in·fi·del·i·ty

JuliaxeJuliaxe Registered User regular
edited September 2008 in PAX Archive
1. marital disloyalty; adultery.
2. unfaithfulness; disloyalty.
3. lack of religious faith, esp. Christian faith. (irrelevant in this case)
4. a breach of trust or a disloyal act; transgression.

Oh, sweet, kind, and gentle PAX. Thousands and thousands of geeks, nerds, and dorkuses all coming together for...only one purpose? I went for the sake of taking a relaxed vacation in a temperate city to enjoy whatever PAX wanted to throw my way. You might have gone for the new games. You might have gone for the panels. You might have gone for socialization alone. But, my fine feathered friend, did you go to PAX seeking a vagina that was not your wife's?

The full title of my thread is this:

in·fi·del·i·ty - An Open Letter To The Guy Who Fucked My Roommate

Sir, I don't know if you've been to PAX before, but you had to have at LEAST a vague idea about how huge of a cockfest it is. Maybe you didn't come to PAX expecting to fuck some poor, lonely, single girl and maybe it would have been okay that you and her were going at it in the living room of OUR suite while my husband and I and my other friend were in the other room drunk, laughing at you, and eating pizza. Maybe it would have been less of a pathetic act if you had been single. But no. You were married. You have a 13 year old child. I found this out the next day and I laughed. You didn't bring your roommate with you when you came over (even though my other friend was single!) because you didn't want him to know that you were trying to get laid. See, I don't know what kind of relationship you and your wife have, but the next day when you called my roommate to "hang out", you didn't want her to mention anything about the night before to his roommate. So THAT leads me to believe that your wife wouldn't be okay with finding out about this little incident. I can just imagine- you might have had to work on your wife a little to let you go all the way to PAX from...where you're from. You might have told her that you love her and she might have kissed you goodbye with a mouthful of trust and maybe a little bit of sadness that she was going to lose you for a week. All the while, you might have been thinking, "This is going to be the perfect opportunity for me to cheat on my wife. It will be with some random girl (or guy, for the sake of story-telling) that I'll never have to see or talk to again."

My three other roomies and I laughed at your expense. After that, I posed this question: how ridiculous can a person possibly be? You answered it. Three rum and cokes and an entire pack of condoms (randomly placed throughout our suite) later...you answered it.

Shalom sandwich, shalom hunger.
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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Wow, that's horrible! =( Eeek =(

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  • OfficerOfficer Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    ... What the fuck. Seriously. Who the hell is this guy?

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  • DarmakDarmak RAGE vympyvvhyc vyctyvyRegistered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Ahahahahahahahahahaha.

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  • jonxpjonxp [E] PC Security Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Need more photos for Wall of Shame.

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    I think this is definitely the poster child example of that phrase "Please don't come to PAX to get laid."

    I think locating and publicly humiliating this person wouldn't be out of the question, personally.

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  • MonoxideMonoxide Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited September 2008
    holy shit

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  • ShiNoKazeShiNoKaze Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Dang, I clicked thinkin it was going to be 4. Profit!!! Yay PAX, Boo there's idiots in the world.

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  • specspec Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    It is pretty funny to call him out like this.

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  • BrokenAngelBrokenAngel Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    I feel really sorry... for both his wife and your friend :/

    I actually had the same thing happen to me, but it was my b/f that cheated, not my husband... but I still know from experience how awful it is. :( Give your friend a hug for me.

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Hopefully he will somehow see this and feel great shame. Or his wife will see this, and beat him thoroughly before kicking him to the curb.

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  • aponivanyaaponivanya Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Thank you for calling this jerk out publicly. And any guys who think calling him out isn't cool - just remember this is just part of why your wives DON'T want you going to this thing - especially if you live outside the area. So if you don't want to be grouped with this guy, join in the fun! Cheating on your spouse - especially if you have kids - is NEVER OK but publicly humiliating people who act like this is awesome! That guy is totally headed straight for divorce court once his wife finds out. And believe me - we do snoop around boards for events our husbands go to. I finally got invited to go to PAX with my hubby this year but I'm not at all ashamed to admit I tried to sniff out any posting he was doing for the two years he went without me. Hehe. Interestingly, my snooping turned up bad behavior of a mutual friend!

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  • BuraisuBuraisu Psychomancer Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited September 2008
    What was that old saying... "It takes two to tango." So I say, tut-tut, shame on all parties involved.

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  • BrokenAngelBrokenAngel Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Buraisu wrote: »
    What was that old saying... "It takes two to tango." So I say, tut-tut, shame on all parties involved.

    This is true, but very rarely does someone thats cheating TELL the person they are trying to pick up that they are involved.

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  • JuliaxeJuliaxe Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    This is true, but very rarely does someone thats cheating TELL the person they are trying to pick up that they are involved.

    I have no idea about how exactly the topic came up, but I'd like to hope the situation went something like this:

    Dude- "I'm sorry I'm having trouble maintaining an erection."
    Roomie- "No worries. Alcohol does that."
    Dude- "Alcohol usually helps me keep it, so I'm sure it's just because I can't stop putting my wife's face on your head."

    See, I don't know if that IS what was said, but it makes the most sense to me.

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  • MaoChanMaoChan Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    jonxp wrote: »
    Need more photos for Wall of Shame.

    Pics or it didn't happen

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  • Soda241Soda241 Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    well im sure that guy has something coming to him.

