being together, they got pretty specific.

    That's a pretty rare form of emotional bullying, and I could see how someone from a very troubled background could react violently. Murder may be beyond the line, but this is not the same thing as a hate crime.

    I don't know for sure, but I think that kids resorting to attempted murder or murder as retaliation for being bullied don't get tried as adults. But no one wants to call it what it was- and again I doubt the gay kid or anyone intended it as such, they just acted without thinking and it became what it was.


    Okay, look. "Hey, the shooter was from a seriously fucked-up household with an abusive father and guns all over the place" is absolutely a mitigating factor. Nobody will argue that.

    "Hey, the murder victim was spreading some middle school gossip" is not, and putting the two in the same paragraph makes you look like you're, again, blaming the victim.

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Raggaholic wrote: »
    Admittedly I only read the first page of the Newsweek article, but I didn't see anywhere that it said the boy shot him because he was gay. Is that covered later?
    Yeah. It's standard "gay panic" bullshit that this kid is pulling, which is why people are calling for him to get the book thrown at him. Also, after reading the comments made by King's father at the end, I'm not really surprised that the kid was having problems.

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    Raggaholic wrote: »
    Admittedly I only read the first page of the Newsweek article, but I didn't see anywhere that it said the boy shot him because he was gay. Is that covered later?

    the boy shot him because the victim very publicly courted him, always followed him around and talked about them having a relationship. This culminated in him choosing the shooter for the school valentine day ritual, apparently giving him the card in front of a bunch of people including the shooter's friends, who proceeded to start with the olol fagz.

    In other words, "gay panic" bullshit. You should be ashamed.

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    BobCesca wrote: »
    wait, so kid A shot kid B 'cos kid B had been hitting on him (kid A), and we're arguing as to who is in the wrong?

    This seems a little odd if my above assessment is correct.

    Surely kid A goes to jail for murder and people get the hell over their own and social homophobia.

    Am I missing something here?

    the dispute is over whether he should be tried as a juvenile or adult. At age 14 (which he turned 3 weeks ago) perpetrators of serious crimes can be tried as adults. The "fact" that this was a hate crime lends credence to the prosecutions case.

    Either way he's going to jail. But obviously one of them could basically write off his entire life now.

    But it seems like gay organizations are basically calling for blood.

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    But it seems like gay organizations are basically calling for blood.

    Gee, I wonder why? The kid's trying to use a "gay panic" defense.

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  • muninnmuninn Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    He was allowed to wear 3 inch stilettos to school? If it was my high school, he would be sent home to get propper shoes, no matter what his sex was.

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  • KageraKagera Imitating the worst people. Since 2004Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Yeah around here junior high schools have uniform codes.

    Which thankfully I never had to deal with, because fuck uniforms.

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  • BobCescaBobCesca Is a girl Birmingham, UKRegistered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    BobCesca wrote: »
    wait, so kid A shot kid B 'cos kid B had been hitting on him (kid A), and we're arguing as to who is in the wrong?

    This seems a little odd if my above assessment is correct.

    Surely kid A goes to jail for murder and people get the hell over their own and social homophobia.

    Am I missing something here?

    the dispute is over whether he should be tried as a juvenile or adult. At age 14 (which he turned 3 weeks ago) perpetrators of serious crimes can be tried as adults. The "fact" that this was a hate crime lends credence to the prosecutions case.

    Either way he's going to jail. But obviously one of them could basically write off his entire life now.

    But it seems like gay organizations are basically calling for blood.

    Rough backgrounds do allow for some mitigating circumstances, but if the place where this crime occurred thinks that at 14 one should be tried as an adult, I would have thought that for such a horrific pre-meditated crime it would apply here.

    The kid's home background is bad, but not so bad as to cover over the fact that he murdered someone for either being gay or perpetuating the idea within school that the two might be having some form of relationship. It sucks, but that is, unfortuantly, part of growing up - having to deal with all those crappy rumours and lies that get told about you.

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    Raggaholic wrote: »
    Admittedly I only read the first page of the Newsweek article, but I didn't see anywhere that it said the boy shot him because he was gay. Is that covered later?

    the boy shot him because the victim very publicly courted him, always followed him around and talked about them having a relationship. This culminated in him choosing the shooter for the school valentine day ritual, apparently giving him the card in front of a bunch of people including the shooter's friends, who proceeded to start with the olol fagz.

