1. marital disloyalty; adultery.
2. unfaithfulness; disloyalty.
3. lack of religious faith, esp. Christian faith. (irrelevant in this case)
4. a breach of trust or a disloyal act; transgression.
Oh, sweet, kind, and gentle PAX. Thousands and thousands of geeks, nerds, and dorkuses all coming together for...only one purpose? I went for the sake of taking a relaxed vacation in a temperate city to enjoy whatever PAX wanted to throw my way. You might have gone for the new games. You might have gone for the panels. You might have gone for socialization alone. But, my fine feathered friend, did you go to PAX seeking a vagina that was not your wife's?
The full title of my thread is this:
in·fi·del·i·ty - An Open Letter To The Guy Who Fucked My Roommate
Sir, I don't know if you've been to PAX before, but you had to have at LEAST a vague idea about how huge of a cockfest it is. Maybe you didn't come to PAX expecting to fuck some poor, lonely, single girl and maybe it would have been okay that you and her were going at it in the living room of OUR suite while my husband and I and my other friend were in the other room drunk, laughing at you, and eating pizza. Maybe it would have been less of a pathetic act if you had been single. But no. You were married. You have a 13 year old child. I found this out the next day and I laughed. You didn't bring your roommate with you when you came over (even though my other friend was single!) because you didn't want him to know that you were trying to get laid. See, I don't know what kind of relationship you and your wife have, but the next day when you called my roommate to "hang out", you didn't want her to mention anything about the night before to his roommate. So THAT leads me to believe that your wife wouldn't be okay with finding out about this little incident. I can just imagine- you might have had to work on your wife a little to let you go all the way to PAX from...where you're from. You might have told her that you love her and she might have kissed you goodbye with a mouthful of trust and maybe a little bit of sadness that she was going to lose you for a week. All the while, you might have been thinking, "This is going to be the perfect opportunity for me to cheat on my wife. It will be with some random girl (or guy, for the sake of story-telling) that I'll never have to see or talk to again."
My three other roomies and I laughed at your expense. After that, I posed this question: how ridiculous can a person possibly be? You answered it. Three rum and cokes and an entire pack of condoms (randomly placed throughout our suite) later...you answered it.
Shalom sandwich, shalom hunger.
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I think locating and publicly humiliating this person wouldn't be out of the question, personally.
I actually had the same thing happen to me, but it was my b/f that cheated, not my husband... but I still know from experience how awful it is. Give your friend a hug for me.
This is true, but very rarely does someone thats cheating TELL the person they are trying to pick up that they are involved.
I have no idea about how exactly the topic came up, but I'd like to hope the situation went something like this:
Dude- "I'm sorry I'm having trouble maintaining an erection."
Roomie- "No worries. Alcohol does that."
Dude- "Alcohol usually helps me keep it, so I'm sure it's just because I can't stop putting my wife's face on your head."
See, I don't know if that IS what was said, but it makes the most sense to me.
Pics or it didn't happen
Believe what you want, but I heard the flesh-slapping.
Here's a tip, guys (and gals): If you want to keep your freedom, don't do anything to fuck it up.
My only hope is that this guy and his wife are together until the end of his days, with each passing minute gnawing away at him as a painful reminder of what he has sacrificed.
That and he gets crabs.
"Oh what a day, what a LOVELY DAY!"
Well there goes my appetite!
Did you buy the condoms when you were drunk too?
I mean, I hate to point fingers at people... but I think you're going to have a LOT of groveling, begging, counseling, and self-improvement to do in the future. I hate to judge and point the finger at people... but this was really something you shouldn't have done.
I know this isn't H/A and I apologize for the unsolicited advice, but I can't really help myself at the moment. I urge you and your wife to seek marriage counseling, and for you to consider the negative implications of what you've done in hopes that it will not happen again in the future. I do hate to scold, and I hope you don't take it too harshly... but for your sake, and hers, AND your child... you really should seek help.
I mean, seriously. Look at his previous posts.
I'd actually have some base level of sympathy/desire to help the person find resources to help him rebuild his shattered life if whoever it was truly felt bad about what they did and wanted help to fix his shattered relationships and family.
No, it's not him. I know where broseph was from and it wasn't VA.
But indeed, I'll try to just let this drop. It's an unfortunate situation if it's true, and hopefully it'll be handled in the way it should (through karma, if nothing else can do so), but indeed we are outsiders looking into what appears to be a very personal (but very unfortunate) situation.
Rocky is a nice way to put it.
See if I put out for you ever again, you whore.
Hope his wife kicks him in the nuts or uh something.
This thread is going nowhere good. This is not the place for you act out your petty grievances against people you don't even know.