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I'm way too 'by the book'.
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Even leaving the house without a plan is anathema to me. Unless I know I'm supposed to do what I'm about to do, I don't. Is there any suggestions out there as to how to break out of my shell of mental red tape and just do what I want (as long as it hurts no one) instead of what I should do when what I should do isn't the best?
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Wow, I can't believe I didn't provide one!
Mostly in my interactions with other people, women in particular. When is it appropriate to invite someone over to play some Brawl, the appropriate level of jokingness (I know that's not a word), when to ask someone out, things like that. For some reason I'm always compelled to ask someone else if $ACTION is appropriate.
I don't do this when I'm drunk, but I don't like being drunk.
Perhaps joining the military might be for me?
Upset the established order. Insert a little chaos into your life.
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Option A (riskier):
For years I have been wanting to go to Europe (Germany) and spend an extended amount of time there, take language classes, work, travel around a bit. Financially I have the ability to do so, but not forever, not without finding work after a couple of months of language classes which appears might be difficult in these trying times.
Option B (safer):
Stay in suburban Philly, sell current car then buy a new car (M3), do some study over here, keep working where I have been very happy, see what happens with the world over the next couple of years. ie...keep doing the same shit I've been doing for 7 years.
Maybe it's because my 30th year is awfully close, maybe I'm just fucked up...but I've found it difficult to pull the trigger on any major change in my life over the last few years or I just let "be safe" logic dictate everything I do.
Insightful as always Sarcastro. I usually ask people about these things as I would ask Google about a malfunctioning video card.
However...I always kept the details as light as possible, under the assumption that "why would these people give half a shit about you! Quit being a selfish attention whore!", but after some more introspection I discovered that I enjoy listening to news about people, so I'm gonna have to try this some time!