    In other words, "gay panic" bullshit. You should be ashamed.

    Why? Because I want to see a 14 year old tried as a 14 year old with relevant psychological profiling? He's going to be found guilty of premeditated murder, no matter what. But in a juvenile court, and then in a juvenile rehabilitation facility. I don't see why it should be more than that because the victim was gay. It's already established that he didn't just see the kid being gay and minding his own business and decide to pwn a fag.

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  • UmaroUmaro Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    This is serious LOLz thanks purely to the name.

    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

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  • geckahngeckahn Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Umaro wrote: »
    This is serious LOLz thanks purely to the name.

    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    Thats not really true, at all.

    For the fem types, who would be more likely to be a 7 on the kinsey scale, I'm sure it becomes apparent very early on.

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  • DaedalusDaedalus Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Umaro wrote: »
    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    yeah, he was clearly just asking to get shot, dressing like that.
    facepalm

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Umaro wrote: »
    This is serious LOLz thanks purely to the name.

    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    I dont know man when I was 14 I was pretty horny and downloading Jana Cova wmvs over 56k. I think people know what kind of sex they want, or at least have a general idea at that age.

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    Sam wrote: »
    Raggaholic wrote: »
    Admittedly I only read the first page of the Newsweek article, but I didn't see anywhere that it said the boy shot him because he was gay. Is that covered later?

    the boy shot him because the victim very publicly courted him, always followed him around and talked about them having a relationship. This culminated in him choosing the shooter for the school valentine day ritual, apparently giving him the card in front of a bunch of people including the shooter's friends, who proceeded to start with the olol fagz.

    In other words, "gay panic" bullshit. You should be ashamed.

    Why? Because I want to see a 14 year old tried as a 14 year old with relevant psychological profiling? He's going to be found guilty of premeditated murder, no matter what. But in a juvenile court, and then in a juvenile rehabilitation facility. I don't see why it should be more than that because the victim was gay. It's already established that he didn't just see the kid being gay and minding his own business and decide to pwn a fag.

    From Sentry's post:
    Newsweek wrote:
    "If a girl who was extra flirtatious, incredibly forward and very aware of her sexuality, was shot to death by a guy who didn't want her attention, would we be considering [her] a victim, or blaming her for [the] murder[?]" wrote Seabasstin. "A better analogy would be a black kid who was perceived as 'too uppity' and got shot by a white kid," adds KevinVT. "And then Newsweek writes a story about it being, OK, really, because he was acting too black, because one of his principals was a black woman, and because the African American community found the situation to be evidence of racism."

    Do you get the point? If it was any other victim, we wouldn't be having this discussion. The kid himself is the one making it "more than that" by relying on the bullshit "gay panic" defense (something that you have pointed out several times).

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  • muninnmuninn Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Daedalus wrote: »
    Umaro wrote: »
    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    yeah, he was clearly just asking to get shot, dressing like that.
    facepalm

    I dont think thats what Umaro was getting that, even though he said it with such tact and class....
    I am having trouble believeing that a 10 year old has such a firm grasp of his own sexuality, but I have never really pursued the subjkect so I am sure someone will prove me wrong.

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  • DarkWarriorDarkWarrior __BANNED USERS regular
    edited August 2008
    An aside, but I hate, hate crimes. If I go out and shoot someone the same race as me, I'm not doing it because I like him, I might not even be doing it because I hate him but hes dead and I did it. You shouldn't get punished extra because the person was different to you or it just enhances that you were different when we're meant to be (legally) treated the same.

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  • UmaroUmaro Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Daedalus wrote: »
    Umaro wrote: »
    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    yeah, he was clearly just asking to get shot, dressing like that.
    facepalm

    I'm not saying he deserved to be shot, I'm saying it's a little silly. Are gays really that feminine just because they're gays or do they act like that because that's how homosexuals have always been expected to act by society and even by many other homosexuals.

    Blaaahblaaah.

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  • geckahngeckahn Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    He should be tried as a juvenille, period.

