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Whoa! Need some girl advice.
joeybean1
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Well, maybe not about the lady in question but it has to do with her. She is really kind of anti sex and has reasons to be so. We have done some fun things when the mood strikes us both, but usually it's me being in the mood and doing something stupid and us getting in a huge fight. So I would like to know if anyone has any good advice about controlling those 16 year old male hormones.
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At 16 I doubt you will be together forever anyway.
but they're listening to every word I say
What kind of "usually it's me being in the mood and doing something stupid and us getting in a huge fight" are you talking about? Do you mean you try to start something, she stops you, and you get into a fight? Because if so, don't do that shit. Or do you start something, she goes along with it, but feels bad later and gets into the huge fight? That's a lot harder, because she's changing her mind after the fact.
If you're having huge fights with regularity, for whatever reason, it's a good idea to break up. You're sixteen; it's very unlikely that you'll be together long anyway, so you might as well find someone who's a better fit.
Masturbation is your friend - keep yourself evened out.
EDIT: And don't be the guy who tries to talk girls into stuff. This is a defining moment in your young life, son, are you going to be that guy?
If you don't like it, acting like a baby and arguing with her sure isn't going to convince her.
reading between the lines a little bit (anti-sex with "good reason"?) it sounds like your chances of getting her to do that stuff are sort of slim
so basically you need to decide whether this is a dealbreaker for you
that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
you just said she's anti-sex and that's where the arguments start from, so are you trying to have sex with her not?
i'm confused..?
edit - you have two threads on the same girl?...
I guess you don't want to go to jail, right?
She's 16. Not wanting to have sex at that age doesn't make her immature.
She sounds immature for other reasons implied in both threads, but not wanting to have sex when you're 16 is perfectly fine. Honestly, I wish more teenagers would think that way.
I would prompt Joey to explain further about why should doesn't want to have sex (until marriage, perhaps? This is a respectable choice.) and what happens that causes the fights.. What do you say? How does she react?
please, reconsider