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Intimacy Question

SeaworthySeaworthy Registered User regular
edited September 2008 in Help / Advice Forum
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My girlfriend and I have been having regular and awesome sex for about two years now. In these two years we've had anal sex three times max. It's not something we're really super into but its very nice on occasion. Previously we haven't had any problems with it at all, everything went perfectly with very little pain.

This time we used lots of lube, I worked her up, everything was done perfectly, but there was a tiny bit of bleeding, she said she was in pain, and we couldn't go through with it. She's very interested in trying again, but we're not sure what we did wrong. Any ideas or advice?

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  • JebusUDJebusUD Adventure! Candy IslandRegistered User regular
    edited September 2008
    careful dude. That is a sensitive area. If you are not that into it I would just go with the other hole.

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  • The Black HunterThe Black Hunter The key is a minimum of compromise, and a simple, unimpeachable reason to existRegistered User regular
    edited September 2008
    veeeeeryyyyyy slooooooooooooow

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  • SentrySentry Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    the skin there is very sensitive... hell, you can have blood just taking a massive crap... if you're going to start shoving things up there, don't be surprised if there is occasionally blood.

    That being said, just go slow, like everyone else said.

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  • SarcastroSarcastro Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    Yep. Theres a couple muscles in thar that can involuntarily seize up, takes about 10-20 mins to relax them. Try again later.

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  • TrowizillaTrowizilla Registered User regular
    edited September 2008
    She could just have a hemorrhoid. Sometimes things just don't work down there.

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