    I dont give a shit about any of the reasons, he's 14.

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Umaro wrote: »
    Daedalus wrote: »
    Umaro wrote: »
    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    yeah, he was clearly just asking to get shot, dressing like that.
    facepalm

    I'm not saying he deserved to be shot, I'm saying it's a little silly. Are gays really that feminine just because they're gays or do they act like that because that's how homosexuals have always been expected to act by society and even by many other homosexuals.

    Blaaahblaaah.

    I'm sure there are other gays at that same middle school who do not feel the need to rub it in people's face the way King did. Just as there are people who are fascinated by and idenity with dark, misanthropic, ominous themes in art but don't become goths.

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  • DaedalusDaedalus Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    Umaro wrote: »
    Daedalus wrote: »
    Umaro wrote: »
    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    yeah, he was clearly just asking to get shot, dressing like that.
    facepalm

    I'm not saying he deserved to be shot, I'm saying it's a little silly. Are gays really that feminine just because they're gays or do they act like that because that's how homosexuals have always been expected to act by society and even by many other homosexuals.

    Blaaahblaaah.

    I'm sure there are other gays at that same middle school who do not feel the need to rub it in people's face. Just as there are people who are fascinated by and idenity with dark, misanthropic, ominous themes in art but don't become goths.
    Yes, certainly.

    That doesn't make it a mitigating factor in a murder.

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    An aside, but I hate, hate crimes. If I go out and shoot someone the same race as me, I'm not doing it because I like him, I might not even be doing it because I hate him but hes dead and I did it. You shouldn't get punished extra because the person was different to you or it just enhances that you were different when we're meant to be (legally) treated the same.

    You do understand the concept of mens rea, right? Because if we followed your argument, that would mean that insanity would not be a legitimate defense.

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  • FencingsaxFencingsax It is difficult to get a man to understand, when his salary depends upon his not understanding GNU Terry PratchettRegistered User regular
    edited August 2008
    geckahn wrote: »
    He should be tried as a juvenille, period.

    I dont give a shit about any of the reasons, he's 14.
    Thank you.

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  • RaggaholicRaggaholic Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    This is a tricky one. I don't think the kid should be tried as an adult because, honestly, there is a reason why we have juvenile court. Juvies don't always appreciate the seriousness of actions. That's just real.
    "If a GUY who was extra flirtatious, incredibly forward and very aware of his sexuality, was shot to death by a girl who didn't want his attention, would we be considering him a victim, or blaming him for [the] murder[?]"
    Different situations bring about different feelings. News at 11.

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  • BarrakkethBarrakketh Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Sam wrote: »
    Umaro wrote: »
    This is serious LOLz thanks purely to the name.

    But really... no one knows they're fucking gay in middle school. I hardly knew what a vagina was until 8th grade. If you're claiming to be gay and wearing stilettos to school you're just a confused attention whore.

    I dont know man when I was 14 I was pretty horny and downloading Jana Cova wmvs over 56k. I think people know what kind of sex they want, or at least have a general idea at that age.

    When I was 13 my family let some friends of theirs live with us for a couple of months while they were in the process of moving. That family's daughter (who was 14) was rather interested in me, so there was some exploring that rapidly enlightened me as to what a vagina was while I was in middle school :P Besides, haven't most nosy boys found some of their dad's porn somewhere around the house?

    While I don't think most kids would be mature enough to know they're gay, I think some people are underestimating how early kids can develop an interest in sex and/or porn.

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  • AngelHedgieAngelHedgie Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    geckahn wrote: »
    He should be tried as a juvenille, period.

    I dont give a shit about any of the reasons, he's 14.

    Fine, try him as a juvenile. But don't let him use a "gay panic" defense.

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  • DaedalusDaedalus Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Basically, if he'd picked the "I'm all fucked up from my family situation and need psychiatric help" as his defense, there wouldn't even be a discussion here.

    But he picked the "he provoked me into shooting him by being so gay" defense, so now he's going to get the book thrown at him.

    The only remarkable thing here is that there are people actually defending that second defense there.

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  • muninnmuninn Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Well, it could be viewed as harassment, not "forceful exhibition of ones sexuality".

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