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  • JuliaxeJuliaxe Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    MaoChan wrote: »
    jonxp wrote: »
    Need more photos for Wall of Shame.

    Pics or it didn't happen

    Believe what you want, but I heard the flesh-slapping.

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  • RyosenRyosen Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    My wife and I have a very trusting relationship. We've been together for over 10 years. We "let" each other go to conferences, out with our own friends, mini-vacations with buddies, so on and so forth, and it is exactly because we trust each other that we are able to do this.

    Here's a tip, guys (and gals): If you want to keep your freedom, don't do anything to fuck it up.

    My only hope is that this guy and his wife are together until the end of his days, with each passing minute gnawing away at him as a painful reminder of what he has sacrificed.

    That and he gets crabs.

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  • altmannaltmann Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    I apologize. I was drunk at the time. My friend found out and told my wife and things are rocky.

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  • HaterotHaterot Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Juliaxe wrote: »

    Believe what you want, but I heard the flesh-slapping.

    Well there goes my appetite!

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    altmann wrote: »
    I apologize. I was drunk at the time. My friend found out and told my wife and things are rocky.

    Did you buy the condoms when you were drunk too?

    I mean, I hate to point fingers at people... but I think you're going to have a LOT of groveling, begging, counseling, and self-improvement to do in the future. I hate to judge and point the finger at people... but this was really something you shouldn't have done.

    I know this isn't H/A and I apologize for the unsolicited advice, but I can't really help myself at the moment. I urge you and your wife to seek marriage counseling, and for you to consider the negative implications of what you've done in hopes that it will not happen again in the future. I do hate to scold, and I hope you don't take it too harshly... but for your sake, and hers, AND your child... you really should seek help.

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  • HounHoun Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    VT, I'm pretty sure altmann's a troll, and not the actual adulterist. :P

    I mean, seriously. Look at his previous posts.

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Ohhhh, I didn't think to look. I was actually hoping that at least whoever the jerk was that did this felt guilty enough to confess and attempt to rebuild. That's unfortunate. =(

    I'd actually have some base level of sympathy/desire to help the person find resources to help him rebuild his shattered life if whoever it was truly felt bad about what they did and wanted help to fix his shattered relationships and family.

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  • JuliaxeJuliaxe Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    altmann wrote: »
    I apologize. I was drunk at the time. My friend found out and told my wife and things are rocky.

    Did you buy the condoms when you were drunk too?

    I mean, I hate to point fingers at people... but I think you're going to have a LOT of groveling, begging, counseling, and self-improvement to do in the future. I hate to judge and point the finger at people... but this was really something you shouldn't have done.

    I know this isn't H/A and I apologize for the unsolicited advice, but I can't really help myself at the moment. I urge you and your wife to seek marriage counseling, and for you to consider the negative implications of what you've done in hopes that it will not happen again in the future. I do hate to scold, and I hope you don't take it too harshly... but for your sake, and hers, AND your child... you really should seek help.

    No, it's not him. I know where broseph was from and it wasn't VA.

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  • leafleaf Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
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    Darmak wrote: »
    Ahahahahahahahahahaha.

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    The whole notion of the events described in this thread makes me very sad. =( I guess with 60,000 people converging in one place, someone would end up doing something like this at some point somewhere... but it is really sad, just the same. =( Urgh, stupid humans doing stupid things and listening to their overactive hormones without paying attention to the negative consequences of their actions. Grr.

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  • That_Spoony_BardThat_Spoony_Bard Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    I highly *highly* doubt the guy will post on here. I just hope karma comes and bites him in his balls.

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  • InfidelInfidel Heretic Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Disappointed that this thread was not about the awesome teams named after me.

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Aye, very true.

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  • DJBreslinDJBreslin Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    I find it best to be careful about judging others' actions. You rarely know the full story...

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  • VThornheartVThornheart Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    That's probably true... yeah, that is true. But... oy. This kind of thing tends to get me a bit fired up. =) There's just a few things in this world that flip my "judgement" switch. I guess it's because I can imagine how heartbroken and upset I would be if I were the wife, or the son, if you assume that all of the information in the OP was true and accurate.

    But indeed, I'll try to just let this drop. It's an unfortunate situation if it's true, and hopefully it'll be handled in the way it should (through karma, if nothing else can do so), but indeed we are outsiders looking into what appears to be a very personal (but very unfortunate) situation.

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  • 2VipeRS2VipeRS Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    It's times like these that makes you want to tattoo on that jerk's head "I cheat on my wife, by taking advantage of younger single women!"

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  • NotASenatorNotASenator Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    altmann wrote: »
    I apologize. I was drunk at the time. My friend found out and told my wife and things are rocky.

    Rocky is a nice way to put it.

    See if I put out for you ever again, you whore.

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  • MetaverseNomadMetaverseNomad Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    if it really had been altmann, his avatar fits perfectly!

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  • nemaihnenemaihne Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Aww, this is sad. One of the things I like best about gamer culture is that partners tend to be so devoted. It pains my little romantic heart to hear about someone being the exception. :cry:

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    I *think* that's what I meant to say...
  • AlisonderAlisonder Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Wow thats rough, I have to agree with nemaihne, broke my little nerd heart a little when I read this.
    Hope his wife kicks him in the nuts or uh something.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Seriously, guys, seriously?

    This thread is going nowhere good. This is not the place for you act out your petty grievances against people you don't even know.

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