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Whoa! Need some girl advice.

joeybean1joeybean1 Registered User regular
edited September 2008 in Help / Advice Forum
Well, maybe not about the lady in question but it has to do with her. She is really kind of anti sex and has reasons to be so. We have done some fun things when the mood strikes us both, but usually it's me being in the mood and doing something stupid and us getting in a huge fight. So I would like to know if anyone has any good advice about controlling those 16 year old male hormones.

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  • TopiaTopia Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Masturbate? No joke dude, thats what you do as a young teen to get rid of sexual anxiety. Personally I still think, even in this society that 16 is quite young to have sex. I'm only 19 but the thought of a 16 year old girl is gross.

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  • JebusUDJebusUD Adventure! Candy IslandRegistered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Find another girl that isn't anti-sex?

    At 16 I doubt you will be together forever anyway.

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  • Penguin_OtakuPenguin_Otaku Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Don't go with Jebus' advice, please. I agree that 16 is pretty young to be having sex man. Tone it down. you've got years ahead of you.

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  • TrowizillaTrowizilla Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Sixteen is too young for some people, not for everyone.

    What kind of "usually it's me being in the mood and doing something stupid and us getting in a huge fight" are you talking about? Do you mean you try to start something, she stops you, and you get into a fight? Because if so, don't do that shit. Or do you start something, she goes along with it, but feels bad later and gets into the huge fight? That's a lot harder, because she's changing her mind after the fact.

    If you're having huge fights with regularity, for whatever reason, it's a good idea to break up. You're sixteen; it's very unlikely that you'll be together long anyway, so you might as well find someone who's a better fit.

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  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Man, to be 16 again - I'm 23 now.

    Masturbation is your friend - keep yourself evened out.

    EDIT: And don't be the guy who tries to talk girls into stuff. This is a defining moment in your young life, son, are you going to be that guy?

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  • RocketSauceRocketSauce Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    How about respecting a 16 year old girl's desire not to fuck you?

    If you don't like it, acting like a baby and arguing with her sure isn't going to convince her.

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  • takyristakyris Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Between this and the other thread, it's seeming like the two of you aren't a good fit.

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  • joeybean1joeybean1 Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    No kidding. And to Rocketsauce, I'm not trying to fuck her at all okay? And i definatly don't argue about her wishes, I just get a little to intense and will say something stupid. It's not like I'm trying to rape her.

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  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    either way it sounds like you are trying to do stuff she is not really into

    reading between the lines a little bit (anti-sex with "good reason"?) it sounds like your chances of getting her to do that stuff are sort of slim

    so basically you need to decide whether this is a dealbreaker for you

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  • SeldomSeldom Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    so, ah, joey, what are you trying to do with her?

    you just said she's anti-sex and that's where the arguments start from, so are you trying to have sex with her not?
    i'm confused..?

    edit - you have two threads on the same girl?...

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  • DiscoZombieDiscoZombie Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    really, all you can do is play it by ear. If the mood eventually strikes her, maybe you will have sex. If you get sick of not having sex, you will break up. if she is the same girl from the other thread, it sounds like she has issues, so she's probably not the type who will cave in and suddenly start boning. on the other hand, as others have said, 16 is definitely on the young side to begin with. Besides, sex at 16 will almost certainly be with a condom, and if you ask me, sex with a condom isn't really even worth having =p

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  • FantasmaFantasma Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Perhaps you should move on and find another girl who is not so immature, leave her alone. If you are lucky enough you will meet someone else who is not anti sex, just be careful, sex is fun, and when done properly there is no need to worry about things like HIV, STD, or pregnancy. Condoms are your friends.

    I guess you don't want to go to jail, right?

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Fantasma wrote: »
    Perhaps you should move on and find another girl who is not so immature, leave her alone. If you are lucky enough you will meet someone else who is not anti sex, just be careful, sex is fun, and when done properly there is no need to worry about things like HIV, STD, or pregnancy. Condoms are your friends.

    I guess you don't want to go to jail, right?

    She's 16. Not wanting to have sex at that age doesn't make her immature.

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  • DjiemDjiem Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Kyougu wrote: »
    Fantasma wrote: »
    Perhaps you should move on and find another girl who is not so immature, leave her alone. If you are lucky enough you will meet someone else who is not anti sex, just be careful, sex is fun, and when done properly there is no need to worry about things like HIV, STD, or pregnancy. Condoms are your friends.

    I guess you don't want to go to jail, right?

    She's 16. Not wanting to have sex at that age doesn't make her immature.

    She sounds immature for other reasons implied in both threads, but not wanting to have sex when you're 16 is perfectly fine. Honestly, I wish more teenagers would think that way.

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  • acidlacedpenguinacidlacedpenguin Institutionalized Safe in jail.Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Prostitution big in your city?

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  • pogo mudderpogo mudder Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    mmh masturbate the days away. i mean i've been in a serious sexual relationship for over two years now and i still masturbate to porn... but she must never know.

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  • Hobbit0815Hobbit0815 Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Geez guys, you're being a little harsh on Joey.. I mean, I didn't read this infamous 'other thread', but there's no reason to jump to assumptions like 'omg you just want to fuck her, you asshole!'

    I would prompt Joey to explain further about why should doesn't want to have sex (until marriage, perhaps? This is a respectable choice.) and what happens that causes the fights.. What do you say? How does she react?

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  • Local H JayLocal H Jay Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    man, having sex at 17 was the dumbest thing i ever did


    please, reconsider

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